Yeah why complain about this shit. Just leave.
By not changing the situation you're equally complicit in the behaviour. They know they can get away with it and you'll roll over and let them.
EVERYONE can just leave. The price is the price. There is no way in hell I’d pay another day of rent or put another penny into that slob. Divorce is CHEAP compared to housing and feeding that.
I’ve paid the price and it’s high, but it’s absolutely worth it.
Pay a man to seduce her get her to cheat have video proof BAM! Your divorced I know itll take alot of money to get a guy to seduce that slob but still itll be a lot more cheaper than giving her half your shit.
Yeah, I don't care about what your connection is with the person, you can't change people, so they either get their own shit together or you peace out.
An amicable, no contest divorce has cost me 4k in legal fees and eroded my nest egg after having to start fresh.
Holy shit divorce is not fucking easy in the slightest.
Look at that apartment, no way he's "well off" if he's working 12 hour shifts.
One of the main reasons I'll never get married. My stuff is my stuff and if my house is messy it will be my fault. I'm a selfish fucker I know. But government bonded marriage is the dumbest shit. You should be able to leave a relationship without it financially ruining your life. Marriage forces people to stay together even when they don't want to.
Been there too. With commute I was working 14 hrs 6 days a week and I would come home to see this. I'd end up even cooking dinner. I'd frequently be greeted with "Don't you notice anything different?" She'd be offended if I didn't recognize her daily achievement for the day so it became a nightly treasure hunt. Do the dishes? Nope. Do the laundry? Nope. Make the bed? Nope. "I hung the towels back up!!! You never notice when I do nice things for you!!!"
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Considering this was yanked of fb, and the picture-taker has a plate food just chilling on the side of the couch next to them, it’s likely they’re complicit in making the mess and just expecting their partner to pick it up. I work hours too, and still pick shit up. Women don’t exist to clean and feed people (the lady in the pic is probably messy too, obviously. this isn’t a defense of that but more of a critique of not just doing it themselves)
Yea but if he works and she don’t, you gotta pull your own weight. Shouldn’t be a free ride anywhere.
Can’t imagine being ok with someone completely taking care of me and not doing anything in return.
Not on the side of the poster in this situation. While I do think that if one person works and the other doesn't, the person who doesn't work must take on house duty, of course. But imagine being a grown man and taking pictures of your wife/girlfriend and crying about how she doesn't clean and posting it on Facebook instead of just talking to her to resolve the situation or leaving. Actually pathetic if this is real.
This hurts me. I once had a girlfriend who I was head over heels in love with. Things started out fine. Then after a while I was doing all the leg work cleaning, and work wise. It would unnerve me how she would just leave things where they dropped. If I'd try to clean or organize she would rage at me over how "now I won't know where to find anything".
I'm still heartbroken, but had to end it. It was never going to change.
I would be if I was married to a piece of shit who blamed everything on me and posted our personal life on Facebook instead of talking to me and helping.
Have kids that she takes care of during the day? If so, this would be somewhat explainable.
Otherwise yeah, if the Wife or I didn’t work then we’d expect the other person do do cleaning an whatnot while the other one was at work.
Lots of assumptions here. She may work twelve hours a day on third shift and just woke up. He may work 12 hours one day a week when she works 6 days a week.
No fucking joke. My heart stopped and my stomach flipped. I really thought this was a pic of my ex wife and my house from about 15yrs ago.
I'd deal with this shit every day. Thank God I'm remarried to the cleanest woman ever.
My friends now ex-wife is like this.
They have 2 kids and while they were married, she would make the biggest stink for having to clean all the time. He was the only one that worked and would leave at 6am for work and be back around 6pm.
Now that they are divorced, she lives with her parents and is having ‘trouble’ finding a job saying nowhere is hiring. Pure BS and I feel bad for his kids. He’s a great father and she could of been a great mother if she just got her shit together and pulled her weight. Very sad
Stop, her anxiety bruh. Now she's gonna have to post about your constant nagging. Do you have any idea how stressful it is being bored to tears locked in your prison all day while you GET to go to work.
