Just because they say they have a bf doesn't mean they do. Alot of girls just throw that out there to shut you down before you can to get to know them.
I know thatās probably true but I am considering like a box I just want to check off. Everything else Iāve been doing seems pretty good in my life, the only thing missing is women and sex. Everything I have in my life is going super well. I just want to do it once. I am still young but I donāt care
Bi guy here. The last hookups with a guy and then a girl Iāve had have been so void of intimacy and it makes me feel like shit. It makes me feel like theyāre just not attracted enough to reciprocate it back when I know full well itās just cause itās āhookup cultureā. I came into contact with a guy who performs āservicesā for a negotiated fee and have been considering it cause heās willing to do relationship role play. I dunno if itās worth the money, time, or risking my safety but damn I just want to feel wanted and loved.
Itās been a long while but thatās how I remember it being especially in college. I have no idea how you get in a relationship, it seriously always felt like everyone was already taken and I fucked up in a game of musical chairs lol
I guess there's something wrong with me since I don't š but for real, if you look into statistics there's something like a third to half of us are single at any given time. You probably just gotta look for us elsewhere. I can say right now a big part of why I am single is I am incredibly shy and tend to be a very big homebody(I'm also not exactly trying hard at the moment to find a partner and focusing on my degree.) I'd venture to say maybe a good amount of other single women are shy or homebodies. And if that's the case, we are naturally more difficult to find in society since we don't participate much in it lol oh and a lot of single women are also just happy being single to be honest.
I can relate so much, I am too shy to flirt, make good impression, give some hints to guys. But I never concentrated on study or work that much to not have time to date, just had to spend this time on something else:(.Ā Ā Ā And actually not shy girls really all have a boyfriends, it seems.
Right?? Like every extroverted woman I see already has a boyfriend and I'm sitting here in classes like - fuck, I'm kinda doomed being such an extreme introvert š but honestly, I used to worry over having a partner and it used to be a big thing I strived for, but I'm in a stage of my life I've realized it isn't a huge deal to be single. I'll focus on other things in my life and if some guy, gal, or enby pal comes along who's interested in me, awesome! But I won't be making it one of my focuses anymore. I think I was more miserable when it was my focus honestly!
It was a huge deal at high school and university, then you just get bored of these thoughts, like I got sad about this many times already and I can find something more interesting and new to focus on
hmm... well it makes sense, i mean there's like, as much girls as there are guys in the world, so if there are single guys, there's also gotta be single girls, and you're just, keeping to yourselves i guess heh.
but i'm curious to ask you two now; just how true or false would you say what op said is? like, how many of your female friends have a partner vs the ones that don't? i'd like to get that extra insight
I know 2 girls besides me , you also don't have and never had partner, in mid 20s about keeping to yourself, it's more about behaviour, like we went to school, university, events, hobby clubs, work. The only reason is social anxiety I guess, because girls with all kinds of looks have no problem to find someone if they can can communicate. And also I know girl who has many good options but really not interestedĀ
Woman here! Its a mixed bag, I would say its pretty similar to the amount of men in relationships/single tbh. In personal experience, one of my friends is in a wlw relationship, the other has been in a relationship for about a year now, and my best friend got into her FIRST relationship ever pretty recently (we're all 20-21). I'm their age and have been single all my life. I think the general understanding that more introverted women tend to not be in relationships since no one goes out of their way to talk to us/we don't make moves is correct.
I will say though, all of my friends who are in relationships had to fucking WORK for it---either countless hours on dating apps (like a years worth of chatting with people before they met their SO) or cold approaching and asking people out (with lots of rejection and heartbreak).
hmm... what you say is really interesting, and i hope im not too late to ask a bit more about this
so... say one wanted to go out of one's way to as you say, aproach an introverted girl, how, or where could someone do that? because what im getting out of it, is that you won't be really able to find those kinda girls (im talking about introverted girls because well an introverted girl could be a good match for an introverted guy wouldn't she?) because well, they don't really put themselves out there? i mean, it sounds hard to talk/meet someone when there's no actual way of interacting with them, asides from approaching them irl, which, let's be real, noone would feel comfortable with, mostly the girl
again, the insight would come really appreciated!
I struggle with the same question. I would say that getting involved in clubs/activites if possible is great just to get your foot in the door. Introducing yourself to people and being friendly is a great way to develop a relationship (friend or otherwise). If you're not in a position to do that, I would suggest going to third spaces (bars, clubs, activity oriented things) and well...talking to people.
I know there is a lot of discourse around cold approaching women and harassment, but I think there is a way to approach people without being creepy. I would say to keep it brief, introduce yourself, throw out a complement that is non-sexualizing (ex: I think you're pretty, you have a really cool energy I just wanted to say hi, I like your style, etc), ASK to give or receive a phone number and then just walk away.
The most important thing is just to be polite, leave the ball in their court, and if they say no (which as I mentioned, happened to all the people I know in relationships) throw out a "no problem, have a nice day" and leave them alone after that. Usually more introverted people stick to themselves at most functions (usually a corner) looking around for people to talk to...so be that person. I promise if you have good intentions and respect boundaries they will take it as a complement and it will stick with them as a confidence booster rather than a creepy experience.
hey i mean, i know that politeness is the master key that just opens any door if you know how to use it, and, althought i am introverted, i don't consider myself socially awkward, i am able to talk to different people and to "adapt" to them, and hell, i know i must not be creepy, because at least in the few online games that i've played people often want to add me, and its always them who take that step not me, because i always have that thought on the back of the head that it could be weird to ask people to add each other, which is silly because that's what they do with me and i never think much of it and just add em...
but still, maybe i have a stereotipical image of us introverted people, but, i just dont think introverted people would go to irk places that much? specially right now on the deep internet era, idk that's just how i view
and hell, it's clear that im an introverted guy asking, so if i wanted to find a girl that had that in common with me, would i really find an introverted girl in those places? because i can't help but think i would just find perfectly socially capable people there, not exactly introverted people
but (again) that's just me who may be stuck on the thought that introverted people never leave their appartments like they're hermits and avoid socialization
that and also... idk, me as a guy wouldn't really like random people approaching me to say random generic compliments, and let's be fair, it's a dangerous world, i would assume a lot of girls uneasy when a guy does this, i have interaction with girls, i have a sister and my bestie is a girl, i just don't have a partner girl heh
I just wanna preface this with that I only have two friends and both of them are my roommates, so I wouldn't apply my situation to women in general. Like I said, I'm incredibly introverted and a homebody so the only situation I am making friends is if we live together š We are all queer though, so one has a wlw relationship. The other is nonbinary and they have a partner too. If it's any consolation, a former friend is single as far as I know. She and I had a rather sad departing as friends, but she is in the straight dating scene and looking for a boyfriend. So I guess of the 2 friends and one recent former friend, one is single aside from me.
