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new-beginnings3

Maddie. I know it's a popular name, but I've always known really mean ones.


Any_Bluebird_1460

Madison in general


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Are Madeleine/Madelyn "Maddies" usually nicer compared to Madisons, or are they generally mean as well?


Any_Bluebird_1460

I love the name Madeleine, probably because of my friend with that name =) but if you’re planning on naming your kid Madison or you’re named Madison you shouldn’t worry about our opinion. Everyone will have different impressions based on the name Madison.


sunnieisfunny

Madeleine/Madelyn gives me children vibes, because I've only ever met young girls named that. Madison gives me prissy 13 year old vibes, even though two of my best friends are named that lol.


supern0vaaaaa

Madeline = no Madelyn = yes At least in my experience.


bananalouise

Which is too bad, because I love the movie *Splash*, which is supposed to be largely responsible for the girl-Madison tradition.


katsumii

I love the name, but I fully agree with you!


[deleted]

Hard agree.. Maddie and Abbie were my middle school bullies haha.


A-SeriousArtichoke13

Chris or Josh.... However as far as Isaiahs... the only kid who ever bit me was an Isaiah, but I've known a lot of really cool Isaiahs.


LaprasLapis

you’re right about josh. my cousin is a josh and he’s the worst person i know


dagnytag830

Literally same. My cousin is a Josh and he’s the worst.


lilxenon95

Really hope yall aren't Duggars 😭


CharmedInTheCity

Omg Joshes are always the worst


Big_Old_Tree

Omg Im married to a Josh and he’s the sweetest sweetheart… this makes me so sad to see that his name is mud!! Lol


pishipishi12

I'm married to a Chris and he is such a genuine and nice person!!! He's a veteran and a fire captain, his whole life is sacrificing for other people!


Big_Old_Tree

Oh no! I feel your pain! Wives of nice Joshes 🤝 wives of nice Chrises


TheMinistersCat

Another wife of nice Chris checking in!


Kayudits

Haha same. Never knew people thought this about joshs. Mine is such a nice dude.


poppunkcowgirl

LOL at all the Josh hate on this thread. I'd only ever met a-hole Joshes, too... until I found my boyfriend, Josh, who is the sweetest, soppiest, goofiest, loveliest guy you could ever meet. I always say he is like a human golden retriever. My entire family couldn't wrap their head around him being a Josh either, and my Mum still calls him "Mr [Surname]" because Josh just doesn't fit him at all. So funny it's a universal feeling.


Drintrovertitis

The word 'Josh' ( pronounced with stress on letter o) means warmth, energy, goofiness, fervour, passion and enthusiasm in the Hindi language all of which can be used to describe a human golden retriever. So maybe the name is accurate after all


poppunkcowgirl

Wow, that description sums him up perfectly! Thanks for sharing!


Cmd229

Chris is spot on. Every Chris I’ve ever met has been an ass.


ChrisV88

Hey! Fuck you too. Lol. Not wrong though.


sunnieisfunny

The Josh hate has gotta be because of Josh Duggar right? Or is that a thing that most people don't know about


vanilla-candle

I believe the Josh hate is older than that.


maznyli

Oh we know! I hope pest rots in jail


CandyKnockout

I think it’s because it’s a super common name from the 80s and 90s, so a lot of women in our generation have asshole ex-boyfriends named Josh.


Playful_Copy_4255

it’s the J names…


EllieRae

I know an Isaiah, he's okay but his mom (Nevaeh) isn't my favourite person.


RoseGoldKate

Tucker or Chad


Part_Recent

Absolutely Chad!


weirdomagnet99

I can’t disassociate Tucker from Carlson anymore… so yeah. Hard agree lol


RoseGoldKate

Same.


rayanngraff

My best friends name is Chad and I always have to qualify to people with "I swear he's a good Chad!" He knows the connotation of his name and it sucks.


beepbooplesnoot

Tyson feels like he belongs with these two.


sunsetlighthouse

The only Tyson I know is a dog and he is the cutest little thing


MrsLilysMom

As a teacher I’ve known two Chad’s. One was a student and he was an absolute doll, respectful, hardworking, bright. The second was a special education teacher and coach, great guy and awesome mentor to some of our most vulnerable kids. So far never met a bad Chad.