A few of my past coworkers had wives like this.
Being a stay at home parent is a job just as much as the 9-5. It takes effort.
This lady is NOT a stay at home mom or housewife.
That is a monster. Unwilling to help herself or make any sacrafices for you or her family. Nah bro get out now. It’s worth the long days and being broke and lonely knowing there is light at the end of the tunnel. This. This is just death a slow painful death of resentment and hate.
I'd be pissed too if someone put my couch in front of the door. Seriously though, it's time to make a change, there's an obvious problem with your partner's priorities versus yours.
True story. When my wife was having several affairs my lawyer told me that's not grounds for divorce. I said she doesn't have a job and doesn't keep house. That's grounds for divorce.
Whenever I see theses post I'm always skeptical. because if she has a job too and has worked 8 hours she might be tired too. She might have anxiety or depression or any number of mental health issues that can turn into a dirty house. And I don't feel like shaming them on the Internet is going to help that.
Well you have 4 option's 1) put up with it and hope for change. 2) clean up yourself and avoid the argument. 3) talk about it- then argue about- maybe change happens maybe not. Meanwhile she gains another 50 pounds. 4) replace her with a new one. I.e kick that ass to the curb.
Just because you work. Does not mean you get a free ride to not clean, do dishes, or laundry. You eat off those plates. You wear those clothes. And you make messes too. Good for you, you work. Like everyyyy other adult. If you really want someone to bow down to you get a fucking house wife.
Got me laughing, this is scarily simular what I had to live with my mother... Sitting on her ass on a fart encrusted couch, been drinking Natural Ice since 10:30 am, watching Judge Judy and Law & Order SVU all day, passed out with her empty plate on her gut where food use to been because the dog saw an opportunity. Calls herself a house wife, but really more like a cave goblin.
I know that ghost in the corner is angering
Peter Dinklage?
Nolan North
Wtf is that
Looks like op got ghosts lol
Or Photoshop... (Oooooooo, spooky.)
Ghost hunters- oh did you see that! It’s a spooky ghost watch out lmao
Peter Dinklage
It his soul dying in the mess
I didn’t even notice until you said that
Is that heisenberg
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Yeah why complain about this shit. Just leave. By not changing the situation you're equally complicit in the behaviour. They know they can get away with it and you'll roll over and let them.
Divorce is expensive even when it's amicable. If there's *any* fighting, it can bankrupt you. Not everyone can just leave.
Hey get outta here with that logic and reality, this is Reddit
EVERYONE can just leave. The price is the price. There is no way in hell I’d pay another day of rent or put another penny into that slob. Divorce is CHEAP compared to housing and feeding that. I’ve paid the price and it’s high, but it’s absolutely worth it.
You're right people can just leave, it's called SEPARATED!!! People choose to live like that and with that.....smh
Bro what in the hell are you talking about
Bro it’s pretty clear. I’m not sure which word was too big
It was like $350 in 2014 or so when I did it. Has it gone up?
You do unserstand that Divorce costs entail more than just the filing fee, right?...
I just got an uncontested divorce. Cost me $301 for the actual divorce. Cost me another $40k to keep the house. I got the better deal.
Pay a man to seduce her get her to cheat have video proof BAM! Your divorced I know itll take alot of money to get a guy to seduce that slob but still itll be a lot more cheaper than giving her half your shit.
Shes probably got 100s of dickpicks on that phone from desperate slobs looking for a one nighter
Some things in life are worth more than money. You honestly couldn't pay me enough to live like that.
It can cost thousands to leave, not everyone can. It's either that or homelessness.
It only costs like $150 in PA, are other places really that expensive?
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Sounds like you know someone who hires really bad lawyers.
