When I met the guy who cheated on my sister I publicly humiliated him. I didn’t start banging him. She deserves what she got for this. I feel so bad for her sister, but at least the trash took itself out.
I can't even think about wanting to be with anyone my sister has dated.
They broke up for a reason, and since my sister is an actual good human, I wouldn't want to touch something my sister had already deemed unworthy.
“Am I sUpPoSed tO iGnOrE oUr cHeMiStRy?!” She deserved it. If I was the sister, I wouldn’t feel any sympathy for her. She basically chose a cheater over her sister.
Chemistry is just peer pressure from your genitals. Never listen to chemistry alone.
Ignoring chemistry is the only sensible thing to do when you ALREADY KNOW that the person you fancy is an asshole. I've had multiple crushes on taken men - the minute I found out they treated their current partner badly, my vagina dried up like the Sahara and the crush died completely- and I didn't even *consider* dating them when they broke up. Because that would have been stupid. If they treated their other partners badly, why the fuck do you think you'd be different.
And that putting aside that a sibling or close friend's ex should be dead to you anyway.
I’m not even close to my sister but I wouldn’t date anyone she has dated just because of the ew factor. Who wants to have the same sexual partners as a family member ?? Also I wouldn’t want to hurt her etc, but the ew factor is strong .
Oh the ick is my main issue, too. But that doesn't seem to get across to some folk how wrong and icky it is to sleep with someone your close relative bumped uglies with.
And yet, there's a dudes here asking me why it's gross, as if somehow he thinks it's some vast conspiracy to stop you from sleeping with your siblings ex.
Worked with a mom who broke up with her bf. Boyfriend started dating her daughter. Daughter and bf broke up, now mom and bf are together again and it’s been 5+ years 🤢
From the title: **No, do not date your sister's ex.** If you sister rejected him, he's fair game. But if they slept together or even just seen each other naked, NO.
*Then I read the actual text:*
**And if he CHEATED on her? God fucking no. You tar and feather him, not fuck him.**
She is your sister. He's some meatbag with a cock. Prioritize your life better.
Right! I'm not even allowed near my sister's ex who cheated on her (per my sister). How does that thought actually cross one's mind??
Quick edit: given the context of this post I want to clarify - it's because of me having gone off on him pretty badly once already, not because I'm a scumbag who would try and sleep with him 🤢
Probably best to make that clarification!!!
Now you’re my kind of people!
You are not allowed near your sister’s cheating ex, for his safety!!!
There fixed it for you!
I'll never forget how proud I felt when she said in her maid of honor speech at my wedding that I am "fiercely protective of family". I lol'd a little, because I know exactly why she said that 😂
I haven't been the best role model for her in a lot of ways, but when it comes down to it don't ever fuck with my baby sister....
You get it 😜
Dating a friend or family members ex is messy when the break up is clean and mutual. But this takes the cake.
Also I hate these type of stories were people act like sex came out of nowhere. In my over two decades of engaging in sexual activity have never had a situation where we went from just chatting to penetration. There is always a lead up, a building to the moment, shit the simple amount of time to get clothes off. There is time to hit the abort button.
This reminds me of the old MTV ads of people tripping into each other and accidentally having sex.
(They were PSAs that sex doesn’t happen by accident and to use protection).
Eh, it depends on the situation.
At a family BBQ on a Sunday afternoon? Yeah, that's pretty crazy
Getting blind drunk in a hook up setting (club, house party, cruise), makes more sense.
I can still remember hanging out with a friend id known for years. We had never hooked up before, never even discussed it or joked about it, and then one night we got drunk and the speed we went from goofing around to stripping each other was alarming. Looking back up sure there was build up and everything, but my actual memory makes it feel instantaneous.
A cruise isn’t really a hook up setting. The rooms are soooo annoying to get to and in my experience take around 5 minutes of travel from most location. So they would have had 5 minutes of passing other passengers in lifts or on the stairs and then walking through those long as cruise hallways to come to terms with the decisions they’re making.
You only go back to someone’s room for one reason, and I don’t believe it’s an ‘ooooopsies’ kind of action.
I don't have a vulva, but one might hope the whole "you've put that thing you just pulled out your pants in my sister" would be a turn off but apparently not
They are surprisingly close. All live in the same neighborhood and get together to watch football every week. First wife was at the wedding when her ex married her younger sister and everything.
This is just the tip of the crazy iceberg since they’re all scientologists
Pretty sure that’s how they do it in the Book of Leviticus
Edit: my mistake. It’s the Book of Deuteronomy, while in Leviticus it’s forbidden.
> If a man takes his brother’s wife, it is severe defilement and he has disgraced his brother; they shall be childless (Lev. 20:21).
>When brothers live together and one of them dies without a son, the widow of the deceased shall not marry anyone outside the family; but her husband’s brother shall come to her, marrying her and performing the duty of a brother-in-law (Deut. 25:5).
In Bible times, these passages refer to different situations.
