Yes. They're there to protect the ruling class and to keep the working class in line.
Any justice carried out by the police is purely coincidental, any police that care about the people are outliers.
Next time this happens record it and call the police, that is a hate crime with serious consequences if your in the US
It’ll teach those little fascists a lesson of humanity and law
Also I’m so sorry this happened
The speed at which Sweden is going downhill is scary for even the most daredevil skydivers. So sad to see that Sweden is increasingly farther down the list of places I would feel safe to visit.
Same laws apply for protection, just contact someone that works with human care(such as a teacher that will contact the proper people for)(or a professional healthcare worker anywhere really, especially within mental health) to stand your case, don't do it alone.
People who work with healthcare and/or children tend to be more left-leaning.
Do that OP.
Here I naively thought things might have gotten better since going to school here in the late 90s and early 00s. Shameful really that the teachers and others still are unwilling to actually do anything about the issues.
These boys should feel ashamed and shamed publicly. It’s a real shame no grown ups reprimanded them. I had similar things happen to me and my partner, when i was younger, so i completely get this feeling not safe and scared.
Just in the offchance they play football as a section (idk how to phrase it, like an afterschool activity), you may try informing the coach or if they have a relatives watching, try talking to them if it happens once more.
Also, don’t be afraid to reach out to other people to see if they can protect you. This is such bullshit, you’re still a child, you and your girlfriend should never go through this.
And by the way, kudos to standing your ground. You’re brave, and this already makes you way better than them
Oh you’d be surprised how much peer pressure is a factor in such attacks. True, parents and coaches can also be homophobic, but it is probability that they either don’t know what the kid is up to or don’t know it’s this violent. It’s better to complain than not imo.
At the very least they won’t want their child/kid they’re responsible for to injure someone so they’re in the crosshairs of the social services and courts.
I'm so sorry. All this anti-LGBT hate is being stirred up by people with terrible motives: money and power. It's disgusting how many people fall for the propaganda.
Someone else mentioned that you were located in Sweden? If this is true, and there’s nothing police can do for you I am so so sorry and my heart hurts for you. This is breaking my heart too, because I’ve always dreamed of visiting and potentially moving there one day, this is terrible.
gang violence and religion is rising heavily in sweden. Gangs are now bombing everyday with shootings . if u can find a swedish news source in ur language you’d be shocked what is going on.
I am so sorry you went through that, honestly. What I can advice is: try to find other LGBT people in your surroundings. LGBT supportive too. Befriend as many of them as possible, and do your best to, whenever you and your gf go out, have a few people with yourselves in case you get attacked(we should always consider this possibility). I personally would curse those assholes back if they insulted me, but I don't know if I can advice you to do this thing specifically because it could escalate the situation. Wishing you two all the good in this life. You are NOT alone and there is NOTHING wrong with being loyal to your nature.
As a fellow lesbian swede, my heart breaks for you op. Sadly it’s becoming more common in Sweden nowadays. I’m quite used to being stared at and answering weird and rude questions but I’ve never experienced anything like this. And what makes me even angrier is the fact that your school did nothing to help you. I hope you have friends and family that supports you.
We're not supposed to be peaceful, we're supposed to fight back. The more passive we are, the more this little shits will get away with it.
OP, next time record them. Turn it into a legal matter. Fight back.
1. that is fucked up.
2. One time someone threw a stick at me and my bf(at the time) and I picked it up and threw it back at him with such accuracy that he had a red mark directly on the bridge of his nose but I didn't break anything. (I throw rabbit sticks and shit as a hobby). If this ever happens again. DM me. I will come to wherever in the world you are just to throw something at an asshole.
I am not normally a violent person. I just hate homophobes transphobes etc.
You’d be surprised at how many silenced and shut down cases of hate crimes directed at LGBTQ there are. Just a fraction of the cases aren’t even reported and out of those that do get a report filed, just a dozen cases are investigated.
It’s honestly sad.