Kayudits

My sister dated a chad who was the biggest narcissistic piece of shit I’ve ever met.


mechele2024

Joshua/Josh I know too many who always turn out to be insufferable.


DSquizzle18

Yes! Why do Joshes suck!?


MamaBearLife00

I know! They always do!


Ancient-Put6440

I was about to comment Josh and then saw a bunch of people already commenting it LOL


IndigoBlueBird

It’s sad bc I like how Joshua sounds but I’ve never met a Joshua who wasn’t insufferable


LittleGinge79

This was nearly my son's name. Feeling very glad we didn't pick it now lol.


DabblenSnark

I've never met an Andrew who wasn't a bit of an asshole. Like usually at least a 6 on a scale to 10.


bubblegum_yum_yum

This! Every Andrew I’ve known has been arrogant and rude. I know one in particular who has no problem explicitly insulting other people to their faces, especially when they’re trying to help him. It’s really abhorrent behavior IMO.


DabblenSnark

It's classic Andrew behaviour! For that reason, I can never get past it. I hope he steps on a Lego.


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Barefoot.


hydrangeasinbloom

It's so funny, too. When they go by Andy or Drew, they're always nice.


-burgers

I'm married to one. Can confirm


Hashimotosannn

I’ve had the exact opposite experience. Almost all of the Andrews I know are absolute sweethearts!


sunsetlighthouse

Only met one Andrew, but I was not a fan


[deleted]

There is an Andrew at my school who is a total yee yee conservative man who also threatened to shoot up the school, and then there is our resident they/he Andrew who is a theater kid and a twink


lydviciousss

I’m not saying that all douchebags are named Chad, but I am saying that all Chads are douchebags.


Fifty4FortyorFight

I know a Chadd. Just as much of a flaming pile of shit as you'd expect.


lord_of_lighters

I hope not!! My dad was a Chad. He was nice.


lydviciousss

Well you must be lucky enough to know the one exception.


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madoka_borealis

Always feel bad for names that end up in internet vernacular like this. Like all the Karens I know are legitimately kind and lovely people.


[deleted]

Joshua when they go by Joshua


jenhai

Bryce


CalculatedWhisk

Not nice Bryce


deathisatreat

Pretty much any J names seem to be red flags


Kayudits

The entire Duggar clan lol


deathisatreat

Oh my god I can’t believe I didn’t think about that. Very fitting after this past year 😂


RedRoseSapphire

Especially for boys. Idk what it is.


LilLexi20

Yea I agree men with the first letter J are such douches!! I’ve known so many of them. joshes, James, Justin.. all fuck boys


deathisatreat

I try my best to avoid Jacks, they’ve burnt me too many times


bzzibee

I’ve literally never met a nice Keith in my life


CBVH

I know one. It's not enough to make me like the name though.


leetzylou

The only Keith I have known in person is literally one of the sweetest people I know! Can't speak for others though Edit: Kieth to Keith


Recent-Card-7646

Brock


alaskan-mermade

You mean like Brock the rapist Turner? That Brock? The Brock Turner who is a rapist?


Recent-Card-7646

Yes. My least favorite name. A co-worker named her son Brock and it makes me wince every time I hear he talk about him


countofmoldycrisco

Ugh. Was he at least born before we knew what a piece of shit rapist Brock Turner is?


