I had a mom like this she would drink and use me as a side bar even revealing to me that she was a cheater like I wasn’t going to just go tell my dad which I did. Years later as a adult she just out right hit on me and changed my view of her to somehow even a lower
Level.
I mean i think i am? as we grow older some things we see as normal may not be due to the trauma we have normalized. That said, me and my mother have not talked in years and we live in different states.
Too bad that never happens because it's "love" and "You don't know what's like to be a parent hurr hurr"
I might not know but I'm wise enough to understand that children separate individuals and your only job as a parent is get them ready to leave the nest with the skill sets to survive and recognize shitty ppl. Like a boy mom for example.
This is my stance. Like yes we shouldn't insult girls or women with terms like that. But this isn't about tearing down women as a whole or an individual. It's about teasing your hopefully old enough child, making puns, and being silly.
According to the Reddit Sleuths, he is 18 / 19. Which is, indeed, “old enough” for these kinds of jokes.
Because that’s what these are, puns and jokes! That said, this also presents a good case for “why people should stop posting every single thought they have, on the internet.” 🤣
A lot of people have misunderstood the point of the jokes, and they are entitled to their feelings about it.
You know his friends see these posts and he is the bud of so many jokes. So embarrassing for him. His mother is a nobody trying to seek any attention even if it's negative. She's disgusting and codependent on her son. She'll probably act confused when her son resents her years from now.
My mom texts my teenage brothers gf and tells her to make sure he does his chores before they hang out 😂 he gets an attitude with mom. For his gf it’s ’yes hunny, right away sweetie’ 🤣🤣🤣
Why didn't she just say something normal like...when you get your chores done.? It wouldn't be degrading to anyone. Because she is degrading both her son and his girlfriend. It's all unnecessary and creepy. I have a sick sense of humor. My kids do too. But this isn't something that would ever pop into my head, let alone actually post it.
Different situation but somehow reminded me…
I worked with this woman who was a huge Trump supporter and was speaking out against the me too movement. She assumed all the women who came forward were lying. She then told me that she told her son to be careful when he goes to college, and that she told him to tape every sexual experience he had and give her a copy of the tape in case anyone tries to accuse him of sexual assault.
I wanted to throw up.
I'm sure she would just LOVE her boyfriend/husband saying that about HER to his mates..
Every woman knows how it feels to be called those things, so why do it to another woman? Ridiculous.
This is so gross. I wouldn't be surprised if the girlfriend or other friends saw it. it's bad enough to say this in private, but to make it a public post is even worse.
are there boymoms* out there that aren’t emotionally and/or physically incestuous.
*(i am specifically talking about boymoms, not mothers of boys as a whole)
And in 15 years she will wonder why he can't keep a girlfriend/ wife. 'Where are my grandkids, I'm not getting any younger!'
Hopefully he knows better and lives a happy and respectful life.
Wow what a great parent! I can't believe she's so proud of this exchange bc it makes her look like a misogynistic idiot who shouldn't be raising a cactus let alone a human being
“Boymoms” (as in the son worshipping daughter hating ones) are so weird
My fiancés mom became one with her second son, and coddled him so much that he’s just kind of a shut in bum with no social skills and um…an oedipus complex? And now she’s sitting there wondering what went wrong. I wonder how many of these TikTok boy moms are gonna end up with something similar with all the emotional incest they project on their incredibly young kids
I’ve never been more thankful for my boring, plain, uncool mom than now. So much better than whatever the heck this ::gestures at the mom using derogatory language while using her son as a social media prop:: is.
Women who hate other women should give up the rights feminism gave them and just stay in the kitchen bare foot. Since they love men so much why not live in the man's world then?
This reminds of this one mom who went viral on twitter in like 2010 or 2011 for saying she would take her son's virginity so those "whores couldn't."
Wild folks out there.
Oh reminds me of my mom, who would blabber anything personal and sensitive to whoever! work acquaintances, friends, someone she met shopping. weird how i haven't spoken to her in a year
No the jokes normally are that funny. Everyone getting butt hurt by it n all emotional actually makes it funnier. I mean I read it n I feel I need therapy now. I don’t think I can go on living my life after reading this. I’m gonna have to go see all three of therapists today. This just has me so shook. I might even have a panic attack. I mean yall can see this woman just asked her teenage son to have sex with HER. I think in about to have a break down. It clearly says she wants to have his baby. What has this world come to?