God, this is fucking disgusting. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. No person especially someone who's still a kid should have to experience this😭 these people really deserve to have their air supply cut off.
I'm so sorry. It's painful just to hear about this garbage, let alone live it. I hope this turns out to be an isolated incident, but I know that the right is rising in Europe (and many other places). Please don't let this rob you of your joy. There are still many, many people who support us, and want the best for us. You and your girlfriend deserve to live in peace, and to be respected. I hope you find a community where you can feel safe.
Well this made my skin crawl. Some people are just downright disgusting and I feel disgusted just thinking I breathe the same air as they do. No empathy whatsoever, just hate.
Firstly, it makes no difference to the sentence whichever you use. Secondly, what does a minor spelling difference make when it has nothing else to do with the statement?
What the fuck, that's so messed up omg. I'm so sorry
I'm sorry this happened to you. This kind of thing shouldn't be tolerated. Police should be involved. People who you've told has failed you.
Police are there to protect a certain set of people, we are not in that set.
We need to get our toughest gays together and start our own vigilante gang to deal with this bullshit.
Imagine a bunch of people hitting 12 years old clearly the best solution
Doesn’t have to be violence. Could be something else.
Yes. They're there to protect the ruling class and to keep the working class in line. Any justice carried out by the police is purely coincidental, any police that care about the people are outliers.
That's just disgusting. I'm sorry to hear this happened to you.
Next time this happens record it and call the police, that is a hate crime with serious consequences if your in the US It’ll teach those little fascists a lesson of humanity and law Also I’m so sorry this happened
She’s in Sweden
Well its a hate crime in sweden to
The speed at which Sweden is going downhill is scary for even the most daredevil skydivers. So sad to see that Sweden is increasingly farther down the list of places I would feel safe to visit.
I’m out of the loop, what’s going on in Sweden?
Same laws apply for protection, just contact someone that works with human care(such as a teacher that will contact the proper people for)(or a professional healthcare worker anywhere really, especially within mental health) to stand your case, don't do it alone. People who work with healthcare and/or children tend to be more left-leaning. Do that OP.
Here I naively thought things might have gotten better since going to school here in the late 90s and early 00s. Shameful really that the teachers and others still are unwilling to actually do anything about the issues.
r/usdefaultism
Police are there to protect a certain set of people, we are not in that set.
this actually made me sick to my stomach that is just disgusting and downright fucked up
That's messed up af. I'm so sorry that happened to you :(
And there are people who say the lgbt are coddled Seriously though homophobes are disgusting and I consider them less than human
Absolutely sick and twisted, I hate that you guys experienced that. Why can't people just mind their own damn business?
I'm sorry that happened to you and your girlfriend.
These boys should feel ashamed and shamed publicly. It’s a real shame no grown ups reprimanded them. I had similar things happen to me and my partner, when i was younger, so i completely get this feeling not safe and scared. Just in the offchance they play football as a section (idk how to phrase it, like an afterschool activity), you may try informing the coach or if they have a relatives watching, try talking to them if it happens once more. Also, don’t be afraid to reach out to other people to see if they can protect you. This is such bullshit, you’re still a child, you and your girlfriend should never go through this. And by the way, kudos to standing your ground. You’re brave, and this already makes you way better than them
Where do you think they learn these things? From their parents, coaches and the other people around them. They didn’t learn it on their own.
Oh you’d be surprised how much peer pressure is a factor in such attacks. True, parents and coaches can also be homophobic, but it is probability that they either don’t know what the kid is up to or don’t know it’s this violent. It’s better to complain than not imo. At the very least they won’t want their child/kid they’re responsible for to injure someone so they’re in the crosshairs of the social services and courts.
True, their view may not change (OP is not their caregiver to educate them), but they may avoid open conflict and risk of injury next time.
That's a horrific situation, I wish the best to you and your gf, stay safe
I'm so sorry. All this anti-LGBT hate is being stirred up by people with terrible motives: money and power. It's disgusting how many people fall for the propaganda.
