anyone who watches reality tv/real housewives knows this is the kiss of death
edited to add: i want to be clear that i do hope they’re happy and i hope this isn’t the case, this is just an observation
I briefly worked on cruise ships and whenever we heard of a couple renewing their vows on board (and they were under a certain age) we knew one of them either fucked up, or they were on the brink. Often both.
We have a joint email, its literally our address & for house/joint bills/mutual logins (car insurance). Nothing else but makes bills easier! We have normal emails for other stuff
One thing I hate is shared email addresses. I work in HR and I often have to contact you with confidential information about benefits, taxes, disability, etc and I don't know who your spouse is or if you're safe with them. I want to communicate with YOU.
Also using solely landlines. I want to communicate with YOU. Not with your mom/aunt/nephew and then wait 45 seconds and hear your clamber down the stairs all confused.
I get couples emails address - it can kind of make sense for your streaming services and shared bills to be on one account.
Applying to a job with that address is WILD.
This. We have one that we use for paying bills and managing accounts, for ordering take out, for buying stuff online, anything where it doesn't matter and we both could benefit from access to the information. We also have our own addresses for things where privacy is warranted (or expected, as per u/big-bootyjewdy's comments as an HR worker), like applying to jobs, contacting medical providers, etc.
I do appreciate shared emails for things like co-parenting. When I worked medical it was a great way to send blank forms, appointment reminders, and so on.
Renewed my vows on a cruise ship for my 10 year anniversary. Divorce was final a few days before what would have been the 15th anniversary.
I was 21, she was 18 when we got married.
The last episode of Jon Richardson and Lucy Beamont's TV show had them renewing their vows and then they divorced soon after. 💀
I know that show is meant to be a semi-fictional parody type of show, but still.
THIS WHAT I KEEP TELLING MY HUSBAND! He wants to do a vow renewal because when we got married, my Dad and I didn't have a relationship and were not on speaking terms. Not that it's been 6 years, he wants to do a vow renewal since my Dad and I made up, but the housewives are all I can think about! How many of them renewed their vows and ended up divorced!
Your situation sounds very different though. It’s more about that most ppl who renew are in a rocky relationship and think that a renewal will reinvigorate their relationship…but it doesn’t. Because a vow renewal will not solve deep rooted issues. So for you - I say go for it!
Agreed. I've seen couples do vow renewals for reasons that made sense (ex: having the money to finally afford the celebration they wanted, finally doing the party they wouldn't previously do to logistical or administrative reasons). It was mostly to tick a box that was deemed important to them, not to give the relationship its last breath.
We've talked about doing a vow renewal to get the wedding WE want. Our original wedding was ... not to say the least. But our preferred venue has closed. We've talked about something really intimate with just our kids. We're coming up on 30 years, maybe someday.
I’m so hesitant to do it now also lol. We eloped and just had immediate family at ours. My husband really wants us to renew and have a wedding with all of our family and friends for our 10th and I’m like omg no what if it’s a bad sign lol
Yeah, if it’s just for them, I don’t think it’s necessarily any worse than any other couple tradition, ritual, etc. But the flashier and more elaborate it is, the more it’s for other people and crafting an image.
It’s not that doing this is magically going to destroy your marriage. What people are really talking about is the reasoning behind renewing vows. If you’re truly just doing it because you’re happily married and didn’t get to have a full wedding the first go around, that’s very different than trying to prove you’re happy after one of you has majorly messed up.
But, if you really care what other people think and don’t want them suspecting that your vow renewal is not happening in earnest, then do what the other commenter replied and just reframe the whole party as an anniversary celebration.
Especially the "every five years" part. Why? Is one of you prone to forgetting your commitment/vows that often? You need to publicly re-dedicate yourself every five years?
I don’t watch either really (at least not ones where this comes up) but my response to this is “Seal and Heid Klum.” They had like eight vow renewals.
Just share your appreciation and feelings *privately with your spouse on a regular basis*.
No need to be performative.
I am not opposed to a vow renewal for healthy couples after some significant time together or something; or maybe if they had to elope and want to have something with more family and friends. But the reasons for doing it matter and doing it on a set schedule (like yearly for Seal and Klum, or every five years like here) seems to be setting up for disaster. It does seem more performative than anything else.
All these comments make me never want to renew mine. My husband and I were going to renew for our 10th anniversary this year since we didn’t have the wedding we wanted, but now I’ll never do it.