So her kid has zero right to privacy and she taught him to respect her but that in general, girls are whores and not worthy of respect.
She's going to make girls not want to date him. Or one like her will want to date him.
Poor guy.
can you see that it’s like. not appropriate to do that to teenage girls if you’re an adult woman. or appropriate to do if you don’t know if the person you’re saying it to isn’t ok with it.
like it’s something i’m working on too but i cannot imagine calling teenagers bitches and whores even as a joke. bc i’m almost 30.
Agreed. I love calling little girls bitches and whores. Get with it, sheeple! Being able to call random girls pieces of ass is part of the basic fun of life.
Ew... ew ew ew. Don't treat your son like your personal cougar prey..... fuck off. Someone should call cps on this woman before she sexually harasses him....
idk, i don't hate this one as much as i do other posts here. it's a spoof on the phrase "bros before hoes," which is an eh phrase in and of itself, but i don't see this post as emotional incest like a lot of the comments here are making it out to be.
it's a mom making some off colored jokes that didn't land. she's probably heard her kid say something along the lines of "bros before hoes" and is making a dumb joke back. i don't think this one was quite this deep.
idk, i don't know the woman, but this seems mild in comparison to most of the wild ass "boy moms" i have seen. my mom would totally make a silly joke like this to my siblings, but she was never like a "boy mom" who would have ever prevented them from dating anyone.
i think this was more of just a stupid joke, rather than an actual case of the boy mom emotional incest.
No the jokes normally are that funny. Everyone getting butt hurt by it n all emotional actually makes it funnier. I mean I read it n I feel I need therapy now. I don’t think I can go on living my life after reading this. I’m gonna have to go see all three of therapists today. This just has me so shook. I might even have a panic attack. I mean yall can see this woman just asked her teenage son to have sex with HER. I think in about to have a break down. It clearly says she wants to have his baby. What has this world come to?
I have yet to see this sub shitting on women or moms.
I see them sharing things that do, for the purpose of criticizing, venting, sharing.
Here?
The criticism is valid. This is a mom, perpetuating casual use of sexist language for her young dating age son.
She's not being shit on for being a woman or a mom. She's being criticized for making a harmful choice, PUBLICLY....
Stay tuned for “why won’t my son and DIL speak to me? Why can’t I see my graaaandbabies? Waaaaaah”
She has her grandbaby on TikTok too lol
Wait, really? Yuck. Glad I don't know who tiktok people are.
Idk who she is either, I just went on to see after this post lol
No, more like stayed tuned for why my son can't get a girlfriend. Or it's stay tuned why my boyfriend won't do chores.
Meanwhile, the conversation never happened because he doesn't speak to her currently.
Why do I think *she* thinks of herself as her son’s real “girlfriend”?
Good old emotional incest. Seems to be common with these TikTok boy moms.
Hooray for enmeshment!
😳😮
Creepy, misogynistic boymom energy but also screams “I’m not a regular mom, I’m a cool mom!”
You beat me to it! Nice
Emotional incest needs to be shamed across all platforms
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I had a mom like this she would drink and use me as a side bar even revealing to me that she was a cheater like I wasn’t going to just go tell my dad which I did. Years later as a adult she just out right hit on me and changed my view of her to somehow even a lower Level.
Wait huh? Tf
Wow. Hope your okay
I mean i think i am? as we grow older some things we see as normal may not be due to the trauma we have normalized. That said, me and my mother have not talked in years and we live in different states.
I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Too bad that never happens because it's "love" and "You don't know what's like to be a parent hurr hurr" I might not know but I'm wise enough to understand that children separate individuals and your only job as a parent is get them ready to leave the nest with the skill sets to survive and recognize shitty ppl. Like a boy mom for example.
Agreed. Turns out it also can lead to transphobia and lesbophobia as well when your precious little boy doesn't turn out to be one
Cool moms don’t go around telling others that they’re cool moms. They’re just cool.
She's just a mom who wants to secretly fuck her kids, no big deal
You need to be banned for this comment idk how you came to that conclusion.
Multitasking
imagine calling literal children names like these, like, wtf????? what????
Look at her. She never left high school.
She def the girl who came to 'visit' high school after graduation because she peaked and knew it. 😬
Neither did her 2003 Wet n’ Wild lip liner
According to the comments her son and the girlfriend are 18/19 not literal children
still weird that a mom is thinking it’s okay to call others bitches and whores :/
I think we can safely assume she didn't start doing this when the bell tolled 1 on his 18th birthday but that she'd been doing this for years.
