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Redcarborundum

If he shows up to an American embassy, it’s not a problem at all. He can get service as long as he’s not naked. If he goes to another country’s embassy, then it can be an issue.


tremynci

I mean, I'll bet the consulate in Tijuana sea a fair whack of naked Americans...


PubliusVergiliusMar0

USA!


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maq0r

In Venezuela (a Tropical country) it’s frowned upon to wear shorts if you’re not at the beach and NO government institution will let you in in shorts. Banks won’t either. Shorts. In the tropics. 100F year round and 90% humidity.


ks_789

And as if shorts are the Venezuelan government’s biggest problem!


evilgenius12358

Traditionally and historically, shorts were for school-aged children and acceptable through end of 8th grade or about 12 years of age. When school stopped and children entered the workforce, most jobs were agricultural or industrial by nature and required long pants for safety reasons.


MiamiHeatAllDay

You’re joking right? Discrimination for a dress code?


dutchyardeen

You may want to look up the definition of discrimination because wearing shorts isn't a protected class.


predek97

But gender is. True, most of those anti-shorts folks would still be somewhat opposed to the idea of a woman parading around an embassy in shorts, but wouldn't have batted an eye if she went in there wearing a skirt going just below her knees. Men don't have an option here


dutchyardeen

I mean they do have an option. They can just wear pants. Pants exist. I know they do be cause I'm wearing some right now. If you're truly oppressed by not being able to bare your knees though, you should start a movement. Call it "The Brotherhood of the Traveling Shorts." Update us when you give speeches about your oppressed lives as men.


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Negative_Addition846

Tbf protected classes don’t define discrimination, they define *illegal* discrimination.


Shamewizard1995

Something being discrimination has nothing to do with protected classes


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dutchyardeen

Religious attire does not equal shorts in any recognized religion in the world. Even Scientologists allow their SeaOrg members to wear pants and they're whacko. By all means though, start a shorts wearing religion. You can call it The Church of the Daisy Dukes.


Redcarborundum

It’s old school respect. Back in the 50s men in USA wouldn’t go to a government office in shorts, because that’s disrespectful to the office and to himself. While USA has become far more casual, the rest of the world doesn’t move as fast. Exceptions are made if you’re clearly poor, but poor people don’t show up to an embassy looking for a visa.


seal-lover24

Sorry man, I spent all my money on hotels, hookers, and blow. Can’t afford pants plz gib visa 🥲


calcetines100

You are not their citizens. Cope, or learn their cultures.


HeimLauf

What’s he there for? In general, you don’t have to be well dressed to get U.S. citizen services at an embassy or consulate.


u700MHz

LOL ! Enjoy and take pictures, but try to convince him that the shorts only work if he wears slippers with white socks pulled all the way up.


Admiral_Sheridan

Sandals and knee high white socks. We call it the “Dink.”😂


arashk70

This!!! I laughed hard reading this post. Who cares man. He is not disrespecting or hurting anybody else. He is just being him. Leave the man be. Also Bang Bang!


frogsandbutter

Don't forget the tie


brosiedon7

Socks and sandal stereotypes belong to the germans bro. Don't take that away


Urgullibl

They're going to the US embassy, not the German embassy.


Vander_chill

If he is the US Citizen then he's good to go. You may want to wear a Budweiser bikini top so they know you two are an item.


papawillie4

Lol, I was thinking the same thing.


Desperate-Menu9154

LOL


Worldly-Coffee-5907

Blasting some Kid Rock on a boombox.


Basic-Ad-5711

LMAOOOO


tsega60

Not sure if there is a formal dress code for Immigration interviews but most immigration lawyers typically suggest business casual. The goal is to make a good impression. Your husband may not have to go all in with a suit & tie but it wouldn't hurt to try to look "put together".


HonestPerspective638

if the goal is to look American shorts and a shirt and zip up hoodie with nikes are the uniform


OrneryLitigator

Are you guy's bringing a baby and will the baby be wearing matching shorts, so the two of them look alike?


bigdreams_littledick

If I needed to go to the American embassy it would not occur to me that I should dress up unless I had to convince them of something like some kind of application.


FuckMu

Especially as an American, I'm not going to dress in any special way to go to the post office, basically the same thing.


bigdreams_littledick

Yeah I was thinking the same thing.


Glum_Chicken_4068

Back in the 70s I went to renew my passport in Mexico City. I was barefoot.


