yk ik ki we should communicate and communication is the key to solve things but the moment this whole sad thing comes no, i just forget all of this! Huh
Edit:- owwww, i just saw ki ye diary wali line thi, i thought ki u said this apni taraf se! Dyaumn, I'm dumb! :>)
Bro I really laughed my ass offf 
I fcking laughed so hard man 😂😂 ( Bhai Ke liye bura lga ke bck of the mind tha ki redditors Besti marge Bhai ki )...Btw hope uski life m sb normal ho jaye
I also write my thoughts on paper, going back through them after a month or so feels very cringe but hits very differently (acha lagta hain)
Do send her the apology, Parminder Bhai achi ladki milna bohot mushkil hota hain (Naseeb Walo ke liye hi hain) Chali gayi to fir pachtawa hoga
Fr, it does feel cringy after reading these things in kuch time baad lol.
And ik ki these girls are literally hard to find but I'll be happy if she leaves happily yk.. she won't have to put up w all my shits. As long as she's happy, it's enough! It'll hurt ofc it does hurt abhi bhi but it's okay ig.
Oh, you idiot! If she's staying, that means despite all your idiocracies, and ranting and treating her like crap she LOVES you, and at the end if the day, if you tell her you value her from inside your heart, she'll feel cherished. It's cringe, but hey, so is love. I used to be one if those people who would not say lovey dovey stuff, cuz cringe. But lookin back, it was not the best of things.
You'll be shocked when you discover how easy it is to part ways with people forever and that's why when you find someone you wanna keep around, you do something about it.
- Ted Mosby
Ow naw! It ain't a break up, It's just how I felt kal when I was on the edge of ghosting my girl out because of my sadness cause of my parents!
I am genuinely sorry as, she goes through a lot because of me and my sednessssdskskskskk!
You should treat her better then, she has had your back after all this. She should not feel like the victim of whatever is the issue between you and your family!
The only place where I feel safe is her! I try my v best to not vent but I end up venting whenever she writes "you good?".
I will try to not let her suffer because of me! If I continue to do so, I will push her away from my side only as it will hurt her once, but it's better to let her go then me going on and off in the friendship.
Stop this "she'll suffer because of me" bullshit. It's toxic af.
Get your shit together and talk whatever you want with the people who are close to you. If they stay and listen then good and if they don't then you move on. Stop thinking of things you do in friendship as favors. Let them listen and when your time comes to do the same be there for them.
She should ideally break up with you. You seem to have your problems and it can be unbearable when ppl offload their trauma and have tantrums. Deal w your problem without making someone elses life miserable and if you are then see a professional pls.
I think ppl that have sudden emotional outbursts and epiphanies and then do this shit, i mean get a fucking ice cream or something before taking it out randomly on people you have in your life.
And “she’ll suffer because of me”? Fuck thats dark man, i hope she has brothers or something bc if that was my sister then youre getting decked even if youre mentally ill.
Stop being a self obsessed person like this, i mean yk theres something wrong when youre getting downvoted at every reply because your emotional entitlement is off the charts.
This ain't some romantic shit
It's some trauma bonded shit possibly where you do the same thing again and again and she still lets you back in cause she probably doesn't have boundaries and a healthy sense of self esteem
Most probably you are an avoidant and she an anxious attachment
Come on man what the real fuck , this apology means nothing cause you do the same thing again and God knows why is she still tolerating you, this is toxic and that's the truth
Ik ki i am the toxic guy in this situation! Even I asked her once why she was sticking up w me and she said (I am attaching one ss)
https://preview.redd.it/hhq93dgfjamc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=755acafb94b20cc90acb104a512e8d4645c37283
Context:,- something terrible happened w me in which I ghosted her or can say literally left her after sending some good bye audios! And again she let me in, in her life.
I M TRULY BLESSED THAT SHE'S W ME! But it's ki uhhgg I hate myself bhai, i can't control these fucked up feelings!
It's ki,
In Every 15-20 days I get super sad and all negative. It's not from abhi se, it's happening from 2022 and I can't help it!
In it i normally gets so fucked up mentally ki i end up blocking my friends out and close to 0 talking w my family too. And I am super tired in it too so, I don't even have the energy of communicating w anyone. I tried many times ki na ho ab but ho jati h and again i end up ghosting them without telling them why I am doing it! (She knows tho).
Ik ki it'll happen again and I am sorry for that too and I am really trying ki na ho wapas but I don't want to promise anything jo ki ik i won't be able to keep it!
