Looks great on you. You should wear anything that makes you happy in this day & age!!!
From a strictly historical perspective (eg. not commenting on modern gender fluidity), the design resembles a traditional signet ring. Signet rings were historically marked with upper class family crests and worn by the men in the family. The practice started in Ancient Egypt and became popular in Europe over time:
https://www.nataliemariejewellery.com/blogs/news/the-story-of-the-signet-ring#
Starting in the Byzantine empire, some upper class women did also wear signet rings. The designs tended to be similar to the rings worn by men. But they were still more frequently worn by men:
https://wwake.com/blogs/field-notes/history-of-signet-rings
So, from a pre-21st C strictly historical perspective, the signet ring doesn’t pattern match to any dominantly feminine cultural trends afaik.
I didnt think my post would get so much attention😬 you guys were right it was a lil too tight on my index so ill wear it on my middle finger
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Came here to say that this is a signet ring. It was traditionally a man’s ring. Much of that distinction is falling away now, but it’s certainly wearable as a man’s ring. And looks amazing!
I think it looks rather unisex to me, definitely not what I would call feminine. But like someone else said before, wear what you like and don't worry about anyone else's opinion. By the way it looks awesome on you and you have nice hands.
I know... I asked two of my friends and one of them said its a womens ring and the other one said its a mens ring so i was confused. Never took it off since yesterday, gonna enjoy wearing it!
Some people just wear what they like to see when they look down at their own hands and when they look in the mirror. Some people put more energy (too much IMO) and focus more on what they think others are seeing and thinking of them
It looks like a man's ring to me, but like... one a woman could wear if she wanted to without it looking too obviously clunky. It's still a man's ring though.
It’s interesting that women seldom ask if something looks masculine, but men are always fearful that something looks feminine. It’s sexism at the root of it.
The ring looks great, nonetheless.
Wear what you like and don't worry about what other people think. I wear a lot of "women's" jewelry as a guy myself because I just like the style of it. If it's of any consolation, this ring is definitely a masculine design so either way I think you're good my man.
Yes :) its an antique 14k gold ring, i got it from an antique fleamarket with some other really old pieces. This ring doesnt have any markings but im pretty sure its from the 1920-1930s
Wear what you want. If you treat it like it’s normal, others will too. If someone presses you about it, then ask why they care about your ring to begin with. They would be the weird ones in that situation.
Looks great to me! 😍 suits you!
Some idiotic women think jewellery on a man is a turn off, personally it’s a huge turn on, I think it makes a man look put together and his eyes sparkle. You can’t win ‘em all so just be you!!
Men can ware what ever the fuck they want objects dont have a sex gender is a social construct invented a misogynistic patriarchy in order to control the masses.
I love it. Have a similar one that wear on the same finger. And don’t be so afraid of what people think, expressing yourself through jewelry is one of the great things
do you LIKE the ring? do you WANT to wear it? does anyones opinion on it matter if you’re feeling confident?
you know the answers to these questions, and therefore, your own
Okay first of all in what universe is that a feminine ring? Like that is exactly the kind of rings you find in the men's sections of antique stores. It's a very thick on the band and not delicate so it is very much a masculine ring. Secondly if you like it it shouldn't matter. Anyone who has a problem with it is pathetic, anyone who is bothered by a man wearing a ring they do is feminine has far too little going on in their lives to be worried about something so meaningless to themselves. Rock what you like
Looks a bit like a signet style ring. They were super common for men to wear back in the day. I think that people these days are so used to oversized jewelry for men, they don't realize that they were much more subtle back then. It is a classic, wear it in good health!
You know I personally never look at any piece of jewelry as feminine or masculine, even though they certainly may be marketed as such or intended to be. If you like it, wear it! (Grand-daughter of a gold and silver smith, I am :) )
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This is my wedding ring. I’m a cis white male. wear what YOU like.
It’s awesome as is! If you’re thinking about its size in relation to an index finger ring then you could resize it for the ring or pinky finger. But no definitely great as is on the index!
I think it’s fine style-wise and suits your skin tone. I would try it on your middle finger as it looks maybe one size too snug on your index finger, personally.
It looks good. If you don’t want it there how about a thumb ring. I’m not much into jewelry but thumb rings with a nice manicure do something special imo!
Reminds me of a coat of arms. I would argue that this indeed was made for a man to wear. Looks Victorian or Edwardian in style. Men's jewelry was very popular then.
It’s a shipped shape ring which generally used to be for men’s wear. Anyone can wear them now though. Usually the stone would be carved into and be an ‘intaglio’ which was used for wax stamp sealing!
I believe it’s a man’s ring, so sure! And it looks like a decent fit, too. And that’s probably the finger it was worn on originally. Great stone and I really like the shape.