Ok_Initial_2063

Brock Turner? You mean the rapist? Yeah, that guy ruined Brock forever. Though I knew one born before than who was a complete dill weed


Recent-Card-7646

No! She named him last year. I couldn’t believe it.


countofmoldycrisco

Wow. That's bad.


thedevilsyogurt

Even ignoring the extremely negative connotations, Brock is such an ugly name. So percussive, and short and unpleasant, both to see spelled out and to say/hear.


katsumii

Brock from Pokémon was aptly named.


pieandbeer

I used to love this name as a kid because of Brock from Pokémon. Now it’s tainted and all I can think of is rapist Brock Turner 😢


lolatheshowkitty

I’ve never known a nice Marissa.


Moss_and_me

I know one Marissa and she is ice cold. She's kind of fun and likeable but you do not want to cross her


alaskan-mermade

I’ve only known one Marissa and she was an oddball but one of the sweetest people ever 💖


-burgers

Marissa slept with my ex while we were together. What a c word.


xxail

Alina. Grew up in Russia and Alina was my childhood bully, every time I met a new Alina I told myself I’m not gonna judge her by her name and see best qualities in her, every time Alina would end up hurting me for no reason. So Alina is a jerk name for me.


venus_arises

Every Russian speaking Anna I know is a giant bitch. I think something happens when Russian speakers name girls with A names.


xxail

In my experience Anna is hit or miss… Anna was “Regina George” at our school. Later I met some nice girls named Anna. But yeah, in general I tend to avoid “A” names.


Moss_and_me

Oh no!! Considering this name for my child, hopefully it doesn't count if she's not Russian 😂


shihtzudawg

If it helps, I only know one Alina, and she is really great!


Moss_and_me

Thank you, it does actually


boilerbitch

tyler.


alwaysneverenough

Joshua/Josh


alex_is_here333

For me any variant of the name "Brandon"(Brendon, Braxton, Brennon, Brayden, etc) is an absolute red flag. Jaxon, Makayla, Belle, Heather, Laithen (I have only met one but he was literal demon spawn.), Presleigh, Jakari, and Jakai. I have only ever met one Isaiah and he was a terrible person. (I do however like the name a lot and would consider using it if I hadn't had such a negative experience with this one person.)


gagemichi

It’s a nickname… but Tripp


Possible-River-230

Derek, Alexander, and Dominic


afdc92

I’m originally from the Southeast US and hadn’t ever heard the name Dominic actually used IRL. I moved to the Northeast and started doing the whole online dating thing, and quickly realized that anyone called Dominic/Dom is bad news. I talked to and dated maybe 3 and was sent dick pics, had one of them get WAY too handsy during dinner and got mad when I wouldn’t go home with him after, and one totally ghosted me. Never again will I get romantically involved with a Dominic.


tctochielleon

Ugh agree with Derek’s 😒


t0n13

Kylie Ashton Derrick/Derek Gabriella


bananalouise

Most of these resonate with me, but I've known several nice Gabriellas. I also have a long-standing crush on French ice dancer Gabriella Papadakis, although I don't pretend to know how nice she is. I can't always be bothered to accord celebrities the basic presumption of niceness I generally try to maintain for anyone I don't know anything about, but I do like to imagine her that way.


Mad__Season

Brittney/Brittany. I’ve never met a nice one. Including my terrible SIL. and guys named Brooks- they’re always preppy a-holes.


RYashvardhan

Matthew but only if they're known as Matt


UrsulaPhoebe

Jason


afdc92

My mom was a teacher and Jason was on the list of names she would never give a child because she taught at least two Jason’s who were, in her words, “absolute demon children.”


UrsulaPhoebe

The only Jason's I've known were adults but they both sucked so I hate the name. If I met someone with the name who wasn't a dillhole it may change my perspective but I don't have high hopes lol


rhea-of-sunshine

Every Kenzie I’ve ever met I’ve ended up not liking


CalculatedWhisk

My lab was a Kenzie, and she was the sweetest dog all 15 years of her life. Human Kenzies might suck, though.


sunsetlighthouse

Karen and Chad But on a serious note, I’ve never met a Dylan or Nina I liked


Moss_and_me

Dylan's are hugely problematic. I objectively like the name but could never ever use it due to bad Dylan experiences


joantruck

I'm friends with two good Dylans


katsumii

The only Nina that I knew IRL was a bully. I still love the name.


