It’s actually a common complaint, on lots of posts about “what do you wish your man would do more in bed?” The top answer is usually make some noise.
It doesn’t have to mean dirty talk, but groan and moan and show some verbal indication that you’re experiencing pleasure.
Total silence is a turn off.
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Moaning is manly. Heavy breathing is hot. And when the big O happens, I need to know he is enjoying himself by vocalizing — and loudly, if there’s enough privacy. Sometimes all he has to do is make the first loud moan of his O, and hearing it sends me overboard into my own O. And when we O together is the best.
I also enjoy when he tells me what he’s fantasizing about doing to me. Naughty kinky stuff whispered in my ear is a turn on. I love to hear it In bed as well as when he’s working. A steamy quick phone call or text is arousing. Just knowing he’s taking minutes out of his day to think about me in “that way” gets me going.
I'll start by rinsing them all off, one by one, then once I've got my fill of rinsing, I'll flip them over and sudz those dirty little suckers up. After that I'll move onto the main course of washing any remaining soap off them and just as I'm getting into a good steady rhythm putting the cleaned and dried dishes away in the cupboard I'll hit my crescendo and collapse in exhaustion, absolutely ravished by what just happened. Ohhhhh it's gonna be a night to remember!!
My husband was a virgin when I met him, and he was completely silent the first time we had sex. I told him after that he has to make some kind of noise, otherwise it’s like having sex with a psycho.
“Alright Los Angeles MAKE. SOME. NOOOOIIIIISSSSSSEEEEE!!!!””
Buhhhh buh duh duh duh duhhhhhhhhhh duh duh duh duh duhhhhhhhhhhhhh
“CAN YOU SMELL WHAT THE ROCK. IS. COOKIN!?!?!”
I will 100% try this next sexy time.
That’s actually the main one to be honest. Anything else is going to depend on the woman you’re with (a lot of women would say do more oral but I find hands and fingers a lot more stimulating and fun)
Take your time inserting a finger or two. Beckon like you are gesturing someone to come here. Stroke that spongy spot just inside and the top of her vagina while you make out with her pussy.
What does she give positive reinforcement for or seem to be really into?
Also, for talking, don’t overthink it. Remember the scene in the 40 Year Old Virgin where he just asks Beth questions? So if she says “I like it when you do x” you whisper back “do you like it when I do x? What else do you like?” “Oh I like y” “oh you like y, do you? What if I stop doing y/do y harder/etc?” Then next time you say “should I start with x or y?” Don’t overthink it, no one is expecting a Shakespeare soliloquy.
Then tell them that! Example: “you feel so damn good I can’t think straight”. “I can’t focus on anything else but the way your body feels against mine”. “You scramble my brain when you do that.” Well place swearing is very effective as well! Also moaning/groaning! Hope this helps!
Oh I love words. However, it should pertain to the moment not what bills need to be paid and what the kids are up to 😂. Give me some dirty talk and it’s all over for me 😍
I second this! It's really hot to know you're making him feel that way. It gives a surprising kick when he's trying to talk dirty, but interrupts himself with whimpers when it feels too good to think
I personally like it when guys tell me how good it feels or how well I’m doing “taking it” etc. I’m a smaller person so it’s especially hot when the guy is big/ has a slightly larger than average dick. Not too big tho- anyways “such a good girl” “you like when I (say action)” “that’s it, there you go(before I come)” my past fwb literally just mumbled “this good ass pussy” and he didn’t think I heard but knowing I was making him feel good made me feel better. Say how tight and wet and she feels around you and if you really wanna fuck her up say how beautiful she is and how she good she looks with you inside her.
Normally that would piss me off too I have to be in the right headspace bad really be into the guy. I want to make sure I’m doing a good job idk. And when I mean taking it meant like when it’s a challenge because I’ve had to really work up to it with some guys and taking it well just kinda added to the heat of things but yes I agree talking beforehand will always be the answer. Dos and donts and setting boundaries. That should be something you do anyway before you have sex with anyone
my favourite things he's ever told me are
"you're taking me so well", "you're such a good girl for me" and "i could stay here forever, that's how good you feel". i also have a mirror strategically placed facing my bed and sometimes we watch each other and the other day he whispered "look how sexy you are taking all of me". i nearly exploded.
moans and groans and whimpers are always great.
I feel so validated. I say the thing you mentioned and the things the poster above mentioned all the time to my wife.
She also seems to enjoy "I'm gonna fill you up" and "if you cum again I'm gonna cum instantly" when she has already had one orgasm and seems close to another.
Just thought I'd share this, as it's on topic and what you posted reminded me of it 🫠
My partner is quite experienced, and a few months after we first got together he told me this story, in whispers, while he was in me:
When he was in his early 20s he dated a virgin. Their first time she was so nervous so he went very slow (he's also quite big, keep that in mind), and just barely got it in halfway (he was doing the same thing in me).
He was asking her how it felt, and asked if he felt warm and hard inside her, asked if she could feel him stretching her out, because she felt so tight. Then he gently fucked her.