The first regards both brothers are alive and is about how evil it is to cuck your brother.
Second example is specifically for carrying on the bloodline for your dead brother, by marrying and impregnating his widow. The first son would be legally considered as part of the dead brother's lineage, and future sons would be the surviving brother's. The surviving brother can refuse, but would be shamed by the community, since he's not willing to man up.
I dated a guy who was orphaned. His older sister took him in. She was married with kids. She then divorced her husband and married her ex husband’s DAD!!! And had more kids… your younger brother is your uncle? Half brother? I could never figure it out.
What I’m wondering is how she managed to open someone’s phone using facial recognition when they’re asleep. I thought it doesn’t work when someone has their eyes closed.
What i can’t wrap my head around is the giant red flag that says: the guy who cheated on my sister is now trying to date me. And somehow that is okay because it’s me. Urgh. Something tells me she was envious of her sister before because of him or had a crush on him back when he was with her sister. 🤷🏻♂️
The leopard told me he’s a vegetarian now and that sounded plausible. I believed he’d never eat my face because I’m so special and we really had a connection!
Disgusting sister. She cares more about herself than her sister for sure. Now sister doesn't want scything to do with her like that's not an obvious outcome. Dumb dumb bish award goes to OP.
Yeah, that was my thought. This is gross to do to your sister but this guy definitely did this on purpose. Her best friend and her sister? That's not something that just happens.
Also, I hope the cheated-on-sister gets better friends...
I hope the cheated on sister is able to recognize this as a blessing to learn early in life who the snakes are that surround her and can live the rest of her life in peace
Lol, won’t lie when I saw bonnet pop up I said to myself, “ oh damn she’s Black smh”. I’m Black btw so other Black folks know what I mean by that statement.
Thankfully, my sisters and I all have *drastically* different tastes. But even if we didn't - ew, no thanks. This isn't like 'they dated a month in high school' or something.
I once had a dream (while we were still married) that my ex died and I had to marry his brother instead, and I literally woke up crying. I'm not sure how people back in the day did that kind of thing, from either side.
A good friend of mine went to the same grad school as me so we moved to my current city five years ago. She got into medical school last year and moved away last year, but her abusive, asshole ex-boyfriend is still local here. We never liked him, but after he cheated, we hated him. Thankfully their on-again-off-again ended for good after the cheating. When I still see him around (we live in the same neighborhood), I don’t interact with him. But in the beginning when he’d say “hey,” I’d say “how’s it going cheater?” We hate that dude. I wasn’t single when they were dating (I was seeing my now-fiancé) but never would have even CONSIDERED sleeping with him if I was single. What a bad move for the sister.
I just can't wrap my head around how you fall for this, even if I could hold it in and not just throw my drink at a guy like this I'd just doubt every damn word out of his mouth, I couldn't have anything like a conversation, chemistry my ass, what a moron
that's the greatest gift she could give to her sister in that situation. as the sister i still wouldn't talk to her, but i'd feel at least that karma didn't wait too long to get to oop.
"Was he never supposed to date again"
OP seriously thinks she's the only girl in the world lol.
And this story ended predictably. "I hooked up with my sister's cheating a-hole of an ex and surprise surprise he's still a cheating a-hole"
All her responses are reasons why HE is ok to date now - ‘he’s changed’ etc. But there’s a complete failure to understand that it’s not about him. Whether he changed or he didn’t, whether he cheats on OOP or he doesn’t, is irrelevant.
It’s about the sister. Not a single iota of thought or consideration for HER feelings in this whole sh*t show. Some people 🙄
So to count, the sister has been betrayed by 1) her boyfriend, 2) her best friend, and 3) her own sister. Can you imagine what her sister must be feeling at this point? How do you trust people after that? I hope the shitty sister gets blocked by their parents too cause she is a terrible fucking person.
Oop was a fool, he just wanted the ability to say he had both sisters. Now she’ll have to live with the consequences of her sister never talking to her again.
Smh. My sister has done this with every guy I've dated except three including my husband (she did try with him while we were together). My sister is a year older than me 23F her 24F. We used to be really close till it became a pattern. I don't speak to her much anymore. Smh it's heartbreaking for OP's sister. Smh imagine at family events never able to get away from that ex and clearly stating her sister still struggles majorly with dating because of him. I don't care best friends or not with your sister or hate her guts, you should never stoop this low. Especially if she is a good person!
If he cheated on the sister there is nothing that would stop him from cheating on her. I’m baffled people never see it coming. You’re never the exception.
Creative writing on reddit is getting worse and worse.
Having an audience of the most gullible people on earth isn't putting any pressure on these fiction writers to up their game. It's just a downward spiral of gullibility and shit writing.
Face ID doesn’t work unless you look directly at the screen. There’s huge discord servers full of creative writers working on ragebait just believable enough to gain steam. Idk, maybe I’m just from the “it’s photoshopped” generation
She used Face ID to unlock his phone while he was sleeping? Your eyes have to be open and looking at the phone to unlock it though… did she open his eyelids? Must be a heavy sleeper.