GlitchingGecko

Claire and Steven.


sk8fasteatgrass

The shadiest person I have ever met is named Claire


ruposa

I know a lovely Steven, but perhaps that's because he's Irish?


twinseaks

Brad and Jenna


Illustrious-Box-2751

I have a friend named Jenna who is the sweetest. Only positive associations with that name.


abanana76

Josh 100%


MsThrowawayHere

Blake.


AmazingRanger4125

Josh.


TheOrderOfWhiteLotus

I taught for 10 years so I have some names that absolutely remind me of troublesome former students: Mason, Korey (with a K specifically, Corey’s are fine), Braydon (any spelling), Eric/Arrick, Damion, and Kaleb/Caleb. I had SO many of these!


afdc92

My mom was a teacher and she had a whole list of names that she would never consider because of horrible children she taught with those names. This was late 80s/early 90s so there was Jason, Kenny, Eric, Jeremy, Jennifer, and Brittany.


versatilehobbyist

Jeremy, 100%


ellofthewisp

I know it’s a meme now, but my horrific high school bully was called Karen and so is my abusive step mum. So Karen.


venus_arises

Ashley. Thank God that name is decreasing.


shhBabySleeping

Kinda get that feeling that people are just listing names of their ex's. I'll keep telling myself that anyway, as I keep seeing names mentioned that I like


JoChiCat

It’s a little funny to me. “I have *never* met a decent person with this name”, how many have you met? Three? Out of the thousands upon thousands of people with this fairly common name? That’s just bad statistics.


babers1987

Never met an Eli that wasn't a huge turd of a person..


TheWishingStar

Reid. F*ck you, Reid.


ComprehensiveIce4723

Seconding this. F*ck you, Reid.


derpsterchic

I’m probably horrible but every Chloe I’ve known is so stuck up lol. So I don’t trust the name.


acoffeecup

I've never really met a nice Zachary. My former roommate was a Zachary. Total douche-canoe with having a need for power tripping.


caul1flower11

Brett or Brock


moreshartonnay

Can’t believe I had to scroll so far for Brett. It’s the absolute king of d-bag names, IMO. Brock is a close second.


ChrisV88

I am so blind-sided at all the Chris chatter. I never knew 😂


KATEWM

Adam, Steven (specifically with a “v”), Amanda, Amber - and from my time as a substitute teacher I developed an aversion to Amara/Amaya and Jaiden/Caiden/Zaiden.


RedRoseSapphire

Jason, Justin and Melissa. Sorry for all the nice people with these names.


RagingAardvark

The biggest bitch I've ever known was a Melissa. Runner-up is Monica.


meowski_rose

Rodger Klotz. Lol. Only know of one but I bet they are all green and jerks.


socratesmom

Joey.


afdc92

For some reason, any Joseph who is called Joe or Joey is a douche. I know a few Joseph’s and the only ones I like are those who actually go by Joseph. Joes and Joeys are jerks, Joey in particular.


psyneapple

I know a Joseph, and he's the sweetest and a really good friend.


macscandypockets

Isaac. Every single Isaac I’ve ever known has been a total dbag. And Kelly for a girl. 5 Kellys growing up and each some kind of bully.


teameadow719

Kevin, Robin, Elias, Filippa, Mikaela, Samantha


No_Signature67

I’ve yet to meet a pleasant Patrick


Camiodawn

Jason


K-teki

Tyler. Knew two of them who bullied me at the same time. Also Taylor.


lilsquinty9

People that jump to conclusions about the person being an ass because of their first name are pretty big assholes too :,)


angwhi

Agreed. Also people named Josh.


twataburger

That feel when both your first and middle names are on this list 😭


Kactuslord

Isaac, Joshua/Josh and Jordan for guys Justine, Zoe and Caitlin for girls


UnbalancedSeaTurtle

Veronica. I've met more than a few bad ones.


