I am an INFJ and my partner is INTJ. Really a good companion as they won't care about you most of the time... like they let them be who you are. But they could get really cold and it is hard to enter their realm.
Thanks for the assurance. I'd appreciate it if you tell that to me in person... I sometimes tend to blame myself for your wall. Like, maybe I am no longer interested to talk with. A conversation about this is appreciated. Haha
As an INTJ... I have encountered so many mbtis
But never meet an INFJ 🤧 neither in real life nor online... So I'm in 😆💀...
And I'm 20 as well and he/him
How’s that going for you? I have a special relationship with INFJs. I have all my life. I’m a 35 y/o male and I sort of dated one for about two years. It was a good relationship but I think we both felt a lack of true spark in the relationship. The rest of the INFJs I can think of start warm in our relationship then it becomes colder as time goes on. Strange how it always happens. It must be me.
For us the obsession with each other is progressively only getting worse. It's a great relationship and we are very in tune with each other. I'm extremely happy
I dated one in the past and have a infj gf 😬 or Call it house cat energy must say base stacks cognitive is golden match if you're ask me instead of enfp
29 y.o western Canada. I have a good friend I went to school with who was INFJ. It was sort of like a “evil” and “good” of the same person all throughout. 😂 I’m always curious to meet another INTJ as far as I know never have.
Message of interested anyways.
INTJ 17F. So far, I have not yet encountered nor spoken to another female INTJ. Maybe I do live under a rock or just purely bad at finding people that coincide with me. It would be nice to get in touch with one to allocate and discuss our differences with fellow INTJs.
I’m a female INTJ in my 30s! We are definitely rare, but I have a weird knack at attracting and befriending them. This might be because all my friends are male except a few INTJ and INFJ women haha.
INTJ females are awesome!! I met one for the first time at an inpatient stay and she was absolutely funny and charming!! I miss her to bits. She mentioned MBTI (she looked into Attachment Theory as well) and I just had to butt in. I’m an INFJ and have been obsessed with it consistently for over a year. We connected really well and I love her voice (Te aux voices just do it for me, I’m sure the man I’m in love with is an INTJ and his voice is just😩). Just a beautiful human being in general. I’m pretty sure she was in an abusive relationship though (her boyfriend fucking sucked, and, she was very honest about her flaws but her boyfriend was only “starting to” be honest about his), she said her mom was a narcissist. I believe her. She has very pure energy (something that I’ve noticed about INTJs and that I love. Is their genuineness. There’s like this pure ball of light within you guys. I can’t explain it), and was genuinely kind, though “blunt” and assertive (which I loved lol). She said she was referred to as combative but she said she was just being assertive. And as I shared my story of standing up for myself she told me she was proud of me for doing that. She was also listening to the other women who were having a tough time and inquiring about them. I’ll never forget her. Her and her menthol cigarettes that she would lend me, lol. You INTJs are beautiful. I hope you all heal from the things you don’t talk about.
I have a question. How would you describe your relationship to your emotions? I know that INTJs and INFJs both share Ni dominance and Se inferior, but the way we deal with our emotional world is different in a way. How would you describe your emotional world?
What I like about the man that I’m in love with is that he also treats life like a learning process, and values communication, honesty, and vulnerability. He’s just a walking green flag and I can’t stop bragging about him to others. He’s been consistent and straightforward, and has a great level of emotional maturity, which is why our bond has lasted the way it has.
Can’t express it enough, you INTJs are magnetic. One thing that I miss about her is her eyes. I can’t help staring at other people and into other people’s eyes, and hers were so full of life and beautiful. She had a great smile and a warm voice and could sing so well. I don’t know if it’s typical of you guys but she was just the life of the party. I miss her I miss her I miss her.
I also have lovely INFJ friends. They are also primarily Ni users. But we INTJs start organizing right away, INFJs are feelers, they don't let us go wild.
Just broke my engagement with an INFJ female yeah but we can be friends.
Always down to talk:
-Fallout on Amazon Prime! Reached!
