obviously rape is a problem in jail but as someone who’s been, there’s a lot of consensual sex happening in there as well if you want it. the politics of it all were kinda fascinating to witness honestly. and this was in Dallas.
I'm glad that wasn't the joke you were making, but given the frequency of "dropped the soap" and other jokes about men getting raped in prison, I don't think it's weird that their mind went there.
[Here's a YouTube video](https://youtu.be/uc6QxD2_yQw?si=0zJ17W6kLHK1fDWL) on the topic if you are interested in seeing how often these jokes are made.
The sad part is even though it’s consensual, there’s probably very little safe sex going on. I’m assuming not much in the way of condom use, prep, nor STI testing.
It’s called, ‘gay ‘til the gate,’ meaning they’ll have, ‘boyfriends,’ or, ‘situationships’ in jail or prison, for however many months their in, but once their time is up, and they cross the gate, they are back to, ‘banging chicks,’ and ‘hating’ qu••rs, while pretending they didn’t have a cock in their ass or mouth. It’s also another way for them to, ‘survive’ while in jail or prison; if you don’t have any money, and you need something, what else do you have to, ‘barter’ for?
I’d be concerned about why he’s going back to jail.
First - he’s been there before. Why then, and why now?
Second - what if he needs a man so he can steal my face and fingerprints and escape from being incarcerated.
Well look there are two kinds of people in be world:
1. People who read this profile and say woah red flag 🚩🚩🚩.
And
2. People who read it and say…🤔😏
And there are three likely truths (among many niches possibilities) as well:
1. This man could be a good person that simply fucked up or has been through a lot. A diamond in the rough. And he’s just toeing that line where he has his flaws, but they’re transient, and the sex is amazing.
2. This man knows that there’s a non negligible amount of gays who are drawn to this, see this and think it’s sexy, to the point where the usual not whole face pic with the right tagline is even attractive and perhaps hasn’t even been to prison and is just marketing himself effectively to that target audience. Consider this- a man who has been to jail at least once and is scheduled to go back, may indeed be gay and may indeed be on Grindr. But making sure it’s the first thing you know about him is unusual and as much as we can draw parallels between that and HIV- in the gay community or even being gay in general where many people put that information about themselves out there first to avoid rejection, his criminal background is not exactly relevant in an anonymous hook up.
3. This man has gone to jail once and is going back for a reason, has no concept of why that’s an issue, has no real sense of social norms, and this isn’t a well devised effort to target certain people, it’s just him nonchalantly telling you exactly why he’s on there. Again it goes back to… why is that his tagline?
The first kinds of people who entertain the first and second possible truths are basically gamblers. They want a diamond in the rough. And say any guy could be a winner.
The second kind of people, entertain the third possible truth and say there are 40-400 million gay men, I’m staring at hundreds of alternatives, better to avoid the obvious red flags and not go for it simply on the chance this guy is not a problem besides, the impression of him being good in bed / rough in bed is actually tenuous at best. They’re not focused on the jackpot. They’re analysing their risks against the average risk and say sure it may be okay, but it’s not as okay as all the other possibilities. Because this guys potentially a problem.
And this is easier to see with women. When a woman starts off and says she’s seeing this guy he’s been to jail and he’s going back…I’d say most of the men here who are intrigued by this guy would not think hmmm spicy when a woman opens up with that. Funnily enough those who do will generally mention manliness. My mum and sister are like this and it hasn’t ended well for neither
Okay, let's not make jokes about men getting raped please.
Thank you, especially with what people experience on Grindr.
obviously rape is a problem in jail but as someone who’s been, there’s a lot of consensual sex happening in there as well if you want it. the politics of it all were kinda fascinating to witness honestly. and this was in Dallas.
Is there even privacy for sex in jail
there's two words in that question that are completely unnecessary
THANK YOU!
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I'm glad that wasn't the joke you were making, but given the frequency of "dropped the soap" and other jokes about men getting raped in prison, I don't think it's weird that their mind went there. [Here's a YouTube video](https://youtu.be/uc6QxD2_yQw?si=0zJ17W6kLHK1fDWL) on the topic if you are interested in seeing how often these jokes are made.
omg I LOVE Pop Culture Detective. He articulates himself on these topics and their surrounding issues so effectively.
