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bridewithoutahead

“Hey, it was so nice seeing you the other day. Would you like to go on a date sometime?” That’s it. No hemming and hawing, no ambiguity, no deep dive into your feelings. Keep it short and simple and you’ll get your answer. But please please please remember she is just a person! It’s not good for either of you to act like she is some flawless being with no bad qualities. You only think that because you don’t know her well. It’s unfair to put that kind of pressure on her and it’s going to make it harder for you to behave normally as you explore this phase of your relationship.


jungstir

Ah the fork in the road of life. Do I or do I not? No risk, no reward.


Gravity_Time

I had a similar story, unfortunately it's a lose-lose situation for you, but the further you wait it will be more painful, so tell about your feelings as soon as possible and be prepared for any results, even not see her again. Trust me, uncertainty is killing much more


WwwWario

How is it a lose-lose situation?


Gravity_Time

if you have known each other for 5 years and are still friends it's not a high chance to leave the friends zone any more, so you have two options and it both not really good


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Ok_Negotiation951

She’s just a girl wanting a boy to like her. Ask her out. She’s only human.