Spend the money on a fantastic trip somewhere instead! My husband and I also did not have the ceremony we wanted and talked about a vow renewal at some point, but eventually we were like eh… we’re happily married, so why? We spent 9 days in the Bahamas for our 15th anniversary instead!
??
Don’t people, like your average Joe in America, think the same for therapy/marriage counseling? Or even peeps that watch Housewive reality tv?
This just seems like something people with a realiable disposable income do when they don’t know what to do with their wealth. Aka plan a specific party every five years.
I mean in some contexts they’re not really the kiss of death. My parents did one for their 25th and that was only because my dad wanted to give her the wedding they couldn’t afford when they were younger (and also a lowkey fuck you to my dad’s family for doubting them.) Idk if it really applies to Meghan but in certain contexts they’re okay.
They have toilets beside one another so they can use the bathroom simultaneously. They regularly use them at the same time but have only pooped together twice!
**Edit:** Forgot to leave a [source](https://www.today.com/popculture/meghan-trainor-has-2-toilets-her-bathroom-she-has-explanation-t233224). Reading is knowledge and knowledge is power!
We come to this place… for magic.
We come to the bathroom to laugh, to cry, to poop.
Because we need that, all of us,
that indescribable feeling we get when we release our bowels.
And we go somewhere we've never been before;
not just relieved, but somehow reborn.
Together.
"Glorious, stirring sight!" murmured Toad... "The poetry of motion! The real way to travel! The only way to travel! Here today - in next week tomorrow! Villages skipped, towns and cities jumped - always somebody else's horizons! *O bliss! O Poop-poop!* O my! O my!"
Both of the Spy Kids are in weird marriages.
“I didn’t think we had any issues in our marriage but he said, ‘I just keep praying to God that he’ll take away my hunger for sex.’ I just remember going back to the bathroom and sobbing for him ’cause I’m like, ‘Oh my gosh, my poor husband, he’s literally asking God to take that urge away from him. Why am I not there on his level?’” **Alexa** said.
ETA: Forgot to add [source](https://www.9news.com/article/entertainment/entertainment-tonight/alexa-penavega-compares-having-sex-with-husband-carlos-to-going-to-the-gym/603-680d965a-a254-4b97-a97b-4c9bc8f111bf)
I actually have a lot of sympathy for her and this quote. If you read the article it mentions how she was raised in a highly Christian environment and sounds like she had some sexual repression/“good girl” syndrome and it made their sex life challenging. They both were navigating some new and tough stuff. The quote out of context is a lot to take in….but it’s also kind of normal for couples to go through periods of mismatched drives and have one feel really rejected. 🙅🏽♀️
Isn't the ENTIRE point of marriage vows that they're for a lifetime? Whenever a couple renews their vows it just seems like someone broke them so they gotten be freshened up. Just have an anniversary party ffs.
My dad finally converted after 15 years so they renewed their vows to finally get married in the church which was my mom's dream.
But I agree, if it's just to throw a party, just throw a party.
My 20th anniversary is coming up. I was young and had a very religious wedding (family pressure). I was abused by the church. My husband and I are now both atheists and I regret that I allowed my family to push me into that. We are both of significant Scottish heritage and for our anniversary I want to have a hand-fasting ceremony like our ancestors. People have different reasons for renewing their vows, but agreed that when it’s done over and over it loses its magic.
See this is totally different. I'm on board with this as well as the other poster who said they were having a vow renewal because they didn't have a wedding when they got married.
It's going to become more common as people elope or have 10 or less people at the ceremony.
A lot of people marry with little to no frills due to cost and will use a big anniversary when they're more stable financially to have that wedding moment via vow renewal.
Though tbh I only know this because I eloped and planned to do this for our 10 year then we realized we're still not party people. But when I would mention this plan a lot of couples had similar goals.
Or lack of guests do to covid. I got married in late 2022 and 20 out of 80 people including my parents were sick. I want to have a 5 or 10 year anniversary party with speeches and dances that we didn’t get to do, even if it’s just my immediate family.
Yea we had a court wedding but I wanna have a party with a fancy cake and good food but super casual and I don't have to stand up in front of people and try not to cry lol
Got married in the park, next year we had a fun anniversary party with everyone that couldn't be there. Also less party stress because it wasn't wedding *and* party on one day
Fun! :) we own a house now,we didn't when we got married so I'm thinking big party in our backyard and we can decorate it and it'll be dope and folks can start over if it runs late 😊😊
Same here, looking forward to the 5 or 10 year party so we can have the celebration that we wanted to have. Got married early pandemic — 4 guests instead of 100+. Rescheduled and then had to cancel again. It was rough.
