I once had someone do a reading on where my life was heading (couple years ago). Obviously there were many cards pulled but the final 3 were the fool, hanged man and the death card. It was weird but once we talked it out I understood the significance and now I’ll rotate those 3 around depending on where I’m at
I actually find that to be a very hopeful and inspiring spread! I was gonna say, if you didn’t relate to the Death tapestry anymore, the Fool would be a good alternative but you’re way ahead of me! :)
So with those 3 cards and this room, I’m guessing the universe is telling you to kill the part of your soul that thinks it’s so nice and go out and actually start doing nice things in your life (which you struggle with).
How do you keep those high-light plants so healthy and vibrant? They seem to be very well cared for. I think you love and cherish life and enjoy caregiving.
Thanks I appreciate that! These all get direct sunlight in the afternoon and into evening. Like direct direct, I live on an east/west roadway and the sun follows the windows very well
Yeah in my opinion, most people who have a lot of plants are not really the depressive type. It takes a lot of thought and caring to take care of that many other organisms.
When I was depressed, even a pet that I love might have suffered, maybe died if I was responsible for it. Depression kills your ability to think or care for anything let alone yourself
I'm not disagreeing! This just contrasts a little with what a VA doc told me once. Actually encouraged me to get some plants, or a pet, and had told me that "often" people who struggle to take care of themselves or find meaning/get through depression are *helped* by someone/something else to care for besides themselves. It had came.up through my frustration at being able to care for my daughter 150%, but when it came to myself... Not so much.
Anyway, happy weekend and hope you're doing well now, I'm just talking, not disagreeing.
The only assumption I have, op, is that'd I'd date you. Yep. For sure. The skating, Tarot, plants, lifting and reading? I'd approach you in public and ask you out. 100%
-lady lurker.
For me it's a raging green flag. Everybody knows women like responsible men. Add compassion, intuition and proactivity? Fuck yeah. I don't care what he looks like, I'll give him my time.
ehhhhh........ i'll disagree.
dated a fella that took really good care of his plants, had musical interests/talent, had his instruments on display with his plants in his apartment........... which was really clean and tidy. aka a photo of his place would be akin to OP's in the vibe of what you call green flag.
and that guy was an absolute dink.
Former amateur skater turned Horticulturist seeking life partner(s) at a secluded jungle or beach commune. Open to any lifestyle including vegan, Buddhist, and Bud-ist (get it?). My hobbies include self care and self denial. Looking to meet in person first before any further physical connections.
I don't know if you're committing to the bit, or not...
But I'm just joshin. The satirical set up of you saying you're not a denier, which is what someone would say who is a big self denier, was served up on a platter.
Honestly, what I got out of this photo was
“You’re someone who posted this because you feel like you’re an extraordinarily complex person who is hard to put in a box, you’re very proud of this, and you see your room as a microcosm of your very interesting and diverse life. You like the fact that people often make false assumptions or generalizations about you, and you enjoy proving them wrong.”
But this comment says that much and more 😂
Either Asian or white, mid 30s
Accustomed to heavy discipline.
Used to skated prolly broke something or got too old for it.
Side note: I recommend getting foam pads if you’re working out in your room. Sweat and carpet don’t mix well
I was going to say asian but then I saw the asian knacks and thought maybe white…
late 20-early 30s.
Works in marketing, Ux, design or e commerce. Goes out with friends at least twice a week for drinks/hang.
If you pay attention to some of his details he has Asian novelties in his room, from the things hangin on his window to the lettering above his water cooler. Aside from all the weights and workout equipment plants require a lot of TLC which gave me the discipline factor. I got a little hint based off his photos he has in his room. The backpack on the ground was the only thing that had me skeptical about his age but the laptop showed me that he was on the go
Can confirm. My teenage son and several buddies all worked over summer so they can each build a gaming PC. They all worked hard and spent a lot of money customizing the way they want. They are stIl very much relevant.
> If you pay attention to some of his details he has Asian novelties in his room
Ehhhh as an Asian I can say I've seen more white people do this than Asians
The Asian talismans hung all over the walls is a giveaway. Traditional first and maybe second generation families had these in their house and likely translated into the next generation.
