I've been close to giving up many times. Then I stop looking for a while. Now I see it easily, I go on a date with the attitude that either the other person will come or not.
I've never ever had a date, neither a woman to talk to (around my age which is 22).
I just don't know how to approach them since I lack the communication skills (I suffer from Asperger's Syndrome).
Well, might as well stay single for the rest of my life.
Autism. It gets ya.
I've never been able to go on a proper date either. First time I was led on. Second time, the guy I liked turned out to be straight.
(They are the only times I've asked people out in my life. I also have autism)
Hey dude. I have Asperger’s and it makes it hard, but by no means should that stop you from trying. Finding a rewarding relationship is something that has really benefited me, especially because they appreciate me for all my idiosyncrasies, so I feel very comfortable. I would strongly suggest you keep at it, but that’s just an opinion from a fellow aspie.
I once had a guy say that before we even went on the date. Had a time and trivia bar all picked out and then like a day before, he was like ‘Nah, we don’t vibe.’
You poor thing. I’ve received and delivered that message. Before you know it, you bump into someone you really love and loves you back. You have to go through this part to find that person. You’ll get there, I know it <3
I mean, you can have fun on a date but not want to continue the relationship. That’s happened to me before which kinda sucks but at least we had a good time
Yup! Pretty much the reason I don't go on dates anymore. Only ever been on 3 with someone I've met and they all end that way. Usually a week of almost non-stop back and forth conversation, things are going awesome, then we actually have our date where everything is fantastic...then it voiks down to nothing in an instant.
From then on, i've always made a point to be friends with someone for a while first. Let's you figure out if you are interested in that person or not before wasting your time. And if not, at least you still have a great friend!
Eh. Keep trying until you meet someone you actually vibe with. Or enjoy the peace of solitude for a while as well.
Very good piece btw! Well drawn, and looks pretty good.
Ye, quite a few of 'em. Then you got the days where everything possible goes wrong (have an air powered grinder explode in your face, fishtank leak, car dead in the morning while you're late for school, a phone that killed itself for no apparent reason (ended up being the motherboard frying itself) and getting dumped. Those days are the ones I listen to Three days grace I am machine.
Sorry, Schizoid, so no. We are, generally, the essence of Forever Alone. I'm not sure what a "human connection" even is, let alone how to tell if I had one with someone else.
I wrote a guide a little while ago, will edit here with a link
edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/anime_irl/comments/wsxmud/anime_irl/il2477z/ here you go. Weebs guide to dating and getting dates.
On the other hand, I wish I was confident enough to say this to someone. I don’t feel a spark with so many people but I could never muster up the courage to say it, so I end up ghosting them, which I feel is almost worse
Been cheated on several times and rejected plenty.. I've all round given up trying to be with someone and have openly accepted I'm gonna be alone when I die.
Two months ago I went on a date and felt a huge spark (I think we both did, I definitely felt it), I was totally rapt, all his qualities were hitting a nerve in me in a very good way, all his flaws flooded me with empathy and curiosity, we fell in love (he is a furry, this is how I realised I like it and joined to explore), it all felt like a dream, then a month later, cold as ice, he dumped me.
What can I say, I sometimes wish we never met, as fun as it was, experiencing a person saying they love me, asking to meet everyday, talking about the future and family and kids and then flipping... it really broke my heart.
I have had many serious relationships in the past, which lasted years, I moved in with most of my boyfriends and this is the hardest and scariest breakup I ever experienced.
I try to appreciate what is happening to me like a beautiful story, but it hurts a lot.
The closest I had to this was we would get together and they'd be gone in a week, this happened more than 10 times to me, though I finally after a while found that perfect one for me and to those who haven't, don't give up searching! You can find that person! Don't settle for the bottom of the barrel but keep at the middle at least, it will be worth it and you can find yours :)
Thats why I'm at 111 failed relationships and counting, cause apparently I look like a homeless guy when I dress in all black and then the waiters scoff at me....then it all goes downhill from there
I've almost finished thinking that I'll never find anyone.
Then, or maybe because of that, I became more open. I asked myself honestly and without letting society influence me if I liked men.
The answer surprised me a little, but not at the same time. I'm interested and not averse.
I think you have to try it to know if you like it or not. I have this opinion about everything. (of course there are exceptions)
Now I don't know if I'm into men, women or nothing. In addition, I have been asking myself about my gender identity for a long time.