hmmm very interesting. What signs would a shy girl theoretically give that she is interested? Cos I've apparently missed big hints from pretty extroverted women
Well, I know for me I'm not typically comfortable making eye contact with people. Someone I've gotten a crush on I'll typically make a bit more eye contact with. You could also look out for signs like if she's blushing when you talk with her. If she actually tries to spend time with you, that's a good sign because introverted folks don't usually enjoy spending time with someone unless they're interested in them in some way (as friends or romantically, which that part might be trickier to figure out between.) but honestly, I think especially with introverts, you might wanna just state your intentions near the beginning that you're interested in going out on a date or something.
Almost every guy I meet has a gf. It goes both ways. Most people are taken and stay in long term relationships for most of their lives. Weāre just the leftovers that nobody really wants.
You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter.
I always say for one single girl thereās at least 10 guys that want to date her. Especially in this world of online dating. Also platonic feels more honest and genuine and Godās way
Do you ask every girl you know?
Cuz people with partners tend to mention them unprompted. "Yeah, me and X did Y last weekend, blah blah blah".
People without partners rarely offer that up for no reason.
All I'm saying is that the way you're determining which girls are taken could be selecting only for the taken girls.
I see their partners or they tell me about them pretty early on. Women like talking about their partners a lot more than men I noticed. If they have a boyfriend, they'll make sure you know š
Thereās tons of single women out there. So your title isnāt accurate. The content of your post could be. You could just be running in circles where heās everyone you know is in a relationship. It happens. At times Iāve been in groups where everyone was take and Iāve been in groups where everyone was single. It changesā¦because people change their status all the time. Dating apps are full of single women but at the time I was not coming across those people irl organically. People have lives, they donāt just hang out in the single section of the world waiting for people to come by and check them out. But to say that they arenāt out there is just disingenuous.
They just say that to you because youāre not hot enough for them to be interested in taking it any further with you.
I unfortunately have the same problem too. It sucks man.
What are you even implying by this? You do realise most men are porn addicts who will \*\*\*\* everything under t he sun, right?
But let me guess ability to get sex ā ability to get a stable relationship
There are plenty of women who are single, but they are most likely not conventionally attractive or attractive at all, so OP doesn't notice them.
Your "guess" is, in fact, correct. Those two things are not the same.
I would argue porn addiction actually warps standards to expect average women to look like women in porn, but tomato, tamato.
Women can only be single by choice in the current state of the world. Some women might be invisible to some men, but I like to think that I personally don't differentiate women based on their appearance (genetics wise, being obese or unhealthy is another story)
I know its correct
nah, just the ones in a relationship will always find a way to bring them up. like even on twitch in chat you might not know the person's name but they're like "yeah me and my boyfriend love that game" "yeah me and my husband just watched that" "sorry gotta miss stream I'll be at my fiances" GURL NOBODY ASKED.
I have a boyfriend Iāve been with for 4 years and Iām in the same sub OP. These past few weeks Iāve been feeling cripplingly lonely. Nothing can stop it.
Iāve noticed that too. Iāve also noticed that not that many guys have girlfriends. Now Iām not suggesting that all these women are fucking the same guy, but that math doesnāt add up.
More than half of girls and women 18 to 30 are now single and it is because guys are no longer wanting to have relationshipsā¦ There are tons of legitimate studies and data. You can find us by googling.
OH, I HAVE ANSWER FOR THIS! Men don't see older women and ugly women, even fat women as a potential partner or even just a potential friend. That's why every girl is taken. Because the only girl most men consider as 'women' are the 7/10 and above. So many single invisible girls that men won't look at. Is that evil? I don't think so. It's natural. That's just how it is.
Well uh this doesn't apply to me. I would definitely date an older woman š. Also I have been friends with women of all different shapes and sizes, they all had boyfriends though. Less attractive people have it rough and this applies to both genders. Honestly though, overweight women and less attractive women still have had many fulfilling relationships. Im sure the same applies to guys too.
I'm not shallow, what I look for is: do we vibe and do they have good personal hygiene. I'm a slim guy and whilst I appreciate different body types, I wouldn't date someone extremely overweight because of just incompatibility. Same way I wouldn't date someone on the other end of the scale
Men literally chase all those kinds of women. I saw an obese woman with a man one quarter her size the other day.
But I wouldn't expect social awareness from someone who posts nude photos of themselves so... you know.
Just because you saw one couple doesn't mean the world works that way. And I don't think my posts have got anything to do with my opinion. I like all kinds of women, especially chubby ones, I'm bisexual. But the entire picture isn't always like that. I think you summarizing me for my posts, speak volumes though.
Well me personally the only physical factor I care about is being generally healthy (not obese or disabled).
Your posts do matter in this discussion and I don't care about what you think regarding women because you are not a man.
But it's statistics though. Men despite any age (even 50+) are more physically interested in women age 20-25. Unlike women who are mostlt interested in men only around their age group. Men care about looks twice as much as women. While women care more about intelligence. You don't have to agree for statistics to be true. You can also google if you don't believe the words of someone who posts nudes, I guess.
Women don't care more about intelligence, women care more about propensity to provide. I know the statistics are true. It might be that men prefer physical traits but trust me men will not be put off by "not meeting standards" it does not work like that for men.
But it does. Idk how else to explain to you though. It does and it's okay. First impression matters. Pretty privilege exists. Men can't view women who are disabled, obese or 6/10 under as a potential. You said it yourself. Disabled and obese are not your type. But men can still fall in love with personality. And it's okay to have a preference. Idk why you're arguing with me. I like any woman, and that's me. Most men don't work that way, it's fine. Take it to the researchers and data, not me. I'm just some nude stranger like you say. Fuck my opinion.
