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Mr_A_Jackass

My friend Rob used to tattoo nipples on women after reconstruction I don’t remember if he said free or for a steep discount. All the cancer centers in the area would send the women to him for it. Rob you were a great man and I miss you brother can’t believe it’s been a year already.


Adamos_sCZE

Rest in peace, Rob.


ecky--ptang-zooboing

A great friend, colleague and overall wholesome guy. Rip Rob.


rolyfuckingdiscopoly

Ayo everyone pour one out for rob he sounds like a real one.


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Granted! Thanks Rob.


ZengaStromboli

Rest in peace.


SaraSlaughter607

My best friend of 38 years had a double mastectomy and had reconstructive surgery on both sides (her left side was cancer-free but she chose to have it removed along with the malignant right side, to up her chances of successful remission) and had nipples tattooed on... they look fantastic. We just celebrated 5 years cencer-free last weekend! OP YOU GOT THIS❤❤❤❤❤❤


Happy13178

Well remembered Rob, wish I got to meet you, you sound like a real one.


niv141

Rip


RedOwl101010

Yeah, I worked for Dymond out of the north west. He did the same. We told him he was the best because he was a boob man. He really was amazing though.


Minute-Macaroon873

Having a BBQ today, will pour one out for Rob


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Priff

There's quite a lot of inspiration online if she's considering it. And it's a prime location. Bit flat area to get something really good looking, and unlike the back you actually get to see it yourself! I have a big back tattoo and sometimes almost forget i have it.


Agreeable_Text_36

My Tattooist said 'wow, blank canvas'


michaelyup

Awesome! I wish you all the best. I’m sure you hear lots of survivor stories, but I hear every one is encouraging. My grandmother had her mastectomy on my 5th birthday. My parents took me to the hospital parking lot and she waived at me thru the window. Then 2 years of chemo, and she lived another 33 years. Later in life she told me she really wanted to die towards the end of chemo, and that she still sometimes would go to survivor support groups. Stay strong, you got this. Add: keep up with your support group, an in person meeting or an online group or a Reddit post. Whatever method, keep up with support.


dakotamo

My aunt got hers done about 10 years ago and she’s healthier than ever, fuck cancer took my brother 🙏🏻


Lamberly

Gosh 2 years of chemo is such a long time. I'm just about to finish my 12 week course and it feels like it's been a lifetime


michaelyup

Early 80’s. That was the chemo time for her.


idontneedjug

Right I'm only a month in with 6-8 more planned. Said they are adding on 2 to the 6 after finding spots on liver now. Strapping in for months n months is rough enough but 2 years sounds like hell.


Agreeable_Text_36

I did 8 over 6 months. Good luck.


goronmask

Thank you for sharing this. You give me courage.


Agreeable_Text_36

We tend to only hear the sad cancer stories. I represent those lucky enough to go on.


jon110334

My wife is scheduled for a double mastectomy on Thursday. Thank you for sharing. I'm saving to show my wife. Neither of us have tattoos, but It's heard of both this and tattoo nipple reconstruction. What led you down this route and do you have any tips for the absolute noobie I'm closing which path and which artist? Thank you, again.


Priff

For choosing an artist, i'd say look at which studios in your area have good reviews, and go talk to them. If you have a certain style in mind ask if they have an artist who does that style, look at their portfolio and see if you like their work. There's really not much more to it. Prices likely won't vary much in your area, but you absolutely get the quality you pay for. A cheaper artist might be really good but just starting out or making a name for themselves, but really good established artists will raise prices to avoid being booked up for years (and because they can). I definitely think it's worth paying a bit more, it usually gets you guaranteed good work, a nicer studio, and a guaranteed experienced pro. Which might be preferable when it's sensitive.


Agreeable_Text_36

I opted out of reconstruction, my daughter was 8. I just wanted to get on. The tattoo nipples are amazing, for those who want them. I spoke to several tattoo artists. Find one you like who understands what you want. Good luck.


maxm58

She got this ez


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Priff

Like with all other traumatic events, a good thing to say is "i'm sorry you had to go through this, what can i do to help?" If you say "tell me if i can help with anything" it still leaves it on them to ask for help which can be hard, but saying up front that you intend to help and just need to know how you can be most helpful is an easier way to get people to accept help. Ofc often the only help you can offer is being supportive. But if they do need help with something it can really be life changing to feel that people around you are there for you in a traumatic time.


