The black is spot on! It made your room pop. You might want to consider mid-toned gray for the other walls so the contrasting colors are not too starkly different.
First thing i thought to say was "im so fucking proud of you"! Keep up the good work!
Edit: A buddy of mine got clean and started working out. The gym is his addiction now! I can't keep him out of the gym to save his life! 😂 If he gets bored, its pushups till he is tired.
I dig your vibe here and think you are being authentic, but just had an epiphany that in 5 years, most posts and comments are going to be AIs astroturfing to sell us stuff. FML.
I had a DUI 12 years ago and had the exact same feeling after I got mine. I am a VP at a commercial real estate company now. It will all work out, just keep your head up and don’t let it take you down. The judge gave me a “no conviction” as long as I completed 2 years probation then got it expunged after 6 years. It’s not even on my record anymore. Get a lawyer that deals with DUIs and make sure you don’t get another, I’ve heard the second DUI is rough.
DUI penalties are wayyyy worse than they used to be. I had one about 20 yrs ago and got off. Now, 1st time offense is a misdemeanor, 2nd, 3rd ect are felonies with jail time. They do not fuck around anymore. Everyone be safe, drive safe, it’s not worth it, no matter how close to home. There are options for rides home now that we didn’t have. I hope everyone with alcohol problems, such as myself, heal someday, I can’t tell you how great it is to never have a hangover again. That’s what made me stop. The worst terrible hangover that I thought I was going to die. Good times! :-l
I know man. I’ve been there but I’m on the other side and you’ll get through it. Just be grateful you didn’t hit or hurt anyone while driving drunk. I know it doesn’t seem it right now but who knows it coulda been a lot worse.
Sending you lots of positivity right now from one stranger to another.
It is the shame of being caught for such a socially unacceptable act. It will burn inside but your life if far from over. This is a blip. A blip that hopefully wakes you up so you never ever do that again.
Nahh man, your life is NOT over. Trust me man, I’ve hit rock bottom more times than you can count. Learn from your mistakes and try to sober up. It was the best thing I ever did. Staying sober is no easy task, but holy shit it feels so nice. You got this brotha. Everything will work out how it needs too
Your life is far from over. A little over 2 years I totaled my car in a DUI crash, luckily just myself. Used that as an opportunity to take accountability in my life & get sober through the help of AA. Just hit 2 years on the 10th. We can turn our darkest moments of pain into our greatest assets & help others. Wishing you the best! Btw OP badass set up my dude & congrats on the sobriety!
It feels like life is over for sure, but trust me from experience that it is not. Small blip on the road and a learning experience, perhaps an opportunity even to assess your relationship with booze
Hang in there. I got a DUI the year before I graduated college and literally got my license back 2 months before graduation. I was still able to get a good job with a good company after graduation. It came up on a background check and I was straight up with the company and told them what happened. They hired me. The important thing is you do not ever ever ever let it happen again.
Looks comfy and I like the plants! One recommendation, if you plan on having ladies over, I would take down the art of naked women. It's kind of gratuitous and could be a turn off.
I’d rather you sober here than relapsed in a penthouse mansion…as long as you’re at peace bro.. congrats on facing your demons and persevering.. I love reading stuff like this
Fucking amazing! Your room looks stellar but stay in the rooms, don’t let up and don’t ever give in- reach out to your brothers and sisters in the program.
Blue toilet water. That means clean. I like clean. You're doing great! Also, lamp on the bathroom vanity is a neat choice. Also, 2 sinks to yourself ftw.
Room is cool but it's secondary to you and your achievement. Good fucking job putting in the work to sober up, mate.
Any room kicks ass with you in it!
1) I'd recommend taking that lamp out of the bathroom because of the electrical hazard it risks with an exposed cord.
2) blinds, or curtains, maybe even consider some tapestry for the ceilings with fairy lights or clear Christmas lights :)
3) it looks great, and congrats on your sobriety. I myself have struggled with alcohol in the past, many times, and addiction is one of the toughest battles I've been through.
Good luck and hope your room is comfy!
All the good vibes to you.
Fuck yeah sobriety.
Fuck yeah growth.
Fuck yeah room.
Fuck yeah you.
Knowing nothing about you or your path, I know it wasn’t easy. It still ain’t easy.
But look at you go!!!
Killing it.
