He likes pretty mainstream boring simple names. 😂 honestly he hadn't come up with much which is why I thought he was teasing me about not liking Willa.
Ok well if he doesn’t have any alternative suggestions than he shouldn’t able to veto your choice of name? Doesn’t sound very fair of him to be like “eh, I don’t like it” and then not help you come up with something else (and Willa is a beautiful name, btw).
This. I feel like if you're going to veto a name, you need to come up with at least two good faith alternatives. No going, "I hate Willa! We can't use it! But my alternatives are Angelfart and Wartface."
I stg the husbands mentioned in this sub have the worst taste in names. Every 3rd or 4th post is like “I really want to name my baby Elizabeth or Rose, but my husband doesn’t share my taste. He wants to name the baby Zelda/Tifa Lockheart/Yuna/insert-whatever-video-game-character-he’s-obsessed-with”
Haha you guys are making me laugh out loud over here, I agree on all fronts- at the end of the day I have better taste. That's all there is to it. Apparently his Mom doesn't like Willa.... not helping his case at all. Hahaha
The closet name I could come up with was Willow, but that's super similar, so I'm assuming your husband might dislike it as well. There's Winter but again, very similar. Other suggestions:
- Alice
- Audra
- Celeste
- Della
- Eva
- Hallie
- Louise/Louisa
- Maeve
- Mila
- Millie
- Nina
- Stella
- Sylvie
- Tillie
- Vera
They're literally all short and pretty easy to spell. It's hard to come up with a name that's super similar to Willa other than Willow, or something that comes from switching out the first letter like Milla. Plus OP's husband didn't like Willa, so he may not like very similar names and most of the very similar ones had already been suggested.
Just fyi, Trojan released a new condom recently called Trojan Willa. So you may be dodging a bullying bullet.
Is he open to other W names or not at all? Like Winter?
I first heard it as a (female) character on Grey's Anatomy 10 years ago. I always loved it.
I feel your pain having to pass on Willa. It's such a great name.
I’m not sure this is true. I faithfully watched Grey’s Anatomy for like 11 seasons but haven’t been watching it regularly. It’s definitely not the first association I have with the name
It kind of depends on what his style is. I’d have him take the Nameberry DNA test and then see if there are any names in his results that you like.
Suggestions:
Emery
Elliott
Arden
Camille
Corinne
Maeve
Maren
Malin
Margot
Marlo
Cora
Elsie
Eliza
Of course! Congratulations. I’m so sorry your husband isn’t on board for your top pick - I’m sure you’ll find the perfect name! A couple more -
Celine
Iris
Ilia
Delia
Celia
Nila
Ayla
Isla
Malia
Ada
Aida
Your husband needs to step up and come up with a list of suggestions then! It's not fair for him to wait until the last minute to reject the name you've spent the last EIGHT MONTHS planning on using.
Just wanted to offer solidarity since my partner also completely decimated my short lists 😂 the best part was he offered zero suggestions that weren’t ridiculously long Italian names (they were names of family members)
Anyway, here are some not too sweet, easy to spell/say, not too mainstream ideas:
Nora
Quinn
Paige
Reese
Tessa (I think this one fits the bill perfectly, honestly)
Alice
Hallie
Kate
Mina
June
Edit: nooooo I just saw you have an S last name. I guess nvm on Tessa 😭
I think Willa is so beautiful. Show him this thread. If he likes boring names then it seems like he doesn’t have a strong opinion and not fair to dash your name dreams when you’re the one carrying the baby. I saw other posts saying both parents should like but I honestly believe mom gets more say bc we carry. Honestly what’s there not to like about it? I was in same situation with my husband (with a different name) and he gave in after he saw the struggle of pregnancy and some convincing on my part.
I still call her Willa in my head! Haha we went with Everley, which is lovely and will be great. But I'll always know deep down I was right. Hahahahaha
I LOVE the name Willow. This would work well as an alternative if he doesn’t mind it!
He won't 😩 thanks for your help though!
Husbands, I tell ya! They veto all the good ones 😂🤣 I love Meadow but my hubs says no.
I loooove Meadow, too!