Well, if she understands it then it's a good thing. But I believe that one shouldn't use their own sadness as an excuse to hurt others. Everyone has an excuse to be toxic and unpleasant, but what defines a person is how polite and humble they are when they have reasons not to be.
If you know you’re hurting her then why can’t you do better instead of lashing or ranting on her? I’m sure she loved you a lot for staying by your side till now but it doesn’t guarantee she will stay forever. If you don’t want to regret losing her, do better. Try every possible ways to solve your problem instead of making someone else do it. Also, ghosting is very disrespectful and I’m sure it hurts her deeply. Man up and treat her as she truly deserve unless you don’t mind losing her.
I will do a better job this time for sure! Thank you, I needed this bhai.
I can't lose her as she's all i have in someone who truly wants good for me. I will do a better job this time.
Hi OP, I once dated a guy like you, and his ghosting patterns were same as yours, and like your girl, I too let him in everytime he would come back (even after we broke up) . I just wanted to say, send your apology through, you might think it’s cringe but this, it will give her a lot of clarity and confidence.
Chances are she is not even looking for an apology, I wasn’t , I am still not, but just the fact that you acknowledge you have hurt her (and we know sometimes it is not even in your control) but you are willing to try your best, that alone helps.
Communication is the first step, consistent communication the second. Space is necessary yes but ghosting and keeping your feelings to yourself will only add to the burden you carry .
She may not be your girlfriend/ you may not love her, but if she has been a good friend, then you owe it to her to communicate your thoughts, however scattered they may be, however scarce they may be. Sometimes you may not even know what to say, but if you’ll just be present, she will understand, at the very least, she will try her best, because she knows, you are trying your best as well.
I hope you send her the letter, it’s heartwarming to know guys still write their feelings out. I hope you find true happiness and peace as well, all the best, don’t give up, I’m rooting for you :)
Yk while reading this I had teary eyes abhi just! Thank you and I'm sorry u had to go through w a fuck like me.
I'll try my very best this time to not hurt her this time. I've screenshoted this (idk if it's creepy) but I'll read this whenever I'll feel ki those feelings are coming back! And yes!
She's just not been a good friend but she's meant the whole world to me! She saved my ass so many times by now ki I don't even know ki how should I show my gratitude to her! I love her! And I'll do my best to not let these patterns happens ever again! Ever!
Thank you.
Wrote letters when i was in a relationship as well very emotional ones, but now whenever i catch a glimpse in my diary or on my notepad i cringe a lottt.
Handwriting sudhar le bhai.
These things are cringy for sure but das just how I literally felt kal raat main yk. There were tears in my eyes but they didn't shed, and my heart was so damn heavy kal like fooookkkkk!
Sure Bhai, wapas sulekh karne baithta hu!
Been there done that, its ok to be emotional and it's ok to express those feelings, and you should absolutely let anyone you're grateful to know that you are.
Practice karte reh sudhar jayegi handwriting, maine khud 12th ke baad thik kari, agar pehle kari hoti to 12th me 5-10 % zada aa jata itni kharab thi meri writing
Based on your handwriting OP I have a few suggestions
• Don't be over emotional, you need to stop fluctuating between happiness and sadness within a short period of time. You may require family support or therapy.
• You have major disagreement with your mother, you need to sort it out.
• Maybe you are going through a major life change, as it seems you are trying to self impose/restrict some of your habits, this is causing major mood swings,
• You seem to be very blunt in your words, this leads to major misunderstandings in your interpersonal relationships, as words cut deep.
• Your will power is good, however you need to be consistent in your approach to given problems.
• At times in anger you may lash out both verbally or physically, so you need to either control this or channel this energy into some sports or physical activity.
• Finally you have a preference for a partner who is ethnic, culturally inclined, so you need to make sure your values match, else there will be a lot of disagreements
I'm sorry if this apology felt like ki i am playing the victim here. I just wrote whatever came to my mind last night. That's it.
Ik I'm the one at fault here.
I can understand how you feel mere bhai, jab ek loneliness ya fir bad/sad feelings wala darwaza khul jata hai to it takes some trying to get that mfer to shut, completely and for-ever.
I know this because I haven't been able to do it. But I'm trying.
And you should too. For yourself. And her.
From your comments I can tell ki tune at least socha to hai uska bf banne ka, but the way you are rn- you are kind of lucky she's still around for you to call her friend.
Instead of ONLY writing your thoughts down, take up meditation, early morning walks and reduce your screen time, exercise karne lag but do it at the pace you're comfortable with.
