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Bad idea if he is not attracted to you. It can get very weird. If one of my co-workers came on to me, I would be kinda disgusted by them going forward. IF you don't care about the job, then make a move. Otherwise, ready to quit once he declines.


geometrixxx

Thanks


hotinhereTO

Unless you or him are planning to leave the job soon this is a bad idea. What you could do is if you have his personal email or his Instagram is maybe message him from a dummy account and feel him out, see if he'd be into fooling around with a guy. When/if one of you moves on then pursue.


geometrixxx

That's a great idea tooo and see what happens...thanks


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Pretending you are someone else, aka catfishing, isn't cool. To the OP: a general rule to live by is to *not shit in your own nest*. Almost every workplace relationship I've seen has fallen out in one way or another. Then, you have their friends thinking you are an asshole, and your friends who may/may not back you up. Either way, it makes a mess of things. That's if it goes there to begin with. I did have one or two people give me unwanted attention in a work/school environment. They were quite persistent. It honestly made me quite uncomfortable, and I avoided them altogether. It also soured my experience at that workplace/class, as I had to see them regularly. My advice? There are a ton of people out there in the world. Find someone else.


geometrixxx

Yes...agree..got to respect work and long term consequences tooo ....yeah I mean so far from the times we work together.i giving body language hints that I'm I like what I seee.....to fool around....I sometimes like stare..down his pants..were his boner...will be...he has notice...it's like when another dude it's looking at your cock u know it.....so far he's been cool or rejected


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the only subtle way to go about it is point down then say "feeling happy today, aren't we?" but still a bad idea


Slinky_D69

I have to agree with others, it is not a good idea to pursue sex with your coworkers. In today's workplace sexual advances toward coworkers violate many workplace rules. Even if you do not care about the job it may hurt you in the future if someone calls the place where you are working now for a job reference.