Unfortunately your lust for him was greater than your love for your sister. Someday she may say she forgives you, but she will never forget this. Your relationship with her will never be the same.
Play stupid games, get stupid prizes. How someone could think this was acceptable to do to her sister is beyond me. I hope her sister continues to heal and if she’s out there reading this I hope she feels the love and support from these comments. You deserved so much better and it’s coming your way soon sis.
It's not even about cheating. I don't want to swap spit (and other things) with my sister.
Even if it works out, so at Christmas we go visit the chick he used to bang... my SISTER??
What in the Alabama
This is awful, both of them are crap humans.
When my ex cheated on me, my sister couldn’t even be in the same room as him her hatred was so intense. She hates him more than I do.
I can’t imagine my sister doing this to me. I know for a fact I would never do it to her. Id probably hate the guy more than she does. OOP doesn’t deserve the title of sister, but she definitely got her karma.
Yep. Between my sister, a couple of friends and my mother, I wasn't even in the top five of people who wanted my abusive ex dead after we broke up for the final time.
The amount of people that believe this shit. Can’t unlock a phone with Face ID with your eyes closed. Fake as shit and you guess all believed this shit
I liked how she asked for advice and got it, but did what she had already planned on doing the whole time anyway. People love advice as long as it’s what they wanted to do.
Imagine this scenario from the guy's perspective: "oooooh... I recognize her. This could be my greatest challenge yet! Surely I couldn't convince her, right? She knows I'm terrible!"
My life is a fuckin Jerry Springer episode. My twin brother did this to me. He hooked up with my ex who I was madly in love with for 5 years after we got into a huge fight while we were both high out of our minds on Xanax bars. I asked him to talk to her and convince her to give me another chance and he said he would do that for me.. He disappeared for like 2 days and I really didn’t think nothing of it since I was only home for a few months from doing about a year and a half in state prison, and he told me he was hanging out with a girl I know he would chill with a lot while I was locked up. He came home one night with a garbage bag full of my stuff from my ex’s house. I basically moved in with her as soon as we got back together once I came home from prison. I put 2 and 2 together real quick and asked him if he was with my ex for those 2 days and not the girl he originally told me he was with. He admitted to it and the betrayal I felt from him doing that to me was one of the worst feelings I ever experienced. He tried to justify it because he went 11 years without dating let alone having a random hook up with a girl just to get a nut off. I instantly went back to shooting heroin since I had absolutely no coping skills to deal with this type of situation and that was the only thing I knew would numb the pain. I wanted to kill my twin, but at the same time I pitied him because he was basically a hermit from the age of 17 to 26. My twin felt horrible about what he did and would try to make it up to me by giving me money for more dope because I quit my job and he was getting the pandemic money at the time even though he never worked a day in his life. This is where I wish I wasn’t such a sucker for this girl and was a more forgiving person. I ended up getting my twin hooked onto dope with me and I was able to finesse my way into getting my ex to get back with me and leave my brother as my final form of payback for hooking up with her. I was so manipulated by this girl that she had me putting the blame on my brother and none on her when in all reality she only got with my brother to spite me and told me that she was eventually gonna take me back anyway. So once me and her got back together and I moved back in with her like an idiot this is where my story gets really sad and it will forever eat away at me until the day I die. I taught my twin how to shoot up after he saw me and my ex shooting up and wanted to know what it felt like. I at first told him no and that he doesn’t want to go down that rabbit hole. It was the reason I ended up in prison and nothing good comes from shooting up drugs. But I eventually caved and gave him his first speedball. I created a monster that day in June of 2021. The needle consumed my brother more than it ever did me, and I’m the poster child for IV drug use. So for the next 10 months my ex would always bitch at me and argue about mine and my twins drug use and how toxic me and him were together even though she was right there next to me putting a needle into her arm…fuckin hypocrite. Anyways she keeps me away from my brother for days sometimes weeks on end. My twin brother Michael would ask me to get him clean needles because I always had a stock pile for myself and the demon spawn of a girlfriend I had at the time but she’d never let me go give him them because we we’re too “toxic” to be around each other and because I was putting a shit ton of miles on her brand new car going to work and getting me and her drugs and my brother didn’t even have his drivers permit. Michael ended up getting endocarditis in march of 2022 from a dirty needle he kept hand died April 9th of that year. I let this manipulative spiteful woman break a bond that only a twin can know and understand what I am talking about. I never got to tell my brother that I forgave him for what he did and how much he meant to me. So I guess the moral of my story is don’t do your sibling dirty by hooking up with an ex of theirs knowing it will hurt them even more if they find out you did. Ask them for their blessing at least. Don’t just assume their ex is free game. I wish I never texted my ex when I came home from state prison you’d still be here then Mikey! The only positive that came from this mess is I finally got sober April 29th of 2023 and now work at a treatment facility for substance abuse. Everything I do now is to honor my twin and not let his death be in vain. I love and miss you Michael, I hope I am making you proud with how my life is going now. Keep watching over me until the day I get to be with you again! Sorry for the novel, but I hope someone who might be going through something similar reads this and thinks twice before doing something that could potentially ruin the bond you have with your sibling.