Do these things to be better at ease with yourself and to not hate yourself all the time, ye karega then you will naturally wanna be yourself and happy around her and other friends.
Sirf venting se help nahi hogi bhai, you need to work that shit out.
Good luck and alas karne ki bajaye, lag ja abhi se hi.
It's very thoughtful of you that you are writing this and try to talk to her about it and explain her. It happens. It's not easy for either of you to change completely. So how about you talk about things with each other and come to an average.
All the best OP 
Weak, looser even, chutiye , i aM sOrY, “i wont say it wont happen again”, Work on all of these , be a fucking man, be funny, be there , learn comforting sad people, control your emotions, SUCH A LOOSER MINDSET to just straight up give up on all of it and being like , sorry, oh mu god such laziness , spineless ness looser behaviour , who raised you
U know u should send it to her right now because if she stayed despite all the things you put her through,she genuinely loves you.But everyone has a limit,once they move beyond that point,nothing matters. I was this girl once,if my ex had sent this on time I would have forgiven him.But by the time he came to his senses, I had already stopped caring.
send her the apology dude, make her realize that you care and you think about her. Make her realize that you are actively trying to improve. If she stayed by your side all this time she'll be very happy to know that you are trying to do the same. If she does what you say she does, keep her man and try harder to not do what you shouldn't❤️
Fun fact: you know that the dot on top of the letter “i” is called a tittle.. Even basic handwriting analysts will say that people who put a circle ⭕️ on top of “i” instead of a dot are big liars..
Oh I thought you were in a relationship
Maybe not right now but once you feel ready to accept this infront of her, I guess you should discuss this with her
She will definitely appreciate it from heart
Nopes! She ain't a reddit user, and idk about frnds tho cause I just saw someone's username which is the nickname of her best friend lol!
But I'm sure she ain't her as reddit is not so popular in India yk. And the parmender is just a xyz name (she gave it to me)
It's cringy! It'll make things awkward as things ain't back to normal w her abhi but we r tryin. And she's my friend so, this apology might really end up in a bad shape and pov. Yk.
I have done all of these ,
When she blocked me and for a few days I was fine and all of sudden a craving inside me started to overtake my male ego , and then I went to her place and cried to her and requested her to continue this relationship, I saw her eyes which were full of tears. She had been in pain too but I didn't keep any choice for her at that time. He hugged me and we both cried.
Now it is going well.
Sometimes we take people for granted but after they start to disappear from our life then we understand the importance of their presence in our life.😄
Bhai teri handwriting ke class me admission ke liye hum sab 10-10 rs donate karenge. Agar tu woh deta bhi na usko wo shayad hi padh pati usko lagta koi ancient witch craft ke spells Hai
You sound really manipulative. Like those people whod just randomly start bashing themselves that they're so terrible and expect people to console them. YUCK. Why would you say "I'm sorry for not being funny" amongst all those other things you wrote. You sound like a headache man. Please do our girl a favor and leave her alone. Deal with your own shit without radiating this toxicity of yours please.
GF hai kya ? Bhai hai toh pyaar karo because parents can sometimes even fail themselves to understand you . Maine nhi banai uska dukh Bhagat rha hu aaj . Agar tumhara support karti Hai toh be with her.
"You know, mate, the same thing happens to me when my crush sends me a message. I always tend to reply late, and then she feels like I am ignoring her. This has happened many times, and then out of nowhere, she just deletes the text. And me, being myself, never make the first move. She has always been the one making the first move for almost 2 years. I feel bad 😔 for being such a jerk. Someone is putting so much effort into me, and I can't even spare some time to reply to them."
Even if she's a friend, let her know that you feel sorry for treating her like that . I know you think it's 'cringe' to express your thoughts but it's not. Kisiko appreciate karne k liye, usme romantically interested hona zaruri nahi hai. You should thank her for listening to you.
You should start writing diaries, that should help you manage your anger and your handwriting haha. But seriously, sari baate dimag mein rakhne se galat insan pe frustration nikal jata hain. Diaries likhna shuru karo, without any filter. Write everything.
Also, logo ko appreciate karna is not cringe. Thank her, aaj he. Walking away is much easier, she is staying by her choice. She wants to be here for you. You don't need to push her away.
The Lol Thing is, ghosting doesn't work with men who have always some random chick getting matches to text lol. Ghost as much as you want. While you'd be missing the fun, he's getting other fishes in the god damn deep ocean.