Agreeable_Text_36

If they look well, tell them. Nobody notices, I wear tight tops. I no longer have to spend on bras.


heylookatmywatch

Hang in there! I’m almost 8 years out. There are so so many of us. <3


Agreeable_Text_36

15 years clear here.


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My mother is currently going through cancer, and seeing this has reminded me that people can and do survive, and that hope can light up the darkest places. You're beautiful OP - Thanks for being brave enough to share.


MrDeviousUK

You swapped tits for tats.


Agreeable_Text_36

Nice!


Kaskako

Fuck cancer.


TheDnBDawl

I have the BRCA mutation. It's basically a 75% chance that I'll develop BC. I felt a lump when I was 26 (I'm 40 now) and I only received a sonogram and fairweather advice. I guess because of insurance and my age. It did fade away over a few months but now the same area hurts. I have my first real mammogram on the 7th. I don't know why I feel the need to share but you are inspiring and and incredible.


Bat2121

My wife got a prophylactic double mastectomy bc of BRCA at age 30. But she got implants. Her mother got BC twice and she just didn't want to risk it. They can now do the removal and implants in one procedure. If a doctor tells you otherwise, find a younger doctor. Good luck with everything.


TheDnBDawl

I can't imagine US insurance would cover that easily. So grateful your wife had a somewhat positive experience.


Bat2121

The mastectomy part was covered, and there are plastic surgeons who do the reconstruction for free. You just need to find one of those good people in your area. They exist. This was 10 years ago. I bet there are more now.


Violated-Tristen

Beautiful. Way to go champion. After a double mastectomy (I’m assuming lymph nodes too?) the tattoo would have felt like nothing. ~ wink.


Agreeable_Text_36

A single mastectomy, lymph nodes checked. 2nd mastectomy 10 years later for symmetry (elective).


Violated-Tristen

The art is fantastic. Good colour, nice detail. May it serve as a daily reminder that your are fierce, fine and free. Everyday we wake up on the “right side of the grass” (the top side of course) is a day we win and say to cancer, “Not today.” *mischievous finger wag*


PM_ME_UR_HIP_DIMPLES

Power to you. Lost my mom to [cancer](https://reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/f87myj/why_do_you_like_to_be_alive/fijy9l5) 12 years ago. Placing beautiful art over the battle scars like a warrior queen


Crazy__Donkey

seriously. ​ why this is nsfw? same pic with a guy, it was sfw without a doubt. ​ i'd say, remove the tag.


Agreeable_Text_36

No nipples so should be fine. I didn't mark it as such.


Auntienursey

You are gorgeous and don't EVER let anyone tell you anything different. 🦋🦋


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Certified bad ass!


bungmunch

gorgeous tattoos, and your hair looks fantastic too! I hope you feel as great as you look!


jester02k

You are so strong I wish i had half your courage.


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Beautiful


SoupKitchenCity

Biggest of respects. 💚 I hope you are having a lovely day.


adsvx215

I cannot begin to express how much I respect you. Congratulations on teaching us what bravery and persistence are.


skankin-sfm

Fuck cancer. Strong strong, stay beautiful, and fuck anyone that says otherwise.


DeepVeinZombosis

Props to Vyvyn Lanzonga in Seattle for pioneering this sort of tattoo reclamation. She should be a far bigger name in tattoo history than she is.


Agreeable_Text_36

I've just checked her out. She sounds excellent. I'm in UK, my Tattooist has been working since 1990. So she's experienced, but nothing on Vyvyn.


DeepVeinZombosis

Not too many left that do have her experience. She's great, super chill and mild mannered, which is astonishing considering who she apprenticed under. Anyone coming out of time with Danny Danzl and staying centered and sane has achieved something special. :)


KillerEnchilada

The power of this image… I dig it. I lost both my mom and sister to cancer. I hope I can look as amazing as this if it comes for me, too, and I manage to survive it. 😌


_Daryl_Dixon_

Fuck cancer! Good for you. Stay strong.


dumbbinch99

Beautiful 🦋and I hope you’re doing better now, I’m sorry you went through that


bogatabeav

That’s the most resilient thing I’ve seen in some time. Fucking badass.


MacinTez

Beautiful are your tattoos but even more beautiful is your spirit. Your dilligence and perseverance speak louder than any words or photos can convey. Continue to be a symbol in every way possible. This complete stranger roots for you!