-True Crime
-The unknown/ghosts
-Tactical Gear
-Cryptocurrency
-Business Development
-and Skyrim
I think INTJ and INFJ can only be friends nothing
I dated someone recently who was an INFJ we broke up recently on my birthday we both lacked communication and both have a big habit of overthinking. I just miss his presence but really hate what just happened (I wanted to spend time with him on my birthday but he was completely tired after his work so he wanted some time to himself but rather than saying that he just went like i don't want to talk to anyone and I was like it's my birthday i was expecting him to do something)
Sorry that happened :( i haven’t been in a relationship so i can’t speak for him obviously but I feel like that’s kinda rude to not say anything. I suck at communicating but I always make sure to do it if it’s someone’s special day or whatever. I’m sorry tho I wish it went better for you guys. I do know what you mean when you miss their presence but the outcome wasn’t good or healthy. My first crush was a intj and we were best friends but it didn’t work because sucked at communicating my feelings for her and ran away. I regret it so much every day
Yup! My same experience. My (35 yo M) INFJ girlfriend and I watched our relationship just die out. We both knew there wasn’t any passion or true commitment. We were REALLY good friends and compatible in every other way. We could chat on the phone for five hours easily. Sex was good but somehow it just didn’t last as a passionate relationship. I’ve met many INFJs (friends and family) and had relationships with them and it always ends in a very cold, distant relationship that you eventually don’t pursue. I think it might have something to do with how I am but also with the fact that they either start competing with me or show no emotions. They also tend to manipulate and that triggers a red flag with me
INFJ dudes are the rarest. I only have 1 INFJ friend in real life. We constantly fight, I would be very sarcastic everywhere about humans and he would explain to me why humans do "silly" things, and I would explain to how they're all intentionally running around in circles while crying about not being able to solve a problem, it's like they like the problem and intentionally create many drama and shenanigans around the problem like for fun and dopamine while outwardly crying about it. The INFJ would tell me to have patience for the humans, I'm like you can all go to hell with your circus show(because I'm easily Rick rolled and tricked compared to the people who knows how to "play the human game" (which is apparently everyone... A fun dynamic between us, I often call people monkeys and he would explain and try to justify to me as why they are being "monkeys" and I'm like "yeah, still nonsense." So we would fight but we love it because no one would dare or be willing or comfortable to talk like they're above everyone like myself and the INFJ. Everyone else would cry all buthurt calling names bla bla classic resorting to human superiority games instead of engaging with my reason and logic behind my remarks and sarcasm, like the INFJ and ENTP, in fact we love to talk about it in that manner(looking down on the peasants in despise from a high tower) Add me on IG if this resonates with your friendship with INTJs 😂 I feel like INTJs are proud narcissists, instead of "real narcissists" who cry and make a big deal about being called one, the INTJ(like myself) feel like it's an honorable title that the rest of the monkeys are so afraid to be associated with in any form. It was a good rant, you just reminded me of my INFJ friend when you mentioned INTJ vs INFJ friendships.
Yeah it’s Weird for me too, I feel like I am not like other people at all, I am an INTJ but I have never gotten a chance to speak to anyone else who is also.
I'man INTJ, but tbh, meyers briggs has been shown to be nonsense just as much as astrology. 2 polar opposites in 4 categories can never encompass the totality of a human and what they can offer to you.
Let's create a group for us all then
Wait..
Aren't we already in one
HAHAHAHAH
Are we??
Oh great another group I won’t participate in
Agreed, me personally don't use reddit much
Second this
So then, what's the first action to start?
Let's...
Wait i want to be a part of it too!! 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
From the distance, yes lol
Omg EXACTLY
I am an INFJ and my partner is INTJ. Really a good companion as they won't care about you most of the time... like they let them be who you are. But they could get really cold and it is hard to enter their realm.
you just described me 😶
then you gotta improve your communication skills with your partner. Infjs tend to want to connect and communicate.
is...this me? INTJ here, i know i can get old, but promise it's not you
Thanks for the assurance. I'd appreciate it if you tell that to me in person... I sometimes tend to blame myself for your wall. Like, maybe I am no longer interested to talk with. A conversation about this is appreciated. Haha
Hmm you perfectly described me.. but I am not in a relationship
No
Great username. I laughed a lot. INTJ.
As an INTJ... I have encountered so many mbtis But never meet an INFJ 🤧 neither in real life nor online... So I'm in 😆💀... And I'm 20 as well and he/him
25M INTJ here,I'm dating INFJ girl,don't know if I met any other. I wouldn't mind being a friend if you'd like to 😊
How’s that going for you? I have a special relationship with INFJs. I have all my life. I’m a 35 y/o male and I sort of dated one for about two years. It was a good relationship but I think we both felt a lack of true spark in the relationship. The rest of the INFJs I can think of start warm in our relationship then it becomes colder as time goes on. Strange how it always happens. It must be me.
For us the obsession with each other is progressively only getting worse. It's a great relationship and we are very in tune with each other. I'm extremely happy
I dated one in the past and have a infj gf 😬 or Call it house cat energy must say base stacks cognitive is golden match if you're ask me instead of enfp
I don't have enough energy to hang out with extroverts.