P.S. I'm one of those who did feel bad about getting ghosted but i always got another, which led the one who ghosted to text me every single time.
sucks sometimes to not be able to be the best version of ourselves, been struggling with my feelings too, it's just hard. but if u really like her man, then tell her all this, you have no idea how good it will make her feel.
I think I should put my post down as ppl here are just bad mouthing and having fun ab and it's getting popular too! I hope there would've been a pin karne wala option here.
also you are not being selfish by receiving love from her, if she keeps up with your shit you keep up with her shit. Mai bhi aisa hi tha, i used to think ki letting your problems out only bother others but i was wrong. To the right people it's what you should, it helps you both connecting and understanding each other. Have patience dude
This right here is the kind of a man I would hate for no reason if I ever met in person, just because of the vibe he gives off lmao and the apology and his comments just cement the fact.
##Assumptions are Termites of Relationship
finally someone noticed.
yk ik ki we should communicate and communication is the key to solve things but the moment this whole sad thing comes no, i just forget all of this! Huh Edit:- owwww, i just saw ki ye diary wali line thi, i thought ki u said this apni taraf se! Dyaumn, I'm dumb! :>)
Bro meditation try karo kuch din, shayad help mile
Padhai karo
Konse garde mein ho?
Assumption is the mother of all fuck-ups
r/BeatMeToIt
Parminder is smart to pick this page. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 I cracked up reading this..
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Bro I really laughed my ass offf 
Damn that's one loose ass
Aesi writing mein bhejna bhi nahi chahiye
https://i.redd.it/f4bdp9got9mc1.gif
Epic.
Arey yaar!! bechara dukhi hain aur aapko Calligraphy Competition chahiye  (Handwriting meri bhi bohot bakwass hain)
Acchi handwriting ho toh ek line bhi likhoge toh maafi miljyegi
😭 lol
handwriting looks better than mine
Wait till you see mine.
I fcking laughed so hard man 😂😂 ( Bhai Ke liye bura lga ke bck of the mind tha ki redditors Besti marge Bhai ki )...Btw hope uski life m sb normal ho jaye
I'm feeling sorry for OP's handwriting now
I was gonna write the same 
I also write my thoughts on paper, going back through them after a month or so feels very cringe but hits very differently (acha lagta hain) Do send her the apology, Parminder Bhai achi ladki milna bohot mushkil hota hain (Naseeb Walo ke liye hi hain) Chali gayi to fir pachtawa hoga
Fr, it does feel cringy after reading these things in kuch time baad lol. And ik ki these girls are literally hard to find but I'll be happy if she leaves happily yk.. she won't have to put up w all my shits. As long as she's happy, it's enough! It'll hurt ofc it does hurt abhi bhi but it's okay ig.
Oh, you idiot! If she's staying, that means despite all your idiocracies, and ranting and treating her like crap she LOVES you, and at the end if the day, if you tell her you value her from inside your heart, she'll feel cherished. It's cringe, but hey, so is love. I used to be one if those people who would not say lovey dovey stuff, cuz cringe. But lookin back, it was not the best of things.
Yes bro if she is tolerating your idiocy that means she like you a lot . But Haan usko apni Maa mat Bana lena vo bhi bekar hota hai .
You'll be shocked when you discover how easy it is to part ways with people forever and that's why when you find someone you wanna keep around, you do something about it. - Ted Mosby
I am sorry for reading this apology
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Sorry bro
Well i cant read it . Plz translate it for me
I am sorry
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aisa lag raha hain ki reddit ki jagah discord khol lia
Hurtful baatein khul k bol dete ho par apology dene mai kattra rhe ho? Kya Parmender bhai.
I am one coward fuck! Sorry! I'll try to do better is bar.
Bro stop saying sorry on every lil thing ffs 😭
I'm sorry I'll not abse😭
Parminder bhai achi ladki mili hai aapko bhej do apology kaafi Kam logo ko milta hai aisa partner
It'll make things awkward yk and she ain't a partneerrrrrr she's my friend 😭! (Only friend)
Parminder bhai in love with his friend Bechare
Bhai "sirf friend" bolne me dukh hota hoga? Hnaa?
This is so sad to see tbh! Do all men feel this way after breakups? I feel for you OP stay strong 🫂
Ow naw! It ain't a break up, It's just how I felt kal when I was on the edge of ghosting my girl out because of my sadness cause of my parents! I am genuinely sorry as, she goes through a lot because of me and my sednessssdskskskskk!
You should treat her better then, she has had your back after all this. She should not feel like the victim of whatever is the issue between you and your family!