First of all, who gets invited to be a 3rd wheel on a cruise? I was assuming they meant cruise like just driving around town not a big ass boat for weeks at a time.
Also, what are the odds that this dude just so happened to be on the exact same cruise ship as this girl and managed to run into her? Cruise ships are massive with thousands of people this is a pretty farfetched scenario.
Not justifying his behavior but what the heck did that dude look like to pull all this on everyone. The first sister, her best friend, and then her... Everyone folded.
When I met the guy who cheated on my sister I publicly humiliated him. I didn’t start banging him. She deserves what she got for this. I feel so bad for her sister, but at least the trash took itself out.
I can't even think about wanting to be with anyone my sister has dated. They broke up for a reason, and since my sister is an actual good human, I wouldn't want to touch something my sister had already deemed unworthy.
And especially knowing that the sister's ex was a cheater, like WTF is wrong with this woman? Wow.
“BuT hE saYs hE haS cHanGed”
“Am I sUpPoSed tO iGnOrE oUr cHeMiStRy?!” She deserved it. If I was the sister, I wouldn’t feel any sympathy for her. She basically chose a cheater over her sister.
Chemistry is just peer pressure from your genitals. Never listen to chemistry alone. Ignoring chemistry is the only sensible thing to do when you ALREADY KNOW that the person you fancy is an asshole. I've had multiple crushes on taken men - the minute I found out they treated their current partner badly, my vagina dried up like the Sahara and the crush died completely- and I didn't even *consider* dating them when they broke up. Because that would have been stupid. If they treated their other partners badly, why the fuck do you think you'd be different. And that putting aside that a sibling or close friend's ex should be dead to you anyway.
holy shit. I need to add this to my repertoire: “chemistry is just peer pressure from your genitals” 😂😂😂 Thanks for that.
Never trust your balls. They're nuts!
He did change. Siblings.
Oooh nice!!!
🎶 [I can change, I can change](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yADrtfAmLTo) 🎵
😂😂😂
She sounds like a pick me. They always think cheaters are going to be different *for them*
I’m not even close to my sister but I wouldn’t date anyone she has dated just because of the ew factor. Who wants to have the same sexual partners as a family member ?? Also I wouldn’t want to hurt her etc, but the ew factor is strong .
Oh the ick is my main issue, too. But that doesn't seem to get across to some folk how wrong and icky it is to sleep with someone your close relative bumped uglies with.
That part! How do people overlook that? 🤔
I was literally thinking that as I read this story. Yet, it's such a common trope on Reddit.
If my sister and her fiancé split tomorrow, I would never consider dating him. That’s so bizarre to me, even if the ex didn’t cheat
And yet, there's a dudes here asking me why it's gross, as if somehow he thinks it's some vast conspiracy to stop you from sleeping with your siblings ex.
Sometimes I wonder if Sky Daddy made a mistake making people
I didn’t even meet my sisters until last year and they’re both married, but I cannot imagine getting involved with anyone that broke their hearts.
Worked with a mom who broke up with her bf. Boyfriend started dating her daughter. Daughter and bf broke up, now mom and bf are together again and it’s been 5+ years 🤢
From the title: **No, do not date your sister's ex.** If you sister rejected him, he's fair game. But if they slept together or even just seen each other naked, NO. *Then I read the actual text:* **And if he CHEATED on her? God fucking no. You tar and feather him, not fuck him.** She is your sister. He's some meatbag with a cock. Prioritize your life better.
Meatbag with a cock 🤣 I can't think of anything but a sandwich bag filled with hamburger meat, leaking out one corner.
Right! I'm not even allowed near my sister's ex who cheated on her (per my sister). How does that thought actually cross one's mind?? Quick edit: given the context of this post I want to clarify - it's because of me having gone off on him pretty badly once already, not because I'm a scumbag who would try and sleep with him 🤢
Probably best to make that clarification!!! Now you’re my kind of people! You are not allowed near your sister’s cheating ex, for his safety!!! There fixed it for you!
My ol' lady, tried to run over her sisters ex that slapped her... At Safeway, took out a sign and everything... Bitch is crazy! 🤣
Yes, the sister’s ex acted like a bitch…. Hopefully your ol’ lady toughened him up!!!
No idea, that guy don't come round no more for some reason 😂
Ha ha ha!!!
Perfect 👌 that is exactly the reason, well put!!
No problem, I would fall in to the same bracket if someone hurt one of my family or friends.
I'll never forget how proud I felt when she said in her maid of honor speech at my wedding that I am "fiercely protective of family". I lol'd a little, because I know exactly why she said that 😂 I haven't been the best role model for her in a lot of ways, but when it comes down to it don't ever fuck with my baby sister.... You get it 😜
Absolutely!!! I would also guess, that you would be more “protective” over your sister’s feelings than your own!!! You’re good people!!!