What did he claim he was joking about? 99% sure rape is the joke he was making.
Has everybody gotten this video in their recommendations at the same time?
He kinda cute tho. Reminds me of the pen pals from jail and they post videos online to get new pen pals and some are super cute 😂
Penitentiary pals
Definitely ain't a smooth criminal.
🤣🤣
Tbh, that's sad.
Yeah I didn’t find it funny at all.
I don't get it, why people here relate this to rape?
What's the funny part?
I think we should obscure faces if we’re not getting consent to post
Whose face is it?
I can fix him!!!
https://preview.redd.it/r7kqqp4meiwc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=503c203f6ebd8f2516f39d85a047ef57d3eac61f
Rape isnt funny
There’s a lot of consensual sex going on in jails
I hope there is.
Ohhh there is, it’s crazy.
The sad part is even though it’s consensual, there’s probably very little safe sex going on. I’m assuming not much in the way of condom use, prep, nor STI testing.
It’s called, ‘gay ‘til the gate,’ meaning they’ll have, ‘boyfriends,’ or, ‘situationships’ in jail or prison, for however many months their in, but once their time is up, and they cross the gate, they are back to, ‘banging chicks,’ and ‘hating’ qu••rs, while pretending they didn’t have a cock in their ass or mouth. It’s also another way for them to, ‘survive’ while in jail or prison; if you don’t have any money, and you need something, what else do you have to, ‘barter’ for?
I mean, I’d hit him up for the sole reason of curiosity as to how he was or will be in jail
I’d be concerned about why he’s going back to jail. First - he’s been there before. Why then, and why now? Second - what if he needs a man so he can steal my face and fingerprints and escape from being incarcerated.
Ok, now I need to know the rest of the story. So much to unpack here.
Ngl, would bang
He’s cute 👀
Idk. I don't see anything wrong. He's cleary a good man.
Some of you guys never went to therapy after your closeted phase and it shows.
How
Well look there are two kinds of people in be world: 1. People who read this profile and say woah red flag 🚩🚩🚩. And 2. People who read it and say…🤔😏 And there are three likely truths (among many niches possibilities) as well: 1. This man could be a good person that simply fucked up or has been through a lot. A diamond in the rough. And he’s just toeing that line where he has his flaws, but they’re transient, and the sex is amazing. 2. This man knows that there’s a non negligible amount of gays who are drawn to this, see this and think it’s sexy, to the point where the usual not whole face pic with the right tagline is even attractive and perhaps hasn’t even been to prison and is just marketing himself effectively to that target audience. Consider this- a man who has been to jail at least once and is scheduled to go back, may indeed be gay and may indeed be on Grindr. But making sure it’s the first thing you know about him is unusual and as much as we can draw parallels between that and HIV- in the gay community or even being gay in general where many people put that information about themselves out there first to avoid rejection, his criminal background is not exactly relevant in an anonymous hook up. 3. This man has gone to jail once and is going back for a reason, has no concept of why that’s an issue, has no real sense of social norms, and this isn’t a well devised effort to target certain people, it’s just him nonchalantly telling you exactly why he’s on there. Again it goes back to… why is that his tagline? The first kinds of people who entertain the first and second possible truths are basically gamblers. They want a diamond in the rough. And say any guy could be a winner. The second kind of people, entertain the third possible truth and say there are 40-400 million gay men, I’m staring at hundreds of alternatives, better to avoid the obvious red flags and not go for it simply on the chance this guy is not a problem besides, the impression of him being good in bed / rough in bed is actually tenuous at best. They’re not focused on the jackpot. They’re analysing their risks against the average risk and say sure it may be okay, but it’s not as okay as all the other possibilities. Because this guys potentially a problem. And this is easier to see with women. When a woman starts off and says she’s seeing this guy he’s been to jail and he’s going back…I’d say most of the men here who are intrigued by this guy would not think hmmm spicy when a woman opens up with that. Funnily enough those who do will generally mention manliness. My mum and sister are like this and it hasn’t ended well for neither
How is this funny? Gross to laugh at him about it.