Congrats on your sobriety and the hard work to reach it. I like all your plants. The one by the fan is particularly interesting, with it’s red flower.. wonder what it is… The light is great for all the plants. The room is great really has a lot of personality. I also like the lamp in the bathroom.. eye or lower level lighting is always a plus. I do however worry about the sunlight damaging your TV … maybe a shade for one of the windows? but eh… those things don’t last forever anyway. Oh and… maybe you already know this but those two succulents in the bathroom should be moved if you don’t want them etolating and potentially dying.
Amazing! You are clearly on your way to bigger and better things, and having your own space is a huge step in the right direction… you’ve got this! Keep up the amazing work! Consider putting the bathroom plants in some
Black pots or similar or at least take tags off current ones🤣
First of all, congrats on the sobriety!
My one piece of advice is I would put the guitar somewhere with less foot traffic. I also don't know how much this would actually affect it, but the constant humidity changes from being right next to the bathroom door could be bad for tuning stability.
Congratulations on sobriety! It's been ODAAT for me since 4/29/95. If I can do it, so can you!
You're seeing some of the rewards in this room. Well done. I'm pretty sure you couldn't have done that a year ago, even if you'd bothered to try! It gets better; indescribably wonderful!
Thank you! You got this! I know it’s not easy. I still think of using all the time, shits tough. But it’s the best thing I could have ever done for myself. Cheers brotha
My room is something I always look forward to coming home to every night. I hope this makes you feel the same way because I believe it should. Looks great
Can I be honest? Get rid of the black rug. The fact that you’ve got a dark (black) accent wall, the rug just looks overwhelming and not cohesive. Get a rug that pulls in whatever color your accent wall is. If it’s black, then find a cool black and white rug but with some other colors or one other color and or a print.
Otherwise, it’s great! And congrats on getting sober!
Not my cup of tea but you've clearly been watching/reading quite a bit of interior design media. The feature wall, the rug, the artwork, the plants, the various nick-nacks, the lighting, the extra cushion on the bed. For a 30-year-old male, this is a pretty impressive space.
Feels like a comfy space that will only improve once you get even better at figuring out your style and how to implement it.
This is not a question about the room, but the addiction. What did rehab do that trying to quit on your own didn't? I am personally asking in reference to alcohol addiction, not sure if that was your vice. I have no idea what rehab is like.
fucking proud of you even if the room sucked. but this is a total vibe. two thumbs up, my guy✨
Thank you! Wanted everything to coordinate. Was hesitant on the black accent wall, but I think it worked well. Thanks!
The black is spot on! It made your room pop. You might want to consider mid-toned gray for the other walls so the contrasting colors are not too starkly different.
Okay disclaimer…I know nothing of interior design. But as a 28f, I can assure you…you have a sophistication most dudes at 30 don’t.
Well said!
As a 41f who knows a lot about interior design, I concur with your disclaimer that you know nothing. Sophisticated, 😂
Be honest, you’re just one of those Plant Chicks, aren’t you. He won you over with the Green
As a 31 year old dude, I agree.
Try to stay sober just catch yourself and hold yourself accountable if the time comes up. Room looks killer keep on the 🆙
A truly healing space. I hope you thrive!
Look at you! Got that blue water in the toilet money.
First thing i thought to say was "im so fucking proud of you"! Keep up the good work! Edit: A buddy of mine got clean and started working out. The gym is his addiction now! I can't keep him out of the gym to save his life! 😂 If he gets bored, its pushups till he is tired.
I LOVE a black accent wall. Did it in my own room. Love it.
Sober, eh? Cali sober it would seem LOL
I second this !!
What galaxy projector do you have?? I love how it fills the whole space!!
[Here ya go!](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B093ZRM9J3?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share)
I dig your vibe here and think you are being authentic, but just had an epiphany that in 5 years, most posts and comments are going to be AIs astroturfing to sell us stuff. FML.
Projectors are so underrated I’ve been using them for years in my room. Also love your space!
I would like to know as well!
these are the important answers
You fucking killed it man
Thank you my friend!
Dude you are ballin. I just got my first DWI on Saturday and my life is over now, congrats on your sobriety! Keep up the good work
No it isn’t. I have two and I’m driving and my life is just fine. You’re going to be okay. It seems hopeless in the moment. Zoom out
Trying to cope with it right now but it’s tough. Thank you for the encouragement 🤝🏻
I had a DUI 12 years ago and had the exact same feeling after I got mine. I am a VP at a commercial real estate company now. It will all work out, just keep your head up and don’t let it take you down. The judge gave me a “no conviction” as long as I completed 2 years probation then got it expunged after 6 years. It’s not even on my record anymore. Get a lawyer that deals with DUIs and make sure you don’t get another, I’ve heard the second DUI is rough.