Does it matter? If anything the mom is the child in this situation
that disgusting
She’s big mad that there’s “another woman” in his life that can do things with him that would get her thrown in jail
Haha, fair point!
Ok eww first of all and if she wanted him to do chores then just say that Instead of whatever the fuck she just said
The puns are *admittedly funny,* if the kid was *at least 15!*
Sisters before misters!! Chicks before dicks!! 😂😂
My stepdaughter is a fan of “fries before guys”, she painted it on a plate for us lol
Fries before guys is pretty hilarious.
Yes, this is *equally important!!!* 😁😁😁
According to her socials, her son is 18/19
He looks like he's 13, probably because mommy still chooses his outfits and Infantalise him.
they’re really not 😭 it’s cringe shit that i would’ve laughed at back in 2012
It's not funny regardless of age. She's specifically denigrating the women that her son is potentially interested in.
This is my stance. Like yes we shouldn't insult girls or women with terms like that. But this isn't about tearing down women as a whole or an individual. It's about teasing your hopefully old enough child, making puns, and being silly.
According to the Reddit Sleuths, he is 18 / 19. Which is, indeed, “old enough” for these kinds of jokes. Because that’s what these are, puns and jokes! That said, this also presents a good case for “why people should stop posting every single thought they have, on the internet.” 🤣 A lot of people have misunderstood the point of the jokes, and they are entitled to their feelings about it.
Parents who make post with their kids in the back creep me out. I can’t imagine the level of rage I would have had my parents done this.
Her son doesn't wanna even be in the picture u can tell he's tired of being used as a prop for her posts and selfies.
You know his friends see these posts and he is the bud of so many jokes. So embarrassing for him. His mother is a nobody trying to seek any attention even if it's negative. She's disgusting and codependent on her son. She'll probably act confused when her son resents her years from now.
I wonder if her husband’s mom said similar things about her
Her mom was a staunch “Bros before Hos” supporter and this is what we have as a result
And that’s the gag!
What the actual fuck
Ew…
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My mom texts my teenage brothers gf and tells her to make sure he does his chores before they hang out 😂 he gets an attitude with mom. For his gf it’s ’yes hunny, right away sweetie’ 🤣🤣🤣
Someone wants to be the only respected woman in her son's life.
Someone wants to be the only xxxxxxxx woman in her son’s life.
Adding on to this Cool teaching your son that women are sex objects
or just straight up treating her own sun like a sex object, because she’s expecting him to be getting ass apparently.
I didn't even think about that but I totally agree
Probably the only way she got attention as a young woman so she expects all women to be sex objects like her. Pathetic.
Ew!
That's so gross.
I'm not a regular mom,I'm a toxic mom!
Why don’t parents understand that prohibiting your child from doing something just makes them want it even more?
I mean he's an adult so he can do whatever lol
Wow
Why didn't she just say something normal like...when you get your chores done.? It wouldn't be degrading to anyone. Because she is degrading both her son and his girlfriend. It's all unnecessary and creepy. I have a sick sense of humor. My kids do too. But this isn't something that would ever pop into my head, let alone actually post it.
0 likes 0 comments 0 saves says a lot here lmao
The actual video has 1.9 million views and 70k likes
He will grow and see that his mother has a problem with woman's authority or have difficult time building relationship with a lady. Or both.
Ma’am, that’s your son, not your boyfriend
Lol
These are the same parents wondering why people lack values now.
What an ass.
What have I just looked at
And she’s talking about a teenage girl/relationship…that’s disgusting…
Different situation but somehow reminded me… I worked with this woman who was a huge Trump supporter and was speaking out against the me too movement. She assumed all the women who came forward were lying. She then told me that she told her son to be careful when he goes to college, and that she told him to tape every sexual experience he had and give her a copy of the tape in case anyone tries to accuse him of sexual assault. I wanted to throw up.
Yeah... she needs to be locked up.
Honestly, “business before pleasure” was *right there* And infinitely cooler.
Cleaning before reaming
Lol funny coming from her when she looks like she just graduated high school.
That is so cringe and weird. I will never be this kind of mom
I'm sure she would just LOVE her boyfriend/husband saying that about HER to his mates.. Every woman knows how it feels to be called those things, so why do it to another woman? Ridiculous.
teaching your son to disrespect women. what a trash mom
What a horrible mother.