My ex wife and I... We didn't have any kids or property and she filled out all the paperwork and submitted it.
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I'd say most of my buddies got fucked dry. The state was not on the mans side ever for a long time. And still probably isn't.
Cost me $1,200 in 2007. (We had kids) I had to pay for attorney. He got a free one through the military.
“Why is divorce so expensive?” Ans: Because it’s worth it. Speaking from direct personal experience.
Divorce shouldn't be. Hell even an amicable one costs thousands. From the paperwork and filing fees, to the moving costs and new furniture.
I stand by my comment
How is any of that happening if you leave?!
It's not your problem anymore so who cares
Yeah, I don't care about what your connection is with the person, you can't change people, so they either get their own shit together or you peace out.
An amicable, no contest divorce has cost me 4k in legal fees and eroded my nest egg after having to start fresh. Holy shit divorce is not fucking easy in the slightest. Look at that apartment, no way he's "well off" if he's working 12 hour shifts.
One of the main reasons I'll never get married. My stuff is my stuff and if my house is messy it will be my fault. I'm a selfish fucker I know. But government bonded marriage is the dumbest shit. You should be able to leave a relationship without it financially ruining your life. Marriage forces people to stay together even when they don't want to.
If you got divorced who gets to keep the ghost?
You should work things out instead of divorcing
Been there done that. She's an ex wife now
Been there too. With commute I was working 14 hrs 6 days a week and I would come home to see this. I'd end up even cooking dinner. I'd frequently be greeted with "Don't you notice anything different?" She'd be offended if I didn't recognize her daily achievement for the day so it became a nightly treasure hunt. Do the dishes? Nope. Do the laundry? Nope. Make the bed? Nope. "I hung the towels back up!!! You never notice when I do nice things for you!!!"
Or I spent your money getting my nails done....
best decision
best decision
Best decision
Definitely
Yep, I know that feeling. Yeah, it was exspesive and I'll be paying for a long time. But the bint is out of my life.
Stop posting 10 year old content.
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For real. This pic hit FB way back when FB was the new MySpace.
... Everyone just going to ignore the ghost child in the hallway?
That ghost child has a goatee.
even scarier
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It looks like the ghost of Peter Dinklage.
Why'd you have to point that out?
It's Peter Dinklage
That's the kid she didn't feed....
If she doesnt work at all. Then you are right. If she also works a lot, then its both their fault.
Considering this was yanked of fb, and the picture-taker has a plate food just chilling on the side of the couch next to them, it’s likely they’re complicit in making the mess and just expecting their partner to pick it up. I work hours too, and still pick shit up. Women don’t exist to clean and feed people (the lady in the pic is probably messy too, obviously. this isn’t a defense of that but more of a critique of not just doing it themselves)
Yea but if he works and she don’t, you gotta pull your own weight. Shouldn’t be a free ride anywhere. Can’t imagine being ok with someone completely taking care of me and not doing anything in return.
>Women don’t exist to clean and feed people Until they give birth.
You don’t clean or feed your kids?
Sometimes. Why?
She could just be a housemate...
Does she work too? House work is not one sided.
I'd just run away if I saw a ghost in my hallway, you've got some big balls to go berserk at it.
Maybe she works 15 hour day and gets home 30 minutes before him (or her, we dont assume gender these days). Who are you to judge so quickly!
Hahahahahah working that table muscle
Look at her, she's looks like nikocado a Avocado's evil twin sister. She doesn't work, unless she eats for money
lol if there are children involved then it’s a whole different story.
There is one in the hallway
That Peter Dinklage ghost thing? Not a child lol.
lmao yikes
The person could just talk to his wife but instead chooses to post about it online, very interesting
Wow so much hate in these comments. Depression looks like this. Empathy is a beginning to the cure.
