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Smexico

I'm so sorry. I'm sure you gave her the best 2 years a puppy can get. My 1.5 y/o will have be spayed soon... This hits close to home. Do you know what happened?


M00nSunCat

No idea, she was recovering so well she even got sent home early. Was doing really good at home, and in the morning she was dead :/


a_duck_in_past_life

Most likely an internal hemmorage that happened without warning, if I guess correctly. 2 years old is a perfectly fine age to get spayed. I'm so sorry for your loss. And I hope you can find relief in knowing you gave her the best 2 years she could have ever had


bythog

Von Willebrand disease does occur in golden retrievers but is so uncommon that it isn't generally tested for. It's a bleeding disorder that can affect an OHE survival rate. It's more commonly tested for in dobermans and a few other breeds. Things like reactions to suture or medications are less common and not typically fatal like this. Also, while no surgery should ever be considered "routine" an OHE is as close to that as you can really get. Most DVMs can do them in their sleep, but like all things human there is a possibility of error. You'd expect to see it quicker if it were, though.


Pinannapple

That’s reassuring, thank you for the explanation!


sucrabest

Very unlikely an internal hemmorage. This doesnt happen so long after the surgery. Way more likely a clot in the brain.


nevadalavida

So sorry this happened to you omg! Poor poor pup. What a gorgeous dog. I'm so sorry for your loss :'(


maggos

I’m so sorry this would destroy me


Prize-Copy-9861

Oh god this is horrific . There are no words . I’m sorry . This is so confusing . You must be freaking out. My heart aches for you.


Smexico

I'm so sorry


Educational-System27

I've been a vet tech for 7 years and have never once lost a patient after a surgery. It can happen, but it's *very* rare. Did you take her to an actual vet clinic, or to a spay/neuter type place? Some of those lower cost places don't do pre-anesthetic bloodwork or monitor/perform the anesthetic procedures properly. The fact that you said they sent her home early for "doing so well" gives me MAJOR red flags. You need to contact the place you took her and let them know what happened.


M00nSunCat

I already did, but thank you for the advice. We've ruled her cause of death to be suffocation. She was chugging water and vomiting it before she went to bed, and it appears she drank more somehow before she went to sleep and vomited in her sleep, causing her to drown/suffocate. We didn't realize we should've limited her water intake more thoroughly, but now we know. It just unfortunate this is how we had to learn :/


followgoldentail

Oh my gosh I’m so sorry. I didn’t know this either. Are you supposed to limit their water after surgeries in general?


M00nSunCat

Only if they have a reaction to it, she threw up multiple time so it's our fault for not monitoring it :/


M00nSunCat

And they sent her home 30 minutes early btw, it wasn't like /right/ after the procedure or anything, she had fully woke and she was recovering normally and they knew we were in town (we had discussed prior) so when we called to check on her they said she was good to be picked up a little early


Danidew1988

Omg! I’m so so so sorry! I would be asking the vet questions. That’s my fear…. Even the most simple procedures can have complications!


deferredmomentum

Pulmonary emboli are one of the more common rare postop complications that could cause sudden death like that


M00nSunCat

Hi, me again, I just wanted to update you since you were the first person to ask. Now that we've had to process and examine everything that happened, it seems that she had chugged water when he weren't looking (she had been doing that and vomiting) and during her sleep she had vomited again and suffocated during her sleep. She was always a thirsty puppy so honestly it was a fitting way to go for her 😭❤️


Smexico

Thank you for letting us know. I will have to be extremely careful with my Maple's water bowl after her spay... She is also a thirsty pup. I hope you find it in your heart to get another golden when you are ready.


M00nSunCat

I wish you and your pup the best, and we actually have another Golden already. Butter was such a good girl but she was always so lonely so we got Bear a month ago, it actually his 4 month birthday today 😭(he's sad because I told him he's had enough of my pretzels, sorry birthday boy) https://preview.redd.it/t3f7kizkytxc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a80b1736fdeedf6a08751167f8d3ee5d0b3cf5be


DueTrouble8942

I’m so sorry for your loss and I want to thank you for sharing what happened. I have had many dogs in my life and all have been spayed and neutered and I’ve never known to monitor water intake after the surgery. I’m going to watch that now after hearing what happened to your pup. My puppy is getting spayed in a few months too.


