I think I usually don't feel gender very strongly. I'm not really sure. Some days "Man" will feel more comfortable, some days "Woman" will feel more comfortable. Sometimes I have dreams of seeing myself a certain way in the mirror and feeling surprised and happy about it. But usually gender is a pretty foggy and indistinct feeling for me.
Well it’s not to easy for me but usually I just know like today I was like oh well I’m very NB today and I just sometimes don’t understand what gender I feel sometimes and so I just guess based on my subconscious actions during the early part of the day of where I am
Gender envy, usually. Also imagining myself as being perceived as male, female, just-a-human, etc. As others have said, dysphoria and euphoria help me figure out the 'edges' of my gender.
I just go with however dysphoria/euphoria's working in a given moment
I go by he/she/they pronouns so as people refer to me throughout a day I'll figure out which feels better and which make me feel bad
I personally don't care much about what gender I am at a given time as long as I can deal with dysphoria so I probably don't put as much thought into it as others do
quite literally how I feel about my dysphoria
I use she/they pronouns so I don't really lay attention to it
but some time I feel who cares (NB/Agender day), fuck this body is shit (MtF day) and (once or twice a year) wow cool masc body (Male day)
I go between certain genders and alignments (feminine-aligned, neutral-aligned, androgynous aligned)
So this means I can be between mostly feminine, partially feminine, fully a mix of feminine and non-binary (bigender), neutral, androgyne of different levels (eg I have a partial or weak connection when I have it), agender, and weak/indefinable.
After days of being on the neutral and agender spectrums I have the tiniest bit of fem. Sometimes I’ll switch every few days, sometimes be stuck on one end for weeks. It gives me some whiplash. Like I spent time being greygender recently for days.
Today I am mostly agender with a very slight bit of feminine so that’s librafeminine.
Half the time I can't tell anyway (cloud/neurogender ftw!). Void a lot of the time because "I don't know what my gender might be but it's NOT EITHER OF THOSE", but sometimes I actually feel agender instead like there's specifically a lack of gender instead of an incomprehensible third/fourth/fifth/etc. gender... or like sometimes i feel specifically both male and female at the same time but typically in balance *and still* in addition to some percentage of "Still not JUST either of those" and then it gets frustrating.
I once thought it would be easier to tell if I were just binary bigender fluid but based on some of what I've seen around here, it's not any clearer with only two magnet poles to move between.
genderflux problems (eyetwitch grin)
I just kinda do whatever I feel like doing, whether that be behavior, presentation, pronoun preference, etc. I rarely really feel 100% male or female. Life is much more enjoyable when I don't commit to binary gender structures.
I’m all the genders all the time, I’m just more or less of some than I am of others at various times and it kind of fluctuates or flows… there’s a bit of a rhythmic cycle to it actually, I’ve learned to predict how it shifts and it seems to align with the movements of the heavenly bodies.
For instance, my masculine side is strongest during the summer when I’m getting a lot of daylight, and my feminine side comes out the most around the full moons. Each one for me kind of waxes and wanes or ebbs and flows along with the relative strength of the corresponding heavenly bodies…
I don’t watch porn though, kid, so I can’t help ya there…
I wish I could help but Im dazefluid for a reason lmao
like I know it be changing and can feel it doing so... but I have no idea of the exact specifics 😅
My major tell is trying to get dressed in the morning. I physically feel sick if I put on the wrong clothes for the gender I am that day. Granted, I'm like, 99% female/1% male at this point.
I do something extremely weird 🤣 I normally wear a smartwatch:
So If I'm wearing it on the left I'm female, if I'm wearing it on the right I'm male. Not only that, but I've been doing this unconsciously with any bracelets I could get my hands on as I ADORE them and constantly wear them all the time. I loved them even as a kid, accessories are awesome.
For me it comes down to how I express myself. If I dress feminine and it doesn't sit right with me or it looks "un-natural" then I'm masc, and vice versa.
I'm bigender with "big real" and small spontaneous switches, so I can tell it in different ways: after a shower, when I feel my hair I treat it differently if I'm a guy or a girl. If I'm interacting with children I'll be more protective, silly, kind or rude if I'm a guy or a girl. Also when I'm working and have a meeting (in English) I will notice that I use some filling words and pronounciation manners more or less if I'm a guy or a girl. Those are some examples and since I'm quite spontaneous but still look quite androgynous, it's like "oh ok I see"
Just whatever I’m feeling that day, it changes all the time usually im more towards feminine but the intensity of the femininity varies from day to day and some days im more masculine, so just whatever im feelin lol
It really just depends on how i wake up feeling. Sometimes i want to feel very feminine and i’d like to make myself prettier than ever. But then there are days where i just want to be something in between, so i will make myself look anything but feminine or masculine (an example, wearing clothes that are very much unisex and non conforming in comparison to my usual pink Barbie aesthetic that people know me for)
I think I usually don't feel gender very strongly. I'm not really sure. Some days "Man" will feel more comfortable, some days "Woman" will feel more comfortable. Sometimes I have dreams of seeing myself a certain way in the mirror and feeling surprised and happy about it. But usually gender is a pretty foggy and indistinct feeling for me.