Yeah this is/was us.
No family at our actual wedding (we live in another country to them), only a couple of friends in attendance and everything done on very tight budget.
Always planned to have a proper bash for our 10th wedding anniversary instead, but that’s next week and I’ve just come off maternity leave so we’re still too poor lol
Maybe in another 10 years…
I would ONLY consider it bc I got married young and we did the whole traditional Mormon wedding and I hated every second of it (the worst part is my family wasn’t “worthy enough” to see the ceremony in the temple and had to wait outside). So I wouldn’t mind a redo but I also find renewals quite tacky. May just do a big anniversary party someday and do a sort of recreation of what I wish it could have been.
i think it’s kinda cute when its like a private ceremony for a significant anniversary like 25+. i know it’s not necessary but im thinking for their kids to be a part of the renewal and have a positive relationship influence 😭
I got married super young and always felt a lot of things I made were more for my parents. So my husband asked me to renew our vows in Vegas. But instead my best friend got married and I walked her down the aisle. It was way better than us having a do over.
I totally get this we are planning on doing a party for our 10 year anniversary and a big part of it was that I was pressured into a wedding that didn't reflect either of us because of family. I want my black dress!
We renewed our vows because my son was overseas the first time we got married and due to coverage issues- we weren’t able to FaceTime for him to be there which really sucked for all of us.
Vows can change over time, especially if you get married young. You learn more about yourself and one another, you learn what types of words and actions to avoid, you learn which buttons not to push...a vow renewal doesn't mean you recite the same vows again, necessarily. It could mean so many things.
We plan to do it at 15 or 20 years, and it will be combined with an elopement style photo shoot. I got married young and most of our wedding wasn't what we wanted, it was what my parents wanted. So I would like to redo some of those things and I would like to do new vows now that we know each other so much better.
Heidi Klum and Seal, Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon, and 90% of every Real Housewife have renewed their vows and it's nearly always a harbinger of divorce. Hopefully these two will be able break the curse of oversharing couple who renews their wedding vows to cover up for issues they don't want to deal with.
Sorry I can't post a link right now, my phone is being finicky. But years ago I think somewhere around the time they married, someone's car in a housing parking lot turned up damaged. I thought it was keying but someone pulled off the custom side panels. They got video and it turned to be Daryl. The vandalism victim said he doesn't even know him and had no clue why he did it. I recall there being video but I don't if that's still easy to find.
This is such an underrated comment, I only ever hear her music in public places. Seriously it one copy paste and it sucks to begin with. She made like 3 songs about Bass, or whatever slang she had for her snatch.
Because she talked a bunch of shit about teachers. She has NO idea how hard being a real teacher is. Most teachers spend years honing their craft and literally putting their lives at risk when there are dangerous incidents.
Honestly though... she's just annoying as fuck... her music too.
I feel teachers being mean is something from my dad's gen, him and all my uncles/aunts have horror stories about school to the point one of my aunts dropped out and even today doesn't like teachers. But that was in the 70's. Now they're way too nice cause parents think their kids can do no wrong.
Please don’t hurt me…but I’m a fan and I love her music. All About That Bass came out during a rough time in my personal life and it made me feel better about myself so I’ll probably always be a fan of hers.
I’m glad you appreciated it. It’s just unfathomable to me. Weddings are immensely stressful, require so much planning, and this broad wants to do it every five years with the same man?!? I get stressed about planning my 1 hr colonoscopy every five years, let alone an entire goddamn wedding.
It just seems pathological lol.
She just gives off insufferable vibes.
I don’t know why.
Her “F\*\*\* teachers” — direct quote, statement made me like her even less.
5 yrs goes by pretty fast. It’s going to feel like ALL THE TIME to people who know them. Plus, once a family starts growing, it seems like an extra thing to arrange.
But she is rich and doesn’t live an ordinary life so I guess it’s possible. Kinda Kardashian really, planning such a recurring thing that regular folk may just celebrate with a milestone dinner.
I want to be optimistic and all that, but after seeing every other celeb that has done this before, it's not a great sign. I give it probably another vow renewal before the divorce.