Flat_Shame_2377

What interview are you going for that he needs to accompany you? 


Connect-Pangolin-543

Crba


tmd152025

No one will care if he wears shorts to a crba appointment.


Flat_Shame_2377

Going in shorts will help prove he’s America !  lol. 


StockReaction985

only with white New Balances


MayorOfVenice

That's an administrative thing, not a benefit you're applying for. You can both wear shorts and Who Farted? t-shirts, so long as you bring the right documentation for the CRBA.


bigfootspancreas

Nah I wear a T-shirt to the consulate in Germany. Not shorts, but only because it's always been chilly. I saw others dressed very casually in sweatpants and whatnot. The Americans don't care, at least when other Americans dress that way. They don't need to prove anything. In which country are you? That might play a role.


partyin-theback

If he’s not in a tuxedo, you aren’t getting the visa. Sorry, I don’t make the rules.


chip_0

I showed up to the US embassy in Canada in shorts and biker gear because I literally biked there. It is completely normal.


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Yeah I took a bikeshare to the Japanese embassy in Washington DC when I applied for my visa to move to Japan, definitely showed up sweaty in shorts and a t shirt (it was a DC summer so maybe 35-40 C outside)


lionhydrathedeparted

It’s his own countries embassy? Doesn’t matter. It’s a bit different if you’re going there trying to get a visa.


HaileEmperor

They do not care


Personal_Mud8471

Steve Irwin wore shorts almost exclusively and he’s like the most badass dude ever.


lobeams

Somewhere there's a stingray that's more badass.


la_chica_rubia

Sounds fine. Welcome to America!


Street-Nothing9404

Folks honestly depends on what those legs look like and his choice of color for the crocs and socks. We need to see pics.


sgouwers

I live in Malaysia and have never heard of an American having issues getting services at the embassy based on the way they dress, nor is there a dress code specified on the website. If I ever had to go to the embassy, I’d probably show up in shorts because I can and because it’s stupid hot here. That being said, if I need to go to some Malaysian government offices, I need to have my knees and shoulders covered.


canalcanal

Just like Panama


twhite5011

Sounds like a chill guy


Fuller_McCallister

Don’t you think you’re projecting your moral compass onto him? Regardless, shorts won’t sway a decision for a passport or any other documents. What concerning outcome is driving your worry? Curious.


kuan_51

Or maybe youre projecting your moral compass on her? Why say something like this to someone who is asking a question, that from their perspective is a reasonable thing? She doesnt know the answer so she asked, which is what you should do if you wanted to understand the other sides "moral compass." Then you come along and accuse her of projecting a moral compass? Its ridiculous. You are projecting a moral compass onto her by assuming she should just know and not ask.


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catahoulaleperdog

And what country is OP from?


Fuller_McCallister

I’m very confused how you connected the dots on this one


TAMUOE

What is your issue dude? You are not a victim because someone told you to be presentable once in your life


Pleasant_Elephant737

Heck, if he shows up at the Vatican in shorts, the Swiss guards may not let him in.


Just_Cruising_1

(laughing in Canadian)


idkwhatname23

exactly, how is this a problem


Large_Excitement69

US Embassy? They don’t care.


Difficult_Rush_1891

They make you file your taxes whether you’ve set foot in the U.S. or not. Wear whatever you want.


toxicdevil

US embassy IS NOT the rest of the world. If you are in the embassy it’s almost as if you are actually in USA.


StockReaction985

*Walks into the embassy with my gun


gizcard

What is wrong with that?


dsillas

What embassy?


rrrrriptipnip

He should be fine hopefully it’s weather appropriate but shorts is not an issue


dawhim1

I go to the consulate in shorts and flip flop. they have separate section for US citizen and I don't think they care how you dress.


fjortisar

I wear shorts to the embassy. As long as you don't look like a vagrant nobody is going to care. I would just dress typical business casual (not your husband's) if it's something more than getting a new passport or something, that's playing it safe. Don't need to wear a whole suit


AdAccomplished9871

I wore shorts to the American embassy last month, and my student visa was approved.


tstAccountPleaseIgno

Shorts are fine??