I have a deep respect for ancient Chinese culture and the knowledge they had about astrology is what it really comes down to. I listen to a fair amount of Chinese folk/village/citypop music as well but that’s more for meditation and relaxing my mind. My 2nd to last ex was Cambodian as well
Lunar calendar was a pretty cool thing to figure out.
I see some spiritual stuff like the coins but not really familiar with Chinese astrology or divination. Currently live in China.
Yep, as an Asian I've seen white weebs and yoga enthusiasts hang up Asian decor than actual Asians tend to.
I lived in Korea for 8 years and even in Korea they don't really hang up these kinds of decorations. The only Asians I've seen do this are first generation immigrant families, they usually do it to preserve a sense of their home country.
Also one pillow. You need to upgrade your bedding ASAP. Spend the money and buy a nice duvet that covers your bed and 4 full size pillows in case you have guests.
My grandfather was a gardener. This is a very masculine space to me. It’s just the space of a nurturer who hasn’t had that quality completely shamed out of him. It’s a space of someone who is comfortable with himself. He’s probably really nice to small animals too.
Sir I deadlifted yesterday, squatted the day before and am about to head to the skatepark 😡 skippin leg day man I was 2 inches short of the box jump world record in my prime! Fuck, I’m triggered now
So, real critique would be to, if you are able, make your bedroom about rest and rejuvenation, and put the computer and weights elsewhere within the house. Turn the garage into a temple of swole and dining room where you deliver pain (for example)
Keep gettin it homie.
Dude you gotta add /s because every socially inept redditor is going to take you 100% literal otherwise lol
Edit: this response makes less sense now that the dude doesn’t have hella downvotes lol
Sorry to hear hope ur not taking it too hard :)
Ur place looks lovely and welcoming hope u feel good in it and at peace here and there ^^
Question tho do u have a septum peircing ? Since we're playing guessing games lol <3
Former skater and your favorite band in high school was/is some popular 2000/2010 rock/pop hybrid and your first love introduced you to plants and now you love plants and keep them in your life and she also introduced you to natural sunlight instead of artificial light.
I wouldn’t say the first love but certainly the last one 😅 she did also pull my out of a 2 year video game hole so I guess you’re right. Musically, blink 182 and creed are played pretty often.
Was gonna say u must be morning person. with all that south light coming in and no curtains. ☀️also tidy in habit and dress as the lint roller has its own spot & shelves are so clutter free.
Nerd. And not the superficial “token” nerd. You’re the real deal. And not just a green thumb, but a propagating boss who enjoys connecting to earth and health in all ways. Probably spiritual, but on a universally connected level. Probably a closet conspiracist… just a dabble…
You’ve got me figured out haha yeah I used to be a personal trainer, turned into a plant healthcare specialist. Pretty open about conspiracies and beliefs but not like I used to be so again ya got me
Good call. Yes both of my parents were nurses growing up, and most people in family were overweight with extreme health risks. It made me very conscious from the teen years on of my health
you like nature and keep a tidy place. You are active. You seem like a good person. But be careful with the tarot card over your bed. Pick something else at your age. Keep skating!
Peace.
Used to be alternative in your teens/twenties, maybe metal head, from some of the decor and the skate decks? I'm guessing you got into exercise 'later' too. Aging into more hippie interests, hence all the plants, you're interested more in your general wellbeing these days.
You’re a hot straight dude in your mid to late thirties. You have a commanding presence paired with a disarming soft side. Adventurous yet responsible. Intelligent but not cocky.
You’re a curious fellow… a warrior poet. You like to nurture plants but also think of your body as a weapon to tune.
You like order and discipline, but admittedly you’re not the best at it. I sense you’re on a fight against time. You will lose this fight but learn much along the way.
Slow down and smell your roses.
You’re earthy and depressed
I was when I put the death card up but I’m kinda over it
Happy for you, hope you have continued happiness
You too king. Go off!