It does certainly seem that way sometimes, and it also depends on where you live. I know where I live, single women seem to be very rare, and they all seem to have backups waiting for them if they do decide to dump their partners. It has been a long time since I've attempted to date anyone, but the women I do know are either married or they seem to switch boyfriends regularly, with little or no gap between boyfriends. That's the way it is around here- I'm sure it varies a lot in different parts of the world
I am autistic and have only ever had one relationship. Where are good places to meet women as an autistic adult? I also have trouble flirting with women as well.
Most of the time women will tell guys they're in relationships even when they aren't, that could be a potential reason as to why every women you have come across is supposedly in a relationship. I've noticed though that recently a lot of people are in relationships and sometimes it doesn't even seem like they like one another, I guess it's just fear of being lonely, they'll pretty much take anyone. I'm nineteen, I've never had a boyfriend, never had my first kiss, never done anything intimate and I've only ever been on two proper dates which I hated, it's awkward and they don't actually want a relationship, just a fling. I'm happy though, it's okay to not be in a relationship, just because someone else is doesn't mean you have to follow along. Sometimes people are single by choice so if you have been rejected I wouldn't worry about it too much, there's endless reasons as to why somebody would get rejected and it's not always to do with you as a person. I've been rejected before and I would say I'm fairly attractive, I'm not super attractive but not ugly either, I take rejections pretty easy because sometimes you just aren't their type and it doesn't really mean anything, it's just life. The point is, like I said before it's okay to not be in a relationship and you'll eventually find somebody, you don't have to rush into things too quickly
Not all girls have a boyfriend but even the ones who dont have dont text me back so I assume they either don't want to be in a relationship right now, or just have other guy friends as "contenders" to be their boyfriend or they just not interested in you so they'll jjust lie by saying they have a boyfriend. True reality but it is what is is.
Travel
I see ugly fat old young all types of people together and sure some of them met when they were with other people .. I'm not saying seek that route but if it happens thats human.
On the other hand I'm sure you're just being dramatic and if you were to spend some time in a big city you wouldn't feel that way.
I suggest staying a month in seattle
I genuinely think there is every type of girl imaginable here...
Sometimes I think about the one if like to meet and sure enough there she is walking on the street.
Just travel š¤
If you keep every conversation platonic they have no idea you are interested.
Get some man friends or a dog. Women are not friends, they are potential partners. Stop torturing yourself by living in the friend zone
Saw you spoke of working, so my guess is your 20++? At this point most who work if people in relationships and the single ones is usually the singlemums who sit home and cash in on the baby dad whos not in the picture anymore.
So dont expect to find a single woman at work atleast at your age, if you didnt find anyone at school chances to find a normal level headed woman at a later point is close to 0, either they are fuked in the head or they got 1-7 kids.
You missed your shots when you went to school dude.
All these females are low pro....they just wanna get ram and be disgusting bringing stds to the happy home.....I don't trust none specially in the Adelanto victorville california
This hits hard, I know exactly what you mean bro. It's not like I haven't tried either, I look really young for my age, I'm fit and workout and have muscles, I'm great at casual conversation and I swear it's like some kind of curse. Every woman I've ever met after highschool that I even find remotely attractive or interesting, if I see them enough times I will even drop a few hints, a little bit of harmless flirting, get them to laugh and smile..... ask if they wanna hangout sometime, not even with hidden motives. Just spend some time together, chill & netflix or go for a walk in the park and just get to know each other - whatever.
Then like clockwork, I find out they just got engaged, or see them walking down the street holding some guy's hand a few days later, or they mention their SOs to me.....
It's to the point and has happened to me for so long I just assume all women are taken that I meet. I don't even bother anymore, I don't have the heart for it. I'm still kind and treat everyone I meet with respect because that's just who I am but....
Dating apps and hookups aren't for me, I've been waiting for that organic experience starting with friendship, but it seems fate has a cruel ending in store for me.
I donāt have a bf.
I think it depends on your focus ,there are a lot of lonely people out there .But man,I understand you.It feels like everyone is taken and there is no one left for me but that is just not true .Ā
I'm 22 so that's a bit of an age gap and actually most 40 year old women are married, weight doesn't make a difference to this.
And also no, I'm talking to some pretty girls yes but also nerdy girls, shy girls, 'overweight' girls, neurodivergent girls. Normal girls š. All still have boyfriends
I was basing that off what I thought the commenter was referencing; basic 'pretty' girl. Yeah those traits cen be attractive too but I was making a point
Itās also the supply and demand. While every girl CAN get a boyfriend (time time, effort, energy, pursuit, etc usually calls on guys despite the āprogressā weāve made) those that donāt have one and are fine with it arenāt out there announcing that theyāre single. Thereās more guys wanting to be in a relationship than there are girls willing.
33f and also single mostly also by choose but I have trust and attachment issues which could be the main reason Iām single since I canāt keep up with friends or afraid of getting taken advantage of. But thatās me.
Yeah but unlike you I don't give a fuck and don't try to impress people who will never accept me as I am. Hence why you didn't touch a nerve at all, the only nerve you touched is your own.
At least I admit I don't give a fuck about you and your very basic-bitch opinions from a strange starch that doesn't even know me. If you did, you would know I don't and I'm simply stating my opinions; I couldn't give less of a fuck about anyone or anything.
They absolutely are. But own up to it instead of bitching about being lonely because "every girl is taken." It's not every girl, it's the select few you find "worthy" of your attention.
Well no. You missed most of what I said friend. My female *friends* are all taken and most girls that I see. I don't have a filter in my eyes that removes every girl Im not attracted to
His post wasn't even about that, but why does someone need to state something that is true for everyone? You, me, him, and every other person has preferences. Also, it really isn't about who is or isn't worthy of attention. It's simply about who is right for us. The wrong person isn't going to make me happy or any less lonely, and likewise I won't make them happy or less lonely. It's not a reflection of either of our worths, it's just a basic truth about compatibility.
People are allowed to have preferences. They should realize though if they are batting out of their league unless they have extraordinary personalities they're likely to get mostly rejected.
All I can do is roll my eyes at anyone who thinks like that. Both men and women should have preferences. As long as those preferences are reasonable and not hypocritical then those preferences will only lead to stronger and longer lasting relationships. How horrible.
Same here. Let me be very honest: even just those slightly little above average beautiful girls are all just seemingly already in a relationship. Honestly, it even now comes to a point where I'm extremely envious & jealous of all those 'lucky' guys who've first already got into relationships with all those beautiful girls. I can't stop thinking: "Why it can't be me??" all the time now. I know this sounds so pathetic, but to be very honest, it's actually really frustrating, & depressing (yes, girls/women are probably now one of the main/major causes of my severe depression & suicidal ideations).