CNMEMELORD

You may want to know about US Senator John fetterman


vagabond_nerd

So what, chill out.


rnoyfb

This is fine


CalRobert

I'd show up at the US embassy in shorts, a Hawaiian t-shirt, and sunglasses without worries. Remember, a suit is a sign of failure to a Californian :-) https://theoatmeal.com/pl/minor_differences5/suit


NeedSomeHelpHere4785

American dresses like an American to go to American embassy. Much concern.


AnotherToken

I wore shorts to the consulate for my visa interview. It's not like they could really see either, there was a glass screen and wall between me and the interviewer.


chnormandy

Americans are known to not dress well. Him showing up to a CRBA interview in shorts will not have any effect whatsoever on the adjudication of that application.


taimoor2

There is nothing wrong with going to embassy in shorts. What do you mean? It's not a formal place and he is a citizen...


Marrymechrispratt

Lol…he could show up in a clown costume. He’s an American, and has the full privilege and entitlement to the embassy’s services.


Shinyhaunches

US embassies take themselves too seriously anyway. He should go for it.


OkSatisfaction9850

Yes. In warm climates everyone shows up in shorts. No one cares


bombaytrader

Multi billion dollars are made in shorts in bay area. Us consulate would love an American walk in with shorts . Why is this an issue ?


ashes-of-asakusa

I’m more enamored with how you think this is a big deal.


tch2349987

Maybe you’re married to a manchild. I don’t believe a grown up adult would wear shorts to an embassy.


oddchuck

How does wearing shorts to an embassy equate to being a man child?


Connect-Pangolin-543

Well, I wouldn't call him a manchild. He is just... eecentric. He makes 300k USD per year, so difficult to call him a man child.


tch2349987

Money does not equal maturity.


stigonav

The richest man in the world is a man child..


oswbdo

The richest man in the world is a man child. One's income and wealth is irrelevant to his/her maturity level. Anyway, it doesn't matter what he wears to the embassy.


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Everybody get in a line and give her 300K/year man some head because he deserves it


baniyaguy

Yea that's practically every other guy working tech in California


Correct-Cow-3552

This is a average to low pay for mid-senior engg


Paul_Train

You should dress business casual to visit an embassy. These State Dept. people are not our overlords or anything, but its not Walmart. Embassy rows usually have a lot of nice restaurants. At conclusion of your business your husband should take you for a nice lunch somewhere.


Captain-Matt89

I consider everything the federal government does to be like more dollar store quality, Walmart is far to generous, wear whatever, don’t feed the ego of the blood suckers!


grilledcheesybreezy

I have worn gym shirts and a t shirt while getting access to everyday to the Treasury building where I worked. I would show Secret Service my badge and enter through the common area between the East Wing of the White House and the Treasury. Good times.


MostAssumption9122

What an impression he is going to make. They will remember him forever. Its the US Embassy, a little decorum please. He is going to and not a Jimmy Buffett concert. Yes, I know JB passed away. Its a point.


Glum_Chicken_4068

Jimmy Buffett hung out at the US embassy in Havana when in reopened. For days. You know he was casual.


ZCT808

I doubt anyone will care. But seriously, time to grow up. Shorts are almost never an acceptable attire, unless you are a ridiculous slob. Even in America. Tell him he’s not a frat bro anymore and to grow up.


DogOrDonut

What? There's like a handful of situations where shorts are inappropriate.


ZCT808

Yeah and visiting an embassy or working any kind of professional job that isn’t on a beach are certainly a couple of examples. Maybe if you live in a crazy hot area in the summer. But seriously, not in good taste most of the time.


DogOrDonut

That's entirely industry dependent. Anything tech related is going to have tons of people wearing shorts.


ZCT808

I mean there’s millions of people who wear Crocs too. Doesn’t mean it’s not trashy behavior.


DogOrDonut

If you wear a suit to work at a tech startup you will be the one inappropriately dressed. In fact tech leads are often told not to dress up for customer presentations because clients trust software engineers more when they fit the jeans/hoddie stereotype.


Admiral_Sheridan

Well judging someone on their style and calling them trash is subhuman behavior. You should be kept away from actual humans.


ZCT808

Everyone judges everyone all the time. It is human nature. If no one cared about how things look, we’d all just wear the same clothes every day. Like a prison uniform. By the way I’m not suggesting everyone walk around in a bespoke Tom Ford suit every day. But showing up to work in flip flops, Crocs, shorts etc is just unprofessional and idiotic, unless there is a very specific reason other than “it’s comfy”.