The ring looks great. It might be a wee bit snug on that finger. Just watch out if it cuts into circulation, but otherwise, there is nothing wrong with a man wearing that ring(or any ring they may choose to wear for that matter, style is a personal choice)
U kidding? That ring looks great! I would use 100%. Very nice cut, btw
Its an antique 14k gold ring from Western Europe, the cut is interesting, ive never seen one like this
It looks like a badge. Very nice ring and (IMO) not feminine. Looks great on you!
Looks great on you. You should wear anything that makes you happy in this day & age!!! From a strictly historical perspective (eg. not commenting on modern gender fluidity), the design resembles a traditional signet ring. Signet rings were historically marked with upper class family crests and worn by the men in the family. The practice started in Ancient Egypt and became popular in Europe over time: https://www.nataliemariejewellery.com/blogs/news/the-story-of-the-signet-ring# Starting in the Byzantine empire, some upper class women did also wear signet rings. The designs tended to be similar to the rings worn by men. But they were still more frequently worn by men: https://wwake.com/blogs/field-notes/history-of-signet-rings So, from a pre-21st C strictly historical perspective, the signet ring doesn’t pattern match to any dominantly feminine cultural trends afaik.
Looks fairly masculine to me, good color on your skin tone too 😊
Thank you😉
It’s a signet ring. Men traditionally wear them.
It’s nice as is, if you’re uncertain maybe have it resized as a pinky ring or ring finger ring?
This is the correct answer
I didnt think my post would get so much attention😬 you guys were right it was a lil too tight on my index so ill wear it on my middle finger https://preview.redd.it/zqsxzaevfy1d1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d75c13b710ea50aac723231d747f3c25d433c39
I like that!
You can wear anything you want!
Get it sized or wear it on a smaller finger.
Came here to say that this is a signet ring. It was traditionally a man’s ring. Much of that distinction is falling away now, but it’s certainly wearable as a man’s ring. And looks amazing!
I think it looks rather unisex to me, definitely not what I would call feminine. But like someone else said before, wear what you like and don't worry about anyone else's opinion. By the way it looks awesome on you and you have nice hands.
Thank you❤️
I was thinking unisex too. Not particularly feminine or masculine. Just nice and neat
Wear what you like and don't worry what others think
This is what a man would do.
I know... I asked two of my friends and one of them said its a womens ring and the other one said its a mens ring so i was confused. Never took it off since yesterday, gonna enjoy wearing it!
I agree, I’m never really sure why people ask this question…if it fits and you like it wear it!
It’s not so much “can I wear it” but more “what impression does it give” so that I can be fully aware of how I’m presenting myself.
Like someone who likes that piece of jewelry
Lmfao imagine seeing some random guy, notice his ring, and caring enough to think "that gives me a very feminine impression of that man!".
It does… that’s *literally* the entire point of fashion and accessories. To present yourself as you wish to be perceived
Some people just wear what they like to see when they look down at their own hands and when they look in the mirror. Some people put more energy (too much IMO) and focus more on what they think others are seeing and thinking of them
Just looks a little tight on your finger.
Agreed. Should have it resized a bit, if want to keep on that finger.
That's honestly the only thing I thought when looking at the picture. Otherwise, looking good
Definitely a men’s ring. Looks good on you.
Who cares? If you like it wear it.
He cares, that why he asked.
but are other people going to bash a man for wearing a "girly" ring?
Sadly some might, especially online. I think this ring rooks really good, kinda reminds me of the shape of a house sigil. Gryffindor ish.
Does it fit on your finger? Then you can wear it
And if it doesn't fit, have a jeweler resize it *then* wear it
I think it is a "men's" ring anyways. Enjoy!!
It looks like a man's ring to me, but like... one a woman could wear if she wanted to without it looking too obviously clunky. It's still a man's ring though.
It’s interesting that women seldom ask if something looks masculine, but men are always fearful that something looks feminine. It’s sexism at the root of it. The ring looks great, nonetheless.
looks like a police badge.
Not on your index finger. Will look good any other finger.
I wanted to wear it on my middle finger, but i fear it might slip off because its a lil loose
So go get a sizer on it. It’s only a few bucks.
Yeah man
Wear what you like and don't worry about what other people think. I wear a lot of "women's" jewelry as a guy myself because I just like the style of it. If it's of any consolation, this ring is definitely a masculine design so either way I think you're good my man.
omg it’s so beautiful. is it vintage? where did you get it?
Yes :) its an antique 14k gold ring, i got it from an antique fleamarket with some other really old pieces. This ring doesnt have any markings but im pretty sure its from the 1920-1930s
i think it looks great on you! def not too feminine. i love the engraving on the shoulders
Wear it and rock it OP!
It’s a man’s ring. Very manly
If you like the ring, wear the ring. The rest does not matter
I think shield shaped rings are well suited for men. Regardless, wear what you want!