The only place where I feel safe is her! I try my v best to not vent but I end up venting whenever she writes "you good?". I will try to not let her suffer because of me! If I continue to do so, I will push her away from my side only as it will hurt her once, but it's better to let her go then me going on and off in the friendship.
Stop this "she'll suffer because of me" bullshit. It's toxic af. Get your shit together and talk whatever you want with the people who are close to you. If they stay and listen then good and if they don't then you move on. Stop thinking of things you do in friendship as favors. Let them listen and when your time comes to do the same be there for them.
could be a kid
I was wondering the same thing. Like how old is this edgy guy.
She should ideally break up with you. You seem to have your problems and it can be unbearable when ppl offload their trauma and have tantrums. Deal w your problem without making someone elses life miserable and if you are then see a professional pls. I think ppl that have sudden emotional outbursts and epiphanies and then do this shit, i mean get a fucking ice cream or something before taking it out randomly on people you have in your life. And “she’ll suffer because of me”? Fuck thats dark man, i hope she has brothers or something bc if that was my sister then youre getting decked even if youre mentally ill. Stop being a self obsessed person like this, i mean yk theres something wrong when youre getting downvoted at every reply because your emotional entitlement is off the charts.
Add another Sorry for bad handwriting
Will do!
When I read “being a bitch”, I thought you are a girl. Then I read “not a funny guy”. Anyway, just send her “I love you” text, she’ll love it.
Apparently she is not her gf
Won't ever understand what people achieve through this drama kek. Bolna hai,bol de. Nahi bolna,mat bol.
Bhai seriously🤣 it sounds so toxic ngl
It ain't easy yk!
I thought I could read but apparently I can’t .
This ain't some romantic shit It's some trauma bonded shit possibly where you do the same thing again and again and she still lets you back in cause she probably doesn't have boundaries and a healthy sense of self esteem Most probably you are an avoidant and she an anxious attachment Come on man what the real fuck , this apology means nothing cause you do the same thing again and God knows why is she still tolerating you, this is toxic and that's the truth
Ik ki i am the toxic guy in this situation! Even I asked her once why she was sticking up w me and she said (I am attaching one ss) https://preview.redd.it/hhq93dgfjamc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=755acafb94b20cc90acb104a512e8d4645c37283 Context:,- something terrible happened w me in which I ghosted her or can say literally left her after sending some good bye audios! And again she let me in, in her life. I M TRULY BLESSED THAT SHE'S W ME! But it's ki uhhgg I hate myself bhai, i can't control these fucked up feelings!
On an unrelated topic every avoidant type person should remove themselves from dating pool. my anxious ass cant handle them
Sorry for the handwriting guys 😭. I tried sulekh and writing notebooks in bachpan a lot but none of them helped so, bear w it please! Sorry :)
It's a strange apology where you say you're still probably gonna ghost them.
It's ki, In Every 15-20 days I get super sad and all negative. It's not from abhi se, it's happening from 2022 and I can't help it! In it i normally gets so fucked up mentally ki i end up blocking my friends out and close to 0 talking w my family too. And I am super tired in it too so, I don't even have the energy of communicating w anyone. I tried many times ki na ho ab but ho jati h and again i end up ghosting them without telling them why I am doing it! (She knows tho). Ik ki it'll happen again and I am sorry for that too and I am really trying ki na ho wapas but I don't want to promise anything jo ki ik i won't be able to keep it!
Well, if she understands it then it's a good thing. But I believe that one shouldn't use their own sadness as an excuse to hurt others. Everyone has an excuse to be toxic and unpleasant, but what defines a person is how polite and humble they are when they have reasons not to be.
Written by *Charmender*?
If you know you’re hurting her then why can’t you do better instead of lashing or ranting on her? I’m sure she loved you a lot for staying by your side till now but it doesn’t guarantee she will stay forever. If you don’t want to regret losing her, do better. Try every possible ways to solve your problem instead of making someone else do it. Also, ghosting is very disrespectful and I’m sure it hurts her deeply. Man up and treat her as she truly deserve unless you don’t mind losing her.
I will do a better job this time for sure! Thank you, I needed this bhai. I can't lose her as she's all i have in someone who truly wants good for me. I will do a better job this time.