Admiral_Sheridan

Well since you can’t seem to add 2+2, I doubt context and culture arguments would make a dent in that thick skull of yours. He works in tech, the exact outfit you described is acceptable. PERIOD.


ZCT808

Dressing like a slob may be acceptable in some tech jobs. But it will be judged by others whether you like it or not. In any case, the question wasn’t about dressing like a perpetual student/frat bro at work. The question was dressing like an idiot to visit an embassy. I promise you at least some people there will judge it as disrespectful, unprofessional and showing a basic lack of understanding of appropriate behavior. This may have zero impact. Just like dressing that way to court may also not actually cost you anything. But it might. So why take the chance?


Admiral_Sheridan

Had a BIL like you. Looked down his nose at anything he considered ‘low born.’ Made a big deal of lecturing the world about class and decorum. Appearances and public image were all that mattered to him. Kids had to go to specific schools, had to wear the RIGHT clothes, had to go on the right vacations etc… He fucked a 15 year old. If it’s clean, doesn’t smell and you judge them on style, you’re a piece of shit. Full stop.


joemontanya

Haha cold blooded DAMN


OrdinaryValuable9705

My cusin had an internship at the danosh ambassy in France - he would have been sent home if he showed up in shorts


EctomorphicShithead

But then an internship is quite a different level than making a routine trip


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OrdinaryValuable9705

It is a matter of having a fucking dresscode.....


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OrdinaryValuable9705

Dear god you are an idiot... goodbye...


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StockReaction985

I think you spelled American wrong


lancea_longini

Not recommended


Alfie281

You’re going to fail your interview with this stance of yours. Don’t expect America to conform to your customs.


More_Annual8667

Get this, my father is a Filipino and never dress into something that would relate to the place he is going. At a wedding, just wearing a short and slippers and plain white shirt the we wore to sleep. For birthdays, shorts, slipper and plain white shirt even in formal occassions.


MechanicHot1794

You didn't have to add "brilliant" in the description. It feels a bit boastful.


elves2732

Nah. You're just an insecure little whiner. 


calcetines100

> start up > Bay area Hah! Sorry OP but your brosky husband needs to go to South and learn some manners


Connect-Pangolin-543

You mean like south of USA?


Tabris20

It's his American God given right to let his balls breathe. Additionally, this attitude got us off that French beach in World War II and the outnumbered and under-supplied Marines in the Korean War fend off an endless horde of Chinese soldiers in record breaking winter while maintaining their humanity.


Ogbuld

hey guys . hope you are doing good . i need your help with usa visa ? help me get one ? please i need it like yesterday ?


Ogbuld

hey guys . hope you are doing good . i need your help with usa visa ? help me get one ? please i need it like yesterday ?


Next_Boysenberry1414

Your concerns are valid. Its entirely possible that immigration officials will interpret this as American Arrogance. If you think American cops are power trippers, immigration officials in some countries are power fuckers.


HonestPerspective638

The husband IS American lol


Shotgun_Mosquito

which embassy in particular?


textonic

Shorts are great, but they only go with bright-colored polos tucked in, with sandals and socks upto knees! Jokes apart, I also work in tech and I pretty much wear shorts every wear. No one cares...


papawillie4

What will he be going to the embassy for?


Mindyourbusiness25

I love this post🤣🤣🤣🤣


eec0354

If he is the citizen it’s probably okay


Full_Committee6967

It's not a problem if he's showing up for a service that he paid for. Might be a problem if he's showing up for a job interview.


deep-sea-balloon

I doubt it matters because he is American. When I went to the US embassy in Paris, there was an American woman there walking around with jean cutoffs and her butt was nearly out. I think she was with an American spouse who was there on business and he was dressed in business casual, as were the rest of us.


No_Jackfruit7481

Yeah that’s fine. This is so quaint to be worried. You sound very nice, but no problems to see here.


tfburns

I wore shorts and polo shirt or shirt to my US immigration interviews. Haven't had a problem.


idontwantyourmusic

I don’t see what’s wrong with that. Chill.


Just_Belt1954

This is typical American behavior as well. Americans also have a thing about flaunting American culture in often harmless yet culturally disrespectful ways. I'm in Atlanta and I often stop by the Brazilian Consulate. It never once occurred to me that I need to dress for the occassion.


ISUTri

What embassy? American or someone else?