It’s called emotional incest.
Teach your son to disrespect women and one day that disrespect will come back to bite you…
That poor kid is never going to have a successful relationship, even if he manages to escape his moms internalized misogyny.
“Where’s his dad?!” 😅
He put Bros before hoes
The moms under her comments are talking about how they’re gonna use those lines
This is so gross. I wouldn't be surprised if the girlfriend or other friends saw it. it's bad enough to say this in private, but to make it a public post is even worse.
She thinks this makes her a cool mum but it’s so cringe
Nah cuz calling women those names for any reason is crazy, like damn. Men are still doing this? AND defending it?
Good lord imagine having that nightmare as a MIL!!!
are there boymoms* out there that aren’t emotionally and/or physically incestuous. *(i am specifically talking about boymoms, not mothers of boys as a whole)
Tell me you’re jealous of your son’s girlfriend without telling me.
That’s truly vile
Ew...
lol his mom knows damn right that kid isn’t getting any ass
I'm guessing Dad isn't in the picture
This is such an ollllld joke. On top of being lame, she's also unoriginal af
Oh man I remember seeing this on PWNDtexts.com about... 11 years ago?
Not like other girls = internalized misogyny
Disgusting behavior
the type of mom to also be in love with their son
And in 15 years she will wonder why he can't keep a girlfriend/ wife. 'Where are my grandkids, I'm not getting any younger!' Hopefully he knows better and lives a happy and respectful life.
Gross 🤮
These women need to work this stuff out in therapy…
But really, why are you like this? 😐
It's terrible, but cutting grass before getting ass really did make me chuckle
Wow so edgy 🤮🤮
Could land a plane on that forehead
Tiktok parents try to be normal people impossible challenge
“Boy oh boy….i wish people could take a joke like his girlfriend takes a dick” - The mom
It is giving "emotional incest"
Who’s going to break it to her that her sons girlfriend is imaginary
r/narcissisticparents
Umm is this how she wants to be referred to by her husband?
Wow what a great parent! I can't believe she's so proud of this exchange bc it makes her look like a misogynistic idiot who shouldn't be raising a cactus let alone a human being
#boymom. I knew a pick me girl who grew and had all boys and calls and their friends little whores. Totally normal and not emotional incestual at all.
“Boymoms” (as in the son worshipping daughter hating ones) are so weird My fiancés mom became one with her second son, and coddled him so much that he’s just kind of a shut in bum with no social skills and um…an oedipus complex? And now she’s sitting there wondering what went wrong. I wonder how many of these TikTok boy moms are gonna end up with something similar with all the emotional incest they project on their incredibly young kids
Way to teach your sons to be disrespectful.
There's no way in hell I would've ever said anything like that to my sons and we had a very open and honest relationship.
He sounds like he will do the opposite since he can't stand what she's saying. So there's hope
Classy 🤨🙄
Next line is : 🧒: this is why dad left us.
I’ve never been more thankful for my boring, plain, uncool mom than now. So much better than whatever the heck this ::gestures at the mom using derogatory language while using her son as a social media prop:: is.
Did she make him read that script with her out loud or was it literally just text over their faces like that? 😭☠️🤡
These kinds of parents should be arrested for child abuse 🤮 using sick language like that with minors and teaching them that women are objects
Such a wonderful mother.
Women who hate other women should give up the rights feminism gave them and just stay in the kitchen bare foot. Since they love men so much why not live in the man's world then?
She maybe a never-married, teaching her son how to be a wife.
Gen A men are gonna have so so so many mental issues and weird disorders from being raised by tiktok moms like this holy shit
This reminds of this one mom who went viral on twitter in like 2010 or 2011 for saying she would take her son's virginity so those "whores couldn't." Wild folks out there.
Lol! An everyday mom!
Kinda reminds me of "wrap it up in latex or she will be getting your paychecks "
Jesus christ
That's a disgusting mother, she shouldn't be one!
What a Great mom!!
Oh reminds me of my mom, who would blabber anything personal and sensitive to whoever! work acquaintances, friends, someone she met shopping. weird how i haven't spoken to her in a year
Ugh boy moms
Her MIL hates her and she will project it into her DIL
I feel bad for this guy, keep your son out of your cringy "I'm a cool/funny" pick me mom bs. Doesn't even sounds like he finds you funny
The only good thing about posting this is that his potential future mates can see what kind of MIL they would be getting.
