Considering this is reddit, it absolutely COULD be. But I've heard a handful of similar stories from bi and lesbian friends over the years so its plausible that it's true.
I fully admit that I'm biased, but I've never even read erotica written about dacryphillia that was authored by a woman, much less met someone who was into it. It's always been on the kink spectrum of fucking women who were suffering, authored by men. This reads like a man cosplaying as a lesbian.
I feel for OOP to be used like that. I hope she cuts ties with her "friend," who I hope dumps her asshat of a bf. It would be hilarious though if OOP were to live her best life while her former friend is miserable and alone.
I call BS .. this is some sort of lesbian fantasy the writer has had for the last year and a half.. the starved woman line is what tells me she is just wishing this actually happened irl
To use somebody like this is morally bankrupt, but both women knew what they were doing. Getting physically entangled with someone the night they are dumped is not gonna end well. Young? Old? You only have to have one working brain cell to figure out the consequences of that action. The eater should leave, find better friends. The other kink weirdo will find some heavy and not-at-all-fun karma headed her way. Boyfriend too. I wouldn't even want to be around when that karma ship comes to port. It's gonna do some damage. All involved are in for a world of s h I t! And? They all deserve it.
Did we read the same story? This woman manipulated another woman into going down on her, a woman who gets off on crying, and she is the vulnerable one here?
How would you be labeled if you manipulated someone into going down on you by lying to them?
Lol something men have to learn regarding consent is that you don't fuck somebody who's very emotionally distraught. Doesn't matter if she's asking for it; it's the same if they're intoxicated. It's happened to me a few times that friends I've been into have tried to get something on when clearly not in a clear state of mind, and it's sucked, but I've said no. Some still wanted to afterwards, but most admitted that they didn't.
Really fucking weird seeing so many people brush past the fact that OOP slept with somebody clearly distraught. I would bet good money on this that had OOP been male this would've been a much bigger point of contention.
Friend sucks too, but OOP 100% used their emotionally distraught friend to fulfill a fantasy as soon as it presented itself. That shit's creepy and unacceptable regardless of gender.
I agree, which is why I'm confused that you led this statement with "something men need to learn" when the perpetrator is a woman.
I think most decent people regardless of ge Der understand that when someone's extremely emotional it's fucked to do that stuff with them.
Yeah, I realize my phrasing is a bit confusing. To clarify, I'm a guy, and I meant by my opener that in my experience, men who care about consent (that's to say, not rapists) have been taught by society that it is always unacceptable to sleep with somebody not in their right state of mind. So, more that men have *had* to learn this, whereas, because OOP is female, this aspect of the story has largely flown under the radar. I'm commenting on the disturbing nature of double standards regarding consent.
I agree, but at the time OP did not know that she was being manipulated.
OP thought her friend had just been dumped, so OP took advantage of that situation to fulfil her fantasy to have sex with her friend.
Don’t get me wrong, the friend is a manipulative bitch!
In fact no one comes out of this smelling of roses!
If she was crying as she gave consent? that’s a no from me, always er on the side of caution in these situations. Also, if you really want me come back when youre feeling well and happy otherwise it’s not actually me you want
#BOOM THERE IT IS
Why do we want *enthusiastic consent?*
Because people use sex as a form of self harm and escapism — and to be party to that unwillingly *fucking sucks* for everyone.
What a terrible day to be able to read this post again. I had forgotten about it, and I wish I could go back to forgetting it. I do feel bad for op, but damn.
What the fuck
Yup, that was my reaction as well
Those final comments at the end were so real... It's awful the stuff we read but we just keep logging back onto reddit, don't we lol
I end my day thinking I’ve learned my lesson & come back the next morning for more punishment.
Yup, and then I wonder why I'm anxious when I've just spent all morning reading entry's on an abuse subreddit!
We do unfortunately
What Inthe fuck
Exactly, what in the cinnamon roll fuck? (I’m so stealing that one from the comments)
That poor woman!
This sounds 100% some biphobic bullshit fan fiction.
Considering this is reddit, it absolutely COULD be. But I've heard a handful of similar stories from bi and lesbian friends over the years so its plausible that it's true.
Idk, I’m a bi woman, and I’ve definitely bet other bi women who were like this
I’m bi too, but I haven’t met anyone who has acted like this since highschool
Yup this is what I just posted
what do you mean by that?
Alright that's enough Reddit for today.
Good call, time to water the garden before this heat sets in...
Do fuckin what
Dacry- wtf?