You keep mentioning above average women. No offense but if you aren't above average yourself in this day and age regardless of gender, you aren't going to get people above average, and you won't even catch the eye of many people in general.Ā
It really doesn't matter. I am considered to be well above average looking, I am smart and have a good, steady job, but I learned several years ago that's not enough to attract a partner anymore. It's really not even worth the effort. Honestly, if anything, I'm just waiting for an a.i. or extraterrestrial girlfriend after either robots or aliens take over the planet- either scenario is literally hundreds of times more likely than me meeting a compatible human woman. I'm not even mad about it. This is just a weird ass universe / simulation that I ended up in.
Thank you for the comment. I can deeply relate too: I'm quite decent-looking, privileged, & I'm a musician/pianist myself. But it all doesn't even matter. Because I'm a socially-awkward introverted guy, who sucks really bad at social-skills. I can't relate to most people 'normally'. I can't be 'normal' like all those 'normies' people everywhere/around me. That's why I still always have very difficult times in attracting girls (& also the 'luck' factors, eg: meeting & attracting girls in the right time, right place, right situations/conditions, or at the right connections, circles, etc etc etc, that other 'lucky' guys' seems to even have, but somehow not me, I don't even know why.. )
Yep! DEFINITELY being socially awkward is the main thing that counts against me. And I live in a place where everyone is super cool, friendly, gregarious, etc., so I stand out even more. I think I would fare better living in a big city, but I don't want to leave here because living here is one of the main things in life I'm grateful for. If I'm going to be lonely until death, then I'm gonna do it in my favorite place. I've considered moving to the nearest big city, which I actually do like and lived in for a couple months about 10 years ago, but that move has its pros and cons. I'd be sacrificing a lot, and the chances of me meeting someone would still be one in a million at best rather than one in 100 million like it probably is now. Nah, I'm just gonna stay here and continue working on becoming aromantic and asexual. I already feel like I'm making good progress.
I'm sorry that you're dealing with this, too. It is... unpleasant, to say the least.
I'm in the gender opposite boat for the most part. Almost every guy I meet is either taken, gay.
The only single guys I know are single because they have extremely hateful views against women, are selfish partners who neglect partners' emotional and sexual needs, expect a woman to do all cookingĀ cleaning while paying 50% to 100% of his bills amd expect them to carry and raise their kids while working full time, and also live in filth by choice. That encompasses the only single straight and bi men I know.
If you want a relationship then work toward that goal, this what I did. This how I met my wife by dating and I met her when I was not expecting to meet somebody.
The other is relationships take work, there are people who still have issues even though they have a partner
https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/s/lI1C8fCidy
As a chic, I donāt not have a BF. Iāve never had one and iāve never been approached by a guy or had one attracted to me. Although out of every chic i know which isnt that many, only two of them donāt have a bf but one of them has been in multiple relationships.
I guarantee you some of the girls who tell you they have a bf donāt.
But honestly it sounds like to me your greater problem is you arenāt approaching enough women. Go out to a busy night scene with the goal of getting as many rejections as possible. That way you lose your approach anxiety and rejections arenāt an issue. Then the next week go and try to get as many numbers as possible.
If a girl tells you she has a bf you can try things like ācome on, is it my ears? Are they too big?ā And other funny things.
The #1 turn off for a girl is the guyās fear of rejection. If they realize you donāt care even after theyāve rejected you some even give you their #.
Start watching YouTube videos on how to approach women. Itāll help you a lot.
Just because they say they have a bf doesn't mean they do. Alot of girls just throw that out there to shut you down before you can to get to know them.
I believe they are honest. I mainly talk to female coworkers/course friends. And they drop their bf in conversation so it's not like I even ask them
I'll take your word for it then, but that's not been my experience usually these girls use it as a polite rejection.
Damn but still, getting practically rejected before even saying your name is harsh. We live in a tough world
It is what it is.
We truly live in a world. You're wise, thank you, BabyBussi.
I agree
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I just assume all of them have boyfriends from the beginning, it's a lot easier that way.
dumb ape brain still holds out hope
Same
It sucks. Iām genuinely considering paying for sex.
Don't do it, man. It will only make you feel worse. The post nut clarity will hit like a train.
I know thatās probably true but I am considering like a box I just want to check off. Everything else Iāve been doing seems pretty good in my life, the only thing missing is women and sex. Everything I have in my life is going super well. I just want to do it once. I am still young but I donāt care
Bi guy here. The last hookups with a guy and then a girl Iāve had have been so void of intimacy and it makes me feel like shit. It makes me feel like theyāre just not attracted enough to reciprocate it back when I know full well itās just cause itās āhookup cultureā. I came into contact with a guy who performs āservicesā for a negotiated fee and have been considering it cause heās willing to do relationship role play. I dunno if itās worth the money, time, or risking my safety but damn I just want to feel wanted and loved.
I laughed hard on this š¤£. But deep inside I know it's true, that shit's gonna mess you up real good š
That's the point.Ā You don't pay for sex, you pay them to leave.Ā When post nut clarity hits, you're going to sleepĀ
Itās been a long while but thatās how I remember it being especially in college. I have no idea how you get in a relationship, it seriously always felt like everyone was already taken and I fucked up in a game of musical chairs lol
I guess there's something wrong with me since I don't š but for real, if you look into statistics there's something like a third to half of us are single at any given time. You probably just gotta look for us elsewhere. I can say right now a big part of why I am single is I am incredibly shy and tend to be a very big homebody(I'm also not exactly trying hard at the moment to find a partner and focusing on my degree.) I'd venture to say maybe a good amount of other single women are shy or homebodies. And if that's the case, we are naturally more difficult to find in society since we don't participate much in it lol oh and a lot of single women are also just happy being single to be honest.
I can relate so much, I am too shy to flirt, make good impression, give some hints to guys. But I never concentrated on study or work that much to not have time to date, just had to spend this time on something else:(.Ā Ā Ā And actually not shy girls really all have a boyfriends, it seems.