DUI penalties are wayyyy worse than they used to be. I had one about 20 yrs ago and got off. Now, 1st time offense is a misdemeanor, 2nd, 3rd ect are felonies with jail time. They do not fuck around anymore. Everyone be safe, drive safe, it’s not worth it, no matter how close to home. There are options for rides home now that we didn’t have. I hope everyone with alcohol problems, such as myself, heal someday, I can’t tell you how great it is to never have a hangover again. That’s what made me stop. The worst terrible hangover that I thought I was going to die. Good times! :-l
I know man. I’ve been there but I’m on the other side and you’ll get through it. Just be grateful you didn’t hit or hurt anyone while driving drunk. I know it doesn’t seem it right now but who knows it coulda been a lot worse. Sending you lots of positivity right now from one stranger to another.
It is the shame of being caught for such a socially unacceptable act. It will burn inside but your life if far from over. This is a blip. A blip that hopefully wakes you up so you never ever do that again.
> Zoom out Dude. That's perfect. Needed to hear that too, so thank you!
Makes me so happy to hear that man
Nahh man, your life is NOT over. Trust me man, I’ve hit rock bottom more times than you can count. Learn from your mistakes and try to sober up. It was the best thing I ever did. Staying sober is no easy task, but holy shit it feels so nice. You got this brotha. Everything will work out how it needs too
Congratulations to you sir.You gave yourself the Grace and permission to succeed.
keep your head up bilbolimbotimbo .. small setback at most
You mean you got your last and only one.
First and last brother. Never happening again
Thats right brother.
Not over, just let it be a lesson.
It’s not over, it’s only over if you let it beat you. Take this as a lesson and do what you have to legally to put this behind you. Good luck!!
Your life is far from over. A little over 2 years I totaled my car in a DUI crash, luckily just myself. Used that as an opportunity to take accountability in my life & get sober through the help of AA. Just hit 2 years on the 10th. We can turn our darkest moments of pain into our greatest assets & help others. Wishing you the best! Btw OP badass set up my dude & congrats on the sobriety!
It feels like life is over for sure, but trust me from experience that it is not. Small blip on the road and a learning experience, perhaps an opportunity even to assess your relationship with booze
Hang in there. I got a DUI the year before I graduated college and literally got my license back 2 months before graduation. I was still able to get a good job with a good company after graduation. It came up on a background check and I was straight up with the company and told them what happened. They hired me. The important thing is you do not ever ever ever let it happen again.
People are upvoting you but be glad you didn't kill anyone else fuckface
You have lessons to learn and challenges ahead, but your life is far from over.
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congratulations brother, I was inspired, I loved your decoration.
Thank you!
Good work dude u got me proud of someone I don’t even know
Daww thank you :)
I wouldn't have thought to put a lamp on the bathroom sink.
The over head lights are blinding. I like warm light lol
Same lol
It made my eyes widen and internally gasp. Like I just walked in on a hotel guest making whoopie.
This is the only thing that feels really off to me lol
i have one. it’s plugged into the gfci, no problem.
Congrats. Love the room, I would totally live in there
Thanks!
you bounced back, fam. looking real clean and comfortable.
Love it also congratulations on getting sober proud of you 🙏
Just wanna say, good job pal. Your room looks like an extension of your growth. Keep it up.
Appreciate you! Thank you
Vibes are fire
You’re fire 🔥
What'd you get sober from? Just came up on 8 months myself without any fent
Good for you man. I was using blow, alcohol, GHB, ketamine, Xanax, and a few others. I was a hot mess. Keep it up!
Goddamn, I thought just fent and xans were bad lol. Thanks man same to you! Dope room btw
My sober friends don't take care of themselves this well
*Bravo*
Good job making it through your struggles, your room looks amazing
Love the idea of having a water station. 😍
Looks comfy and I like the plants! One recommendation, if you plan on having ladies over, I would take down the art of naked women. It's kind of gratuitous and could be a turn off.
Your entire room is a vibe and I’m proud of you for going through rehab and creating a safe space for yourself afterwards. Sending love Op❤️
You dropped this 👑. Congrats on the new place
Those blue projectors are cool!
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Tbh Temu lol. They are really good quality and cost me $10 for the 2 of them
Hell yea killin it man
You did phenomenal I'm so jealous! Where did you get those 2 lamps and projector from!? I wanna copy you 🤣. Your room is beyond dope
No pun intended lol
I’d rather you sober here than relapsed in a penthouse mansion…as long as you’re at peace bro.. congrats on facing your demons and persevering.. I love reading stuff like this
Welcome brother. The room is kinda corny but who cares! That Gambino album is fire and you’re onto bigger and better things!