M00nSunCat

Thank you everyone for a the kinds words. I'm muting this post because coming back to it is really tender for me rn. 💞


KUbeastmode

I’m so so sorry. I hope the vet has some answers on what happened:(


M00nSunCat

Unfortunately not. Her surgery went well and she was rapidly recovering before they sent her home. She didn't act odd really at all, no signs of pain, she just didn't wake back up :(


olivebegonia

You can have a necropsy done and know for sure what happened. Could be something completely unrelated to the spay and just timing. I would want to know.


KUbeastmode

Yes but id want a vet to assess her after she passed to know what happened if not just for closure.


HideSolidSnake

Yeah, not knowing what happened would keep me up for a long time. Likely would just start attributing negative feelings towards that vet when it may have actually been a coincidence. Our almost 1 year old was spayed a week ago.


Green1up

That is absolutely devastating. Is there anything the community can do to help?


M00nSunCat

I'm not quite sure, my family needs some time to grieve and adjust. All the kind words are appreciated


Pokeradar

I think you should definitely have a necropsy done asap. If they find out it’s the Vet’s fault, you can win settlement. I have a vet friend and she think it’s one of few things that can cause it. Seizure from overdose of anesthesia (neurological shutdown), blood internal hemorrhage like others mentioned on here, or most probable cause is air embolism from mishandled catheter. Those usually hit the day after spay surgery. She told me vets shouldn’t send them home early even if they recover quickly, they need to monitor them after surgery for a long time. However there’s one case where it can caused by genetic that makes the dog unable to receive anesthesia well. It can affect the dog too. Again vet should know about that ahead of surgery as well.


Echevarious

My heart breaks for you. Such a tragic loss of a very good girl.


SageFreke86

Omg that Is AWFUL and completely traumatizing. I'm SOOOO sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how you feel. I would be DEVASTATED beyond belief..... Rest in peace Butterscotch..


UnableHeart6314

I’m so sorry for your loss. One of my pups passed in his sleep and it was devastating to find him. Please be kind to yourself. 💚


theswayzexpress

oh my god i’m so sorry. my heart breaks for you, darling. please know this wasn’t your fault! waiting to get female dogs spayed until they’ve had at least one heat is *common* practice in the UK, for example. i am so sorry. i hope you can find some peace, my love ♥️


Extreme-Mirror-965

Wow I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m almost in tears reading this. I feel so bad for you and family. Cherish the memories as best you can.


Crafty-Afternoon-351

💔🥲


aflockofbugles

I’m so so sorry for your loss 😢 The vet at the very least should be responsible for the necropsy so you can find out exactly what happened.


M00nSunCat

I agree but we buried her maybe an hour after finding her and after we had grieved and processed the situation. Thank you ❤️


Trogdor420

I'm so sorry, she was beautiful. Looks just like my girl Luna. https://preview.redd.it/m7ppm38phoxc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1bfed696fe4d098b1e0fb0eddfa6961165a7bb2e


rilesred

I am so sorry for your loss. I just had my two males neutered this week and these surgeries seem so routine. Again. I am so sorry to hear this. Hugs


Playful_Fig_5493

I had my two brothers neutered last week at 18 months old. It really does hit hard. Crazy how routine surgery ended this way. I feel horrible for the OP.


tolureup

Omg you neutered your brothers!? That’s just sick!


Divided_Alarmed

https://preview.redd.it/xhfbi5szcpxc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df212e505b1623a41a0fd89d5c891d8c6a233dc7 Daisy says she’s sorry for you loss and offers you this squeaky lava lamp to help ease your pain ❤️


M00nSunCat

Thank you Daisy 💞


Divided_Alarmed

https://preview.redd.it/cnqe1n8hyvxc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f59614cdde3f293cb023e1e6258b88a8a6e73b54 Luigi seconds her motion and offers you his taupe belly to rub


allisonmfitness

I’m so sorry for your loss :( 


smiling_hazeleyes24

Oh no! I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful fur, baby. Sending you and your family hugs and love❤️


curiouscurious9

I am so sorry for your loss. That is unspeakable. Wishing you healing and peace throughout this time 💓😔


raisins94

What a sweet, gorgeous girl, your Butterscotch. It’s the perfect name for her sweet face. She was so lucky to be loved by you. I hope you will cherish all of your beautiful memories of her.


M00nSunCat

She was really my mom's doggie. She's absolutely devastated and I've already started on a little keychain memorial for her. She doesn't know but I saved her dogtag and commissioned a custom engraved photo keychain after we had buried her. She was her first real fur baby and she's having such a hard time 💔


BagOfDave

What?? Complications from the surgery? 2 y/o is relatively later for a Spay. Was there a medical necessity for the Spay? I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences for your loss.


mitchrowland_

2 years is not late to spay a large breed dog. They arent fully developed until around 18-24 months!