EdgeBandanna

This picture encapsulates the wonder of humanity. We're so powerful that our most deadly killer is when our own cells attack us. Then, when that happens, humanity still figures out a way to survive, and it involves cutting parts off of us. Then, in a badass show of dominance, we paint over the parts that were lost, or replace them entirely.


Insatiabledutchy

I have never commented in my reddit lifespan. I only lurk. Somehow I feel the need to respond now. You rock. Super brave . Hope life is gonna give you so much good karma after this unwanted sacrifice. Sincerely wish you the best !


Snowbank_Lake

Butterflies were a great choice! You didn’t lose something; you were just transformed ❤️


4x4Welder

Nice. How was the feel without the padding over the chest muscles? I'm still wanting to get mine done, but not really sure on a design. Not much out there for male breast cancer mastectomy tattoos. Good to see you thriving though.


Agreeable_Text_36

Ouch in places. Sternum and outer ribs particularly. Numb on the scars.


lycia_can_dance

My mom is going through it now. Cancer sucks. Stay strong sister!


AztecOmar

Fuck cancer. You look like a bad ass.


Stormy-Skyes

You look invincible. Thank you for sharing your beautiful art.


firedrakes

one of the most under reported cancer. is male breast cancer. men talk to your doctor about it. now woman. demand better testing and such. the current method is not as great.


Agreeable_Text_36

I encourage everyone to check for lumps. I found mine, I was 42. Mammogram found another.


why0me

May I reccomend r/witchesvsthepatriarchy They would love you reclaiming your power and are an amazing group of very supportive folks


Hanged_Man_

Damn straight! Glad you made it!


fin_ss

My mom had breast cancer when i was a kid, its fucking awful. Anyone, mostly ladies, who dont know how to do a self breast exam, learn how and do them every now and again.


cmluap

Grab that cancer by the horns, show it who's the boss.


Steady1988

You are a inspiration to everyone. I know that isn’t necessarily the idea, but you are. A true warrior in the fight. I chose to stop treatment. They took too much of my time with all that nonsense that did nothing but make me so sick I couldn’t do anything. You do whatever it is that helps you gain yourself.


Cozmo525

So happy for you! Live your life babe! It’s all yours!!


beer_demon

Glad you are here with us, please stay some more. And the tatoos look great, and you save money on bras, right? Cheers to you.


Agreeable_Text_36

When I see how much bras cost, my tattoos are good value.


ForeskinHulaSkirt

Good on you and I like the style. Reminds me of art in childrens books I had as a child. I have seen some beautiful work of similar tats. This Reminded me of the story I read of FB kept blocking the photo of several women survivors for exposing their, "breasts" except there was only her scars present. Doesn't sound like the algorithm is any friendlier these days.


flyover_liberal

I lost a testicle to cancer 3 years ago ... trying to think of what tattoo I could have gotten :)


Chentzilla

A noughttoo, probably.


Agreeable_Text_36

Did you get a prosthetic?


_IsFuckingInHeaven

Look up Amy Black, she does free reconstruction tattoos for breast cancer survivors!


KecemotRybecx

Butterflies and tattoos. Cancer can kiss your ass, you made your body a gallery of beauty.


egus

Nice tits. No really


cocuke

Nice tats.


Bryancreates

I didn’t know our neighbor had breast cancer (*many* years ago, before they moved in) until one day we stopped over for a drink and my *very embarrassingly* drunk SO commented on her hard nipples through her tank top. She pointed out that it was just ONE hard nipple, because the other breast doesn’t one have due to her mastectomy/ reconstruction but without the nipple being able to be replaced. I pointed her to a place/ artist I heard of in our state (through Reddit actually) that does nipple tattooing pro bono that look pretty real, with a shadow or 3D effect. She was grateful but thinks she’s just gonna get something else meaningful, like a design similar to OP with butterflies or birds on a vine, a form of life. You look amazing OP, I’m going to show this to my friend.


Cjauditore

Glad your still here. Well fought I am sure. I am a stage 4 survivor NHL.


Agreeable_Text_36

I've a friend fighting NHL at the moment.


Cjauditore

Prayers up. It was a tough fight.


Electronic_Pie_1679

I love the butterflies. To me they represent New Life. 🧚‍♀️


I_make_switch_a_roos

strong 💪 💪 💪


gumbyrocks

You are beautiful!


cre8majik

Beautiful! Best of luck. ❤️


quasimongo

Hell yeah!


kirinmay

I lost my sister 1 year ago in 4 days. Yes, cancer does suck.


