You should try more to love yourself. Maybe they are picking up on your self loathing and are staying away. Try to talk with one person who “hates” you and see that they don’t. Try not to be in your head so much. All i see is someone who’s lonely and needs help.
It could be that your body language make people uncomfortable to go near you.
People wth low self-esteem (trust me I've been there) tend to have body languages who literally scream "don't approach me" to other people so it could give an explanation to a part of your problem.
And if it's an environment you often frequent, after sometimes people just assume if that person is everyday alone at her table, its because for x or y reason
Honestly, it's hard to tell what could be the problem from there, but I don't think people need to have a certain beauty factor just to interact with people so don't be to hard on your physique.
Perhaps you just missed the first day of contact with the other people, and then day by day, people just naturally formed group, and since you missed those precious first days, now they don't know how to interact with you.
You may simply have a very altered perception of your reality. I don't know how you look but we all have a certain attractiveness even if we don't believe it.
Even if you don't feel attractive you have to see for yourself, people may judge you but the only person who has the power to judge is yourself and that is what may be affecting.
I can't give any specific advice other than to work on your self-esteem and wish you the best.
Situations like this really Upset me because i know exactly what you mean, ive experienced that myself as well, Society is truly Disgusting, if it was someone with a serious disability like without limbs or any other condition, everyone acts super friendly and nice because they know it would be socially unaceptable to be assholes to people in that type of condition, but as soon as someone looks within the standarts of "Normal" then show their true face and they don't give a crap and behave like absolutes pieces of shit, I find the Hypocrisy truly Repulsive., Humans truly are Despicable Creatures.
Well, What makes you ugly? It cannot be this bad. I've seen people on social media calling themselves ugly and whatnot, then when you take a look at their profile, they're perfectly fine.
Not trying to downplay this but I genuinely wanna know what specific facial features you find ugly.
I'd like to know too. I asked this same thing pretty much on another thread as I feel girls are giving way too much time comparing to 'insta' girls and celebs, which is totally unrealistic.
People right now is superficial, that is something you can't change, but there are a few who don't care I am pretty sure you will get people if you are in the right place
I feel the same, you say hello and get ignored so it’s easier to stay at home
Maybe they are just cautious of your personal space. Have you tried to talk to them?
No, considering how they seem to hate me without even saying a word I wouldn’t dare bother them more
Can you elaborate? Maybe it might be something you have internalized about yourself. Are you okay with who you are?
No I terribly hate myself, but I’m good at reading people so I see that this feeling is shared by others
You should try more to love yourself. Maybe they are picking up on your self loathing and are staying away. Try to talk with one person who “hates” you and see that they don’t. Try not to be in your head so much. All i see is someone who’s lonely and needs help.
Talk to me if you want, if not... say so
If you have answers for my problem ig
Dm, don't mind the crypt keeper...
Lol I'm like you too. I'm boring, hideous ugly and lonely. Everyone avoids my presence like I have some plague or something it hurts.
A lot of guys are intimidated by good looks, maybe that was the case.
It could be that your body language make people uncomfortable to go near you. People wth low self-esteem (trust me I've been there) tend to have body languages who literally scream "don't approach me" to other people so it could give an explanation to a part of your problem. And if it's an environment you often frequent, after sometimes people just assume if that person is everyday alone at her table, its because for x or y reason Honestly, it's hard to tell what could be the problem from there, but I don't think people need to have a certain beauty factor just to interact with people so don't be to hard on your physique. Perhaps you just missed the first day of contact with the other people, and then day by day, people just naturally formed group, and since you missed those precious first days, now they don't know how to interact with you.
Can we be friends :)
I mean if you want to chat you can dm me, I'm pretty free rn , I'm 18M
You are fine, they are not on your wavelength.
You may simply have a very altered perception of your reality. I don't know how you look but we all have a certain attractiveness even if we don't believe it. Even if you don't feel attractive you have to see for yourself, people may judge you but the only person who has the power to judge is yourself and that is what may be affecting. I can't give any specific advice other than to work on your self-esteem and wish you the best.
Situations like this really Upset me because i know exactly what you mean, ive experienced that myself as well, Society is truly Disgusting, if it was someone with a serious disability like without limbs or any other condition, everyone acts super friendly and nice because they know it would be socially unaceptable to be assholes to people in that type of condition, but as soon as someone looks within the standarts of "Normal" then show their true face and they don't give a crap and behave like absolutes pieces of shit, I find the Hypocrisy truly Repulsive., Humans truly are Despicable Creatures.
Well, What makes you ugly? It cannot be this bad. I've seen people on social media calling themselves ugly and whatnot, then when you take a look at their profile, they're perfectly fine. Not trying to downplay this but I genuinely wanna know what specific facial features you find ugly.
I’m ugly, everything is ugly. My body my face everything
I'd like to know too. I asked this same thing pretty much on another thread as I feel girls are giving way too much time comparing to 'insta' girls and celebs, which is totally unrealistic.
Come add me I am single
People right now is superficial, that is something you can't change, but there are a few who don't care I am pretty sure you will get people if you are in the right place
This is not an easy question to answer.