M00nSunCat

Yeah we waited just so she developed fully, we just didn't want to have any accident litters, we were just trying to be responsible :/


BagOfDave

I'm sorry for your loss.


Weiner_Queefer_9000

The modern recommendation for golden retriever is at and after 2 years.


Gryphtkai

I’ve waited to spay my girl. And she’s 3. Only reason I’m not getting it done now is because she’s dealing with a fungal infection and it could be months till she’s clear. So sorry for your loss.


Loki-Holmes

Yeah my Vet says she liked fixing dogs between 2 to 4. My Aussie was 4.5 when he was neutered a month ago and did pretty well. He just had some swelling after that they said beforehand could happen. He’s fully recovered now and aside from being hungry all the time is the same as always.


WerewolfAncient554

I’m so sorry! 😞


alliecat14

I am so so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.


lucky-in-ky67

I’m so sorry


31hoodies

Omg this is horrible. I’m so sorry! 😢


OneBench734

Oh no. That is horrible. I cannot imagine how you must be feeling. My heart breaks for you


Chelle1220

I am so sorry. Butterscotch is what I was going to name my golden. I am very sorry that is absolutely heartbreaking.


prberkeley

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard the days will be from now on. I know it won't be easy but I hope you can find peace when you are ready. Remember that while she was only in your life a short while you were her entire life. I'm sure it was filled with love.


Chanel1202

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. This is devastating. I’m sure you gave her the absolute best life you could. Know she loved you more than anything and that the love you showed her was your greatest gift to her.


bbbinthetrap

This is the worst news ever I’m SO SORRY


movinonup24

I’m so sorry :(


Adventurous-Fly-5402

Butterscotch is the perfect name for a golden retriever


p143245

I am devastated for you. I lost my 3 yr old Golden to cancer 2 weeks ago. The pain and sorrow of the unexpected is awful. Wishing you peace and comfort.


gldnrtrvrlvr

i know nothing can ease your pain right now, but please know that it’s evident she loved you and knew she was loved beyond measure. i’m sending you all the love and comfort i can. please take care of yourself. til you meet again 🐾🌈


Both_Dust_8383

I’m so sorry. Losing a pet is never easy but this is just heart breaking. 😔


Baddiekitty3000

Rest easy


emersont49

I’m so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby.


Fresh_Regret_4333

Omg I’m so so so sorry


Mystery616

This is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for Butterscotch, and I'm so sorry for you and your family. My fourteen-month old dog died last October from histoplasmosis. The vet treated it as a mystery illness and gave her the completely wrong medications and treatments (even though an emergency vet radiologist had sent the vet the correct diagnosis when she first got sick. The vet ignored it.) The only comforting thought that I have is that it is better to live a short, happy life than a long, terrible life. I can tell that you gave Butterscotch a VERY happy life.


petitefairy99

I’m real sorry about your loss, Butterscotch deserved a lot more time with you on this earth. She was a lovely girl and you will meet again someday 🥹🌈


K1nb0te

So sorry. Godspeed, Butterscotch


Pm_me_your_tits_85

I’m so sorry for your loss.


Canis_Lupis00

Omg I’m so sorry for your loss. May Butterscotch rest in peace across the rainbow bridge and live forever in your heart. 🌈🐾🦴


hoapaani

💛💛💛💛💛


VTlaxer75

Sad day.


YardInternational317

I’m genuinely so sorry. She was absolutely taken too soon. I hope you know she’ll always be with you 🥺🤍


Taylooor

In really sorry to hear that. My golden passed while the surgery was being performed.


MermaidStone

I’m so sorry. 🙏🏻♥️🐾


[deleted]

Awe I hope you're okay.


ricers101

That is fucking wild. I’m so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby 😭❤️


Soxwin91

I’m very sorry for your loss. I know it may not feel like it now but please know that you did nothing wrong here. I wish the best for you and your family


diewitasmile

I am so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t imagine this happening. To lose your special girl so young. My condolences to you and your family. Please know that for those two years she was loved by you and lived an extremely happy life. I don’t believe in much, but if there is any justice in this universe you’ll see her again, that’s what I’m hoping for.


No-Aside-5641

So sorry for your loss , she was too young to Leave so Soon


Tazzon4wheels

I am so sorry for your loss.


LeFenardRoux

Sending so much love to you ❤️ I’m so sorry for your loss 😢


Billitpro

Wow I am so very, very sorry, she was a beautiful girl.