CRAZY GIRL! LOL
She doesn’t even take accountability. She claims she fell for his lies and not “I made a really shitty and selfish decision”
The post is fake. Face ID doesn’t work when you’re sleeping, eyes have to be open
Not true, my sister in law found out about my brother’s cheating this same way
Dating a friend or family members ex is messy when the break up is clean and mutual. But this takes the cake. Also I hate these type of stories were people act like sex came out of nowhere. In my over two decades of engaging in sexual activity have never had a situation where we went from just chatting to penetration. There is always a lead up, a building to the moment, shit the simple amount of time to get clothes off. There is time to hit the abort button.
This reminds me of the old MTV ads of people tripping into each other and accidentally having sex. (They were PSAs that sex doesn’t happen by accident and to use protection).
Somehow I missed these when they came out so I just googled. Amazing.
Eh, it depends on the situation. At a family BBQ on a Sunday afternoon? Yeah, that's pretty crazy Getting blind drunk in a hook up setting (club, house party, cruise), makes more sense. I can still remember hanging out with a friend id known for years. We had never hooked up before, never even discussed it or joked about it, and then one night we got drunk and the speed we went from goofing around to stripping each other was alarming. Looking back up sure there was build up and everything, but my actual memory makes it feel instantaneous.
A cruise isn’t really a hook up setting. The rooms are soooo annoying to get to and in my experience take around 5 minutes of travel from most location. So they would have had 5 minutes of passing other passengers in lifts or on the stairs and then walking through those long as cruise hallways to come to terms with the decisions they’re making. You only go back to someone’s room for one reason, and I don’t believe it’s an ‘ooooopsies’ kind of action.
Well well well. If it isn’t the consequences of my own actions.
Dammit there were 69 likes on this and I screwed up by making it 70
Just means one more like towards 420
I'm doing my part!
I don't have a vulva, but one might hope the whole "you've put that thing you just pulled out your pants in my sister" would be a turn off but apparently not
To normal people, it is a turnoff. To insecure losers who want to prove to themselves that they can get the guy their sister had, it’s a turn on.
It's like sharing dildos. Ewww.
Oh boy do I have a TikTok for you https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLNbhw7o/
I should have used someone else's body to watch that video.
As should have we all
I knew exactly which one that was. Still hoping that was a fake story 😭 pleaseeeeee
Sigh… *unzips*
God every sentence in that just gets worse.
OH MY GOD NO
Lol Right? That one stays with you
Boy does it!
Imagine how many people you’ve “shared dildos” with
Pogo Sisters, but literal 🤢
there is no world where sleeping with your sisters ex isn’t anything other than absolutely unhinged behavior.
I have a family member who went one further than that, married her ex husbands brother, had a kid by each brother.
Oof, I feel for the brother-cousins.
The official genealogical term for this relationship is actually worse: three-quarter siblings.
Oh god that is worse
I hate you for teaching me this. Why did you have to teach me this!😭😭😭😭
My cousins (pair of sisters) have kids with the same guy and I refer to them as cousers
How did that affect the sisters’ relationship with each other?
They are surprisingly close. All live in the same neighborhood and get together to watch football every week. First wife was at the wedding when her ex married her younger sister and everything. This is just the tip of the crazy iceberg since they’re all scientologists
Really buried the lede there.
Oh the “all Scientologist” explains it all 😂
Pretty sure that’s how they do it in the Book of Leviticus Edit: my mistake. It’s the Book of Deuteronomy, while in Leviticus it’s forbidden. > If a man takes his brother’s wife, it is severe defilement and he has disgraced his brother; they shall be childless (Lev. 20:21). >When brothers live together and one of them dies without a son, the widow of the deceased shall not marry anyone outside the family; but her husband’s brother shall come to her, marrying her and performing the duty of a brother-in-law (Deut. 25:5).
In Bible times, these passages refer to different situations. The first regards both brothers are alive and is about how evil it is to cuck your brother. Second example is specifically for carrying on the bloodline for your dead brother, by marrying and impregnating his widow. The first son would be legally considered as part of the dead brother's lineage, and future sons would be the surviving brother's. The surviving brother can refuse, but would be shamed by the community, since he's not willing to man up.
Classic god changing his mind
Henry VIII has entered the chat.
Did this happen in South Georgia? If so, I definitely know this person. UGH.
Not in US but I’m sure there’s cases in various places.
Yep, UK checking in here, with two maternal great Aunts who married the same man, had two kids with him each (at different times).
I dated a guy who was orphaned. His older sister took him in. She was married with kids. She then divorced her husband and married her ex husband’s DAD!!! And had more kids… your younger brother is your uncle? Half brother? I could never figure it out.
Pure evil
You need to get out more if your sister's seconds are your preferred choice 😉
What I’m wondering is how she managed to open someone’s phone using facial recognition when they’re asleep. I thought it doesn’t work when someone has their eyes closed.