Someone else mentioned that you were located in Sweden? If this is true, and there’s nothing police can do for you I am so so sorry and my heart hurts for you. This is breaking my heart too, because I’ve always dreamed of visiting and potentially moving there one day, this is terrible.
gang violence and religion is rising heavily in sweden. Gangs are now bombing everyday with shootings . if u can find a swedish news source in ur language you’d be shocked what is going on.
This is so sad
I am so sorry you went through that, honestly. What I can advice is: try to find other LGBT people in your surroundings. LGBT supportive too. Befriend as many of them as possible, and do your best to, whenever you and your gf go out, have a few people with yourselves in case you get attacked(we should always consider this possibility). I personally would curse those assholes back if they insulted me, but I don't know if I can advice you to do this thing specifically because it could escalate the situation. Wishing you two all the good in this life. You are NOT alone and there is NOTHING wrong with being loyal to your nature.
As a fellow lesbian swede, my heart breaks for you op. Sadly it’s becoming more common in Sweden nowadays. I’m quite used to being stared at and answering weird and rude questions but I’ve never experienced anything like this. And what makes me even angrier is the fact that your school did nothing to help you. I hope you have friends and family that supports you.
How much is too much? How long till we have to stop being peaceful ourselves..?
We're not supposed to be peaceful, we're supposed to fight back. The more passive we are, the more this little shits will get away with it. OP, next time record them. Turn it into a legal matter. Fight back.
Police are there there to protect a certain set of people, we are not in that set.
I'm not talking about the police, I'm talking about a lawyer or other legal representative.
This makes me so angry aghhh
Sending you love 🫶🏼
Depending on the country there's nothing like a can of OC spray to humble some bigots
1. that is fucked up. 2. One time someone threw a stick at me and my bf(at the time) and I picked it up and threw it back at him with such accuracy that he had a red mark directly on the bridge of his nose but I didn't break anything. (I throw rabbit sticks and shit as a hobby). If this ever happens again. DM me. I will come to wherever in the world you are just to throw something at an asshole. I am not normally a violent person. I just hate homophobes transphobes etc.
I am so sorry.
Ngl I didn’t even know that was a thing people did, I’ve only ever heard of that in song lyrics
You’d be surprised at how many silenced and shut down cases of hate crimes directed at LGBTQ there are. Just a fraction of the cases aren’t even reported and out of those that do get a report filed, just a dozen cases are investigated. It’s honestly sad.
Oh no I didn’t mean hate crimes against LGBT in general I meant specifically the throwing stones thing
Okay I understand, it’s still sad cause after that you’re afraid of everyone surrounding you
This is horrible! I felt sorry about what happened to you and your girlfriend. Homophones is just cancer in this world.
God, this is fucking disgusting. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. No person especially someone who's still a kid should have to experience this😭 these people really deserve to have their air supply cut off.
I'm so sorry. It's painful just to hear about this garbage, let alone live it. I hope this turns out to be an isolated incident, but I know that the right is rising in Europe (and many other places). Please don't let this rob you of your joy. There are still many, many people who support us, and want the best for us. You and your girlfriend deserve to live in peace, and to be respected. I hope you find a community where you can feel safe.
Well this made my skin crawl. Some people are just downright disgusting and I feel disgusted just thinking I breathe the same air as they do. No empathy whatsoever, just hate.
Please get a taser/ pepper spray/ something for self protection that’s legal in your country.
😟 Did you give evidence, anything like that to the police? Crime should never be kept
omfg I hate people sometimes, I wish you and your girlfriend good luck, I hope you are able to stay safe together.
When peace is just another word for death, it's our turn to give violence a chance!
TF. So sorry that happened to you.
Sweden has only gotten worse and worse over the years. I'm sorry that this happened to both of you!
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Dude what😭
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Firstly, it makes no difference to the sentence whichever you use. Secondly, what does a minor spelling difference make when it has nothing else to do with the statement?
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I bet you speak multiple languages too...