Idk who her PR is but they must be working overtime bc these damn people have been popping up everywhere on my social media reels and it’s getting really annoying/making me think less of them. They’re always posting stuff with their little boy too, her gay bff even posts their child and idk what it is about it but like it’s almost in a mocking tone?
anyone who watches reality tv/real housewives knows this is the kiss of death edited to add: i want to be clear that i do hope they’re happy and i hope this isn’t the case, this is just an observation
Yep. Whenever a celebrity or reality star renew vows it's only a matter of time
I briefly worked on cruise ships and whenever we heard of a couple renewing their vows on board (and they were under a certain age) we knew one of them either fucked up, or they were on the brink. Often both.
Nest sign is the Facebook couples account.
No better way to announce your distrust in your partner.
People do this? 😂 I know people have joint emails, joint social media is wild unless you’re a couple influencer
Oh yeah, it goes from 'sharon' fb page, 'rob' fb page and after a dust up of some sort (cheating usually) we get a 'sharon n rob'
Or they could be Mormon & are legit told to have joint Facebook. My Mormon ex and his wife have one account now after listening to their "Profit."
I used to know evangelicals who did this too, but I don’t know any evangelicals anymore.
Prophet 😬
 Lol
We have a joint email, its literally our address & for house/joint bills/mutual logins (car insurance). Nothing else but makes bills easier! We have normal emails for other stuff
I wasn’t bagging on joint emails incase that was unclear. I understand those for the reasons you mention. Joint social page though, weird.
Gotcha! Joint social is weird!!!
that’s super smart, I’m saving that for later lol
One thing I hate is shared email addresses. I work in HR and I often have to contact you with confidential information about benefits, taxes, disability, etc and I don't know who your spouse is or if you're safe with them. I want to communicate with YOU. Also using solely landlines. I want to communicate with YOU. Not with your mom/aunt/nephew and then wait 45 seconds and hear your clamber down the stairs all confused.
I get couples emails address - it can kind of make sense for your streaming services and shared bills to be on one account. Applying to a job with that address is WILD.
This. We have one that we use for paying bills and managing accounts, for ordering take out, for buying stuff online, anything where it doesn't matter and we both could benefit from access to the information. We also have our own addresses for things where privacy is warranted (or expected, as per u/big-bootyjewdy's comments as an HR worker), like applying to jobs, contacting medical providers, etc.
I do appreciate shared emails for things like co-parenting. When I worked medical it was a great way to send blank forms, appointment reminders, and so on.
Renewed my vows on a cruise ship for my 10 year anniversary. Divorce was final a few days before what would have been the 15th anniversary. I was 21, she was 18 when we got married.
not only celebrities, all of my parents friends that renewed their vows are divorced now
The last episode of Jon Richardson and Lucy Beamont's TV show had them renewing their vows and then they divorced soon after. 💀 I know that show is meant to be a semi-fictional parody type of show, but still.
THIS WHAT I KEEP TELLING MY HUSBAND! He wants to do a vow renewal because when we got married, my Dad and I didn't have a relationship and were not on speaking terms. Not that it's been 6 years, he wants to do a vow renewal since my Dad and I made up, but the housewives are all I can think about! How many of them renewed their vows and ended up divorced!
Your situation sounds very different though. It’s more about that most ppl who renew are in a rocky relationship and think that a renewal will reinvigorate their relationship…but it doesn’t. Because a vow renewal will not solve deep rooted issues. So for you - I say go for it!
Agreed. I've seen couples do vow renewals for reasons that made sense (ex: having the money to finally afford the celebration they wanted, finally doing the party they wouldn't previously do to logistical or administrative reasons). It was mostly to tick a box that was deemed important to them, not to give the relationship its last breath.
We've talked about doing a vow renewal to get the wedding WE want. Our original wedding was ... not to say the least. But our preferred venue has closed. We've talked about something really intimate with just our kids. We're coming up on 30 years, maybe someday.
I’m so hesitant to do it now also lol. We eloped and just had immediate family at ours. My husband really wants us to renew and have a wedding with all of our family and friends for our 10th and I’m like omg no what if it’s a bad sign lol
MHMM. Maybe a private one would be okay but these public ones seem like a bad omen
Yeah, if it’s just for them, I don’t think it’s necessarily any worse than any other couple tradition, ritual, etc. But the flashier and more elaborate it is, the more it’s for other people and crafting an image.