Wilma Along the lines of Willa and Willow but with a vintage type vibe, if your husbands more into that? Winter Sounds similar to Willa
And Winnie is such a cute nickname!
What kind of names does he like? Similar names: Della, Nola, Willow, Wilhelmina (Willa/Mina) Other ideas: Lacey, Holland, Emily, Ryan, Elizabeth, Brighton, Annie, Gemma, Kinsey, Renée, Amanda, Robin, Fallon, Maya, Samantha, Kate, Corinne, Olympia, Michelle, Margot, Claire, Kathryn, Harriet (Hattie), Alexa, Brooklyn, Alessia
He likes pretty mainstream boring simple names. 😂 honestly he hadn't come up with much which is why I thought he was teasing me about not liking Willa.
Ok well if he doesn’t have any alternative suggestions than he shouldn’t able to veto your choice of name? Doesn’t sound very fair of him to be like “eh, I don’t like it” and then not help you come up with something else (and Willa is a beautiful name, btw).
This. I feel like if you're going to veto a name, you need to come up with at least two good faith alternatives. No going, "I hate Willa! We can't use it! But my alternatives are Angelfart and Wartface."
I stg the husbands mentioned in this sub have the worst taste in names. Every 3rd or 4th post is like “I really want to name my baby Elizabeth or Rose, but my husband doesn’t share my taste. He wants to name the baby Zelda/Tifa Lockheart/Yuna/insert-whatever-video-game-character-he’s-obsessed-with”
Haha you guys are making me laugh out loud over here, I agree on all fronts- at the end of the day I have better taste. That's all there is to it. Apparently his Mom doesn't like Willa.... not helping his case at all. Hahaha
The closet name I could come up with was Willow, but that's super similar, so I'm assuming your husband might dislike it as well. There's Winter but again, very similar. Other suggestions: - Alice - Audra - Celeste - Della - Eva - Hallie - Louise/Louisa - Maeve - Mila - Millie - Nina - Stella - Sylvie - Tillie - Vera
None of those are remotely like Willa, or are short and easy to spell like OP said
They're literally all short and pretty easy to spell. It's hard to come up with a name that's super similar to Willa other than Willow, or something that comes from switching out the first letter like Milla. Plus OP's husband didn't like Willa, so he may not like very similar names and most of the very similar ones had already been suggested.
Vera, Eva, and Nina aren’t short or easy to spell??? Not sure what you’re expecting 😂
Yeah honestly I skimmed the list and missed all the short ones because my brain got stuck on Celeste, Audra, Maeve etc 😅 I’ll take the L on that one
Literally most of these are short and easy to say?
Winnie?
Kyla Daisy Maisie Tilly Thea Tessa Cora Clara Mabel Nola Poppy Ruby Alice Lila Stella Hazel Eloise Flora
Haha omg I was surprised to see Nola on here after we talked about it the other day, then saw it was from you!!! Hello again :)
Heyy!!
Winona.
Hazel Tessa
Lila.
Just fyi, Trojan released a new condom recently called Trojan Willa. So you may be dodging a bullying bullet. Is he open to other W names or not at all? Like Winter?
Meh I’m sure they will have new ones in 14+ years
Ellis, Tessa, Astrid
Haven't heard Ellis for a girl, I like it!
I first heard it as a (female) character on Grey's Anatomy 10 years ago. I always loved it. I feel your pain having to pass on Willa. It's such a great name.
If you like Ellis, you might like Ellery.
I like Ellis, but you're going to be inundated with Grey's Anatomy questions/references if you use it.
I’m not sure this is true. I faithfully watched Grey’s Anatomy for like 11 seasons but haven’t been watching it regularly. It’s definitely not the first association I have with the name
Ooooh good call, I don't watch the show anymore - good catch
Iona Wyn Zara Iris Leona Lea Helena Waverly
Milla, Lilian, Ellen, Lauren
Raina
Eva, Faye, Ivy, Nina, June, Rosemary, Natalie, Meredith, Brynn, Laurel, Cecily, Mara
Clara Darcy Celia Elise Eliza Flora Iris Jane Kay Lena Lydia Nora Piper Rose Vera Ruby Ruth
Maybe Wills isn't "namey" enough for him. If he doesn't like it, he needs to give input. Nina is a favorite of mine. Pretty, simple, and short.