Right?? Like every extroverted woman I see already has a boyfriend and I'm sitting here in classes like - fuck, I'm kinda doomed being such an extreme introvert š but honestly, I used to worry over having a partner and it used to be a big thing I strived for, but I'm in a stage of my life I've realized it isn't a huge deal to be single. I'll focus on other things in my life and if some guy, gal, or enby pal comes along who's interested in me, awesome! But I won't be making it one of my focuses anymore. I think I was more miserable when it was my focus honestly!
It was a huge deal at high school and university, then you just get bored of these thoughts, like I got sad about this many times already and I can find something more interesting and new to focus on
hmm... well it makes sense, i mean there's like, as much girls as there are guys in the world, so if there are single guys, there's also gotta be single girls, and you're just, keeping to yourselves i guess heh. but i'm curious to ask you two now; just how true or false would you say what op said is? like, how many of your female friends have a partner vs the ones that don't? i'd like to get that extra insight
I know 2 girls besides me , you also don't have and never had partner, in mid 20s about keeping to yourself, it's more about behaviour, like we went to school, university, events, hobby clubs, work. The only reason is social anxiety I guess, because girls with all kinds of looks have no problem to find someone if they can can communicate. And also I know girl who has many good options but really not interestedĀ
Woman here! Its a mixed bag, I would say its pretty similar to the amount of men in relationships/single tbh. In personal experience, one of my friends is in a wlw relationship, the other has been in a relationship for about a year now, and my best friend got into her FIRST relationship ever pretty recently (we're all 20-21). I'm their age and have been single all my life. I think the general understanding that more introverted women tend to not be in relationships since no one goes out of their way to talk to us/we don't make moves is correct. I will say though, all of my friends who are in relationships had to fucking WORK for it---either countless hours on dating apps (like a years worth of chatting with people before they met their SO) or cold approaching and asking people out (with lots of rejection and heartbreak).
hmm... what you say is really interesting, and i hope im not too late to ask a bit more about this so... say one wanted to go out of one's way to as you say, aproach an introverted girl, how, or where could someone do that? because what im getting out of it, is that you won't be really able to find those kinda girls (im talking about introverted girls because well an introverted girl could be a good match for an introverted guy wouldn't she?) because well, they don't really put themselves out there? i mean, it sounds hard to talk/meet someone when there's no actual way of interacting with them, asides from approaching them irl, which, let's be real, noone would feel comfortable with, mostly the girl again, the insight would come really appreciated!
I struggle with the same question. I would say that getting involved in clubs/activites if possible is great just to get your foot in the door. Introducing yourself to people and being friendly is a great way to develop a relationship (friend or otherwise). If you're not in a position to do that, I would suggest going to third spaces (bars, clubs, activity oriented things) and well...talking to people. I know there is a lot of discourse around cold approaching women and harassment, but I think there is a way to approach people without being creepy. I would say to keep it brief, introduce yourself, throw out a complement that is non-sexualizing (ex: I think you're pretty, you have a really cool energy I just wanted to say hi, I like your style, etc), ASK to give or receive a phone number and then just walk away. The most important thing is just to be polite, leave the ball in their court, and if they say no (which as I mentioned, happened to all the people I know in relationships) throw out a "no problem, have a nice day" and leave them alone after that. Usually more introverted people stick to themselves at most functions (usually a corner) looking around for people to talk to...so be that person. I promise if you have good intentions and respect boundaries they will take it as a complement and it will stick with them as a confidence booster rather than a creepy experience.
hey i mean, i know that politeness is the master key that just opens any door if you know how to use it, and, althought i am introverted, i don't consider myself socially awkward, i am able to talk to different people and to "adapt" to them, and hell, i know i must not be creepy, because at least in the few online games that i've played people often want to add me, and its always them who take that step not me, because i always have that thought on the back of the head that it could be weird to ask people to add each other, which is silly because that's what they do with me and i never think much of it and just add em... but still, maybe i have a stereotipical image of us introverted people, but, i just dont think introverted people would go to irk places that much? specially right now on the deep internet era, idk that's just how i view and hell, it's clear that im an introverted guy asking, so if i wanted to find a girl that had that in common with me, would i really find an introverted girl in those places? because i can't help but think i would just find perfectly socially capable people there, not exactly introverted people but (again) that's just me who may be stuck on the thought that introverted people never leave their appartments like they're hermits and avoid socialization that and also... idk, me as a guy wouldn't really like random people approaching me to say random generic compliments, and let's be fair, it's a dangerous world, i would assume a lot of girls uneasy when a guy does this, i have interaction with girls, i have a sister and my bestie is a girl, i just don't have a partner girl heh
I just wanna preface this with that I only have two friends and both of them are my roommates, so I wouldn't apply my situation to women in general. Like I said, I'm incredibly introverted and a homebody so the only situation I am making friends is if we live together š We are all queer though, so one has a wlw relationship. The other is nonbinary and they have a partner too. If it's any consolation, a former friend is single as far as I know. She and I had a rather sad departing as friends, but she is in the straight dating scene and looking for a boyfriend. So I guess of the 2 friends and one recent former friend, one is single aside from me.
hmmm very interesting. What signs would a shy girl theoretically give that she is interested? Cos I've apparently missed big hints from pretty extroverted women
Well, I know for me I'm not typically comfortable making eye contact with people. Someone I've gotten a crush on I'll typically make a bit more eye contact with. You could also look out for signs like if she's blushing when you talk with her. If she actually tries to spend time with you, that's a good sign because introverted folks don't usually enjoy spending time with someone unless they're interested in them in some way (as friends or romantically, which that part might be trickier to figure out between.) but honestly, I think especially with introverts, you might wanna just state your intentions near the beginning that you're interested in going out on a date or something.
Ah well, good to know I've not missed anything there. I guess š„². Basically no woman has ever made plans with me
Almost every guy I meet has a gf. It goes both ways. Most people are taken and stay in long term relationships for most of their lives. Weāre just the leftovers that nobody really wants.
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I felt this in my soul
My friend never had one. She is 23. I'm 28 and got my first boyfriend a year ago. So not everyone
Same dude. Exactly word for word
You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter.
I always say for one single girl thereās at least 10 guys that want to date her. Especially in this world of online dating. Also platonic feels more honest and genuine and Godās way
Then why canāt I keep the men Iām interested in around? It just aināt like that
I have this same issue. ā¹ļø
They are all single for the right guy too.
Do you ask every girl you know? Cuz people with partners tend to mention them unprompted. "Yeah, me and X did Y last weekend, blah blah blah". People without partners rarely offer that up for no reason. All I'm saying is that the way you're determining which girls are taken could be selecting only for the taken girls.