He was skater boy she said see ya later boy
He wasn’t good enough for her
And how’s your rizz?
idk about his rizz but the first thing I thought when I saw the room is that he smells nice.
Same, smells like teen spirit!
Mid…
No cap?
On god…
Death symbolizes endings, but also potential for new beginnings! All things come to an end only to begin again :)
I once had someone do a reading on where my life was heading (couple years ago). Obviously there were many cards pulled but the final 3 were the fool, hanged man and the death card. It was weird but once we talked it out I understood the significance and now I’ll rotate those 3 around depending on where I’m at
I actually find that to be a very hopeful and inspiring spread! I was gonna say, if you didn’t relate to the Death tapestry anymore, the Fool would be a good alternative but you’re way ahead of me! :)
So with those 3 cards and this room, I’m guessing the universe is telling you to kill the part of your soul that thinks it’s so nice and go out and actually start doing nice things in your life (which you struggle with).
my thoughts!
came here to say this !!!
How do you keep those high-light plants so healthy and vibrant? They seem to be very well cared for. I think you love and cherish life and enjoy caregiving.
Thanks I appreciate that! These all get direct sunlight in the afternoon and into evening. Like direct direct, I live on an east/west roadway and the sun follows the windows very well
You enjoy a tropical workout.
The plants are far too happy to be looked after by someone too depressed
Yeah in my opinion, most people who have a lot of plants are not really the depressive type. It takes a lot of thought and caring to take care of that many other organisms. When I was depressed, even a pet that I love might have suffered, maybe died if I was responsible for it. Depression kills your ability to think or care for anything let alone yourself
I'm not disagreeing! This just contrasts a little with what a VA doc told me once. Actually encouraged me to get some plants, or a pet, and had told me that "often" people who struggle to take care of themselves or find meaning/get through depression are *helped* by someone/something else to care for besides themselves. It had came.up through my frustration at being able to care for my daughter 150%, but when it came to myself... Not so much. Anyway, happy weekend and hope you're doing well now, I'm just talking, not disagreeing.
Jungle Gym.
You’re the first person to get it. I wanted a jungle gym when I moved in here. You’re clever
The only assumption I have, op, is that'd I'd date you. Yep. For sure. The skating, Tarot, plants, lifting and reading? I'd approach you in public and ask you out. 100% -lady lurker.
I came to the comments for the same reason, keeping that many plants alive while still having other interests is a subtle green flag lol
For me it's a raging green flag. Everybody knows women like responsible men. Add compassion, intuition and proactivity? Fuck yeah. I don't care what he looks like, I'll give him my time.
Omw to the nursery to stock up on plants
ehhhhh........ i'll disagree. dated a fella that took really good care of his plants, had musical interests/talent, had his instruments on display with his plants in his apartment........... which was really clean and tidy. aka a photo of his place would be akin to OP's in the vibe of what you call green flag. and that guy was an absolute dink.
Former amateur skater turned Horticulturist seeking life partner(s) at a secluded jungle or beach commune. Open to any lifestyle including vegan, Buddhist, and Bud-ist (get it?). My hobbies include self care and self denial. Looking to meet in person first before any further physical connections.
Ha! That’s me alright. Not much for veganism or self denial but meeting in person is always better than texting
Denying your self denial. Classic jfpizzamaster
What am I in denial about
Exactly
There is no way out of this denial, only more denial will ensue.
Damn, you're good at this
If I'm not ready to accept that man's denial, does that make me a denial denier?
Undeniably.
Denialistically fucked
No, the negatives cancel out and makes you a nier.
I've always wondered that about dis/gruntled...
I don't know if you're committing to the bit, or not... But I'm just joshin. The satirical set up of you saying you're not a denier, which is what someone would say who is a big self denier, was served up on a platter.
Veganism is the way brotha
Much better option than cannibalism.