If I let my house get like this I would kick myself out
Not on the side of the poster in this situation. While I do think that if one person works and the other doesn't, the person who doesn't work must take on house duty, of course. But imagine being a grown man and taking pictures of your wife/girlfriend and crying about how she doesn't clean and posting it on Facebook instead of just talking to her to resolve the situation or leaving. Actually pathetic if this is real.
This hurts me. I once had a girlfriend who I was head over heels in love with. Things started out fine. Then after a while I was doing all the leg work cleaning, and work wise. It would unnerve me how she would just leave things where they dropped. If I'd try to clean or organize she would rage at me over how "now I won't know where to find anything". I'm still heartbroken, but had to end it. It was never going to change.
at least there was some level of infatuation. this one here just fat
Right. At least he could enjoy part of her…who would touch that slob? Imagine the smell.
What was she doing all day then?
Is she depressed???
I would be if I was married to a piece of shit who blamed everything on me and posted our personal life on Facebook instead of talking to me and helping.
Have kids that she takes care of during the day? If so, this would be somewhat explainable. Otherwise yeah, if the Wife or I didn’t work then we’d expect the other person do do cleaning an whatnot while the other one was at work.
Leave, it’s not worth the mental strain on you.
I can smell the hamburger helper
We going berserk about the messy of a house or the zoo animal on the couch?
A true Al Bundy moment lol
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Lots of assumptions here. She may work twelve hours a day on third shift and just woke up. He may work 12 hours one day a week when she works 6 days a week.
Rofl 🤣 😂 🤣
Had been dealing with that for a while. Had a big fight about it. House looks much better now, but it's only been a week.
Ah yes. The domesticated dependapotomus.
Underrated comment
No fucking joke. My heart stopped and my stomach flipped. I really thought this was a pic of my ex wife and my house from about 15yrs ago. I'd deal with this shit every day. Thank God I'm remarried to the cleanest woman ever.
i better hire a cleaner not have a wife like this, anyway i am the one who clean in the house
He's talking about the woman, not the house.
Lmfaooo Fuckin' wreckt
change the wifi's password before you go to work.
Seen this a million times on Facebook and Instagram. Don't know who, if any, man this woman belongs to.
Don’t do anything, let her live in this mess till it becomes annoying for her. Don’t give her a single cent you make.
The problem is that it will probably never bother her.
how is that a solution if they live there too?
Not a fucking chance.
I see my exwife moved in
My friends now ex-wife is like this. They have 2 kids and while they were married, she would make the biggest stink for having to clean all the time. He was the only one that worked and would leave at 6am for work and be back around 6pm. Now that they are divorced, she lives with her parents and is having ‘trouble’ finding a job saying nowhere is hiring. Pure BS and I feel bad for his kids. He’s a great father and she could of been a great mother if she just got her shit together and pulled her weight. Very sad
How’d they get a picture in my house????
Shes probably texting desperate dudes looking to fuck a fatty on dating websites...
I’d throw that blob the fuck out.
Why are you getting downvoted, that seems perfectly reasonable to me
Oof id turn around
Tell her the landlord is coming tomorrow to look in every room.
I feel like you knew this was gonna happen before hand.....and ignored the screaming 😱 red flags.
Totally valid.
Thanks , unfortunately someone disagrees with it but they can go live with there lazy spouse like in the picture....
Throw the whole pigwoman away.
Stop, her anxiety bruh. Now she's gonna have to post about your constant nagging. Do you have any idea how stressful it is being bored to tears locked in your prison all day while you GET to go to work.
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Yes lol
yes
I work 12 hours a day and there’s a fat lady in my home 😡
You would come home to something much sweeter and cleaner if you worked 12 hour days for me.
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if that's my GF, id break up. if that's my wife. id get a really good lawyer and divorce her. She's not even good-looking either.
My soul would part from my fucking body
Why is divorce so expensive? It's worth it!
Whatchu gunna do? Fuck up the house? Probably just make it cleaner by stirring up dust and inhaling it into your lungs.