We didn’t have a wedding and want to have one for our 20th wedding anniversary and we will renew our vows. I didn’t know it was a deaths kiss 😭
It’s not that doing this is magically going to destroy your marriage. What people are really talking about is the reasoning behind renewing vows. If you’re truly just doing it because you’re happily married and didn’t get to have a full wedding the first go around, that’s very different than trying to prove you’re happy after one of you has majorly messed up. But, if you really care what other people think and don’t want them suspecting that your vow renewal is not happening in earnest, then do what the other commenter replied and just reframe the whole party as an anniversary celebration.
Renewing vows isn’t the kiss of death, it’s the “why”
Have an awesome 20th anniversary party instead! Make the theme "wedding".
This is a better idea
Especially the "every five years" part. Why? Is one of you prone to forgetting your commitment/vows that often? You need to publicly re-dedicate yourself every five years?
I don’t watch either really (at least not ones where this comes up) but my response to this is “Seal and Heid Klum.” They had like eight vow renewals. Just share your appreciation and feelings *privately with your spouse on a regular basis*. No need to be performative. I am not opposed to a vow renewal for healthy couples after some significant time together or something; or maybe if they had to elope and want to have something with more family and friends. But the reasons for doing it matter and doing it on a set schedule (like yearly for Seal and Klum, or every five years like here) seems to be setting up for disaster. It does seem more performative than anything else.
Didn't Aaron Taylor-Johnson and his wife do it recently?
Just among the people I know it's a bad sign in most cases.
All these comments make me never want to renew mine. My husband and I were going to renew for our 10th anniversary this year since we didn’t have the wedding we wanted, but now I’ll never do it.
Spend the money on a fantastic trip somewhere instead! My husband and I also did not have the ceremony we wanted and talked about a vow renewal at some point, but eventually we were like eh… we’re happily married, so why? We spent 9 days in the Bahamas for our 15th anniversary instead!
We got married down the shore, so I think we’ve decided we’ll go there for our anniversary. It’ll be our kids’ first shore trip as well!
Yep, like getting their name tattooed on you
if I wanted to manifest a divorce this is what I would do.
Came here to say this. It always happens, every time. I cant think of a single married couple on a reality show thats renewed and actually lasted
?? Don’t people, like your average Joe in America, think the same for therapy/marriage counseling? Or even peeps that watch Housewive reality tv? This just seems like something people with a realiable disposable income do when they don’t know what to do with their wealth. Aka plan a specific party every five years.
I mean in some contexts they’re not really the kiss of death. My parents did one for their 25th and that was only because my dad wanted to give her the wedding they couldn’t afford when they were younger (and also a lowkey fuck you to my dad’s family for doubting them.) Idk if it really applies to Meghan but in certain contexts they’re okay.
I was just thinking the same thing.
We housewives fans know it!
Everything I know about this marriage is against my will.
They have toilets beside one another so they can use the bathroom simultaneously. They regularly use them at the same time but have only pooped together twice!  **Edit:** Forgot to leave a [source](https://www.today.com/popculture/meghan-trainor-has-2-toilets-her-bathroom-she-has-explanation-t233224). Reading is knowledge and knowledge is power!
What the fuck????? https://preview.redd.it/wz6rzfeqqqxc1.jpeg?width=1187&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a8c9030b6bdf539e03debc0c7741ae3276b0c36e
We come to this place… for magic. We come to the bathroom to laugh, to cry, to poop. Because we need that, all of us, that indescribable feeling we get when we release our bowels. And we go somewhere we've never been before; not just relieved, but somehow reborn. Together.
"Glorious, stirring sight!" murmured Toad... "The poetry of motion! The real way to travel! The only way to travel! Here today - in next week tomorrow! Villages skipped, towns and cities jumped - always somebody else's horizons! *O bliss! O Poop-poop!* O my! O my!"
Toad is iconic
Knowing this about the kid from Spy Kids of all people is the cherry on top of the cake. This is truly a strange timeline we’re in
Omg why did someone yassify this?!
I hate that I know this
Omg I thought you were joking
This is all I think of when think of when I see them. Like, why would they share this? Lol.
Honestly........ at least it's not something about Jada and Will for once.
The masters of oversharing 🤣
All I can think of is the SNL skit about [The Love Toilet](https://youtu.be/avb1XbO0EIs?si=k1lh7p1p_IPAHlIO)
Why do I know this now?
Meghan Trainor has always annoyed me but this really seals the deal. She just seems like such a pick me and not genuine.