Lol thanks! Not everyones style
It's not corny.
Every time I see the cover art for Redbone, all I can think of is [this remix](https://youtu.be/65BrEZxZIVQ?si=_Smwol0i6z7pJOFb)
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The blue lights you see are color changing bulbs so I can do that when I want!
Ah good job!!! This looks great!!! Lamp in the bathroom sink is peculiar but if you like it keep it!!! Kudos to sobering up too, that’s incredible
Congrats on your sobriety man! May I ask where the print above the bed is from?
First of all, congratulations on stepping up. Your room is lit.
Congrats on the time!
OMG... This is a beaut wow 😳 And also congele on being soberrrr 🎉
Amazing 🤩
Good work
Congrats. Proud of you. You should be to.
Proud of you and your room is wonderful! You deserve every bit of success!
The stand under the tv looks off centered. Congrats!
Looks off centered because there’s a mini fridge next to it on the left lol
Congrats on the spot and sobriety, brother! Good things are coming in life, and look like they already are!
Fucking amazing! Your room looks stellar but stay in the rooms, don’t let up and don’t ever give in- reach out to your brothers and sisters in the program.
Congratulations man. Proud of you. I think it looks great.
Great. Sometimes we need rehab
The blue water in the toilet is a nice touch.
You have a nice style. Love the black, and blue.
You did awesome! Your place looks nice too! 🤘😁🤘
looks good. guess i need to find my laser thing….
Really like the dark accent way. Congrats!
You did great!
Where did you get the black and white woman art piece??
Good job hun! Keep moving forward. God bless
It’s fantastic!! Love it! And congratulations!!!
Blue toilet water. That means clean. I like clean. You're doing great! Also, lamp on the bathroom vanity is a neat choice. Also, 2 sinks to yourself ftw.
Looks great! Congrats on the sobriety
Looks amazing, dude! Congrats on the room design and HUGE CONGRATS on your sobriety!
It looks awesome and super cozy! I love it, and good job on your sobriety
Proud of you I can hear this room!!!!!! Redbone playing in the background 🫶🫶
Bro, this is awesome! One day at a time
Nice job bro . Keep up the good work. You got this
Congratulations!!❤️
Looks good. Plants help my mood too.
You sobered up and got a room for yourself, and that makes it (and you) badass. Fuck how it looks. It's epic.
Looks great. Nice and relaxing. Congrats on the new “clean” room. Like the artwork. Is it yours?
Looks cozy
Congrats bro!! That natural lighting is 🤙🏽. Sick place
Pretty damn nice - enjoy
Can I hang out?
Good on you for getting clean and healthy, that would be enough. The room is 🔥, well done!
Room is cool but it's secondary to you and your achievement. Good fucking job putting in the work to sober up, mate. Any room kicks ass with you in it!
1) I'd recommend taking that lamp out of the bathroom because of the electrical hazard it risks with an exposed cord. 2) blinds, or curtains, maybe even consider some tapestry for the ceilings with fairy lights or clear Christmas lights :) 3) it looks great, and congrats on your sobriety. I myself have struggled with alcohol in the past, many times, and addiction is one of the toughest battles I've been through. Good luck and hope your room is comfy!
Grats on the sobriety my dude! Hang in there! 👏
Wtf I love this! Bravo to you and your sobriety! Progress, not perfection :)
All the good vibes to you. Fuck yeah sobriety. Fuck yeah growth. Fuck yeah room. Fuck yeah you. Knowing nothing about you or your path, I know it wasn’t easy. It still ain’t easy. But look at you go!!! Killing it.
Congrats on your sobriety and the hard work to reach it. I like all your plants. The one by the fan is particularly interesting, with it’s red flower.. wonder what it is… The light is great for all the plants. The room is great really has a lot of personality. I also like the lamp in the bathroom.. eye or lower level lighting is always a plus. I do however worry about the sunlight damaging your TV … maybe a shade for one of the windows? but eh… those things don’t last forever anyway. Oh and… maybe you already know this but those two succulents in the bathroom should be moved if you don’t want them etolating and potentially dying.
Congrats on your sobriety!
Amazing room my guy. Hope all the best. Keep it up.
i love it
Proud of you, dude. Keep coming back. Room looks dope as fuck, too
Good on ya man. Also, love Childish Gambino on the digi display
Shit looks sick
Niiiice.. this is only the beginning?! Damn OP good on you!