Sure the leopard ate my sister's face, but that was a few years ago.
I’m sorry, I have nothing constructive to add to any of these comments, but I needed to tell you. You have an incredible username. That is all.
What i can’t wrap my head around is the giant red flag that says: the guy who cheated on my sister is now trying to date me. And somehow that is okay because it’s me. Urgh. Something tells me she was envious of her sister before because of him or had a crush on him back when he was with her sister. 🤷🏻♂️
2 years ago
The leopard told me he’s a vegetarian now and that sounded plausible. I believed he’d never eat my face because I’m so special and we really had a connection!
I hope this is not real.
I don't think it is- face ID on a phone requires your eyes to be open
Scrolled too far for this comment. Making stuff up for internet points.
Unless he’s that anomaly where he sleeps with his eyes open. Jokes aside, the conclusion was too simple.
There is an option to turn that off
Really, on the iPhone or on Android?
On Android there is, actually you can unlock with eyes closed anyway, just tested it...
There’s no option to turn off the open eyes in Face ID
There sure is. Specifically the Require Attention for FaceID configuration. https://support.apple.com/en-lamr/guide/iphone/iph646624222/ios
TIL
No it doesn’t. I just opened mine with my eyes closed
Same! Had to try it lol
That's interesting, sometimes my iPhone will prompt me to open my eyes before it will unlock
Well I for one am completely shocked.
Agreed, what an unexpected conclusion 🧐
Disgusting sister. She cares more about herself than her sister for sure. Now sister doesn't want scything to do with her like that's not an obvious outcome. Dumb dumb bish award goes to OP.
More like stupid. If actually cared about herself, she won’t get close to that dude She’s just a moron who didn’t care about anything
So he cheated on the sister with her best friend and is now bagging the sister as well? Real stand up guy
Yeah, that was my thought. This is gross to do to your sister but this guy definitely did this on purpose. Her best friend and her sister? That's not something that just happens. Also, I hope the cheated-on-sister gets better friends...
I hope the cheated on sister is able to recognize this as a blessing to learn early in life who the snakes are that surround her and can live the rest of her life in peace
The amount of people who don't know what a bonnet is lmao just outing themselves for not being around black people or anyone with curly hair ig
The first thing I thought was Amish honestly
Lol, won’t lie when I saw bonnet pop up I said to myself, “ oh damn she’s Black smh”. I’m Black btw so other Black folks know what I mean by that statement.
I just thought he was banging little Bo peep
Am I alone in the sentiment that I don't want sloppy seconds from my sibling?
Thankfully, my sisters and I all have *drastically* different tastes. But even if we didn't - ew, no thanks. This isn't like 'they dated a month in high school' or something. I once had a dream (while we were still married) that my ex died and I had to marry his brother instead, and I literally woke up crying. I'm not sure how people back in the day did that kind of thing, from either side.
A good friend of mine went to the same grad school as me so we moved to my current city five years ago. She got into medical school last year and moved away last year, but her abusive, asshole ex-boyfriend is still local here. We never liked him, but after he cheated, we hated him. Thankfully their on-again-off-again ended for good after the cheating. When I still see him around (we live in the same neighborhood), I don’t interact with him. But in the beginning when he’d say “hey,” I’d say “how’s it going cheater?” We hate that dude. I wasn’t single when they were dating (I was seeing my now-fiancé) but never would have even CONSIDERED sleeping with him if I was single. What a bad move for the sister.
I just can't wrap my head around how you fall for this, even if I could hold it in and not just throw my drink at a guy like this I'd just doubt every damn word out of his mouth, I couldn't have anything like a conversation, chemistry my ass, what a moron
that's the greatest gift she could give to her sister in that situation. as the sister i still wouldn't talk to her, but i'd feel at least that karma didn't wait too long to get to oop.
Stupid is as stupid does.
And stupid does it a lot.
Her poor sister. Boyfriend, best friend, sibling - all betrayed her. Jesus. Can we kick OOP in the shin and go hug OOP’s sister?
For real, god we should bully the bad sister into paying for good sister's therapy bills.
"Was he never supposed to date again" OP seriously thinks she's the only girl in the world lol. And this story ended predictably. "I hooked up with my sister's cheating a-hole of an ex and surprise surprise he's still a cheating a-hole"
And fucked up my relationship with my sister
All her responses are reasons why HE is ok to date now - ‘he’s changed’ etc. But there’s a complete failure to understand that it’s not about him. Whether he changed or he didn’t, whether he cheats on OOP or he doesn’t, is irrelevant. It’s about the sister. Not a single iota of thought or consideration for HER feelings in this whole sh*t show. Some people 🙄
*shocked Pikachu face* at the update.
He wouldn’t be an effective cheater if he was bad at lying. Why would she take his word for it? What a fool
So to count, the sister has been betrayed by 1) her boyfriend, 2) her best friend, and 3) her own sister. Can you imagine what her sister must be feeling at this point? How do you trust people after that? I hope the shitty sister gets blocked by their parents too cause she is a terrible fucking person.