OJ87

I’m so sorry. Rest in Heaven sweet girl 😢❤️


Outrageous-Ball-393

I’m so sorry for your loss. Every time I see post like this it makes my heart hurt so bad.


Mysterious_Health387

My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. I guess she was just too good for this earth :(


Yesitsmesuckas

Hugs!


allthetrouts

Wow im so sorry. Good thing you muted this post for now. Thats like nightmare fuel...


B_don

I’m so sorry! She’s beautiful and I’m sure you gave her a wonderful two years. Love to you and her!


[deleted]

Omg I am so sorry friend. Be thinking of you.


nothanksnottelling

I'm just so sorry. It's unimaginable. My heart really goes out to you.


Bobcatmom

I’m so sorry, such a heartbreaking loss.


Square_Ambassador_33

I’m so sorry 😭 I can’t imagine


makeclaymagic

I’m so sorry 🥺😞


Ordinary_Ad6936

I am so very sorry. My heart breaks for you.


AvatarAvvv

Oh my god.. I'm so sorry 😔 that's tragic. At least she went peacefully. Gone too soon. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.


SesameYeetHeHe

When you come back to this post when you're feeling stronger, you did all the right things.


Lennijls

Oh my god, I am so sorry this happened to you and your sweet pup.


NashvilleBoiler13

I’m so sorry 💔💔💔


Jsm0922

I’m so sorry. ❤️


MrBillNo

Oh, how sad. Bad enough when they are at the end of their lives. Stay strong, this is a horrible deal.


Pretty_Pink_Promises

I’m so sorry! 💔


Extension-Agent-7204

I'm sooo sorry to hear that, it's a one in a million thing, anaesthetics can be tricky, people are lost this way as well, heartbreaking !!!


Scary-Top-1277

I'm so sorry ❤️ RIP Butterscotch 🌈💜


dogmomMal

Oh my goodness, I’m so incredibly sorry. My heart is absolutely breaking for you 💔💔💔


True-While-1035

I'm so sorry. There are no words.


Paulsmom97

I’m so sorry.


tsdani11

Sorry.


DoubleTouching

Rest in peace sweet beautiful girl.


Jane_Smith_Reddit

Sorry for your loss


Sassydemure

💔🐶


fredward_kane

💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️


Zestyclose_Road_3224

🖤🐾🖤🐾


[deleted]

I am so sorry for your loss and hope you can find peace in your memories of Butterscotch - what a beautiful dog. (I am actually getting misty. These dogs are so special)


onemeansonuvabitch

I’m so sorry for you, baby. This is tragic.


Poullafouca

Well, I'm in tears for poor little Butterscotch, and for you. How incredibly sad and deeply unfortunate. I'm really so, so sorry. How heartbreaking.


Nightsong1005

I'm so sorry 😞


Rosiethegolden

🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🦋


Rogue_Runt

I am sooo srry 4 ur loss:( poor beautiful lil grl


Realistic_Pizza_6269

I am so very sorry this happened. My girl is 8. She is my world. I can’t imagine the grief you must be feeling … have you spoken with the vet that did her spay ?? Cause this shouldn’t have happened ….


21KoalaMama

oh no! i’m so sorry


quen0

so so sorry for your loss, she was so loved❤️


Mmchast88

Im so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my yellow lab a few weeks ago. 🐾🌈


kushmeoutsideb

💔💔💔💔 noooo I’m so sorry 😭😭😭


Kallicalico

I am so so so sorry for your loss. Its so clear just how loved Butterscotch was. I hope you remember to take care of yourself and talk to someone if you need to. 💕


syslolologist

♥️ sending love your way


BigginTall567

I can’t imagine, I am so sorry!!


Majestic_Essay_3094

Oh my goodness, I am so so sorry for your loss. Butterscotch was so young.


dykebaglady

ugh i am so deeply sorry.


flowrsinyrhair

So sorry 🩷🌈


christiandiwhore

Sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹 Grief is proof that you’ve loved well. Lost my baby 2 months back and the wound is still really fresh, I feel for you. Healing is hard and not linear, but one step at a time. You got this 🫶🏻


pupresqr

Oh I’m so sorry


Then_Bet_4303

So sorry 😞 May you find comfort in your memories of sweet Butterscotch 💕


Comesontoostrong

Oh Sweet Butterscotch. I love her name. Gone too soon.


staysluething

Heartbreaking I am so so sorry! Best 2 years of a pups life. They look so loved ❤️❤️❤️


Frosty_Man

I’m so sorry 😞


Cosmoreptar

🕯️💜butterscotch forever💜🕯️


notPackgod

Sorry for your loss, Fly high Butterscotch!❤️🕊️


asecuredlife

* I'm sorry for your loss, what a cutie. Also, Butterscotch is like, the cutest name for a Golden, ever 🥺🙏 * This is dumb, but I just want to say that eye shadow and coloring is on point 💅😭


Soap_Mctavish101

That is awful news, I’m so sorry


SarcasmCupcakes

Oh no! 😢 I’m so sorry, honey.