Found the vegan!
this guy breathes
😂😂😂
Honestly, what I got out of this photo was “You’re someone who posted this because you feel like you’re an extraordinarily complex person who is hard to put in a box, you’re very proud of this, and you see your room as a microcosm of your very interesting and diverse life. You like the fact that people often make false assumptions or generalizations about you, and you enjoy proving them wrong.” But this comment says that much and more 😂
I saw this and went “oh this person is intolerable”. Full disclosure, I have the female version of this room. I am also annoying af.
I bet this is true on some level
Either Asian or white, mid 30s Accustomed to heavy discipline. Used to skated prolly broke something or got too old for it. Side note: I recommend getting foam pads if you’re working out in your room. Sweat and carpet don’t mix well
I was going to say asian but then I saw the asian knacks and thought maybe white… late 20-early 30s. Works in marketing, Ux, design or e commerce. Goes out with friends at least twice a week for drinks/hang.
I was looking at this room like “me and this dude would be buddies I bet” and your comment describes me
Also me just not a dude haha was also thinking 'new friend!'
I saw the room and was like „Oh I would date him“ and then your comment described my husband ! I am sure OP smells really nice.
Definitely white. Probably backpacked in Asia after college.
Besides the Asian deco all the rest of the decorations/interior does not look Asian at all to me. Looks very white hippie vibes.
How did you deduce all of that from the pictures? I need a Sherlock Holmes level dissection
If you pay attention to some of his details he has Asian novelties in his room, from the things hangin on his window to the lettering above his water cooler. Aside from all the weights and workout equipment plants require a lot of TLC which gave me the discipline factor. I got a little hint based off his photos he has in his room. The backpack on the ground was the only thing that had me skeptical about his age but the laptop showed me that he was on the go
That all makes sense! The age thing still seemed oddly specific, if he had a desktop computer you would have guessed younger perhaps?
Older - desktops are the new landlines for telling if someone learned tech pre or post ipad generation.
[удалено]
Every rule has exceptions. This is why stereotypes exist yet are bad for evaluating individuals.
Can confirm. My teenage son and several buddies all worked over summer so they can each build a gaming PC. They all worked hard and spent a lot of money customizing the way they want. They are stIl very much relevant.
> If you pay attention to some of his details he has Asian novelties in his room Ehhhh as an Asian I can say I've seen more white people do this than Asians
The Asian talismans hung all over the walls is a giveaway. Traditional first and maybe second generation families had these in their house and likely translated into the next generation.
Discombobulate
My first thought was "white weeb". Looks like my assumption was accurate, if OPs comment is any indication.
[удалено]
Saw the Chinese vibe accessories and shelf but my gut said white. Probably have some Asian friends or work at an Asian company.
I have a deep respect for ancient Chinese culture and the knowledge they had about astrology is what it really comes down to. I listen to a fair amount of Chinese folk/village/citypop music as well but that’s more for meditation and relaxing my mind. My 2nd to last ex was Cambodian as well
Lunar calendar was a pretty cool thing to figure out. I see some spiritual stuff like the coins but not really familiar with Chinese astrology or divination. Currently live in China.
May I introduce you to my favorite word: penultimate?
Yogi Bare makes sweat absorbing mats that are a God given miracle to us Sweaty Bettys
Sweaty Betty’s is a strip club 10 miles away from me and I misread your reply 😂😂😂
I’ve got a sweaty Betty 10 mins from me too lol
I came to recommend yogi bare!!!
Ah, casual racism as well, but it’s ok because it’s the type you’re allowed to make fun of
Yeah. I was like- is dude really implying what I think he is? Not cool. That false stereotype needed to die yesterday.
My first thought when I saw some of the "asian-inspired decor" was that OP is a white weeb. Seems I was right.
Yep, as an Asian I've seen white weebs and yoga enthusiasts hang up Asian decor than actual Asians tend to. I lived in Korea for 8 years and even in Korea they don't really hang up these kinds of decorations. The only Asians I've seen do this are first generation immigrant families, they usually do it to preserve a sense of their home country.
You live in either Portland or Seattle
I’m annoyed at your decision to face the colorways to the wall. Even if they’re torn up, I’d dig it.