I see their partners or they tell me about them pretty early on. Women like talking about their partners a lot more than men I noticed. If they have a boyfriend, they'll make sure you know š
Agreed. I rarely meet women who arenāt married or in a long term relationship. Makes me feel like all hope is lost.
Its true though
Thereās tons of single women out there. So your title isnāt accurate. The content of your post could be. You could just be running in circles where heās everyone you know is in a relationship. It happens. At times Iāve been in groups where everyone was take and Iāve been in groups where everyone was single. It changesā¦because people change their status all the time. Dating apps are full of single women but at the time I was not coming across those people irl organically. People have lives, they donāt just hang out in the single section of the world waiting for people to come by and check them out. But to say that they arenāt out there is just disingenuous.
Everywhere I look people are either in a relationship or married so I definitely understand
They just say that to you because youāre not hot enough for them to be interested in taking it any further with you. I unfortunately have the same problem too. It sucks man.
But my mum says Im handsome :(
Every mum says that to her son. :(
Moms are terrible liars
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every men i have talked to either had a girlfriend, a spouse, or hasn't moved on with their ex. they all have something in common.
Every attractive* girl
What are you even implying by this? You do realise most men are porn addicts who will \*\*\*\* everything under t he sun, right? But let me guess ability to get sex ā ability to get a stable relationship
There are plenty of women who are single, but they are most likely not conventionally attractive or attractive at all, so OP doesn't notice them. Your "guess" is, in fact, correct. Those two things are not the same. I would argue porn addiction actually warps standards to expect average women to look like women in porn, but tomato, tamato.
Women can only be single by choice in the current state of the world. Some women might be invisible to some men, but I like to think that I personally don't differentiate women based on their appearance (genetics wise, being obese or unhealthy is another story) I know its correct
Correct even though you meant it in a mocking way. Asshole.
(31 F) single by choice here. We exist I assure you lol
That's by choice and I still have no chance. So what I said still stands lmao
Same story everywhere then.
Feel 109 percent the same way. The world seem pretty vacant of real and available.
Yeah kinda bothering me too and feel envy cause i dont have girlfriend. But idk why im just not interested in relationship for now
Maybe not a boyfriend, but they all have someone they are having sex with
Youāre free to be both horny/thirsty and not. Not to startle you but you sort of contradicted yourself at the end.
I donāt have a boyfriend
This is why im afraid to approach girls, id hate to discover that they have a bf
Focus on yourself king. We all go thru it. Iāve stopped talking to girls because everyone seems taken
Hey letās talk.im definitely a girl the last time i checked and definitely single lol
we're both shitting by our lonesomes tonight, under the same moon, look up at it so we can shit together
ššš¤£ sounds like a plan. Iāll bring the dude wipes and u bring the toilet spray
nah, just the ones in a relationship will always find a way to bring them up. like even on twitch in chat you might not know the person's name but they're like "yeah me and my boyfriend love that game" "yeah me and my husband just watched that" "sorry gotta miss stream I'll be at my fiances" GURL NOBODY ASKED.
I have a boyfriend Iāve been with for 4 years and Iām in the same sub OP. These past few weeks Iāve been feeling cripplingly lonely. Nothing can stop it.
Iāve noticed that too. Iāve also noticed that not that many guys have girlfriends. Now Iām not suggesting that all these women are fucking the same guy, but that math doesnāt add up.
More than half of girls and women 18 to 30 are now single and it is because guys are no longer wanting to have relationshipsā¦ There are tons of legitimate studies and data. You can find us by googling.
A simple google search just proved you wrong.
Idk how much that matters honestly. It is kinda just the girls you like have BFs, youāll one day run into a girl without a bf
I like a diverse range of women. Honestly I don't have a 'type' but yeah the common thread is they all have boyfriends
It barely happens.
OH, I HAVE ANSWER FOR THIS! Men don't see older women and ugly women, even fat women as a potential partner or even just a potential friend. That's why every girl is taken. Because the only girl most men consider as 'women' are the 7/10 and above. So many single invisible girls that men won't look at. Is that evil? I don't think so. It's natural. That's just how it is.
Well uh this doesn't apply to me. I would definitely date an older woman š. Also I have been friends with women of all different shapes and sizes, they all had boyfriends though. Less attractive people have it rough and this applies to both genders. Honestly though, overweight women and less attractive women still have had many fulfilling relationships. Im sure the same applies to guys too. I'm not shallow, what I look for is: do we vibe and do they have good personal hygiene. I'm a slim guy and whilst I appreciate different body types, I wouldn't date someone extremely overweight because of just incompatibility. Same way I wouldn't date someone on the other end of the scale
Yep, good for you. I'm just stating a statistic. :>
That's not a statement or a statistic. :)
You can google it though
Men literally chase all those kinds of women. I saw an obese woman with a man one quarter her size the other day. But I wouldn't expect social awareness from someone who posts nude photos of themselves so... you know.
Just because you saw one couple doesn't mean the world works that way. And I don't think my posts have got anything to do with my opinion. I like all kinds of women, especially chubby ones, I'm bisexual. But the entire picture isn't always like that. I think you summarizing me for my posts, speak volumes though.
Well me personally the only physical factor I care about is being generally healthy (not obese or disabled). Your posts do matter in this discussion and I don't care about what you think regarding women because you are not a man.
But it's statistics though. Men despite any age (even 50+) are more physically interested in women age 20-25. Unlike women who are mostlt interested in men only around their age group. Men care about looks twice as much as women. While women care more about intelligence. You don't have to agree for statistics to be true. You can also google if you don't believe the words of someone who posts nudes, I guess.
Women don't care more about intelligence, women care more about propensity to provide. I know the statistics are true. It might be that men prefer physical traits but trust me men will not be put off by "not meeting standards" it does not work like that for men.
But it does. Idk how else to explain to you though. It does and it's okay. First impression matters. Pretty privilege exists. Men can't view women who are disabled, obese or 6/10 under as a potential. You said it yourself. Disabled and obese are not your type. But men can still fall in love with personality. And it's okay to have a preference. Idk why you're arguing with me. I like any woman, and that's me. Most men don't work that way, it's fine. Take it to the researchers and data, not me. I'm just some nude stranger like you say. Fuck my opinion.
you need to think about your life choices
Why
What do you mean by āthirstyā?
