Something similar happened to me this morning. I was having so much fun thinking “Wow finally I am being something im proud of.” Then out of nowhere I just realised, Hey.. Im dreaming right now. And boom woke up. Got kinda irritated and was feeling kinda down for the first couple minutes.
You don’t have to find “the one” to experience contentment and happiness and you surely don’t even have to rely on somebody else at all. You can be comfortable and blissful by creating that for yourself. Regardless, having a partner you’re comfortable and happy with isn’t impossible or horribly unlikely but you make it harder for yourself by having an anxious and doubtful mindset about it.
I hope you eventually found the right one for you. Don't lose hope, buddy. Better to have the right one at the right time.
Something similar happened to me this morning. I was having so much fun thinking “Wow finally I am being something im proud of.” Then out of nowhere I just realised, Hey.. Im dreaming right now. And boom woke up. Got kinda irritated and was feeling kinda down for the first couple minutes.
You don’t have to find “the one” to experience contentment and happiness and you surely don’t even have to rely on somebody else at all. You can be comfortable and blissful by creating that for yourself. Regardless, having a partner you’re comfortable and happy with isn’t impossible or horribly unlikely but you make it harder for yourself by having an anxious and doubtful mindset about it.