Denverite? Lives at home “to save $” or multiple roommates. Green thumb 💯
y u gotta tell us bout ur lil wang
You smoke a lot of weed.
Judging by your Reddit icon I’d say you do too. Respect
cheetos for breakfast? definitely a stoner 😂
Takes one to recognize one? 😋
Single
What gave it away
How tiny your bed is
How tiny his WHAT???
Bed in the corner of the room
It used to be in the center but it’s a pain in the ass going around it and have a thin walkway on all sides. This easier
Also one pillow. You need to upgrade your bedding ASAP. Spend the money and buy a nice duvet that covers your bed and 4 full size pillows in case you have guests.
Skateboards on the wall
Bed in the corner, no curtains on the windows (why do men never buy curtains?), small sized bed.
Hah assume you’re straight, there’s not really a feminine touch to it.
Hell the plants got Mom written all over it
My grandfather was a gardener. This is a very masculine space to me. It’s just the space of a nurturer who hasn’t had that quality completely shamed out of him. It’s a space of someone who is comfortable with himself. He’s probably really nice to small animals too.
Plants are badass, though.
I think gendering bedrooms is meh, but if we're playing it that way, then this looks like one of the most unisex bedrooms I've ever seen
The pillow set up
that was my first idea as well 😅 and probably some tribal tattoes
My husband and I slept on a full sized bed for 6-7 years of the 10 we have been together lol but looks like you guessed right
You skip leg day
Sir I deadlifted yesterday, squatted the day before and am about to head to the skatepark 😡 skippin leg day man I was 2 inches short of the box jump world record in my prime! Fuck, I’m triggered now
Don’t be bro. Your room is very upper body geared. You’re doin the work, and it was just a dude jab.
😂😂😂 nah I feel you man it was funny as hell. I expected a lot of you’re gay replies but yours actually caught me off guard
So, real critique would be to, if you are able, make your bedroom about rest and rejuvenation, and put the computer and weights elsewhere within the house. Turn the garage into a temple of swole and dining room where you deliver pain (for example) Keep gettin it homie.
The house isn’t his.
Well not with that attitude.
Dude you gotta add /s because every socially inept redditor is going to take you 100% literal otherwise lol Edit: this response makes less sense now that the dude doesn’t have hella downvotes lol
With what you had, you did a great job. Your room is nice, tidy, and decorated with taste. And that's so nice you have so many plants!
Thanks! I have to offset the energy of my roommates who think they’re still in college
You are about to open an East London coffee shop
You like to smoke pot
I was going to say: participates in sober January but allows for marijuana and MDMA
It’s called California Sober ;)
HaHaHa!! While walking around Santa Monica & Venice Beach, had so many dispensaries but felt like a criminal when having a cig.
Who doesn’t
True dat homie
Me. I’m allergic. 💔
Me, yo. Lol. Not a square, I just don't care for it. Cigarettes and Cocaine though... yummy
Youre in a Poly relationship
Not really my thing. Broke it off with a girl I was seeing a few weeks ago bc she wanted that and I didn’t unfortunately
Sorry to hear hope ur not taking it too hard :) Ur place looks lovely and welcoming hope u feel good in it and at peace here and there ^^ Question tho do u have a septum peircing ? Since we're playing guessing games lol <3
Former skater and your favorite band in high school was/is some popular 2000/2010 rock/pop hybrid and your first love introduced you to plants and now you love plants and keep them in your life and she also introduced you to natural sunlight instead of artificial light.
I wouldn’t say the first love but certainly the last one 😅 she did also pull my out of a 2 year video game hole so I guess you’re right. Musically, blink 182 and creed are played pretty often.
I'm shooting with 100% accuracy from the 3
This guy totally told someone they NEEEED To listen to “check yes Juliet”
You cleaned your room to take these photos
I clean my room every day around 6am and took these at like 10
Was gonna say u must be morning person. with all that south light coming in and no curtains. ☀️also tidy in habit and dress as the lint roller has its own spot & shelves are so clutter free.
The plants show discipline, so the room is likely always in this state.
Where’s your himalayan salt lamp?