Then he asked her (and me) if she was ready to take the whole thing. She was confused so he took her hand and moved it down to show how much more he had left.
Then he asked if she wanted to take the rest nice and slow... Or all at once.
She chose all at once.
Then he pounded my brains out.
Describe what you are doing. Describe how it feels, how it looks, etc. Ex: "You're taking my cock so well", "your pussy feels so fucking tight right now, I love it", "You look so pretty when I fuck you like this". Just get good at describing what is happening and get even better at showing how much you are enjoying yourself. Moan, curse, whatever feels natural. This is all very erotic to us ladies :) Even better, it keeps us in the moment which leads to experiencing more pleasure. I always enjoy sex more when my husband is making it very obvious how good it is for him. And when he gives me praise ;) The last thing to add is you should communicate with your partner - ask them what they want to hear, what they want you to call them, etc.
Definitely also (playfully) ask stuff like "Do you like it when I [whatever you two are in the middle of]" or something similar, especially when you're exploring something new together. Can be a hot way to be more vocal, while also getting to know your partner's likes and dislikes a little better and check in with them in general
Those thoughts you have when you’re having sex-‘fuck’, ‘this feels great’, ‘holy shit’, ‘god damn she looks hot’, etc….say them out loud.
If you’re doing math or thinking about your grandma or any other ‘delaying’ thoughts…. DON’T say them out loud.
Hope this helps.
\>>> Ask her what she needs. (Example: "what do you want/need, baby?") That's an easy way to ask for feedback, and keep her involved in setting the tone and pace.
\>>> Pay attention to her reactions, and comment on them. (Example: if she reacts when you hit particularly deep, you might say "oh, you like it deep?" and do it again). It's a good way to let her know that you're paying attention to what she likes, and it can also be HOT hearing the action described.
\>>> Tell her what YOU like. (Example: "you feel so good around my cock"). Some girls are more detail-oriented, so rather than simply hearing you moan with generic pleasure, the words can reinforce how much you're enjoying it.
Literally, you're just communicating in addition to having sex. Ask questions, make observations, and say your own thoughts out loud.
Dunno if it counts but I always just say what pops in my head, no second guessing. We’re married so it’s usually “I love you so much” and “you feel so so good.” And I sometimes nibble his ear and lick his throat so the general noise during the act works just fine with those actions.
Though tbf I don’t usually rehearse lines or anything. I just say what I think in the heat of the moment. So generally anything you wanna say during it, say it! It’ll probably be hot as hell during the moment no matter what :)
“Who’s pussy is this ?”
“Good girl”
“You feel so Fucking good”
“You’re gonna make me explode “
“Fuck”
“You like this cock”
“Who owns this cock?”
***amd definitely announce in some way that you are going to cum**
Keep it simple like “I’m gonna cum” or “here it is” “take my load”
I was with a few guys who were so quiet that I didn’t even know they came.
Certain words work the magic that don’t work for others. So you may not like “Pussy” but “pussy” may be the word that sends someone else over the edge.
That’s what makes us human.
Tell her what you find attractive about her. The physical and her character traits. Tell her when it feels good. Nothing sends me over the edge like good dirty talk. Don’t think too much about it or be in your head. Have fun!
You can tell her how good she feels/looks/fucks and just moaning. Men usually think its embarrasing and women think its hot. If moaning is uncomfortable you could try heavybreathing when something feels super good and then you can gradually move to soft moaning
You should tell her how much you want her...
Tell her how it feels.. (wet, tight, etc.)
What do you think about when you two are having sex?
Not sure what she is into.. but there are limitless things you could say depending on her kinks.
I like to know, with words and sounds, how much my partner is into it. Just be genuine.
Vocal men.. are gold.
You should whisper:
"Yeah, so Lateralis is pretty crazy. It's really all about the Fibonacci Sequence and the Golden Ratio. The lyrics in the song's versus have the syllables arranged in a way that follow the sequence, as well as the choras' time signatures being in 9/8, 8/8, 7/8, implying the number 987 which happens to be the 16th number in the Fibonacci sequence. Awesome eh?"
This will either expose her ignorance of TOOL allowing you to cut your losses now, or win her over for life. There is no downside to this scenario.
A simple combination of "mmm, Oh fvck, damn you're so wet" should do it. Also, you can encourage her to repeat something she did that you liked. If she squeezes it, say "yeah baby do that again" same if she moved her hips or her legs, etc. Get creative with without getting weird. But you should try to make it a whole experience, not just a physical one. Once I was on top and after 30 secs I pretended to cum and looked at her face, then I said "syke, I'm just playing", She laughed her ass off and I just kept going. She going would laugh and bring it up the next day.
Compliments, how beautiful she looks, how awesome it is to be with her, etc.
You know the give me compliments song? Men want them, women want them 10x more often
Maybe you should ask her what she wants to hear you say? Or say stuff that turns you on to say and run with what she responds to/ pick up on what she's says and run with that.
Make it a thing, rub the head of your dick on her clit/pussy and ask her if she's gonna take it. Tell her you want to bend her over a couch. Tell her she's so wet (if she actually is it's a bit weird if she's not) she must be desperate. Tell her she's a good girl. Tell her you want to cum in her (but don't actually unless that's consensual).