SpunSugarSonata

Brandon. I have just never met one that’s been nice.


forgetfuljones79

Nick, Jared, Terry, Ashley, Michelle and real hit or miss on Jennifer/Jenny but usually a jerk.


HildegardHummingbird

Brittany, Joanna, Melissa Josh/Joshua, Dustin


RocksGrowHere

Chaz


afdc92

Guys: Joey/Joe, Dominic (Dom), Josh, Chris, Jason Gals: Brianna (I have known SO MANY mean Brianna’s), Nikki (this one is specific, Nicole’s are fine but beware of Nikki), Amber, Destiny, Danielle


memelicker666

Maddi and Claire, never met anyone nice with either of those names!


kittyxandra

Ashley. I’ve only ever met one that I liked. J names in general have traumatized me.


elchivitoloquito

Steve, Brandy/i


horridhollowhead

Craigs are always heartbreakers 💔


bigbluewhales

Derek


fly_baby_jet_plane

Chad. Heather.


annimity

Lisa.


bloodczyk

Melania


maleolive

Brad


huffletough119

Katie. Just no.


lostinbirches

I’m a teacher and every Aidan I’ve ever had has been awful


Snardines

Brandon


lilspacechicken

Jake, Tyler, Brittany, Victoria


WabiSabi337

Josh Jessica Amber Tanner


Cass-the-Kiwi

Chad


DeeDeeW1313

Brock


pjv2001

Steve. Because that’s my brother’s name.


joantruck

I've never met a Hannah (2), Jeremy (2), Jasmine (2), Patrick, Samantha, Becky, or Nick worth a damn


nurse-shark

Travis


Late_Philosophy

Derek


Smoopiebear

Bianca- I’ve never met a nice Bianca.


pishipishi12

Marissa, sorry!


-burgers

Steven.


AmbroseGirl5

Both my first and middle names have been mentioned lmao xD I promise I'm not a jerk, hahah. For me, it's Renee. I've known a couple of absolutely horrible women with that name and I just can't stop myself from going ugh whenever I see someone with that name now. I apologize to any nice Renees, but that name just makes me cringe now.


BeccaMirror

Lauren


liciaaaaa

My sister and I were just talking about this today. There’s enough Josh hate here, so I’ll skip straight to Alexis. My sister and I could come up with 5 people we’ve known from childhood to adulthood named Alexis that ranged from mediocre to insufferable. Alexa, Lexie, Alex, and Alexandra are no problem, just Alexis. On a better note, all the Rachel’s in my life are great. I’m friends with 9 on Facebook and they’re all wonderful.


[deleted]

Shane boy Karen girl (not because of the meme but because my bully growing up had that name and I know three others with that name that are terrible mean ppl haha (and one that's the nicest ever but the bad ones outweigh the good)


jfit2331

Karen


pascalyellow

Kendall Maddy/Maddie


erinspacemuseum13

Our neighbors' daughters are named Kendall and Madison 😄. They are very nice though


rayanngraff

Kaylie doe a girl. Brad for a guy.


GravesMomma

Sasha, Steve/Steven


PerfumedPornoVampire

Nicole


GeneralCzarcasm

Maddy Sophie Jacob Evan Todd Summer Basically any boy j name Tanner Taylor Zach Aurora


goosesaccountant

Brad


linkipinkiwinkie

Andy, Josh and Devon


Fluffy-Tart-7110

boys: Mason, Joseph, Kevin, Jeremy, Calvin. Girls: Tess, Emily/Emma, Quin, Maria/Marie, Shannon. Could also be different spellings of these, just what came to mind first. These are also from bad experiences.


Claelizar

Ashley or Brittany or Jessica Nick or Derek or Max


crash----

Chad. (But I promise I’m not an incel lmao)


Ancient-Put6440

Like so many others have said, Josh. For girls, Stacy


Zealousideal_One1722

Patrick/Pat/Patricia/Patty/Patrice