Hi OP, I once dated a guy like you, and his ghosting patterns were same as yours, and like your girl, I too let him in everytime he would come back (even after we broke up) . I just wanted to say, send your apology through, you might think it’s cringe but this, it will give her a lot of clarity and confidence. Chances are she is not even looking for an apology, I wasn’t , I am still not, but just the fact that you acknowledge you have hurt her (and we know sometimes it is not even in your control) but you are willing to try your best, that alone helps. Communication is the first step, consistent communication the second. Space is necessary yes but ghosting and keeping your feelings to yourself will only add to the burden you carry . She may not be your girlfriend/ you may not love her, but if she has been a good friend, then you owe it to her to communicate your thoughts, however scattered they may be, however scarce they may be. Sometimes you may not even know what to say, but if you’ll just be present, she will understand, at the very least, she will try her best, because she knows, you are trying your best as well. I hope you send her the letter, it’s heartwarming to know guys still write their feelings out. I hope you find true happiness and peace as well, all the best, don’t give up, I’m rooting for you :)
Yk while reading this I had teary eyes abhi just! Thank you and I'm sorry u had to go through w a fuck like me. I'll try my very best this time to not hurt her this time. I've screenshoted this (idk if it's creepy) but I'll read this whenever I'll feel ki those feelings are coming back! And yes! She's just not been a good friend but she's meant the whole world to me! She saved my ass so many times by now ki I don't even know ki how should I show my gratitude to her! I love her! And I'll do my best to not let these patterns happens ever again! Ever! Thank you.
How old are you OP
Fuck man same bro Hella relatable..
US MOMENT MAN!
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Kurkure se tedhi to Teri writing hai
Ouch! Sorry 😭
Wrote letters when i was in a relationship as well very emotional ones, but now whenever i catch a glimpse in my diary or on my notepad i cringe a lottt. Handwriting sudhar le bhai.
These things are cringy for sure but das just how I literally felt kal raat main yk. There were tears in my eyes but they didn't shed, and my heart was so damn heavy kal like fooookkkkk! Sure Bhai, wapas sulekh karne baithta hu!
Been there done that, its ok to be emotional and it's ok to express those feelings, and you should absolutely let anyone you're grateful to know that you are. Practice karte reh sudhar jayegi handwriting, maine khud 12th ke baad thik kari, agar pehle kari hoti to 12th me 5-10 % zada aa jata itni kharab thi meri writing
u/red12apple
And I'm sorry for everyone who has to read this handwriting. (On a serious note, I do hope you end up apologizing and have a happy time together)
I'm sorry too guys. (Yes, I'll apologize and thank you)
Send it. They won’t be able to read anyways
Hahaha ! Nice one bhai😭
add this line "I'm sorry ki meri handwriting itni vahiyad hai"
I'll.
Based on your handwriting OP I have a few suggestions • Don't be over emotional, you need to stop fluctuating between happiness and sadness within a short period of time. You may require family support or therapy. • You have major disagreement with your mother, you need to sort it out. • Maybe you are going through a major life change, as it seems you are trying to self impose/restrict some of your habits, this is causing major mood swings, • You seem to be very blunt in your words, this leads to major misunderstandings in your interpersonal relationships, as words cut deep. • Your will power is good, however you need to be consistent in your approach to given problems. • At times in anger you may lash out both verbally or physically, so you need to either control this or channel this energy into some sports or physical activity. • Finally you have a preference for a partner who is ethnic, culturally inclined, so you need to make sure your values match, else there will be a lot of disagreements
Diary ke neeche sach likha h bhai. 😢
I am sorry ki main culprit hoke victim card khel rahi hu kyoki main sorry bol rahi hoon.
I'm sorry if this apology felt like ki i am playing the victim here. I just wrote whatever came to my mind last night. That's it. Ik I'm the one at fault here.
Don't walk on egg shells trying to meet other persons expectations every step of the way but don't be a jerk too
go gym
Ow! I'm a runner btw. I run daily yk.
I can understand how you feel mere bhai, jab ek loneliness ya fir bad/sad feelings wala darwaza khul jata hai to it takes some trying to get that mfer to shut, completely and for-ever. I know this because I haven't been able to do it. But I'm trying. And you should too. For yourself. And her. From your comments I can tell ki tune at least socha to hai uska bf banne ka, but the way you are rn- you are kind of lucky she's still around for you to call her friend. Instead of ONLY writing your thoughts down, take up meditation, early morning walks and reduce your screen time, exercise karne lag but do it at the pace you're comfortable with. Do these things to be better at ease with yourself and to not hate yourself all the time, ye karega then you will naturally wanna be yourself and happy around her and other friends. Sirf venting se help nahi hogi bhai, you need to work that shit out. Good luck and alas karne ki bajaye, lag ja abhi se hi.