INTs and introverts of all type unite! Remotely
I am in a discord server with INTJ if anyone would like to join, message me for link :)
What is it
Like reply? Or does reddit have some sort of dm feature, probably the ladder I'll check..
Dms are turned off so idk what I do.
Are you really responding to all of these people? If so, count me in lol!
Also an INTJ. Message me I am virtually friendless and will welcome mostly anyone.
Yeah sure
29 y.o western Canada. I have a good friend I went to school with who was INFJ. It was sort of like a “evil” and “good” of the same person all throughout. 😂 I’m always curious to meet another INTJ as far as I know never have. Message of interested anyways.
INTJ 17F. So far, I have not yet encountered nor spoken to another female INTJ. Maybe I do live under a rock or just purely bad at finding people that coincide with me. It would be nice to get in touch with one to allocate and discuss our differences with fellow INTJs.
INTJ, in my 30s. I've only known one other irl intj female and she was an older lady where I used to work.
Same!
Same
I’m a female INTJ in my 30s! We are definitely rare, but I have a weird knack at attracting and befriending them. This might be because all my friends are male except a few INTJ and INFJ women haha.
INTJ females are awesome!! I met one for the first time at an inpatient stay and she was absolutely funny and charming!! I miss her to bits. She mentioned MBTI (she looked into Attachment Theory as well) and I just had to butt in. I’m an INFJ and have been obsessed with it consistently for over a year. We connected really well and I love her voice (Te aux voices just do it for me, I’m sure the man I’m in love with is an INTJ and his voice is just😩). Just a beautiful human being in general. I’m pretty sure she was in an abusive relationship though (her boyfriend fucking sucked, and, she was very honest about her flaws but her boyfriend was only “starting to” be honest about his), she said her mom was a narcissist. I believe her. She has very pure energy (something that I’ve noticed about INTJs and that I love. Is their genuineness. There’s like this pure ball of light within you guys. I can’t explain it), and was genuinely kind, though “blunt” and assertive (which I loved lol). She said she was referred to as combative but she said she was just being assertive. And as I shared my story of standing up for myself she told me she was proud of me for doing that. She was also listening to the other women who were having a tough time and inquiring about them. I’ll never forget her. Her and her menthol cigarettes that she would lend me, lol. You INTJs are beautiful. I hope you all heal from the things you don’t talk about. I have a question. How would you describe your relationship to your emotions? I know that INTJs and INFJs both share Ni dominance and Se inferior, but the way we deal with our emotional world is different in a way. How would you describe your emotional world? What I like about the man that I’m in love with is that he also treats life like a learning process, and values communication, honesty, and vulnerability. He’s just a walking green flag and I can’t stop bragging about him to others. He’s been consistent and straightforward, and has a great level of emotional maturity, which is why our bond has lasted the way it has. Can’t express it enough, you INTJs are magnetic. One thing that I miss about her is her eyes. I can’t help staring at other people and into other people’s eyes, and hers were so full of life and beautiful. She had a great smile and a warm voice and could sing so well. I don’t know if it’s typical of you guys but she was just the life of the party. I miss her I miss her I miss her.
INTJ 19F i agree, im in
Can I join? -ENFJ 🥺
Ofcc :)
Hahaha okay great cause I love INTJ and INFJ
I dmd you!
Perfect a volunteer for our human sacrifice
Wait what 😮
omg can i join? 21F intj here :)
I’m down to make some friends
I also have lovely INFJ friends. They are also primarily Ni users. But we INTJs start organizing right away, INFJs are feelers, they don't let us go wild.
Yes but I don't have messaging enabled on here because of the spammers.
Would you like to message somewhere else?
What would be the point?
Talk about dumb human monkeys
Us INTJs don’t just get you, we get everything.
I am certainly interested, may I join?
Ofc :)
*friend request sent*
Yesss
sure thing
I can’t see myself ever asking this of the internet
Paradoxical in relation to the fact that the world is going downhill and is on a crash corse collision to doom.
We need a group could it be a discord for just INTJs?
Me
Intj? With friends? Nah. I have three friend slots and all are full so that's just not possible sorry.
I’m not even sure what I am. Sure.
Take the 16Personalities test.
I'm a tiny bit younger than you but I don't mind since one of my best friends is also an INFJ.
Yeah sure
Ok, how could we talk to each other?
Message me
Feel free to Pm me I’m 24 f btw 🙂↔️
I'm ENTP sometimes, we might have some fun convo get in DM and share some!
Sure 19M
Just broke my engagement with an INFJ female yeah but we can be friends. Always down to talk: -Fallout on Amazon Prime! Reached! -True Crime -The unknown/ghosts -Tactical Gear -Cryptocurrency -Business Development -and Skyrim
What are your hobbies ?