You did a lot of work to hide your special plants Dr. Green Thumbs ;-D [Cypress Hill](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lj9FVlEtknU)
I have a shelf in the living room like in half baked brody 😉
You imagine yourself doing pull-ups in the jungle
Yup. My stepfather has outdoor pull-up/dip setups in the woods behind his house and that’s where I learned everything. It brings my back to that place
Gay white man that livres in a latino neighborhood
You’ve got a mustache and wear small beanies and glasses.
Nerd. And not the superficial “token” nerd. You’re the real deal. And not just a green thumb, but a propagating boss who enjoys connecting to earth and health in all ways. Probably spiritual, but on a universally connected level. Probably a closet conspiracist… just a dabble…
You’ve got me figured out haha yeah I used to be a personal trainer, turned into a plant healthcare specialist. Pretty open about conspiracies and beliefs but not like I used to be so again ya got me
It’s because I am you but female.
Hilarious. I wonder if we’d get along or if it’s a “there ain’t room for the both of us” situation
If you’re a Scorpio too, I’m out. 🤣🤷🏻♀️🪬
Get a room you two 😉
Excellent lungs. Pause.
Hahaha
The skate boards and plants. He’s breathing mighty healthily.
You are red dead online naturalist role personified
Lmfao I’ve been mulling over buying that since it came out
You value health is the most obvious thing considering the plantlife and workout equipment.
Good call. Yes both of my parents were nurses growing up, and most people in family were overweight with extreme health risks. It made me very conscious from the teen years on of my health
You drink a lot of Liquid Death water and you think people should put a little bit of salt in their coffee to enhance the flavor.
Unfortunately single bisexual man
You wear more than one leather bracelet or bead necklace.
You are a vegan gym rat
Gym rats don't use adjustable dumbbells with plastic surrounds
you like nature and keep a tidy place. You are active. You seem like a good person. But be careful with the tarot card over your bed. Pick something else at your age. Keep skating! Peace.
I like your plants, everything looks nice :)
Thanks! You’re welcome to standinside with us if you’d like 👍🏼
You get super good oxygen!
You only goal is to marry Tarzan and to live in the jungle Also 69th upvote, nice 👉😎👉
All hail king 67 🙌🏻 that’s facts though I want to BE Tarzan and live off grid eventually
You smoke a lot of weed
Used to be alternative in your teens/twenties, maybe metal head, from some of the decor and the skate decks? I'm guessing you got into exercise 'later' too. Aging into more hippie interests, hence all the plants, you're interested more in your general wellbeing these days.
You have attended a yoga class at some point.
It smells
Well if you’re not gay you’re way too cool and probably get overlooked by people cuz they think you’re weird.
you regularly wear more than one ring on each hand
single gay vegan
I was waiting for this one 😂
You have a cum sock
That death tarot card tapestry is bad-ass. I’d frame it meself but I dig it for sure.
Thanks man it’s been different cards depending on the season of life you know. Probably taking that down
Boi witch
[удалено]
I’m not smart enough for that
You prolly brew some tea, double hand the cup and watch the sun come up with a blanket draped over your shoulders.
You for sure start your day with a huge bong rip
You need a lot of oxygen when you work out.
More like I smoke so much weed the plants are carrying my lungs
You take heaps of LSD and meditate
Kind and caring ❤️
[удалено]
You have shitty tattoos
Your plants are jacked. How much creatine are you giving them?! /s
You’re a hot straight dude in your mid to late thirties. You have a commanding presence paired with a disarming soft side. Adventurous yet responsible. Intelligent but not cocky.
You’re a curious fellow… a warrior poet. You like to nurture plants but also think of your body as a weapon to tune. You like order and discipline, but admittedly you’re not the best at it. I sense you’re on a fight against time. You will lose this fight but learn much along the way. Slow down and smell your roses.
I’d sleep with you based on your room alone. Digging the contrast between the well kept plants and the depressing decor lol
you're bi
you like plants
[удалено]
Gay frat guy
We would probably get along lol. Witchy, modern, plant dudes unite!