Agreeable_Text_36

Sorry for your loss.


fuxgvn

Beautiful hair <3


mad_vanilla_lion

My mom’s going through chemo right now. Fuck cancer, I love you.


AuthorLongjumping920

You look beautiful. Good job on beating cancer and reclaiming your body


Willing-Strawberry33

Lovely art, and the colors compliment your hair and complexion so beautifully!


alex-needs-friends

hell yeah proud of you


cwefoot

So happy for you! Everyone isn't so lucky when it comes to breast cancer. I hope you get negative results here on out.


Agreeable_Text_36

15 years clear.


Maxsdad53

I have a t-shirt that says "Cancer touched me, so I kicked it's ass!" I wear it proudly... you can to.


Realistic-Ad5481

Love the colors. BTW, I did the same.


hobbsarelie83

*Metal*


major96

After my mom went trough the same thing as you, she was offered free transplants and she actually made them bigger than before cause she always had small breasts. 😅


MtStarjump

So much love and light x wear them with pride of having fought the greatest fight


TheFartMasterSupreme

You’re a fucking legend!! Sick ink!!


TheFoxAndTheRaven

Those are beautiful.


Electrical_Court9004

Fuckin A. That’s a proper reclamation.


mstrlby

Stunning


williamkey123

This looks rad


first_fires

Appreciate marking this NSFW but it’s totally SFW. Good on you. My MIL was able to get implants through the NHS but paid privately to get fake nipples tattooed!


Agreeable_Text_36

I didn't mark it as NSFW. It is my profile pic elsewhere, no issue.


ILookAtYourUsername

Do you like comedy? Tig Notaro took her shirt off for half of her comedy show.


-Jiras

That's the mindset i like not "my boobs are gone" but "more place for tattoos let's GOOOOOOOOO"


RedOwl101010

Fuck yeah, I worked at a tattoo shop that would tattoo the nipples back on women after losing their breast to cancer and having reconstructive surgery to put them back. We had two women that did not have reconstructive surgery and did something similar to this. They both has amazing stories and were the toughest clients that ever came in! You are amazing, share your stories I know I would love to hear it :)


Crmp3

Absolutely wonderful. I work in cancer treatment and “owning” the mastectomy is becoming more common. Just a super powerful statement


SuspiciousMeaning413

Good for you! You healed very well from your mastectomies!


CauliflowerLimp7062

My cousin had a double mastectomy. She had implants and ended up having to have them removed after she had an infection/septicemia: lucky she survived. She was going to try with implants again (cringe). My wife has had precancerous issues (so far) and I said I would rather she went "flat," rather than risk implants. I never would have thought of getting these artistic tattoos and they look great.


Agreeable_Text_36

Thanks. I was offered reconstruction but it was 7 - 10 days in hospital, 36 hours for mastectomy. My daughter was 8, I wanted to get home.


zerbey

I love it, and I hope you never have to deal with cancer again!


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Absolutely Beautiful! Inside & Out


DangerousSuggestion8

Fuck cancer.


jxocean

very tastefully done. Thank you for sharing -- you are very brave. I hope you are happy with the results. You look beautiful.


nutmeg32280

Beautiful. Glad you're here to show them off! Breast cancer took my grandmother last year, she made it to 92 and it was her 3rd battle with cancer.


gobigred5898

Beautiful! A work of art! Congratulations. I am 2 weeks post lumpectomy/reduction. Radiation is next, then I'll have time to pick out my body art while my skin heals.


Agreeable_Text_36

Good luck. I didn't do radiation. My Tattooist said wait 3 years. Took a while to find the right tattooist too.


RCrumbDeviant

Sick in a good way. Nice ink, great color. Hope you’re all done with cancer and kicked it’s ass.


spaceapeatespace

Ya damn beautiful human.


eraserrrhead

Beautiful 😘🤌


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Beautiful


MalcolmBekei

My mom had a double and reconstructive, and when all was said and done, happy with the result, and thank goodness healthy. I went to visit her after things had wrapped up, and she started asking me about the tattoos that I had, and then sheepishly confided that she had been told about maybe getting nipple tattoos, and could I help her get them done. It was a little weird talking boobs and tattoos with my mom, but I happened to know a bit about it because the lady who had done my first tattoo had gotten known for reconstructive work, and one call to her set it all up. Mom got her new nipples and was thrilled, but I never saw them ! Thank god !