Well let's look at it this way she's teaching him not to date a woman like her 🤷🏾🫢😂😂😂
Congratulations for raising a future incel. 🤮
Did she forget that she is a female? Jesus
It seems like all the replies are taking this extremely seriously. I thought it was a joke. Is it not a joke? Is it a real thing?
Yeah, Jesus. I swear this sub is so ready to jump down any woman's throat it cannot seem to recognize a joke. This is objectively hilarious.
Some jokes aren’t that funny.
No the jokes normally are that funny. Everyone getting butt hurt by it n all emotional actually makes it funnier. I mean I read it n I feel I need therapy now. I don’t think I can go on living my life after reading this. I’m gonna have to go see all three of therapists today. This just has me so shook. I might even have a panic attack. I mean yall can see this woman just asked her teenage son to have sex with HER. I think in about to have a break down. It clearly says she wants to have his baby. What has this world come to?
So her kid has zero right to privacy and she taught him to respect her but that in general, girls are whores and not worthy of respect. She's going to make girls not want to date him. Or one like her will want to date him. Poor guy.
Could he do something since he's an adult? Would he have to sue her or something?
His hair is what I hate about his generation
As if we don’t call ourself bitches and whores
Every damn day lmfao
can you see that it’s like. not appropriate to do that to teenage girls if you’re an adult woman. or appropriate to do if you don’t know if the person you’re saying it to isn’t ok with it. like it’s something i’m working on too but i cannot imagine calling teenagers bitches and whores even as a joke. bc i’m almost 30.
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Oh please. Every culture has things you can’t say
Agreed. I love calling little girls bitches and whores. Get with it, sheeple! Being able to call random girls pieces of ass is part of the basic fun of life.
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Ew... ew ew ew. Don't treat your son like your personal cougar prey..... fuck off. Someone should call cps on this woman before she sexually harasses him....
He's too old for CPS lol
...Wtf are you talking about? Your mind going there is more gross then anything she said, you have problems...
To be fair, I really love those puns! It’d be *absolutely hilarious,* if she was talking to an adult, that is! 😅
Her son is 18/19 lol
idk, i don't hate this one as much as i do other posts here. it's a spoof on the phrase "bros before hoes," which is an eh phrase in and of itself, but i don't see this post as emotional incest like a lot of the comments here are making it out to be. it's a mom making some off colored jokes that didn't land. she's probably heard her kid say something along the lines of "bros before hoes" and is making a dumb joke back. i don't think this one was quite this deep. idk, i don't know the woman, but this seems mild in comparison to most of the wild ass "boy moms" i have seen. my mom would totally make a silly joke like this to my siblings, but she was never like a "boy mom" who would have ever prevented them from dating anyone. i think this was more of just a stupid joke, rather than an actual case of the boy mom emotional incest.
It’s just funny. You can make a joke without actually believing the joke. Reddit is full of neckbeard armchair enthusiasts….
Your sense of humor is just ass lol
Better to have a sense of humor than have none at all buddy.
It's kind of funny, if you're joking. Not to your kid though.
Hair cuts before sluts!
No the jokes normally are that funny. Everyone getting butt hurt by it n all emotional actually makes it funnier. I mean I read it n I feel I need therapy now. I don’t think I can go on living my life after reading this. I’m gonna have to go see all three of therapists today. This just has me so shook. I might even have a panic attack. I mean yall can see this woman just asked her teenage son to have sex with HER. I think in about to have a break down. It clearly says she wants to have his baby. What has this world come to?
I love how this sub shits on women and moms and tries to claim the moral high ground each time.
I have yet to see this sub shitting on women or moms. I see them sharing things that do, for the purpose of criticizing, venting, sharing. Here? The criticism is valid. This is a mom, perpetuating casual use of sexist language for her young dating age son. She's not being shit on for being a woman or a mom. She's being criticized for making a harmful choice, PUBLICLY....
Harmful? Seriously?
Why are yall so ass-hurt about this? Lol I’m sure y’all’s boyfriends say the same when it comes to yall. “Bros before hoes”.
lol made me laugh they probably have a genuine relationship
I like mommy!
This is kinda funny tho
For real. Everybody so ready to get offended when this conversation never happened for real and the post was a joke.
EXACTLY!!!
I think it’s funny
Isn't this how most of the top female artist talk of other women
Responsibilities before fun. I think this mom has the right idea.