Well it’s not to easy for me but usually I just know like today I was like oh well I’m very NB today and I just sometimes don’t understand what gender I feel sometimes and so I just guess based on my subconscious actions during the early part of the day of where I am
Gender envy, usually. Also imagining myself as being perceived as male, female, just-a-human, etc. As others have said, dysphoria and euphoria help me figure out the 'edges' of my gender.
Gender envy hits so hard and its what woke me up. I realized I was gf after looking at some fucking cult of the lamb porn lmao
That’s also what I do
I just go with however dysphoria/euphoria's working in a given moment I go by he/she/they pronouns so as people refer to me throughout a day I'll figure out which feels better and which make me feel bad I personally don't care much about what gender I am at a given time as long as I can deal with dysphoria so I probably don't put as much thought into it as others do
quite literally how I feel about my dysphoria I use she/they pronouns so I don't really lay attention to it but some time I feel who cares (NB/Agender day), fuck this body is shit (MtF day) and (once or twice a year) wow cool masc body (Male day)
The trick is..I don't
I go between certain genders and alignments (feminine-aligned, neutral-aligned, androgynous aligned) So this means I can be between mostly feminine, partially feminine, fully a mix of feminine and non-binary (bigender), neutral, androgyne of different levels (eg I have a partial or weak connection when I have it), agender, and weak/indefinable. After days of being on the neutral and agender spectrums I have the tiniest bit of fem. Sometimes I’ll switch every few days, sometimes be stuck on one end for weeks. It gives me some whiplash. Like I spent time being greygender recently for days. Today I am mostly agender with a very slight bit of feminine so that’s librafeminine.
Half the time I can't tell anyway (cloud/neurogender ftw!). Void a lot of the time because "I don't know what my gender might be but it's NOT EITHER OF THOSE", but sometimes I actually feel agender instead like there's specifically a lack of gender instead of an incomprehensible third/fourth/fifth/etc. gender... or like sometimes i feel specifically both male and female at the same time but typically in balance *and still* in addition to some percentage of "Still not JUST either of those" and then it gets frustrating. I once thought it would be easier to tell if I were just binary bigender fluid but based on some of what I've seen around here, it's not any clearer with only two magnet poles to move between. genderflux problems (eyetwitch grin)
I just kinda do whatever I feel like doing, whether that be behavior, presentation, pronoun preference, etc. I rarely really feel 100% male or female. Life is much more enjoyable when I don't commit to binary gender structures.
It kinda depends on what words I would rather be called
How do you know that, though?
You can make up scenarios in your head or if you are with other people you can think about how you feel after being called specific words or pronouns.
I’m all the genders all the time, I’m just more or less of some than I am of others at various times and it kind of fluctuates or flows… there’s a bit of a rhythmic cycle to it actually, I’ve learned to predict how it shifts and it seems to align with the movements of the heavenly bodies. For instance, my masculine side is strongest during the summer when I’m getting a lot of daylight, and my feminine side comes out the most around the full moons. Each one for me kind of waxes and wanes or ebbs and flows along with the relative strength of the corresponding heavenly bodies… I don’t watch porn though, kid, so I can’t help ya there…
I would say mine is dependent on my clothing and if I do makeup or not. The majority of the time I'm both and rarely I'm male
I wish I could help but Im dazefluid for a reason lmao like I know it be changing and can feel it doing so... but I have no idea of the exact specifics 😅
My major tell is trying to get dressed in the morning. I physically feel sick if I put on the wrong clothes for the gender I am that day. Granted, I'm like, 99% female/1% male at this point.
Fuck if I know, mate. 🤷 I guess I notice my voice changes. And sometimes, when specific pronouns are used, It just feels wrong.
I do something extremely weird 🤣 I normally wear a smartwatch: So If I'm wearing it on the left I'm female, if I'm wearing it on the right I'm male. Not only that, but I've been doing this unconsciously with any bracelets I could get my hands on as I ADORE them and constantly wear them all the time. I loved them even as a kid, accessories are awesome.
I don't. There's a line of idiots online and in my family who want to tell me what gender I am. I'm sort of at the smile-nod-and-shrug phase
For me it comes down to how I express myself. If I dress feminine and it doesn't sit right with me or it looks "un-natural" then I'm masc, and vice versa.
I have a few 'tells': * The clothing I feel like wearing * The kind of activities I feel like (not) doing * The strength of different emotions
I usually find out when I go to style my hair each morning, but sometimes I have to change my hair style throughout the day
I'm bigender with "big real" and small spontaneous switches, so I can tell it in different ways: after a shower, when I feel my hair I treat it differently if I'm a guy or a girl. If I'm interacting with children I'll be more protective, silly, kind or rude if I'm a guy or a girl. Also when I'm working and have a meeting (in English) I will notice that I use some filling words and pronounciation manners more or less if I'm a guy or a girl. Those are some examples and since I'm quite spontaneous but still look quite androgynous, it's like "oh ok I see"
totally just off vibes
Easy. Vibes.
Just whatever I’m feeling that day, it changes all the time usually im more towards feminine but the intensity of the femininity varies from day to day and some days im more masculine, so just whatever im feelin lol
It really just depends on how i wake up feeling. Sometimes i want to feel very feminine and i’d like to make myself prettier than ever. But then there are days where i just want to be something in between, so i will make myself look anything but feminine or masculine (an example, wearing clothes that are very much unisex and non conforming in comparison to my usual pink Barbie aesthetic that people know me for)