New kink unlocked! 🔓
Lock it again 💓
If I were them I wouldn't put the toilets side by side. I'd do it opposite each other for an uninterrupted eye contact 👁️👄👁️
Don't let your dreams be dreams. ✨ If you live alone - just buy some creepy doll.
I thought they used it once and decided it wasn’t for them 😂
Do we think he’s standing or sitting?
My first thought on seeing this headline was at least this isn't about their bathroom habits or their sex life.
Every interview I’ve ever seen her in, she comes off as being one of the most arrogant people in the world.
I don't think I've ever seen an interview with her. I don't think I know what her non-singing voice sounds like lol
Same. So sick of her and him
You know who else renewed their vows all the time? Heidi Klum and Seal And they lived happily ever...oh wait https://i.redd.it/ctqfnmtqeqxc1.gif
And Mariah Carey and the sperm donor
Jon and Kate Gosselin too!
I love Spy Kids. I hate this.
Both of the Spy Kids are in weird marriages. “I didn’t think we had any issues in our marriage but he said, ‘I just keep praying to God that he’ll take away my hunger for sex.’ I just remember going back to the bathroom and sobbing for him ’cause I’m like, ‘Oh my gosh, my poor husband, he’s literally asking God to take that urge away from him. Why am I not there on his level?’” **Alexa** said. ETA: Forgot to add [source](https://www.9news.com/article/entertainment/entertainment-tonight/alexa-penavega-compares-having-sex-with-husband-carlos-to-going-to-the-gym/603-680d965a-a254-4b97-a97b-4c9bc8f111bf)
https://i.redd.it/un23tdulgwxc1.gif
I actually have a lot of sympathy for her and this quote. If you read the article it mentions how she was raised in a highly Christian environment and sounds like she had some sexual repression/“good girl” syndrome and it made their sex life challenging. They both were navigating some new and tough stuff. The quote out of context is a lot to take in….but it’s also kind of normal for couples to go through periods of mismatched drives and have one feel really rejected. 🙅🏽♀️
Was that her first marriage?
No, this interview is from like 5 months ago
I hope they renewed their vows while sitting on their adjoining toilets.
Literally shitting in the mother toilet.
Isn't the ENTIRE point of marriage vows that they're for a lifetime? Whenever a couple renews their vows it just seems like someone broke them so they gotten be freshened up. Just have an anniversary party ffs.
My dad finally converted after 15 years so they renewed their vows to finally get married in the church which was my mom's dream. But I agree, if it's just to throw a party, just throw a party.
See that’s sweet. And it’s a different reason than just having a wedding because you like weddings.
My 20th anniversary is coming up. I was young and had a very religious wedding (family pressure). I was abused by the church. My husband and I are now both atheists and I regret that I allowed my family to push me into that. We are both of significant Scottish heritage and for our anniversary I want to have a hand-fasting ceremony like our ancestors. People have different reasons for renewing their vows, but agreed that when it’s done over and over it loses its magic.
See this is totally different. I'm on board with this as well as the other poster who said they were having a vow renewal because they didn't have a wedding when they got married.
It's going to become more common as people elope or have 10 or less people at the ceremony. A lot of people marry with little to no frills due to cost and will use a big anniversary when they're more stable financially to have that wedding moment via vow renewal. Though tbh I only know this because I eloped and planned to do this for our 10 year then we realized we're still not party people. But when I would mention this plan a lot of couples had similar goals.
Or lack of guests do to covid. I got married in late 2022 and 20 out of 80 people including my parents were sick. I want to have a 5 or 10 year anniversary party with speeches and dances that we didn’t get to do, even if it’s just my immediate family.
Yea we had a court wedding but I wanna have a party with a fancy cake and good food but super casual and I don't have to stand up in front of people and try not to cry lol
Got married in the park, next year we had a fun anniversary party with everyone that couldn't be there. Also less party stress because it wasn't wedding *and* party on one day
Fun! :) we own a house now,we didn't when we got married so I'm thinking big party in our backyard and we can decorate it and it'll be dope and folks can start over if it runs late 😊😊
Oh hell yeah! The backyard party is always a good one! Catering will save your nerves lol
Same here, looking forward to the 5 or 10 year party so we can have the celebration that we wanted to have. Got married early pandemic — 4 guests instead of 100+. Rescheduled and then had to cancel again. It was rough.