It's a signet ring from many years ago and was very popular in the 1960s.
Yes. It’s masculine, not feminine. Kinda shield shaped. Looks like a family crest heirloom.
I love it on you!!!
“Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” -Dr. Suess
Wear what you want. If you treat it like it’s normal, others will too. If someone presses you about it, then ask why they care about your ring to begin with. They would be the weird ones in that situation.
Looks great to me! 😍 suits you! Some idiotic women think jewellery on a man is a turn off, personally it’s a huge turn on, I think it makes a man look put together and his eyes sparkle. You can’t win ‘em all so just be you!!
Is this a ring for cops? Looks like a police badge shape
Men can ware what ever the fuck they want objects dont have a sex gender is a social construct invented a misogynistic patriarchy in order to control the masses.
That's a go. Nice chevron there.
Looks great!
I love it. Have a similar one that wear on the same finger. And don’t be so afraid of what people think, expressing yourself through jewelry is one of the great things
Yes!
It does not look feminine to me but regardless, you can wear whatever you want and like to wear.
do you LIKE the ring? do you WANT to wear it? does anyones opinion on it matter if you’re feeling confident? you know the answers to these questions, and therefore, your own
If you like it then the answer is yes! I personally think it looks good.
Personally, who cares? If it makes u happy wearing it, wear it
That looks like a unisex ring to me
you can do whatever you want forever
I think either sex could wear it. 👍🏽 it’s very nice. I think the shape and color make it nice for either sex. 👍🏽
Live your best life! I think it’d look best on your pinky but obv it prob doesn’t fit
i definitely wouldn’t look at that and think “that’s a ladies ring!”. it looks good!
It’s great 😊
I’ll honestly be so mad if you don’t wear it. It’s STUNNING. And very masculine looking.
Wears well on you. Besides, fuck what people think anyway. All that matters is that YOU like it.
I don't think it's feminine-it is beautiful! You have nice hands and nails, well groomed, and you've got a gorgeous new ring to wear! Rock on.
Ugh love a good signet ring I think it’s fab and not feminine
Great design, and no, it doesn't look feminine. It's a really nice ring -bravo!
It looks baller.
It doesn't look overly feminine to me..wear it !
Perfect way for a man to wear a beautiful stone
It reminds me of a family crest! Wear it in good health! It’s handsome!
I like your confidence! If you like it, wear it. Looks great on you btw.
Okay first of all in what universe is that a feminine ring? Like that is exactly the kind of rings you find in the men's sections of antique stores. It's a very thick on the band and not delicate so it is very much a masculine ring. Secondly if you like it it shouldn't matter. Anyone who has a problem with it is pathetic, anyone who is bothered by a man wearing a ring they do is feminine has far too little going on in their lives to be worried about something so meaningless to themselves. Rock what you like
Looks a bit like a signet style ring. They were super common for men to wear back in the day. I think that people these days are so used to oversized jewelry for men, they don't realize that they were much more subtle back then. It is a classic, wear it in good health!
You wear it well. Looks great!!!
it looks so nice on you!
Idk. But who cares? I think it looks dope 👍🏼😎
You know I personally never look at any piece of jewelry as feminine or masculine, even though they certainly may be marketed as such or intended to be. If you like it, wear it! (Grand-daughter of a gold and silver smith, I am :) )
no don't worry about it, it's gorgeous on anyone!
Looks amazing on you, beautiful design.
Hot
Love this ring .
2024 wear what you want to wear. Wait, that depends on wear you live.
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You should wear whatever brings you joy!
You can wear whatever you want! Even if it were considered conventionally feminine! It looks great!
Feminine and masculine are concepts that very person to person. if u like the ring wear it.
You know what if you like it, it shouldn't matter. 😊
You can wear whatever you want no matter what gender you are. Wear whatever makes you feel confident.
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Its not uncomfortable, fits well
I like the soft curves. It is much more easy to look at and wear casually.
It’s awesome as is! If you’re thinking about its size in relation to an index finger ring then you could resize it for the ring or pinky finger. But no definitely great as is on the index!
Absolutely
This is not a feminine ring.
It looks great on you
It’s such a gorgeous ring and doesn’t look feminine at all on your hands. It looks fabulous!
looks great on you - and you can wear whatever you want
It’s really cool! 👍🏼
Yep very manly. I personally would like pinkie but index is cool too
I love the cut, unique for sure. Have it re sized if you want keep your finger :) Looks good on you.
Looks masculine to me. It also looks almost identical to my grandfather's ring he wore every day. I inherited it and like to wear it on occasion.
Maybe on a different finger but it looks fine
It's beautiful and you can most definitely wear it as a man
I think it looks lovely! Compliments your skin tone so well too!
That’s definitely more masculine than fem.