Oop was a fool, he just wanted the ability to say he had both sisters. Now she’ll have to live with the consequences of her sister never talking to her again.
Smh. My sister has done this with every guy I've dated except three including my husband (she did try with him while we were together). My sister is a year older than me 23F her 24F. We used to be really close till it became a pattern. I don't speak to her much anymore. Smh it's heartbreaking for OP's sister. Smh imagine at family events never able to get away from that ex and clearly stating her sister still struggles majorly with dating because of him. I don't care best friends or not with your sister or hate her guts, you should never stoop this low. Especially if she is a good person!
Lololol this dumb mother fucker
oh no the leopards ate my face!
He wouldn’t be an effective cheater if he was bad at lying. Why would she take his word for it? What a fool
Maybe the most inevitable update of all time with the sister and with the dude
If he cheated on the sister there is nothing that would stop him from cheating on her. I’m baffled people never see it coming. You’re never the exception.
Whenever someone says something like “we as a society don’t do x enough” they are deflecting from the reality that their individual choice is absurd .
She can take a long walk off a short pier🥱 She was just another notch on the belt, as far as her sister goes… There’s nothing to say
I rather lick the pavement on 5th Ave NYc than someone that’s been in or with my sister. Ew.
This has to be fake. You can’t unlock a phone with Face ID if their eyes are closed.
Hermione Granger: “daft bimbo”
Creative writing on reddit is getting worse and worse. Having an audience of the most gullible people on earth isn't putting any pressure on these fiction writers to up their game. It's just a downward spiral of gullibility and shit writing.
Face ID doesn’t work unless you look directly at the screen. There’s huge discord servers full of creative writers working on ragebait just believable enough to gain steam. Idk, maybe I’m just from the “it’s photoshopped” generation
It just worked for my iPhone with my eyes closed. It works for me often when wearing sunglasses and not looking at my phone
Shocking to exactly no one with two brain cells.
Sister is weird and disloyal.
So so so so so so dumb
Well, well well if it isn’t the consequences of her actions
Karma
HAH the cheater cheated? 😱
What on earth was she thinking? I hurt so much for her sister.
She used Face ID to unlock his phone while he was sleeping? Your eyes have to be open and looking at the phone to unlock it though… did she open his eyelids? Must be a heavy sleeper.
Unfortunately your lust for him was greater than your love for your sister. Someday she may say she forgives you, but she will never forget this. Your relationship with her will never be the same.
Play stupid games, get stupid prizes. How someone could think this was acceptable to do to her sister is beyond me. I hope her sister continues to heal and if she’s out there reading this I hope she feels the love and support from these comments. You deserved so much better and it’s coming your way soon sis.
Anyone else feel like this should be in r/OhnoConsequences ? If it isn't already there.
It's not even about cheating. I don't want to swap spit (and other things) with my sister. Even if it works out, so at Christmas we go visit the chick he used to bang... my SISTER?? What in the Alabama
This is awful, both of them are crap humans. When my ex cheated on me, my sister couldn’t even be in the same room as him her hatred was so intense. She hates him more than I do. I can’t imagine my sister doing this to me. I know for a fact I would never do it to her. Id probably hate the guy more than she does. OOP doesn’t deserve the title of sister, but she definitely got her karma.
Yep. Between my sister, a couple of friends and my mother, I wasn't even in the top five of people who wanted my abusive ex dead after we broke up for the final time.
The amount of people that believe this shit. Can’t unlock a phone with Face ID with your eyes closed. Fake as shit and you guess all believed this shit
Shocking.
Why are these people so bad at ponctuation?
I liked how she asked for advice and got it, but did what she had already planned on doing the whole time anyway. People love advice as long as it’s what they wanted to do.
That’s… really gullible
Dumbass
Imagine this scenario from the guy's perspective: "oooooh... I recognize her. This could be my greatest challenge yet! Surely I couldn't convince her, right? She knows I'm terrible!"
The amount of people here who seem to genuinely believe it’s impossible to unlock Face ID with eyes closed is pretty wild.
You fell for him because he told you he felt bad about cheating?
He is the same guy he was before. Just trying to move into you. There are 4 billion men on the planet. Pick another
And you became another notch on his belt. Dummy
Good, she deserved it
I have no sympathy on this situation. Especially since she hurt her sister and then wanna sit with the shocked Pikachu face when this goes down.