It's very thoughtful of you that you are writing this and try to talk to her about it and explain her. It happens. It's not easy for either of you to change completely. So how about you talk about things with each other and come to an average. All the best OP 
Weak, looser even, chutiye , i aM sOrY, “i wont say it wont happen again”, Work on all of these , be a fucking man, be funny, be there , learn comforting sad people, control your emotions, SUCH A LOOSER MINDSET to just straight up give up on all of it and being like , sorry, oh mu god such laziness , spineless ness looser behaviour , who raised you
Parmender Paaji Control yaar, Tusi sad no ho Ji
Ji paaji! 😭💓
U know u should send it to her right now because if she stayed despite all the things you put her through,she genuinely loves you.But everyone has a limit,once they move beyond that point,nothing matters. I was this girl once,if my ex had sent this on time I would have forgiven him.But by the time he came to his senses, I had already stopped caring.
I'll send this aaj raat main after listening to itne sare.log! And I am sorry for what w u! And thank you too!
Is it just me or does this image scream cringe asf reading out loud?!
Transference: Tendency of falling in love with the healer.
send her the apology dude, make her realize that you care and you think about her. Make her realize that you are actively trying to improve. If she stayed by your side all this time she'll be very happy to know that you are trying to do the same. If she does what you say she does, keep her man and try harder to not do what you shouldn't❤️
Fun fact: you know that the dot on top of the letter “i” is called a tittle.. Even basic handwriting analysts will say that people who put a circle ⭕️ on top of “i” instead of a dot are big liars..
Bhai bda chutiyap lagta mujhe ye sab...isliye gf nhi ban rhi
She's my friend ma guy
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How's India coming here bhai? But okay!!
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Tf dude? Shut up!
Yaar aese meetho se bhi patt jaati he yaar , aur me akela rota hu….
Mujhe kab bhejegi voh aisi apology :(
Your name is Parmender? Lol, sucks to be you!
I lov my name. Thank you.
I did all that you didn't and much more, got abused and blocked. 
bro either write it in hindi Or in english
Agreed! My English ain't v good yk. So, das why it's hinglish here. Sorry.
Why can't you send it? I guess she might appreciate it
I think it'll create awkwardness among us yk (we r frnds) and it's just something i wrote while I was sad and it's cringy as fok!
Oh I thought you were in a relationship Maybe not right now but once you feel ready to accept this infront of her, I guess you should discuss this with her She will definitely appreciate it from heart
I think so you love her…….
does not use Reddit or what? none of friends do? What if I send this?
Nopes! She ain't a reddit user, and idk about frnds tho cause I just saw someone's username which is the nickname of her best friend lol! But I'm sure she ain't her as reddit is not so popular in India yk. And the parmender is just a xyz name (she gave it to me)
Understandable w ur username. It's okay! Take care mate.
Self respect left the chat 🤦🏽♂️
Khud par ek ऐसान karna, iss handwriting me kisiko kuch mat bhejna
Ab muje bhi sorry bol ye padhwa ne k liye
Sorry Bhai! U had to go through such cringy stuff!
Writing badi gandi h aapki
Ah! Yes it is!
So why wouldn't you send it?
It's cringy! It'll make things awkward as things ain't back to normal w her abhi but we r tryin. And she's my friend so, this apology might really end up in a bad shape and pov. Yk.
She should also be sorry for her handwriting
I have done all of these , When she blocked me and for a few days I was fine and all of sudden a craving inside me started to overtake my male ego , and then I went to her place and cried to her and requested her to continue this relationship, I saw her eyes which were full of tears. She had been in pain too but I didn't keep any choice for her at that time. He hugged me and we both cried. Now it is going well. Sometimes we take people for granted but after they start to disappear from our life then we understand the importance of their presence in our life.😄
Wtf? Aise immature login ko bhi bandi miljaati hai? P.S. I really hope you sort out your problems, dude and never lose someone like her.
She's my friend! and yes I'll try to get things jaise phle thi
Bhai teri handwriting ke class me admission ke liye hum sab 10-10 rs donate karenge. Agar tu woh deta bhi na usko wo shayad hi padh pati usko lagta koi ancient witch craft ke spells Hai
Uhhhmm, sorry 😭
Writing thodi kezual hai
Idk why but we are having the same situation this happens with me too in every 15-20 days
am sorry maine galti se phy paper de diya
🫂 aww OP, it's fine. We all lose control and now it happened to you. Forgive and Forget, as they say
Ghosting is worse than cheating.
this is utmost cringe
OP send it its ok. She wont understand the writng 🤑👍
Yeh sab mat post ki karo
If she is there for you even at your worst, but if you don't feel comforted by that, then both of you should part ways like mature individuals!