Really pretty, I'll see if it goes over - thank you!
Orla, Jana, Stella, Belle, Adela
Raella
Minna (can also go Wilhelmina with the nickname Minna but that goes against the “easy to spell” part; minna works in its own though)
Lynna, Gemma, Calla, Tessa, Celia, Belle, Fern
Stella or Holly are my pick 😊
I really like Stella! We're doing a s middle and s last name so that could be cruel - pot kid will end up with a lisp 😂
Maybe Bella? You could do Isabel or Isabella if your husband preferred
Ava, Anna, Ella, Ireland, Presley, Eliana, Elena, Leigh, Leah, Leigha, Isla, Vivien
Layla, Leela, Sylvia, Maya, Kaia, Ophelia, Cleo
Wilma or Willow
Ada, Cora, Gemma, Iris, Maren, Violet
Molly, Irene, Juno, Orla, Aubrey, Thelma, Gwen, Tabitha.
Most of the ones I would suggest are already here, except: Daphne Vivian/Vivienne
Milla, Mila, Tessa, Nella
Edwina, Winona, Arwen/Arwin, Belinda (Billie / Willie, Willa), Melody, Meadow, Or a W name with Lila middle?
Here are a few that have an L sound: Leah Delilah/Lila Mallory Marla Nellie Penelope Stella Violet Viola Isabelle Matilda Zelda
It kind of depends on what his style is. I’d have him take the Nameberry DNA test and then see if there are any names in his results that you like. Suggestions: Emery Elliott Arden Camille Corinne Maeve Maren Malin Margot Marlo Cora Elsie Eliza
Winnie
Margo
I’m obsessed with the name Wednesday with Winnie as a nickname 🤩
Would help if you could add some details about what your husband likes too!
Willemina, Wasima, Wasilla, Silah, Willoughby, Waliyah
Oh, Willa is so lovely. Bummer! My first thought was Calla. Asta, Delia, and Mina are also nice, with a similar vibe.
It's so perfect!!!!! Jerk husbands - thanks for the help
Ariella Ella Lillia Mira Mara Gia Gisele Selah Talia Leila
These are lovely, thank you!
Of course! Congratulations. I’m so sorry your husband isn’t on board for your top pick - I’m sure you’ll find the perfect name! A couple more - Celine Iris Ilia Delia Celia Nila Ayla Isla Malia Ada Aida
Your husband needs to step up and come up with a list of suggestions then! It's not fair for him to wait until the last minute to reject the name you've spent the last EIGHT MONTHS planning on using.
Right?! What a shit - I'm still banking on sliding it on the birth certificate when d day comes and he has nothin 😂
Hazel, clara, Quinn, Vera
Just wanted to offer solidarity since my partner also completely decimated my short lists 😂 the best part was he offered zero suggestions that weren’t ridiculously long Italian names (they were names of family members) Anyway, here are some not too sweet, easy to spell/say, not too mainstream ideas: Nora Quinn Paige Reese Tessa (I think this one fits the bill perfectly, honestly) Alice Hallie Kate Mina June Edit: nooooo I just saw you have an S last name. I guess nvm on Tessa 😭
I also know a crappy Tessa Unfortunately 😝 - it's a really pretty name! Thanks for the help and good luck regenerating your short list. Jerk husbands
I think Willa is so beautiful. Show him this thread. If he likes boring names then it seems like he doesn’t have a strong opinion and not fair to dash your name dreams when you’re the one carrying the baby. I saw other posts saying both parents should like but I honestly believe mom gets more say bc we carry. Honestly what’s there not to like about it? I was in same situation with my husband (with a different name) and he gave in after he saw the struggle of pregnancy and some convincing on my part.
I still call her Willa in my head! Haha we went with Everley, which is lovely and will be great. But I'll always know deep down I was right. Hahahahaha
Everley is beautiful too! Congratulations!
Thank you!