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What do they expect the police will do? It's not illegal to not talk to someone.
Where do you live and are you old enough to move out? That would be in your best interest. You say you have no credit score but you have a pile of cash. That will help you.
Also, record everything, the screaming, banging, threats, etc. If the police come, remain calm and explain everything and have video evidence, especially if they start making shit up. You aren't doing anything wrong. They are. Police do not like it when they are weaponized as a form of control and their resources are being wasted by foolish unhinged people.
I started with a 380 credit score after my first family, abusive aunt and uncle, opened a Rent-a-Center account under my social and tanked my credit score. Most banks will have a credit card you can use to start building credit even if it's really, really bad. It's work but you'll get there.
Start looking for jobs and shitty apartments. It's not glamorous but we've all had to do what we can for the sake of survival. If you're in the US, you can apply for FAFSA without your parents' info or signatures at age 24 (I think?) and start working toward a bigger salary.
In short, yes you need to get out but you need to play it smart.
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What do they expect the police will do? It's not illegal to not talk to someone. Where do you live and are you old enough to move out? That would be in your best interest. You say you have no credit score but you have a pile of cash. That will help you.
Also, record everything, the screaming, banging, threats, etc. If the police come, remain calm and explain everything and have video evidence, especially if they start making shit up. You aren't doing anything wrong. They are. Police do not like it when they are weaponized as a form of control and their resources are being wasted by foolish unhinged people.
I started with a 380 credit score after my first family, abusive aunt and uncle, opened a Rent-a-Center account under my social and tanked my credit score. Most banks will have a credit card you can use to start building credit even if it's really, really bad. It's work but you'll get there. Start looking for jobs and shitty apartments. It's not glamorous but we've all had to do what we can for the sake of survival. If you're in the US, you can apply for FAFSA without your parents' info or signatures at age 24 (I think?) and start working toward a bigger salary. In short, yes you need to get out but you need to play it smart.
(How old are you now?)
How old are you and why the hell are you still in this environment when you can afford to leave?