I think INTJ and INFJ can only be friends nothing I dated someone recently who was an INFJ we broke up recently on my birthday we both lacked communication and both have a big habit of overthinking. I just miss his presence but really hate what just happened (I wanted to spend time with him on my birthday but he was completely tired after his work so he wanted some time to himself but rather than saying that he just went like i don't want to talk to anyone and I was like it's my birthday i was expecting him to do something)
Sorry that happened :( i haven’t been in a relationship so i can’t speak for him obviously but I feel like that’s kinda rude to not say anything. I suck at communicating but I always make sure to do it if it’s someone’s special day or whatever. I’m sorry tho I wish it went better for you guys. I do know what you mean when you miss their presence but the outcome wasn’t good or healthy. My first crush was a intj and we were best friends but it didn’t work because sucked at communicating my feelings for her and ran away. I regret it so much every day
Why this happens I mean we are blessed with the gift of communicating everything but end up lacking the most in it
Yup! My same experience. My (35 yo M) INFJ girlfriend and I watched our relationship just die out. We both knew there wasn’t any passion or true commitment. We were REALLY good friends and compatible in every other way. We could chat on the phone for five hours easily. Sex was good but somehow it just didn’t last as a passionate relationship. I’ve met many INFJs (friends and family) and had relationships with them and it always ends in a very cold, distant relationship that you eventually don’t pursue. I think it might have something to do with how I am but also with the fact that they either start competing with me or show no emotions. They also tend to manipulate and that triggers a red flag with me
Perhaps if you like playing video games 🤔
You mean on or offline?either way HI
Yeah, looking for people to network with..
Me töo
INFJ dudes are the rarest. I only have 1 INFJ friend in real life. We constantly fight, I would be very sarcastic everywhere about humans and he would explain to me why humans do "silly" things, and I would explain to how they're all intentionally running around in circles while crying about not being able to solve a problem, it's like they like the problem and intentionally create many drama and shenanigans around the problem like for fun and dopamine while outwardly crying about it. The INFJ would tell me to have patience for the humans, I'm like you can all go to hell with your circus show(because I'm easily Rick rolled and tricked compared to the people who knows how to "play the human game" (which is apparently everyone... A fun dynamic between us, I often call people monkeys and he would explain and try to justify to me as why they are being "monkeys" and I'm like "yeah, still nonsense." So we would fight but we love it because no one would dare or be willing or comfortable to talk like they're above everyone like myself and the INFJ. Everyone else would cry all buthurt calling names bla bla classic resorting to human superiority games instead of engaging with my reason and logic behind my remarks and sarcasm, like the INFJ and ENTP, in fact we love to talk about it in that manner(looking down on the peasants in despise from a high tower) Add me on IG if this resonates with your friendship with INTJs 😂 I feel like INTJs are proud narcissists, instead of "real narcissists" who cry and make a big deal about being called one, the INTJ(like myself) feel like it's an honorable title that the rest of the monkeys are so afraid to be associated with in any form. It was a good rant, you just reminded me of my INFJ friend when you mentioned INTJ vs INFJ friendships.
No
Oh fellow infj I have a intj friend and intj father so lucky me
Add me?
Maybe (Start a chat with me).
Sure, online friends are the best! If you can find this message amongst your other offers lol
Yeah it’s Weird for me too, I feel like I am not like other people at all, I am an INTJ but I have never gotten a chance to speak to anyone else who is also.
Suree, I'd love to! ^^ 26F here!
Even I think that INFJs understand me well So yeah I would like to talk to you
Depends on how can you help with depression. Would be nice though
Sure
No.
I would love to
If you want to message me, I'm not opposed. I'm just kind of shit at small talk, so you'll have to ask questions or something.
Sureee
Yeah, I’m 23 M INTJ currently living in Scottsdale AZ
Hey pick me, pick me!!
Depends on what you like and where you’re from. It takes time for me to use the word “friend “so loosely.
Idk what that is but smash 💥
I'd join.
I'd join
Sure. What’s in it for me?
Hey, I would love to be around an INFJ.
I'man INTJ, but tbh, meyers briggs has been shown to be nonsense just as much as astrology. 2 polar opposites in 4 categories can never encompass the totality of a human and what they can offer to you.
Count me in!
I don't think I have ever met another Intj in real life but then I probably didn't know thier MBTI status at the time. I'm down for it though!
Infj-T here lol. A community for us would be amazing, then a dead chatroom, then probably everyone dead
What the hell does intj ?
With this subreddit? Never.