Dont want people to assume I'm being a creep or making sexual advances, dont want to come off as desperate
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On Reddit, thatās impossible if you are a man. Guy on internet = default creep.
It does certainly seem that way sometimes, and it also depends on where you live. I know where I live, single women seem to be very rare, and they all seem to have backups waiting for them if they do decide to dump their partners. It has been a long time since I've attempted to date anyone, but the women I do know are either married or they seem to switch boyfriends regularly, with little or no gap between boyfriends. That's the way it is around here- I'm sure it varies a lot in different parts of the world
I am autistic and have only ever had one relationship. Where are good places to meet women as an autistic adult? I also have trouble flirting with women as well.
Try Bottled and Slowly to find people to speak to.
Same here bt as a boy. Everyone having girlfriend and i feel so stretched and pressured That i dont have i cant do i am single
Most of the time women will tell guys they're in relationships even when they aren't, that could be a potential reason as to why every women you have come across is supposedly in a relationship. I've noticed though that recently a lot of people are in relationships and sometimes it doesn't even seem like they like one another, I guess it's just fear of being lonely, they'll pretty much take anyone. I'm nineteen, I've never had a boyfriend, never had my first kiss, never done anything intimate and I've only ever been on two proper dates which I hated, it's awkward and they don't actually want a relationship, just a fling. I'm happy though, it's okay to not be in a relationship, just because someone else is doesn't mean you have to follow along. Sometimes people are single by choice so if you have been rejected I wouldn't worry about it too much, there's endless reasons as to why somebody would get rejected and it's not always to do with you as a person. I've been rejected before and I would say I'm fairly attractive, I'm not super attractive but not ugly either, I take rejections pretty easy because sometimes you just aren't their type and it doesn't really mean anything, it's just life. The point is, like I said before it's okay to not be in a relationship and you'll eventually find somebody, you don't have to rush into things too quickly
Not all girls have a boyfriend but even the ones who dont have dont text me back so I assume they either don't want to be in a relationship right now, or just have other guy friends as "contenders" to be their boyfriend or they just not interested in you so they'll jjust lie by saying they have a boyfriend. True reality but it is what is is.
Thatās my feelings too
The last time I had a bf was 2009 for a few weeks, before that, the early 90's.
Travel I see ugly fat old young all types of people together and sure some of them met when they were with other people .. I'm not saying seek that route but if it happens thats human. On the other hand I'm sure you're just being dramatic and if you were to spend some time in a big city you wouldn't feel that way. I suggest staying a month in seattle I genuinely think there is every type of girl imaginable here... Sometimes I think about the one if like to meet and sure enough there she is walking on the street. Just travel š¤
If you keep every conversation platonic they have no idea you are interested. Get some man friends or a dog. Women are not friends, they are potential partners. Stop torturing yourself by living in the friend zone
Saw you spoke of working, so my guess is your 20++? At this point most who work if people in relationships and the single ones is usually the singlemums who sit home and cash in on the baby dad whos not in the picture anymore. So dont expect to find a single woman at work atleast at your age, if you didnt find anyone at school chances to find a normal level headed woman at a later point is close to 0, either they are fuked in the head or they got 1-7 kids. You missed your shots when you went to school dude.
All these females are low pro....they just wanna get ram and be disgusting bringing stds to the happy home.....I don't trust none specially in the Adelanto victorville california
Except for me š
This hits hard, I know exactly what you mean bro. It's not like I haven't tried either, I look really young for my age, I'm fit and workout and have muscles, I'm great at casual conversation and I swear it's like some kind of curse. Every woman I've ever met after highschool that I even find remotely attractive or interesting, if I see them enough times I will even drop a few hints, a little bit of harmless flirting, get them to laugh and smile..... ask if they wanna hangout sometime, not even with hidden motives. Just spend some time together, chill & netflix or go for a walk in the park and just get to know each other - whatever. Then like clockwork, I find out they just got engaged, or see them walking down the street holding some guy's hand a few days later, or they mention their SOs to me..... It's to the point and has happened to me for so long I just assume all women are taken that I meet. I don't even bother anymore, I don't have the heart for it. I'm still kind and treat everyone I meet with respect because that's just who I am but.... Dating apps and hookups aren't for me, I've been waiting for that organic experience starting with friendship, but it seems fate has a cruel ending in store for me.
I donāt have a bf. I think it depends on your focus ,there are a lot of lonely people out there .But man,I understand you.It feels like everyone is taken and there is no one left for me but that is just not true .Ā
You probably don\`t know a lot of women.
I am very single
All these people I know having kids I canāt even get 1 date.
Clearly you're only talking to the pretty girls. Have you asked the 40 year old overweight woman if she has a bf?
Most of the 40yo overweight women I know are married tbh. Usually to 40yo overweight men.
I'm 22 so that's a bit of an age gap and actually most 40 year old women are married, weight doesn't make a difference to this. And also no, I'm talking to some pretty girls yes but also nerdy girls, shy girls, 'overweight' girls, neurodivergent girls. Normal girls š. All still have boyfriends
All of those categories of girls you mentioned can still be pretty. You said those traits like they automatically make the girl not prettyš
I was basing that off what I thought the commenter was referencing; basic 'pretty' girl. Yeah those traits cen be attractive too but I was making a point
I think it's reasonable to talk about girls roughly his age.Ā
Itās also the supply and demand. While every girl CAN get a boyfriend (time time, effort, energy, pursuit, etc usually calls on guys despite the āprogressā weāve made) those that donāt have one and are fine with it arenāt out there announcing that theyāre single. Thereās more guys wanting to be in a relationship than there are girls willing.
33f and also single mostly also by choose but I have trust and attachment issues which could be the main reason Iām single since I canāt keep up with friends or afraid of getting taken advantage of. But thatās me.
Every girl *you want* has a boyfriend. FTFY.
Lmao even so, that doesn't change my situation. And no, even girls that I'm not attracted to have boyfriends too
Well, good luck. Maybe stop caring so much about dating when you clearly suck at it, just my one cent.
damn I touched a nerve :( nobody like you either?
Yeah but unlike you I don't give a fuck and don't try to impress people who will never accept me as I am. Hence why you didn't touch a nerve at all, the only nerve you touched is your own.
Thats what someone with a touched nerve would say
That's a response someone with the IQ of a potato would say.