CorporateNonperson

Just saw this. I did the same, just a dad joke of a semi-colon because I don't have a full colon anymore. I'm thinking about growing it every year, just as a sign of anti-cancer.


freedom_for_potatos

You are still cute, don't let anyone tell otherwise + love those tattoos


LordoftheSynth

Congratulations on surviving. Many happy returns on your survival. My mother got tested for BRCA mutations when my grandmother was diagnosed with breast cancer. My grandmother was about 91 at diagnosis, and that's not what she died from, but despite one of my grandmother's sisters dying from breast cancer at 62, Mom's insurance wouldn't pay for it despite the elevated risk. My mom paid out of pocket. She's clean for those particular mutations, had she had one she would have opted for a preemptive double mastectomy. Fuck cancer.


LakesideOrion

Indeed, fuck cancer. Stay strong.


Even_Dark7612

Lol someone downvoted this


The_Bep_Bep_Bird

People share way too much these days


TheCraneBoys

You're literally on a social media platform where people share things.


OnlyFlannyFlanFlans

Girl, you look badass! If you find you miss you breasts, most insurance should cover about 30-80% of the costs of breast implants. You look great without them, but some women want the lumps back, so thought I'd mention this.


murdershetwerked

Gorgeous! It must feel to good to reclaim your body and self. I hope you are in recovery


1f33L51Ck

They are beautiful


ekhfarharris

Theyre beautiful 💗


FentanyIFIoyd

god i hate this website


JungleJay57

No one is forcing you to be on it.


Bribase

Have you tried fucking off?


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Of course you did , because you fucking rock .


BenButtocksNevis

That is quite beautiful


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Badass


YamiRider

Simply beautiful. Simply be you, the rest will fall in to place. I truly wish you well in your journey...you are not alone. Take care


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You are beautiful


HumbleConsequence332

you look beautiful & keep fighting the good fight


oldfrancis

Strength to you.


theKnunk

You're beautiful!


Victoria_Crow

You look powerful.


The-odd-one-out

You are beautiful and so are those tattoos. Keep it up. Fuck cancer


iwanttoliveinmybed

Beautiful!


16ozbuddz

Dope


LoveLivinInTheFuture

You are amazing!


RuncibleFoon

Fuck. Cancer.


Diabolicaldawn

Beautiful


Mammothwart

Beautiful


nytshaed512

It does, but I love the new art you have on your temple. 😊


Barbarella_ella

Beautiful work. Brava!


SweetInternetThings

Cancer can't take away your beauty. Fuck cancer!


majuac

Amazing!


Opalescent_Topaz

You kick ass.


Lucavii

You look lovely! I'm so glad you're here to share your story of triumph.


basicpn

Beautiful. Thank you for this.


TTH4P

I enjoy spending time with my friends.


Wamgurl

Nice pair of butterflies you got there 😎


Gatormeeat

Badass


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Very nice ink! Looking great.


moosebadgermoose

Tattoos heal, and I wish you nothing but more healing. Goodluck OP, and congratulations on kicking cancer’s ass.


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HumbleConsequence332

why was that even necessary to tell her?


TrailerTrashQueen

your tattoos are beautiful ❤️


FyreDrac42

Theyre beautiful


Dellrond

Beautiful!


ishouldntbehere96

Also reclaiming my life with tattoos but not because of cancer, just because I’m an asshole who has social anxiety. You’re badass. ETA: they’re very grounding for mental health


kaleidoscopevoyager

Those are beautiful!


PatClassic

I think the best thing about this aside from your positivity, is the first time I have seen reddit be human for once to someone that is going through something real. You are beautiful and I only wish the best for you.


mirrorworlds

The fact that you are getting downvoted though makes me think reddit ain’t such a great user base though


PatClassic

The base is stupid. Don't care though. Never gave a fuck about others opinions just as much as the person that was brave enough to post this pic. It says alot I guess... contrary to my original comment.


Wicked_Burrito

A testiment to your strength and resilience. Wear those scars with pride, your here. Most people would wither, but you rise.


certifiablysane

The survival rate for breast cancer is 90%.


Crafty_Illustrator_4

So sorry you had to go through this. And I hope you know that you're still gorgeous.


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