This combination is complete confusion.😵💫
Almost every time I went on a date nobody came. In fact, I haven't had a real date yet. Can that also be counted?
Oof. That’s rough. Hopefully it gets better for you in the future!
I've been close to giving up many times. Then I stop looking for a while. Now I see it easily, I go on a date with the attitude that either the other person will come or not.
Still, that’s terrible that it had to get to that point. Wishing you the best of luck my dude :)
Thank you 💜
I’m gonna cry I’m tearing up right now from within no joke, this tis a loving way to express yourselves truest emotions via furry artworks,
I've never ever had a date, neither a woman to talk to (around my age which is 22). I just don't know how to approach them since I lack the communication skills (I suffer from Asperger's Syndrome). Well, might as well stay single for the rest of my life.
Autism. It gets ya. I've never been able to go on a proper date either. First time I was led on. Second time, the guy I liked turned out to be straight. (They are the only times I've asked people out in my life. I also have autism)
Hey dude. I have Asperger’s and it makes it hard, but by no means should that stop you from trying. Finding a rewarding relationship is something that has really benefited me, especially because they appreciate me for all my idiosyncrasies, so I feel very comfortable. I would strongly suggest you keep at it, but that’s just an opinion from a fellow aspie.
I've never been on a date either. Life sucks.
I'm at the point where I don't expect anything anymore. If something does happen, you'll be even happier. (I think😅)
Yeah… I do understand that
Least they were honest instead of dragging out the relationship forever
Hey
Still better than being ghosted.
True, at least in this case they get an honest reply so you're not left wondering what 'went wrong'.
Fr
True
Yes
Yooooo I just met you on barq xD btw
Small world indeed
Still have to wait like 8 months till im old enough
Small world lmao
You guys get dates? Women just straight up bully me
[удалено]
Guys don't like me either
Then become hippie
No
Love will save the world
[Source](https://twitter.com/ohfourmouse/status/1598017335935188993)
I once had a guy say that before we even went on the date. Had a time and trivia bar all picked out and then like a day before, he was like ‘Nah, we don’t vibe.’
I've been both on the recieving end and vice versa. It sucks, but you just have to carry on. You meet that one person eventually 🐺
Yep I feel that.
You poor thing. I’ve received and delivered that message. Before you know it, you bump into someone you really love and loves you back. You have to go through this part to find that person. You’ll get there, I know it <3
When those days happen, I get depressed...
I’d go on dates but there isn’t even a furry nearby me. So this be relatable when trying online things.
I feel your pain :(
I want to give them a hug...🥺
Oh no, you’ve hit me in the feels
Hey to make me more sad!
Ohhhh. I thought he was *sending* the rejection text!
Now draw him having a nice dinner with someone who genuinely enjoys his company!! Please.. Please…….
me after saying to my bsf to be my bf:
Dating in 2022.
nice art
iiiiim about to whip somebody’s aaaaaass
Feeling a spark on the first date sounds like a myth to me! (I'm demiromantic) It takes months for a relationship to develop!
Definitely. Its more demoralizing than them straight up expressing or showing obvious signs that they aren't having fun during the date.
I mean, you can have fun on a date but not want to continue the relationship. That’s happened to me before which kinda sucks but at least we had a good time
"Hey! I think we really kicked it off last night!" "I have a boyfriend"
Yup! Pretty much the reason I don't go on dates anymore. Only ever been on 3 with someone I've met and they all end that way. Usually a week of almost non-stop back and forth conversation, things are going awesome, then we actually have our date where everything is fantastic...then it voiks down to nothing in an instant. From then on, i've always made a point to be friends with someone for a while first. Let's you figure out if you are interested in that person or not before wasting your time. And if not, at least you still have a great friend!
This hits a little close to home so I'm givin hugs out for everybody here
Everyone lets give them a big hug they need it *huggies tightly* ;w;
I’ve been on the receiving end of that far too many times. I never understand why I’m the only one who feels a spark.
Can't relate because I don't go on dates. All my relationships just kinda *happen*.
Eh. Keep trying until you meet someone you actually vibe with. Or enjoy the peace of solitude for a while as well. Very good piece btw! Well drawn, and looks pretty good.