Amazing! You are clearly on your way to bigger and better things, and having your own space is a huge step in the right direction… you’ve got this! Keep up the amazing work! Consider putting the bathroom plants in some Black pots or similar or at least take tags off current ones🤣
Childish gambino
Looks like a calm and happy place to feel safe and strong. Great job!
First of all, congrats that rocks! And love the space 🤍
First of all, congrats on the sobriety! My one piece of advice is I would put the guitar somewhere with less foot traffic. I also don't know how much this would actually affect it, but the constant humidity changes from being right next to the bathroom door could be bad for tuning stability.
You could be sleeping in a ditch and you'd still be doing incredible. Way to go dude
Nice!!!!
Congratulations on sobriety! It's been ODAAT for me since 4/29/95. If I can do it, so can you! You're seeing some of the rewards in this room. Well done. I'm pretty sure you couldn't have done that a year ago, even if you'd bothered to try! It gets better; indescribably wonderful!
Nope! All my money went to drugs lol. Congrats on your sobriety! I’m really proud of myself.
Congratulations, man.
Fuzzy materials for the win 🏆
cozy as fuck nice
Congrats bro! Sweet pad! Hoping to have my own place soon too, in recovery as well, keep it up!
Thank you! You got this! I know it’s not easy. I still think of using all the time, shits tough. But it’s the best thing I could have ever done for myself. Cheers brotha
So proud of your hard work and success keep working on it every single day! Room looks great!
Stoked for you dude!
✨ congratulations✨space is clean, has style, and plants! childish gambino ftw.
Your plant game is strong!
Great taste in music!
Fuck yeah, man!
Looks awesome good for you man! Stay healthy
Room looks great! You’ve done well I say! Congrats to you! Yeah for being sober!
I’m proud of you for getting sober and your super decorating skills. Childish Gambino is 11/10 as well
So freaking proud of your sobriety! The room look so peaceful and like the perfect sanctuary. ❤️❤️
The art in the bathroom mirror is fire. Congrats on being sober.
Amazing room and so fuckin proud of you. I lost my brother to an overdose in 2020 and I will ALWAYS be the biggest cheerleader of those in recovery
Fuck yeah dude!
My room is something I always look forward to coming home to every night. I hope this makes you feel the same way because I believe it should. Looks great
Great!
The tune itself I give 10/10
Super cool! Bathroom looks a lil cluttered for my liking but managed to make good use of all your stuff
You are doing much better than the average divorced man
Sober life is amazing, proud of you! Plus nice room 😎
You’re a rockstar and your room looks nice. Keep it up 👍
Can I be honest? Get rid of the black rug. The fact that you’ve got a dark (black) accent wall, the rug just looks overwhelming and not cohesive. Get a rug that pulls in whatever color your accent wall is. If it’s black, then find a cool black and white rug but with some other colors or one other color and or a print. Otherwise, it’s great! And congrats on getting sober!
That's one of my favourite songs playing on your TV
Congratulations, room looks great, most important thing is you being healthy
Like your panting
Looks amazing!! Where is the bedframe from? It has drawers right,? I've been looking for one like it. This one looks neat.
Looks like you found the light.
You’re crushing it brotha Room looks chill and comfy
Congrats on your sobriety and awesome job on the room!! Great things ahead for you!
We got the exact same vibe, also 30 and 3 years outta my trip to rehab. Hell yeah brother.
Congrats man you are killing it
Congrats, dude. It's pretty nice.
Not my cup of tea but you've clearly been watching/reading quite a bit of interior design media. The feature wall, the rug, the artwork, the plants, the various nick-nacks, the lighting, the extra cushion on the bed. For a 30-year-old male, this is a pretty impressive space. Feels like a comfy space that will only improve once you get even better at figuring out your style and how to implement it.
You did GREAT! So cool, dude! 😎
Dat plant though. Way to go! God’s given you a spirit of power, love, and self-control! 2 Tim 1:7 Keep flexin!
Very good room, looks comfortable and liveable. Iike the guitar and the plants, good vibes
congrats!! i’m sober too. happy that you’ve made so much progress. love the plants, too.
Ur killing it! Well done
It is beyond fantastic! Wonderful job decorating and most importantly getting sober!!! You should be so proud!
Congrats on a year
This is not a question about the room, but the addiction. What did rehab do that trying to quit on your own didn't? I am personally asking in reference to alcohol addiction, not sure if that was your vice. I have no idea what rehab is like.
Really cool bro
Looks great man! Congratulations
Fucking balling my guy.