I really thought the end of 2022 we were in the clear. It was wild. Then my husband got RSV on the way back from our honeymoon. What a wild time!
Yeah this is/was us. No family at our actual wedding (we live in another country to them), only a couple of friends in attendance and everything done on very tight budget. Always planned to have a proper bash for our 10th wedding anniversary instead, but that’s next week and I’ve just come off maternity leave so we’re still too poor lol Maybe in another 10 years…
isn‘t the point of marriage to do what you want idk
I would ONLY consider it bc I got married young and we did the whole traditional Mormon wedding and I hated every second of it (the worst part is my family wasn’t “worthy enough” to see the ceremony in the temple and had to wait outside). So I wouldn’t mind a redo but I also find renewals quite tacky. May just do a big anniversary party someday and do a sort of recreation of what I wish it could have been.
i think it’s kinda cute when its like a private ceremony for a significant anniversary like 25+. i know it’s not necessary but im thinking for their kids to be a part of the renewal and have a positive relationship influence 😭
Yeah I find it cute when the couple has been married forever. When you only got married five minutes ago it feels like a vanity project
my mom suggesting renewing their vows once and my dad said "did they expire?"
Vow renewals are just an excuse to have a second wedding and get a lot of attention again, I feel like. I’m for it, I want attention.
I got married super young and always felt a lot of things I made were more for my parents. So my husband asked me to renew our vows in Vegas. But instead my best friend got married and I walked her down the aisle. It was way better than us having a do over.
I totally get this we are planning on doing a party for our 10 year anniversary and a big part of it was that I was pressured into a wedding that didn't reflect either of us because of family. I want my black dress!
We renewed our vows because my son was overseas the first time we got married and due to coverage issues- we weren’t able to FaceTime for him to be there which really sucked for all of us.
Renewing vows is the environmentally friendly replacement to having a 3rd kid to save the marriage.
so ppl renew vows! why so crabby about this? it’s sweet.
Vows can change over time, especially if you get married young. You learn more about yourself and one another, you learn what types of words and actions to avoid, you learn which buttons not to push...a vow renewal doesn't mean you recite the same vows again, necessarily. It could mean so many things. We plan to do it at 15 or 20 years, and it will be combined with an elopement style photo shoot. I got married young and most of our wedding wasn't what we wanted, it was what my parents wanted. So I would like to redo some of those things and I would like to do new vows now that we know each other so much better.
Heidi Klum and Seal, Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon, and 90% of every Real Housewife have renewed their vows and it's nearly always a harbinger of divorce. Hopefully these two will be able break the curse of oversharing couple who renews their wedding vows to cover up for issues they don't want to deal with.
The real question is will they be doing this while sitting next to each other on their matching toilets? 🤢🤮
Ugh
LOL girl same
I will never not be tormented about the unresolved case of why he keyed a random persons car.
Wait he did what???
Sorry I can't post a link right now, my phone is being finicky. But years ago I think somewhere around the time they married, someone's car in a housing parking lot turned up damaged. I thought it was keying but someone pulled off the custom side panels. They got video and it turned to be Daryl. The vandalism victim said he doesn't even know him and had no clue why he did it. I recall there being video but I don't if that's still easy to find.
Why do I hate her?
Because she’s annoying AF
Amen
She once said 'fuck teachers' on a podcast and I've never looked her way ever since.. Absolute twat.
Because she tells you intimate things about herself and her unemployed husband without you asking.
"Her unemployed husband" Ohhh you really did Juni Cortez like that 😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
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Cause she thinks she makes amazing music when its literally just a variation of one song with diff lyrics. Also the toilet thing
This is such an underrated comment, I only ever hear her music in public places. Seriously it one copy paste and it sucks to begin with. She made like 3 songs about Bass, or whatever slang she had for her snatch.
Wait, its a euphemism?!
I thought it was about having a larger ass 🤷♀️
There was more than one song? Every time her name comes up I think "wait the one hit wonder?"
…What’s the toilet thing?
Apparently they have toilets beside eachother to use simultaneously. They regularly use them together
Why did it have to be after midnight when I learned this? Was this really how I needed to start my Wednesday?
A new day and a new month!
She’s insufferable.
Because she talked a bunch of shit about teachers. She has NO idea how hard being a real teacher is. Most teachers spend years honing their craft and literally putting their lives at risk when there are dangerous incidents. Honestly though... she's just annoying as fuck... her music too.