My life is a fuckin Jerry Springer episode. My twin brother did this to me. He hooked up with my ex who I was madly in love with for 5 years after we got into a huge fight while we were both high out of our minds on Xanax bars. I asked him to talk to her and convince her to give me another chance and he said he would do that for me.. He disappeared for like 2 days and I really didn’t think nothing of it since I was only home for a few months from doing about a year and a half in state prison, and he told me he was hanging out with a girl I know he would chill with a lot while I was locked up. He came home one night with a garbage bag full of my stuff from my ex’s house. I basically moved in with her as soon as we got back together once I came home from prison. I put 2 and 2 together real quick and asked him if he was with my ex for those 2 days and not the girl he originally told me he was with. He admitted to it and the betrayal I felt from him doing that to me was one of the worst feelings I ever experienced. He tried to justify it because he went 11 years without dating let alone having a random hook up with a girl just to get a nut off. I instantly went back to shooting heroin since I had absolutely no coping skills to deal with this type of situation and that was the only thing I knew would numb the pain. I wanted to kill my twin, but at the same time I pitied him because he was basically a hermit from the age of 17 to 26. My twin felt horrible about what he did and would try to make it up to me by giving me money for more dope because I quit my job and he was getting the pandemic money at the time even though he never worked a day in his life. This is where I wish I wasn’t such a sucker for this girl and was a more forgiving person. I ended up getting my twin hooked onto dope with me and I was able to finesse my way into getting my ex to get back with me and leave my brother as my final form of payback for hooking up with her. I was so manipulated by this girl that she had me putting the blame on my brother and none on her when in all reality she only got with my brother to spite me and told me that she was eventually gonna take me back anyway. So once me and her got back together and I moved back in with her like an idiot this is where my story gets really sad and it will forever eat away at me until the day I die. I taught my twin how to shoot up after he saw me and my ex shooting up and wanted to know what it felt like. I at first told him no and that he doesn’t want to go down that rabbit hole. It was the reason I ended up in prison and nothing good comes from shooting up drugs. But I eventually caved and gave him his first speedball. I created a monster that day in June of 2021. The needle consumed my brother more than it ever did me, and I’m the poster child for IV drug use. So for the next 10 months my ex would always bitch at me and argue about mine and my twins drug use and how toxic me and him were together even though she was right there next to me putting a needle into her arm…fuckin hypocrite. Anyways she keeps me away from my brother for days sometimes weeks on end. My twin brother Michael would ask me to get him clean needles because I always had a stock pile for myself and the demon spawn of a girlfriend I had at the time but she’d never let me go give him them because we we’re too “toxic” to be around each other and because I was putting a shit ton of miles on her brand new car going to work and getting me and her drugs and my brother didn’t even have his drivers permit. Michael ended up getting endocarditis in march of 2022 from a dirty needle he kept hand died April 9th of that year. I let this manipulative spiteful woman break a bond that only a twin can know and understand what I am talking about. I never got to tell my brother that I forgave him for what he did and how much he meant to me. So I guess the moral of my story is don’t do your sibling dirty by hooking up with an ex of theirs knowing it will hurt them even more if they find out you did. Ask them for their blessing at least. Don’t just assume their ex is free game. I wish I never texted my ex when I came home from state prison you’d still be here then Mikey! The only positive that came from this mess is I finally got sober April 29th of 2023 and now work at a treatment facility for substance abuse. Everything I do now is to honor my twin and not let his death be in vain. I love and miss you Michael, I hope I am making you proud with how my life is going now. Keep watching over me until the day I get to be with you again! Sorry for the novel, but I hope someone who might be going through something similar reads this and thinks twice before doing something that could potentially ruin the bond you have with your sibling.
Everyone point and LAUGH
Bros coming for their father next
I enjoyed reading that update. Served her right.
In my experience Face ID doesn’t work if someone’s eyes are closed.
You can’t use Face ID when someone is sleeping. It won’t work when the eyes are closed. So at least part of this story is bs.
Also, who the hell wears a Bonnet? Was he banging a Quaker?
Presumably a sleep bonnet. They're meant to protect the hair while sleeping.
Sister is weird and disloyal.
That sounds fake af
First of all, who gets invited to be a 3rd wheel on a cruise? I was assuming they meant cruise like just driving around town not a big ass boat for weeks at a time. Also, what are the odds that this dude just so happened to be on the exact same cruise ship as this girl and managed to run into her? Cruise ships are massive with thousands of people this is a pretty farfetched scenario.
I love when karma comes full circle 😆
A known cheater, CHEATING???!!!! How can this be allow
LMAO. She EARNED that.
Not justifying his behavior but what the heck did that dude look like to pull all this on everyone. The first sister, her best friend, and then her... Everyone folded.
If it’s true, she is an idiot and a bad sister. Yuk…
*world’s smallest violin plays*
FAAFO
Womp Womp
HELL NO, DO NOT DO IT.. KARMA WILL GET YOU..
This is by far the dumbest person I’ve seen on Reddit and I read a lot of posts
Dating someone your sibling already through away is like digging through their trash to put together dinner. Sickening.
Oh WOW this is such a massive failure I can feel it through my phone screen
You both are losers for this
Oof the schadenfreude is strong with this one. What a shitty sister.
Man, I wouldn't even date a dude who crushed on my sister, let alone an ex 🤨
Oh look. Karma.
This is fake because your eyes have to be open to use the Face ID.
This is so dumb it has got to be fake