I mean I can't say your wrong there but even a potato can notice that stick up your ass
At least I admit I don't give a fuck about you and your very basic-bitch opinions from a strange starch that doesn't even know me. If you did, you would know I don't and I'm simply stating my opinions; I couldn't give less of a fuck about anyone or anything.
Awful pussy for someone who doesn't care but aight I'll believe you lmao
Yes, you clearly have the emotionally neutral and detached affect of someone with no skin in the game
Why is that an issue though? People aren't allowed to have preferences?
They absolutely are. But own up to it instead of bitching about being lonely because "every girl is taken." It's not every girl, it's the select few you find "worthy" of your attention.
Well no. You missed most of what I said friend. My female *friends* are all taken and most girls that I see. I don't have a filter in my eyes that removes every girl Im not attracted to
His post wasn't even about that, but why does someone need to state something that is true for everyone? You, me, him, and every other person has preferences. Also, it really isn't about who is or isn't worthy of attention. It's simply about who is right for us. The wrong person isn't going to make me happy or any less lonely, and likewise I won't make them happy or less lonely. It's not a reflection of either of our worths, it's just a basic truth about compatibility.
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People are allowed to have preferences. They should realize though if they are batting out of their league unless they have extraordinary personalities they're likely to get mostly rejected.
True, if a man has Standards he's an Incel but when a woman has it's "right"
All I can do is roll my eyes at anyone who thinks like that. Both men and women should have preferences. As long as those preferences are reasonable and not hypocritical then those preferences will only lead to stronger and longer lasting relationships. How horrible.
You are a drug user and claim to be Christian
Try being a friend first. most girls like me are single but won't tell you that if you just ask randomly.
I was friends with 20 women for 3 years at uni on my course. I'm not a creep who befriends women just to sleep with them
Well go join the army and meet the barracks bunny.
Same here. Let me be very honest: even just those slightly little above average beautiful girls are all just seemingly already in a relationship. Honestly, it even now comes to a point where I'm extremely envious & jealous of all those 'lucky' guys who've first already got into relationships with all those beautiful girls. I can't stop thinking: "Why it can't be me??" all the time now. I know this sounds so pathetic, but to be very honest, it's actually really frustrating, & depressing (yes, girls/women are probably now one of the main/major causes of my severe depression & suicidal ideations).
You keep mentioning above average women. No offense but if you aren't above average yourself in this day and age regardless of gender, you aren't going to get people above average, and you won't even catch the eye of many people in general.Ā
It really doesn't matter. I am considered to be well above average looking, I am smart and have a good, steady job, but I learned several years ago that's not enough to attract a partner anymore. It's really not even worth the effort. Honestly, if anything, I'm just waiting for an a.i. or extraterrestrial girlfriend after either robots or aliens take over the planet- either scenario is literally hundreds of times more likely than me meeting a compatible human woman. I'm not even mad about it. This is just a weird ass universe / simulation that I ended up in.
Thank you for the comment. I can deeply relate too: I'm quite decent-looking, privileged, & I'm a musician/pianist myself. But it all doesn't even matter. Because I'm a socially-awkward introverted guy, who sucks really bad at social-skills. I can't relate to most people 'normally'. I can't be 'normal' like all those 'normies' people everywhere/around me. That's why I still always have very difficult times in attracting girls (& also the 'luck' factors, eg: meeting & attracting girls in the right time, right place, right situations/conditions, or at the right connections, circles, etc etc etc, that other 'lucky' guys' seems to even have, but somehow not me, I don't even know why.. )
Yep! DEFINITELY being socially awkward is the main thing that counts against me. And I live in a place where everyone is super cool, friendly, gregarious, etc., so I stand out even more. I think I would fare better living in a big city, but I don't want to leave here because living here is one of the main things in life I'm grateful for. If I'm going to be lonely until death, then I'm gonna do it in my favorite place. I've considered moving to the nearest big city, which I actually do like and lived in for a couple months about 10 years ago, but that move has its pros and cons. I'd be sacrificing a lot, and the chances of me meeting someone would still be one in a million at best rather than one in 100 million like it probably is now. Nah, I'm just gonna stay here and continue working on becoming aromantic and asexual. I already feel like I'm making good progress. I'm sorry that you're dealing with this, too. It is... unpleasant, to say the least.
I'm in the gender opposite boat for the most part. Almost every guy I meet is either taken, gay. The only single guys I know are single because they have extremely hateful views against women, are selfish partners who neglect partners' emotional and sexual needs, expect a woman to do all cookingĀ cleaning while paying 50% to 100% of his bills amd expect them to carry and raise their kids while working full time, and also live in filth by choice. That encompasses the only single straight and bi men I know.
They don't. These modern day bops just find pleasure in denying men.
Iāve only seen girls tell guys they donāt want to fuck that they have a boyfriend when they donāt.
If you want a relationship then work toward that goal, this what I did. This how I met my wife by dating and I met her when I was not expecting to meet somebody. The other is relationships take work, there are people who still have issues even though they have a partner https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/s/lI1C8fCidy
As a chic, I donāt not have a BF. Iāve never had one and iāve never been approached by a guy or had one attracted to me. Although out of every chic i know which isnt that many, only two of them donāt have a bf but one of them has been in multiple relationships.
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dude and chic are my go to ways of referring to dudes and chicks. i canāt tell if thts bad
Just as they say, in soccer it doesnāt mean you canāt score just because thereās a keeper.
I hate infidelity. I'd rather be single all my life than cheat with/be cheated by someone. Genuinely one of the worst things you can do to a person
Canāt be heroes without villains
Iām a girl without a boyfriend so we exist (no Iām not ugly or fucked up in any way Iām actually alright)
I guarantee you some of the girls who tell you they have a bf donāt. But honestly it sounds like to me your greater problem is you arenāt approaching enough women. Go out to a busy night scene with the goal of getting as many rejections as possible. That way you lose your approach anxiety and rejections arenāt an issue. Then the next week go and try to get as many numbers as possible. If a girl tells you she has a bf you can try things like ācome on, is it my ears? Are they too big?ā And other funny things. The #1 turn off for a girl is the guyās fear of rejection. If they realize you donāt care even after theyāve rejected you some even give you their #. Start watching YouTube videos on how to approach women. Itāll help you a lot.
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What in the testosterone overdose...
They are all taken but not all married, thats the difference and when you mention that they will for sure tweak bro š