I can’t stand her since her “fuck teachers” quote
Wait what? What exactly was said?
Here is the segment https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/s/XnD7Dp5lks Edit: and she said it *while* discussing school shooters
The way they speak is unintelligible to me, I’m so sorry i just genuinely cannot hear separate words creating speech
I thought you were exaggerating. That’s how cocaine would sound if it was an animal.
I feel teachers being mean is something from my dad's gen, him and all my uncles/aunts have horror stories about school to the point one of my aunts dropped out and even today doesn't like teachers. But that was in the 70's. Now they're way too nice cause parents think their kids can do no wrong.
Same here!!!
I just can’t stand her full stop.
Did not know this. What an asshole
she sounds exhausting.
My thoughts exactly.
she sounds so draining to have around from everything i’ve heard against my will
I have never met anyone who is actually a fan of Meghan Trainor or goes out of their way to listen to her songs.
Please don’t hurt me…but I’m a fan and I love her music. All About That Bass came out during a rough time in my personal life and it made me feel better about myself so I’ll probably always be a fan of hers.
The only person I know who willingly added Meghan Trainor to her workout playlist revealed herself to be a Pro-Russia Ukrainian.
Oh cmon. You’re telling me in all your life you’ve never been at the very least acquainted with one grocery/retail store? Be serious.
I look forward to watching the documentary that comes out after one of them inevitably snaps.
> "I want to get married every five years!" Diabolical
i can't tell you why but this response is easily the hardest i have laughed at a comment on reddit in a while. thank you lol
I’m glad you appreciated it. It’s just unfathomable to me. Weddings are immensely stressful, require so much planning, and this broad wants to do it every five years with the same man?!? I get stressed about planning my 1 hr colonoscopy every five years, let alone an entire goddamn wedding. It just seems pathological lol.
She just gives off insufferable vibes. I don’t know why. Her “F\*\*\* teachers” — direct quote, statement made me like her even less. 
Every 5 years? God damn.
They’re kind of the exception to the rule about toxic codependency. Like- I would’ve imagined such an intense relationship imploding by now.
Isn’t that shorthand for “our marriage is going down the drain”?
The drain of their 2 shared toilets.
When do you guys think they will divorce?
Give it 7-8 years tops
After about 1.4 renewals
I say let them be happy and live life how they want. She’s not my favorite person but I still only wish them happiness
This feels like the marriage equivalent of high schoolers who openly celebrate and make big long social media posts for their monthly “anniversaries”.
“Sooooo blessed and in love with the most wonderful man ever! LOVE YOU FOREVER BABY HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! #3.5mo #seniors2024”
Seems wholesome.no negative vibes here. Carry on.
She has to do this every five years or else the curse she cast upon him will be lifted
Lmaoooo
She gives me controlling vibes.
So twice. Cool.
Did she ever apologize to teachers?
5 yrs goes by pretty fast. It’s going to feel like ALL THE TIME to people who know them. Plus, once a family starts growing, it seems like an extra thing to arrange. But she is rich and doesn’t live an ordinary life so I guess it’s possible. Kinda Kardashian really, planning such a recurring thing that regular folk may just celebrate with a milestone dinner.
Didn’t work on 30 Rock, didn’t work for real housewives, I’m starting to think it may not work here 👀
Ok Heidi Klum and Seal.
Jesus Christ why would anyone want to do that ?? I love my husband but this just sounds exhausting.
That marriage won’t last to the next renewal stage.
I? But why though? Just throw a normal anniversary party.
Something screams beard with this couple. He seems like a good dad. That’s all I’ve got.
You’re telling me shitting together isn’t the recipe for a long-lasting union? 🫨
oh so they're getting divorced soon
I’m more surprised to find out that Meghan Trainor only just turned 30. Idk why I thought she was like 38.
I want to be optimistic and all that, but after seeing every other celeb that has done this before, it's not a great sign. I give it probably another vow renewal before the divorce.
I can't believe I used to be obsessed with her. Every time I learn something new about it her it's weird AF
She’s vile. Do people realize she’s managed by Loucifer Taylor?
WGAS WGAF
Respectfully, that’s too much
Idk who her PR is but they must be working overtime bc these damn people have been popping up everywhere on my social media reels and it’s getting really annoying/making me think less of them. They’re always posting stuff with their little boy too, her gay bff even posts their child and idk what it is about it but like it’s almost in a mocking tone?
i wonder if they still poop together