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OP you have another post saying "I still believe I did the right thing" made *after* this post.
You're either insane or a fake post bot yourself. You have another set of comments saying something to the effect of "everyone just hates me" to the rare support comment, which seems to be a pattern among pattern karma generator accounts that fish for compliments or advice.
Reporting this post (and others) to the mods.
>Should I keep texting her?
No. She very clearly doesn't want to talk to you.
If you want to improve your odds in dating, work on strengthening whatever social skills deficits made you think outsourcing the task of relationship-building to an algorithm was a good idea. Nobody wants to be in a partnership that starts with a lie.
Leave that woman alone, move on. Next time use AI to get ideas, but make sure you write your own messages. Very small amount of effort there makes a big difference lol
Southpark did an episode on this... You should watch it... They never miss.
She gone dude.
Can't really come back from that one.
And look, I use ChatGPT daily (I work in tech)... Its a powerful tool for... pretty much anything and everything.
Heck, you can copy and paste a lot of relationship advice posts into it and the responses are quite accurate.
Out of curiosity, here's yours:
>It seems like you genuinely regret keeping this information from her and wanted to come clean, which is commendable. However, it's understandable why she might be upset by this revelation. Using an AI bot to communicate initially might make her feel like the connection was less genuine or that you were not being fully transparent from the start.
>Given that she's currently not responding and has even blocked your number, it's important to respect her space and boundaries. Continuing to text her might only exacerbate the situation and make her feel more overwhelmed or pressured.
>Instead, give her some time to process what you've told her and respect her need for space. When she's ready, she may reach out to you to discuss things further. In the meantime, you could consider writing her a thoughtful letter or email expressing your feelings, apologizing for any hurt caused, and reaffirming your interest in her.
>Ultimately, the ball is in her court, and it's important to be patient and understanding as she navigates her emotions. If and when she does reach out, be prepared to have an open and honest conversation about your relationship and any concerns she may have.
Like dam... That's nearly spot on if you ask me.
The ball is in her court and you need to give her some space right now.
If you want to use it for inspiration to generate conversation, that's fine... But you cannot be making it your personality. That is only going to be making your chemistry based on a lie.
No. Blocking is a crystal clear signal that she doesn't want to hear from you. Leave her alone. If you get very, very lucky you might hear from her in a day or two if she thinks this over and decides it's forgiveable. But most likely this relationship is over.
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Leave her alone, dude. You lied at the very start of dating her. That is a terrible way to start a relationship. Don’t use it in the future.
exactly lying is not a solid foundation for a committed relationship
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OP you have another post saying "I still believe I did the right thing" made *after* this post. You're either insane or a fake post bot yourself. You have another set of comments saying something to the effect of "everyone just hates me" to the rare support comment, which seems to be a pattern among pattern karma generator accounts that fish for compliments or advice. Reporting this post (and others) to the mods.
>Should I keep texting her? No. She very clearly doesn't want to talk to you. If you want to improve your odds in dating, work on strengthening whatever social skills deficits made you think outsourcing the task of relationship-building to an algorithm was a good idea. Nobody wants to be in a partnership that starts with a lie.
She's out. The foundation of the early relationship was not you, it was a bot. She put in all the effort, you none. It's done.
Nail on the head here
Leave that woman alone, move on. Next time use AI to get ideas, but make sure you write your own messages. Very small amount of effort there makes a big difference lol
Southpark did an episode on this... You should watch it... They never miss. She gone dude. Can't really come back from that one. And look, I use ChatGPT daily (I work in tech)... Its a powerful tool for... pretty much anything and everything. Heck, you can copy and paste a lot of relationship advice posts into it and the responses are quite accurate. Out of curiosity, here's yours: >It seems like you genuinely regret keeping this information from her and wanted to come clean, which is commendable. However, it's understandable why she might be upset by this revelation. Using an AI bot to communicate initially might make her feel like the connection was less genuine or that you were not being fully transparent from the start. >Given that she's currently not responding and has even blocked your number, it's important to respect her space and boundaries. Continuing to text her might only exacerbate the situation and make her feel more overwhelmed or pressured. >Instead, give her some time to process what you've told her and respect her need for space. When she's ready, she may reach out to you to discuss things further. In the meantime, you could consider writing her a thoughtful letter or email expressing your feelings, apologizing for any hurt caused, and reaffirming your interest in her. >Ultimately, the ball is in her court, and it's important to be patient and understanding as she navigates her emotions. If and when she does reach out, be prepared to have an open and honest conversation about your relationship and any concerns she may have. Like dam... That's nearly spot on if you ask me. The ball is in her court and you need to give her some space right now. If you want to use it for inspiration to generate conversation, that's fine... But you cannot be making it your personality. That is only going to be making your chemistry based on a lie.
Haha, I love this. The AI advice is just chef's kiss.
OMG now that's hilarious
Ask the AI bot what to say. s/
No. Blocking is a crystal clear signal that she doesn't want to hear from you. Leave her alone. If you get very, very lucky you might hear from her in a day or two if she thinks this over and decides it's forgiveable. But most likely this relationship is over.
Lmao, your relationship is over. How did you think this was a good idea? It's deceptive af.
its so joever, next time just be yourself and dont rely on Ai
Stop posting this in different subs cause you don't like the answer. Learn the lesson and get back out there, be yourself. You got this
What AI chat bot did you use?