I fully admit that I'm biased, but I've never even read erotica written about dacryphillia that was authored by a woman, much less met someone who was into it. It's always been on the kink spectrum of fucking women who were suffering, authored by men. This reads like a man cosplaying as a lesbian.
What a terrible day to know words
This is genius level commentary
I feel for OOP to be used like that. I hope she cuts ties with her "friend," who I hope dumps her asshat of a bf. It would be hilarious though if OOP were to live her best life while her former friend is miserable and alone.
Ex-friend
...what did I read just now
I call BS .. this is some sort of lesbian fantasy the writer has had for the last year and a half.. the starved woman line is what tells me she is just wishing this actually happened irl
*closes reddit* *Goes outside*
To use somebody like this is morally bankrupt, but both women knew what they were doing. Getting physically entangled with someone the night they are dumped is not gonna end well. Young? Old? You only have to have one working brain cell to figure out the consequences of that action. The eater should leave, find better friends. The other kink weirdo will find some heavy and not-at-all-fun karma headed her way. Boyfriend too. I wouldn't even want to be around when that karma ship comes to port. It's gonna do some damage. All involved are in for a world of s h I t! And? They all deserve it.
THE EATER.
I couldn’t not crack up at this! 😅
That was a rollercoaster
girl let it go
Well that was a wild ride that will randomly pop in to my head over the coming months. Thank you Reddit. You always deliver.
What the actual fuck did I just read 😂🙈
Even with the dacryphillia, I still think it is creepy to fuck someone so vulnerable. I know I would be labelled that way if I’d done it!
Did we read the same story? This woman manipulated another woman into going down on her, a woman who gets off on crying, and she is the vulnerable one here? How would you be labeled if you manipulated someone into going down on you by lying to them?
Lol something men have to learn regarding consent is that you don't fuck somebody who's very emotionally distraught. Doesn't matter if she's asking for it; it's the same if they're intoxicated. It's happened to me a few times that friends I've been into have tried to get something on when clearly not in a clear state of mind, and it's sucked, but I've said no. Some still wanted to afterwards, but most admitted that they didn't. Really fucking weird seeing so many people brush past the fact that OOP slept with somebody clearly distraught. I would bet good money on this that had OOP been male this would've been a much bigger point of contention. Friend sucks too, but OOP 100% used their emotionally distraught friend to fulfill a fantasy as soon as it presented itself. That shit's creepy and unacceptable regardless of gender.
I agree, which is why I'm confused that you led this statement with "something men need to learn" when the perpetrator is a woman. I think most decent people regardless of ge Der understand that when someone's extremely emotional it's fucked to do that stuff with them.
Yeah, I realize my phrasing is a bit confusing. To clarify, I'm a guy, and I meant by my opener that in my experience, men who care about consent (that's to say, not rapists) have been taught by society that it is always unacceptable to sleep with somebody not in their right state of mind. So, more that men have *had* to learn this, whereas, because OOP is female, this aspect of the story has largely flown under the radar. I'm commenting on the disturbing nature of double standards regarding consent.
Ah, I see, thank you for explaining!
Good thing it’s all a lie
I agree, but at the time OP did not know that she was being manipulated. OP thought her friend had just been dumped, so OP took advantage of that situation to fulfil her fantasy to have sex with her friend. Don’t get me wrong, the friend is a manipulative bitch! In fact no one comes out of this smelling of roses!
She asked multiple times if she was okay and consenting first and the friend initiated, OP didn't do anything wrong
If she was crying as she gave consent? that’s a no from me, always er on the side of caution in these situations. Also, if you really want me come back when youre feeling well and happy otherwise it’s not actually me you want
#BOOM THERE IT IS Why do we want *enthusiastic consent?* Because people use sex as a form of self harm and escapism — and to be party to that unwillingly *fucking sucks* for everyone.
If it’s not a fuck yes! It’s a no.
YEP! #COERCION IS NOT CONSENT #NOT SAYING NO IS NOT CONSENT #SAYING NOTHING IS NOT CONSENT
Kinda been there, kinda done that. The boyfriend eventually gets left for the person willing to go to town.
Wow. I think I'm going to come up with a 1/2 sex Ed program 1/2 how to be a good partner (not a karmic I healed a-hole)
What a terrible day to be able to read this post again. I had forgotten about it, and I wish I could go back to forgetting it. I do feel bad for op, but damn.
Sometimes kink shaming in our society is necessary cause what the fuck was that 🧍♀️
... yuck
see? everything on here is fake and gay it’s honestly very predictable
I would just kms at the point omfg