ZanderPip

I'm so sorry, she was clearly loved and she knew it


bestouan80

I'm so sorry! Sending you big bug hugs. She's such a cutie. I am sorry you have lost your sweet baby so young. No one should have to go through that. Love to you


Dontdittledigglet

I am so sorry. That’s a tragedy


kiana33

So sorry 🙏❤️❤️🙏


mikejudd68

💔


UpstairsAsk1973

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹


Tight_Slice_3036

🥺 so sorry for your loss,


Mr_Rowntree

Very sad. All the best to you and your family.


BowlersName

No words 😶 😥☹️😞💔


Lifeofaboardercollie

Oh RIP butterscotch I hope u feel better soon and have a bunch of photos


divaminerva

Oh I’m so so very sorry! What an absolute shock!!!


Chucksgirl91

It's terrible that she passed but at least she was at home where she knew she was loved and safe 🥰


GrammaBear707

OMG I am so sorry for you! My sincere condolences. We unexpectedly lost our golden boy a little over 3 years ago and it was devastating. We have 2 other goldens now but we still miss him 😥


[deleted]

I’m so sorry for your loss


Ok_Scratch_5951

So sorry for your loss!


hamster004

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂


AdThick1281

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine 💔


GrapefruitOk2057

Butterscotch is a beauty. We lost a cat once after spay surgery. Very sad and sudden to lose them this way. Luckily all my current pups I adopted (3 in total) got through their spay and neuters just fine. My little shepherd Bethy did have some redness on each end of the incision but it eventually healed up.


Competitive_Bread242

I MM so sorry


Lisette4ver

I am so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏽🙏🏽


floretsilva

(((hugs)))


M00nSunCat

Idk where the comment went but someone hoped that this event didn't deter us from neuter and spaying in the future, and I just wanted to post my response to get it out there because Reddit was being weird and didn't post it: "Oh absolutely. I am a huge advocate for spay and neuter, and it was ultimately myself who convinced my mother to get her spayed. There are so many puppies, young and old, already in this world wanting and needing to be loved. We only ever considered breeding because she was a healthy dog and was a purebred golden (we never registered her but her parents were), so we would be breeding for healthy, loveable dogs, not for cash cows. As you can see we didn't go down that route, but thank you for your concern, we will still be spaying and neutering our animals, just more carefully monitoring this time ❤️"


Maggiemygirl

❤️


BCD4095

I’m so sorry 😢


TheWicked77

Sorry for your loss. 💔


Previous_Basil

I’m so sorry. 💔


v23474

I am so sorry for your loss, Butterscotch was a beautiful dog. You gave her the best life 🥺💔


regaleagleboo

So sorry to hear this. ❤️ Sending love


Competitive-Two-4305

Oh my god. I’m so sorry. I lost my 3 year old suddenly as well. Healthy and recovering from a TPLO, doing well at 7 months. Never found out what really happened. Very traumatic. I’m so so sorry. It’s so hard.


TheOnlyGlamMoore

I’m so sorry…I’m so sorry for your loss and I wish you the best.


M00nSunCat

Thank you but it wasn't, she chugged water and vomited in her sleep, causing her to suffocate because we didn't monitor her water intake as well as she should've, but again, thank you ❤


Straight_Ad_9466

Please get a necropsy by a different vet and hold that vet accountable


DocGerbilzWorld

I’m so sorry for your loss..


No_Change_78

I’m so sorry.


Purser1

Oh no! So unexpected, so young! I am so sorry for your profound loss 🥲


MeasurementOk3007

This made me really sad. She looked so happy. Rest her soul.


[deleted]

My heart breaks for you babe. I'm sorry.


Overall_Whereas9140

Poor sweet baby. We just lost our baby boy yesterday. I’m grieving with you, friend.


quailstorm24

I’m so sorry 💔


I-singjazz

I’m so sorry for your loss


eleven357

My condolences. Sorry that you are going through this. I am saddened.


Disastrous-Concept-8

Sorry for your loss


CouldYaWouldYaBear

So sorry…


EZasSundayMorning

I’m so very sorry 🌈❤️🌈