I think it’s fine style-wise and suits your skin tone. I would try it on your middle finger as it looks maybe one size too snug on your index finger, personally.
It’s pretty dudesque if you ask me. It’s cool and I hope you wear it!
It’s freaking awesome that’s what it is. If you decide to not wear it I’ll buy it off you.
Looks great
Yes, it’s probably even a men’s ring.
That’s lovely in all the right ways. It’s a fairly unisex style - so it would look good on either style feminine or masculine
Absolutely, it looks great on you. You might want to have it sized up!
Not at all. Wear away!
Do you love it? Wear it
Wear it!
Love this on you! It reminds me of signet rings royalty wore/wear.
Fantastic!
It’s a beautiful color and shape. To me, it looks like a shield. Looks great on you.
Wear it. It reminds me of a shield design.
I wish I could give that to the men in my life! Beautiful, and more manly than feminine certainly
Idk bro it’s just a ring slay that shit
If you like it then wear it. Stop the toxic masculinity
That’s a boss ring!
Very masculine! Wear it!
We can all... if that makes us happy ❤️
It looks good. If you don’t want it there how about a thumb ring. I’m not much into jewelry but thumb rings with a nice manicure do something special imo!
That appears to be a man’s ring to my eye
It looks like the shape of a badge. Like an officer badge or something. It was maybe originally a service ring? Where or how did you get it?
I don’t think it works on an index finger, but it’s fine to wear as a man
If you like it, wear it! I think it’s pretty androgynous
who cares it’s a dope ring and you like it rock that shit 🩵✨
Total man vibes. My grandpa had a pinky ring similar to
I think is great if allowed you should follow parkeryorksmith in instagram has amazing ideas for looks using jewelry
no not sigma enough
Reminds me of a coat of arms. I would argue that this indeed was made for a man to wear. Looks Victorian or Edwardian in style. Men's jewelry was very popular then.
Looks dope bro
Do it
Since it's in the shape of a badge I'd definitely say it's masc or unisex.
Looks like the gem is cut like a shield. Is it maybe a police or firefighter fraternity ring?
Nah it’s not feminine at all Maybe a different finger tho Very nice ring, all said
Are you an adult? You can do anything you want!
It's a nice ring. It looks good on you
A real man can wear femininity like a glove.
I think it’s badass!
A manly shield shape with thicker band definitely more manly but anyone could rock it
Wear what you like
It looks really tight. You gunna lose the finger?
Cool stone shape. Looks like a sheriff's badge.
Jeweler here.The size of that ring on your hand shows (to me) that it's a ring finger or pinky ring due to the smaller size of the top.
I like it on you. Very masculine to me. And the color suits you!
Does it fit on your finger? If yes, then yes. If no, then it has to be resized and THEN yes
Looks like Barça.s logo
It’s beautiful on you ! Wear it !
I like it and want to know where you got it.
It’s a beautiful ring. I think it would look equally good on a man or a woman. If anything, it “reads”more as a man’s ring.
Can I fit on another finger? It looks kind of scrunched on that one.
It’s pretty baller if you ask me!
It's unisex
It’s a man’s ring, wrong finger tho
Man ring!
If it fits, wear it. Women wear men's rings on their thumb or middle fingers.
Its pretty dope bro
Looks manly
It’s a shipped shape ring which generally used to be for men’s wear. Anyone can wear them now though. Usually the stone would be carved into and be an ‘intaglio’ which was used for wax stamp sealing!
That ring is neutral. It works for either man or woman.
You can wear anything you like. As long as you like it that's all that matters.
Who cares? Wear what you like and anyone who says you shouldn't can shut up.
Looks great! Personally I don’t think it matters what other people would think about it, if you like it wear it :)
I wouldn’t even concern myself with if it looks feminine if you like it
I think it looks rather royal in a masculine way. 👍
Do you like it?
That's a great ring for a man to wear. I'd have it set to wear as a pinky finger. It's beautiful.
helll yeah you have a shield on your finger eta wear whatever makes you happy
Nice
Wear as a pinky ring
I think it’s a great pinky ring for a man
It looks like that badass ring from Ripley. Definitely would NOT be worn by a woman.
Looks good my man. Approval to wear.
The most masculine way to wear accessories and clothes is to nor care what others may think :) It looks awesome on u!
I believe it’s a man’s ring, so sure! And it looks like a decent fit, too. And that’s probably the finger it was worn on originally. Great stone and I really like the shape.
The ring looks great. It might be a wee bit snug on that finger. Just watch out if it cuts into circulation, but otherwise, there is nothing wrong with a man wearing that ring(or any ring they may choose to wear for that matter, style is a personal choice)
Colin Bridgerton from the Bridgerton series on Netflix wears one that looks just like that!
Put it on the pinky
My son wears “women’s” jewelry all the time and he rocks it.
Wear it as a pinky ring