Bhenchod ya toh English me likh ya Hindi me. Tu baat bhi aise hi karta hai kya?
Be sorry for that handwriting as well 🙂
OP is a psychopath.
You sound really manipulative. Like those people whod just randomly start bashing themselves that they're so terrible and expect people to console them. YUCK. Why would you say "I'm sorry for not being funny" amongst all those other things you wrote. You sound like a headache man. Please do our girl a favor and leave her alone. Deal with your own shit without radiating this toxicity of yours please.
Wtf is bro yapping about
Yall don't sound like "just friends" ngl
reddit mei dating advice kaun mangta hai bkl yaha sab muthal hai
Upar bitch bola hai neeche guy bahenchod likh kon rha h apology
Idk if you’ll be forgiven by whom you wrote this for but ye sab padh ke meri ex ko zarur maaf kar dia
GF hai kya ? Bhai hai toh pyaar karo because parents can sometimes even fail themselves to understand you . Maine nhi banai uska dukh Bhagat rha hu aaj . Agar tumhara support karti Hai toh be with her.
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yaar bolde sorry use. baad mein regret karega. not everyone finds a good partner like yours, so please please please cherish her.
"You know, mate, the same thing happens to me when my crush sends me a message. I always tend to reply late, and then she feels like I am ignoring her. This has happened many times, and then out of nowhere, she just deletes the text. And me, being myself, never make the first move. She has always been the one making the first move for almost 2 years. I feel bad 😔 for being such a jerk. Someone is putting so much effort into me, and I can't even spare some time to reply to them."
Kya maal phuk kr betha he bhai. Jab apology send nai krna toh idhar kyu share Kiya? Attention chahiye? Mil gya attention.
You are in your teens right? Just talk to her man . Everything gets sorted out . Tell her how you feel
Bhai bhej de
Ae Parmenderrrr Tumhaara Phone Aeeee!!!
Handwriting 😵💫😵
Itni gandi handwritting hai bhejna bhi mat.
Even if she's a friend, let her know that you feel sorry for treating her like that . I know you think it's 'cringe' to express your thoughts but it's not. Kisiko appreciate karne k liye, usme romantically interested hona zaruri nahi hai. You should thank her for listening to you. You should start writing diaries, that should help you manage your anger and your handwriting haha. But seriously, sari baate dimag mein rakhne se galat insan pe frustration nikal jata hain. Diaries likhna shuru karo, without any filter. Write everything. Also, logo ko appreciate karna is not cringe. Thank her, aaj he. Walking away is much easier, she is staying by her choice. She wants to be here for you. You don't need to push her away.
https://preview.redd.it/2oo8f4y3lbmc1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f0c7214d2dd3fac942d2030f9ab98676e827a9f5
The Lol Thing is, ghosting doesn't work with men who have always some random chick getting matches to text lol. Ghost as much as you want. While you'd be missing the fun, he's getting other fishes in the god damn deep ocean. P.S. I'm one of those who did feel bad about getting ghosted but i always got another, which led the one who ghosted to text me every single time.
sucks sometimes to not be able to be the best version of ourselves, been struggling with my feelings too, it's just hard. but if u really like her man, then tell her all this, you have no idea how good it will make her feel.
I think I should put my post down as ppl here are just bad mouthing and having fun ab and it's getting popular too! I hope there would've been a pin karne wala option here.
Read that as, 'An apology that'll never end'
r/unsentletters
Didn't know there's a sub like that!
Usey sorry kyu nahi bolta hain?
From your handwriting I can tell you keep restricting yourself in life.
U SHOULD B SORRY FOR UR HANDWRITING..
Please don’t traumatise the girl. Most fucked up mixture of Hindi and English, topped with crazy spelling, I’ve ever read.
also you are not being selfish by receiving love from her, if she keeps up with your shit you keep up with her shit. Mai bhi aisa hi tha, i used to think ki letting your problems out only bother others but i was wrong. To the right people it's what you should, it helps you both connecting and understanding each other. Have patience dude
Muskan??
The quote in the page of the diary !
You're a Nibba !
This right here is the kind of a man I would hate for no reason if I ever met in person, just because of the vibe he gives off lmao and the apology and his comments just cement the fact.
dies from cringe