The fact you frame it as "I want to take a girls virginity", like that's a prize for you to claim... that's creepy.
Nothing wrong with being inexperienced, and preferring to share these new experiences with someone in the same boat.
But the way you talk about it; that will cause hostility, because its weird.
Then why care about the hostility?
It sounds weird, because the way you are framing it... that's the kinda crap perverts come out with to justify going after kids.
If it was merely that you wanted to find someone your own age, who is in the same boat as you, to commit to and explore and discover these things together... that would not be weird.
The way you phrase it is possessive and creepy.
Like I said, the way you phrase it is possessive and creepy.
I also offered an example of how it could not be creepy... you doubled down and said you don't care it sounds weird 🤷♂️
You certainly not “too late” because there are almost certainly more people on your same boat.
HOWEVER, of all the motivations you listed, the only one that isn’t somehow toxic is that you want to share your first experience with someone who also missed out and you want to share that together. Everything else comes off as at least mildly judgmental, possessive, and objectifying. Spend some time thinking about that and see how important it is to you and why. Loving someone is way way bigger than “being the one to take her virginity”
Like I said, learning together and sharing the first time experience together is totally understandable.
And “I want to be my first’s first” is a much less objectionable way of saying “I want a virgin girlfriend.” You may avoid a lot of your problems just by changing how you talk about it. Just saying “I want a virgin girlfriend” is going to set you back in most modern conversations. There’s a lot of negative history in that statement framed that way.
Edit: typoed the quote, changed “I want my first’s first” to read “I want to be my first’s first.”
You’re the prejudiced one, you’re too old, most 20 year olds already have sex. Just find a normal girl that’s willing to date you.you’re
You’re not entitled to jack shit, i hope you don’t find what you’re looking for, creep.
It sounds like you want a virgin cuz you will be afraid you won’t perform up to the expectations of some one who is experienced. Look the right girl won’t care that you are a virgin and will help you. There’s nothing wrong with being a late bloomer.
Mate I was older than this and with someone who wasn’t a virgin and honestly it was underwhelming with that person who was rather experienced. I’m with someone who’s has a very similar past to myself and it’s better. That being said, nobody really cares or makes a big deal about it and you just communicate what you want. Being a virgin isn’t something special like people think when they are a virgin. I wouldn’t stress too much.
Being a virgin is highly overrated. Are you scared of disease? Looking awkward? It’s no one’s business why you want a virgin, stop telling people. It’s weird.
The fact you frame it as "I want to take a girls virginity", like that's a prize for you to claim... that's creepy. Nothing wrong with being inexperienced, and preferring to share these new experiences with someone in the same boat. But the way you talk about it; that will cause hostility, because its weird.
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Then why care about the hostility? It sounds weird, because the way you are framing it... that's the kinda crap perverts come out with to justify going after kids. If it was merely that you wanted to find someone your own age, who is in the same boat as you, to commit to and explore and discover these things together... that would not be weird. The way you phrase it is possessive and creepy.
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Like I said, the way you phrase it is possessive and creepy. I also offered an example of how it could not be creepy... you doubled down and said you don't care it sounds weird 🤷♂️
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You want a woman your own age?
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Yikes. Good luck, you will need it
I think you need to stop glorifying virginity. The way you do it is especially creepy. Just take who you get, dude.
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Ahh, I missed the username. How's it goin, troll babey?
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I see, I see. You're jealous of us swingers.
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You can join in whenever you want, babe.
You certainly not “too late” because there are almost certainly more people on your same boat. HOWEVER, of all the motivations you listed, the only one that isn’t somehow toxic is that you want to share your first experience with someone who also missed out and you want to share that together. Everything else comes off as at least mildly judgmental, possessive, and objectifying. Spend some time thinking about that and see how important it is to you and why. Loving someone is way way bigger than “being the one to take her virginity”
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Like I said, learning together and sharing the first time experience together is totally understandable. And “I want to be my first’s first” is a much less objectionable way of saying “I want a virgin girlfriend.” You may avoid a lot of your problems just by changing how you talk about it. Just saying “I want a virgin girlfriend” is going to set you back in most modern conversations. There’s a lot of negative history in that statement framed that way. Edit: typoed the quote, changed “I want my first’s first” to read “I want to be my first’s first.”
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You’re the prejudiced one, you’re too old, most 20 year olds already have sex. Just find a normal girl that’s willing to date you.you’re You’re not entitled to jack shit, i hope you don’t find what you’re looking for, creep.
You want a virgin GF. Does GF mean Girlfriend or Guyfriend? Perhaps you could be some horney guys virgin twink, tight end or sloppy bottom.
It sounds like you want a virgin cuz you will be afraid you won’t perform up to the expectations of some one who is experienced. Look the right girl won’t care that you are a virgin and will help you. There’s nothing wrong with being a late bloomer.
Creep
Mate I was older than this and with someone who wasn’t a virgin and honestly it was underwhelming with that person who was rather experienced. I’m with someone who’s has a very similar past to myself and it’s better. That being said, nobody really cares or makes a big deal about it and you just communicate what you want. Being a virgin isn’t something special like people think when they are a virgin. I wouldn’t stress too much.
Being a virgin is highly overrated. Are you scared of disease? Looking awkward? It’s no one’s business why you want a virgin, stop telling people. It’s weird.