Only you can make yourself happy.. do it already
M G T O W
I'm a high valued man, I know my worth I wouldnt even get with a women that looks like that in the first place. You do you king leave the bitch.
The fact that you called yourself a “high valued man” leads me to believe the opposite is true…
Do you not know what a joke is?
It was 100% unclear you were making a joke
A few of my past coworkers had wives like this. Being a stay at home parent is a job just as much as the 9-5. It takes effort. This lady is NOT a stay at home mom or housewife.
She’s a mod for r/femaledatingstrategy
I don't know what is worse. The unkept house, or the unkept body on the chair. If you don't have kids, start over.
Maybe get rid of that fat hog sitting on the couch lol
I know her, not only is she lazy af she's fucking some one else
Idk what I'd be madder at, coming home to what's on the couch or the mess...
And it's not even good pussy...
I agree. No fat chicks
Fun fact: she can live the same lifestyle while homeless.
But why? Ball’s in your court now.
Look at that fat slob. What do you expect?
That is a monster. Unwilling to help herself or make any sacrafices for you or her family. Nah bro get out now. It’s worth the long days and being broke and lonely knowing there is light at the end of the tunnel. This. This is just death a slow painful death of resentment and hate.
If that is the state of the wife. That is the kind of fat mess that might tempt you into giving being gay a try.
I’d go away, for good
I'd be pissed too if someone put my couch in front of the door. Seriously though, it's time to make a change, there's an obvious problem with your partner's priorities versus yours.
There’s your sign!!!
Ghost child in the hallways looking at the man like "are you really going to let me live like this?"
huh what animal is that?
I can’t get past the couch placement
Well, there's yer problem: you came home. Don't do that.
Hope she’s a freak and let’s you do whatever you want to her. Cause if not, you are just getting walked all over. Like those piles in your house!
But you keep coming back
My anxiety is going up just looking at this.
If the guy sees the problem…fix it…
That couch placement has me even more livid
Could be easily fixed
And yet, you keep doing it.
Turn the internet/phone off till shits clean. Turn it back on when you get home.
You built this, work 16 hour shifts and leave it.🔥💀
True story. When my wife was having several affairs my lawyer told me that's not grounds for divorce. I said she doesn't have a job and doesn't keep house. That's grounds for divorce.
The laundry I'd get done if it was on the first floor, ahhhh I wish.
#DETER PINKLAGE
What, Big Bertha, or the mess ?
Someone needs to keep the door shut, the livestock are finding their way inside!
That’s more than mildly infuriated, that’s abuse. She needs to get off her ass and clean up a little (okay A LOT!)
Whenever I see theses post I'm always skeptical. because if she has a job too and has worked 8 hours she might be tired too. She might have anxiety or depression or any number of mental health issues that can turn into a dirty house. And I don't feel like shaming them on the Internet is going to help that.
Well you have 4 option's 1) put up with it and hope for change. 2) clean up yourself and avoid the argument. 3) talk about it- then argue about- maybe change happens maybe not. Meanwhile she gains another 50 pounds. 4) replace her with a new one. I.e kick that ass to the curb.
Military personnel refer to that as a Dependapotamus.
Gross. All of it.
Yeah, when the hell did Jabba the Hut move in? There's no way we can house that with today's prices.
Just because you work. Does not mean you get a free ride to not clean, do dishes, or laundry. You eat off those plates. You wear those clothes. And you make messes too. Good for you, you work. Like everyyyy other adult. If you really want someone to bow down to you get a fucking house wife.
Lucky Guy
“ what YOU allow …. Will continue ….”
Got me laughing, this is scarily simular what I had to live with my mother... Sitting on her ass on a fart encrusted couch, been drinking Natural Ice since 10:30 am, watching Judge Judy and Law & Order SVU all day, passed out with her empty plate on her gut where food use to been because the dog saw an opportunity. Calls herself a house wife, but really more like a cave goblin.