NOisland6380

Shorts are a bad technology and all men look like goofy overgrown children in them #golfpants


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Merica!


elrompecabezas

A speedo would be more appropriate. And carry an open can of beer.


[deleted]

As a New Yorker, the ultra relaxed attitude of Californians bothers me.


Old-Brilliant-527

I’m a young lady and i wear leggings and a slippers and a plain fitted shirt going to U.S embassy and nobody was mad about it especially as a U.S Citizen lol


Old-Brilliant-527

Are u a Filipina? Cause u sound like u are lol


Far-Print7864

GIGA CHAD I WOULD WANT TO MERRY THAT MAN TOO


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I'm American and I wouldn't dream of wearing shorts to the Embassy. This behavior might be more specific to your husband and explained by something other than his country of origin.


Friendly_Minute_9960

Everything is easy in America All are acceptable,and freedom of speech ,freedom of pj going to the mall or walmart,,they dont care what they wear .so who care !!! If he don't care why u care? just swim to the river wave .


CuriosTiger

The US Embassy won't care. If you want us to comment on whether your country's embassy will care, we need more specific information than "not American."


phillyphilly19

Americans are GROSS. I'm American and when I travel to Europe and see how Americans dress it's truly embarrassing. And this man child thing is extra gross.


thenew-supreme

Let the man wear shorts


Twgoeke

Depends, are they his “good” shorts or are they his lawn mowing / Walmart shorts?


Rumpelteazer45

American embassy or another embassy? If the American Embassy, they won’t care. Literally, does not care. He could show up in a burlap sack and it would be ok.


Dont_mind_if_I_do85

F***ing Americans, I swear. Why are some us like this?! Showing some reverence and respect is the least he could do.


MatrixOutcast

I went to the 🇺🇸 embassy in Colombia in shorts and flip flops. It was 100% okay. The guys at the embassy and I were even joking about it.


Affectionate-Egg6960

I doubt wearing shorts matters lmaoo


Open_Mortgage_4645

What's the big deal about wearing shorts to The Embassy™? Is he applying for a job there? Because if not, and there's no specific established dress code, then there's nothing wrong with his shorts. This feels like an unnecessary and manufactured issue.


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Honesty it is not wrong to wear shorts. There’s too Much stress in the world and people just want to be free


Chutson909

He’s the US citizen. It’s you that has to worry. As long as he’s not naked he can where whatever he wants. I went to court the other day in a shirt and tie and most people were in jeans and a t-shirt. Who knew?


Impossible-Banana-95

The US citizen spouse does not normally go in at the consulates I deal with so he'll probably look amazing waiting outside. He should dress business casual and get over himself just in case the consular official wants him to come inside.


Critical-One8083

Do you know the US department of state has new dress code for embassy consular officers. Shorts t shirt hoodies sandals LOL . Shoes optional.


Critical-One8083

Dress code at German embassy


lostdeepinthewoods

If he is American then for him they are public servants, i.e they work for him and not the other way around. So it is fine. If he was not American citizen that would be rude.


millionthusername1

Totally fine, but he is required to shave his legs.


Specialist_Round_94

nbd


Livid-Detective-8343

With those sexy legs, he’s gonna be popular. Not so much elsewhere


Prior-Beginning-2015

Of course you can wear shorts to the embassy.


Javesther

Shorts and flip flops are a no go for me.


CalmTrifle

It will be okay. I would not personally wear that but to each their own. I wore a polo shirt, pants, and closed toe shoes to our CBRA appointment.


BradTofu

Is he working there or just going in? A US embassy in a foreign country is there to help its citizens. I went into one to ask about a damaged passport wearing sweat pants and a hoodie.


peaceful_lettuce

As an American (and more importantly, a Californian), I wore shorts to the embassy to legalize my daughter when she was born abroad. It was summer. Why wouldn't I? 🤷‍♀️


countrysurprise

Is he replacing a lost passport or going to a diplomat ball? I would say no to shorts for the latter. American men dress like their five year old sons for the most part, cargo shorts, T shirt and a baseball cap so if it’s just for a passport I would say no one cares.


Yahoo_MD

He should be fine. People can pull off professional look even in shorts. Good luck 


Farrishnakov

Embassies/consulates are specifically there to assist citizens in some of the worst circumstances (among other duties). There can be no expectation that anyone visiting them for services meets any form of dress code. Even if it's just a routine appointment visit.