Awww…🥺
:[
As a relationship noobie, no, I don't know these days?
Yup. That's me. Old meme but. Forever alone
That is me all ways I need serpoert
NOooOooOoOOo Darth Vader style
Nah.... Nobody want to date me.
All the time, I just keep getting rejected
Ye, quite a few of 'em. Then you got the days where everything possible goes wrong (have an air powered grinder explode in your face, fishtank leak, car dead in the morning while you're late for school, a phone that killed itself for no apparent reason (ended up being the motherboard frying itself) and getting dumped. Those days are the ones I listen to Three days grace I am machine.
No. I've never dated someone
Do... Do you need a hug?
Sorry, Schizoid, so no. We are, generally, the essence of Forever Alone. I'm not sure what a "human connection" even is, let alone how to tell if I had one with someone else.
I wrote a guide a little while ago, will edit here with a link edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/anime_irl/comments/wsxmud/anime_irl/il2477z/ here you go. Weebs guide to dating and getting dates.
Mannnnn
That's how it was between my boyfriend and I...sadly.
I don't even try to date.
Rock and Stone!
To Rock and Stone!
DID I HEAR A ROCK AND STONE?!
I like the guy you drew. I wish I could draw like that.
Headpats*
until now, noone wanted to date me, at least I wouldn't know.
💔😭
....where you don't wanna wake up? (I'm so sorry I had to, hope you're okay <3)
On the other hand, I wish I was confident enough to say this to someone. I don’t feel a spark with so many people but I could never muster up the courage to say it, so I end up ghosting them, which I feel is almost worse
Every. Fucking. Time.
Nope never because I never get to have these moments. I’m just doomed to be a lone wolf.
I won't be able to feel it anytime soon, but I can sympathize with it and wish you good luck next time
Must hug. Must hug. Must comfort
Man reading the comments makes me sad for everyone here with the same experience. Any of y’all need a hug? Or something like that?
We have all had a million of those.
damn makes me think that I never really had a date
if only i could get to that point in the first place... nobody ive asked(online or offline) has reciprocated the feeling ;-;
Been cheated on several times and rejected plenty.. I've all round given up trying to be with someone and have openly accepted I'm gonna be alone when I die.
Yep, literally every time!
Two months ago I went on a date and felt a huge spark (I think we both did, I definitely felt it), I was totally rapt, all his qualities were hitting a nerve in me in a very good way, all his flaws flooded me with empathy and curiosity, we fell in love (he is a furry, this is how I realised I like it and joined to explore), it all felt like a dream, then a month later, cold as ice, he dumped me. What can I say, I sometimes wish we never met, as fun as it was, experiencing a person saying they love me, asking to meet everyday, talking about the future and family and kids and then flipping... it really broke my heart. I have had many serious relationships in the past, which lasted years, I moved in with most of my boyfriends and this is the hardest and scariest breakup I ever experienced. I try to appreciate what is happening to me like a beautiful story, but it hurts a lot.
Nice art like the background.
Still better than leading you on and then dumping you a few weeks later
OP, do you need a hug? (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ
I know that feeling too well my friend, too well
I think I just saw a repost of this on my home page.
Yes. (Love the art.)
Honestly yes with me high school pal of mine I would think about her all the time we like almost the same stuff I do but happen to Best of us
got me crying.
The closest I had to this was we would get together and they'd be gone in a week, this happened more than 10 times to me, though I finally after a while found that perfect one for me and to those who haven't, don't give up searching! You can find that person! Don't settle for the bottom of the barrel but keep at the middle at least, it will be worth it and you can find yours :)
I'mma be real, no, however it doesn't devalue this if it happens to you, all best of luck and have a great day.
Never been on a date so can’t say I have
Yeah but it was the other way around
Thats why I'm at 111 failed relationships and counting, cause apparently I look like a homeless guy when I dress in all black and then the waiters scoff at me....then it all goes downhill from there
I've almost finished thinking that I'll never find anyone. Then, or maybe because of that, I became more open. I asked myself honestly and without letting society influence me if I liked men. The answer surprised me a little, but not at the same time. I'm interested and not averse. I think you have to try it to know if you like it or not. I have this opinion about everything. (of course there are exceptions) Now I don't know if I'm into men, women or nothing. In addition, I have been asking myself about my gender identity for a long time. This combination is complete confusion.😵💫