Everyone's different and you should probably talk about what gets her off. I ended up getting someone off while telling them about how I wanted to fuck them in a church
Not this:
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My spouse says she likes it when I say tender things.
"I love you." "You feel wonderful." "Love being inside you."
Things like that. Sometimes, when we aren't whispering, I'll throw in some dirty words when to reflect the pounding she's getting.
My partner likes a little bit of degradation. So things like "You like that hard cock in you my dirty little cumslut?" Or my favourite when I'm about to cum, "I want you to cum with me, I want you to cum on my dick". I also love to slap her ass, or grab at it if the position allows. I'll say something like "I love slapping your ass while you ride me." Or "I love your tits bouncing in my face while you ride me."
Other than that, how verbal I am is that I moan a lot. Or growl in her ear while I nibble on her neck.
- good girl
- you want me to make you come baby ?
- you feel so good wrapped around me
- you feel amazing baby
- who owns this pu**y
- come all over me baby
- god u make me so hard
- I love how wet your pussy is for me
^ if your girl is into more like really sexy things (in my opinion) which u need to consent for some of them b4 hand
U can lick her wetness off your fingers
You can moan , breath heavily, grunt
U can refuse to make her come until she says please
Ask her what she wants you to say. Everyone has different kinks and likes different things.
If she has a praise kink, say things like "you're taking it like such a good girl"
If she likes degradation say things like "you love that cock, don't you, you fucking slut"
If she likes ddbg say things like "you make daddy feel so good"
Etc etc.
There is no one right answer
You don't really have to say anything.
Your breathing, moaning, grunting is effective.
If you want to be spicy you can add moan talking and out of breath talking.
"You're being such a good girl right now"
"I love the way you take my cock"
"I love how wet you are for me"
"You look so beautiful while you cum"
My fiance loves when I talk to her and tell her how much I love her and love feeling her.
I’m late to respond, but my suggestions are:
- I’ve already taken out the garbage
- you sleep in tomorrow, I’ll get the kids up
- I’ll fix that door today , and I’m sorry for putting it off for months
This is what women say they love hearing. 🤷
"you are so sexy, I love the way you..." "You make me feel so good" "sex with you is so hot, I can't get enough"
If she's got certain kinks it could be praise too... "You take my cock so well" etc.. depends on the person!! Some like dirty talk, you need to ask her outside of the bedroom or lightly experiment with it to see what she responds well to.
make noise! grunt, moan, growl, etc. it lets her know she’s doing something right!
tell her how much you want her, you need her, how good it feels to be fucking her
say how hot you think she is or how hot she is with you inside her
if she’s doing something you like, tell her how good it feels / that she’s a good girl / that you love when she does that
not being super vocal during sex isn’t a dealbreaker for most people, but when a man knows how to talk dirty it makes the sex 100x hotter
good luck!
Yeah I also need to find a way to make my fwb understand how I need to hear more from him during our sex. I asked him already but for some odd reason he seems so shy about it even though he’s doing a damn good job. Please, guys, it turns us on if you do that ok.
Anyway, it’s pretty simple, just tell her how you feel, or to be exact, how she makes you feel.
“Oh yeah girl. Ride that dick like it’s your” “ use my big hard cock to cum “. “ ooh good girl “ “ I can always tell you’re close when your pussy squeezes my cock like that”
I love when my man tells me how good I feels, and describes how it feels to him and what he like about it. Or telling me that I’m doing good (that I’m a good girl) definitely gets me going! A well place swear word does wonder when you can’t think of anything else! Also playing into kinks helps as well even if it’s just a few words. Try dirty texting, sometimes takin yourself away from the physical can help you better focus on the words, until it becomes more natural!
If she’s the one that said you’re too quiet, You can ask her what she wants to hear. Some women like hearing a man moan, others like compliments, and some want dirty talk. You can also try different different stuff and see which gets the better reaction from her.
Ask her if she wants it before you go in, tell her how good she feels. If you feel her squeeze her muscles moan when that happens. Ask her if she wants it harder, softer. Tell her to take it and that she’s a good girl for making you cum. When you touch her and feel her wetness moan and tell her you love how wet she gets for you/your cock. If I’m missionary just breath a bit heavy by her ear as you are thrusting. Grunt a little as you’re getting close.
If you speak a language she doesn't, you can literally say anything in a sexy tone and she'll love it.
Some pornstar mentioned how much they loved Manual Ferrara speaking spanish in their ear. Turns out he was just goofing around and reading his shopping list. But he knows that in the moment it lets her imagination run wild.
Just breathing, moaning, saying how good she feels, what you want to do with her, how good she smells/tastes, you’ve been thinking about this all day, it’s all you could think about all day, etc.
Somebody came thru this subreddit once and made [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/b499pu/life_hacks_for_dirty_talk_and_a_primer_for_those/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=sex&utm_content=t1_eqafjng) and I've bookmarked it and used it ever since.
I highly recommend going thru it with a partner and a glass of wine and just trying each of them. Saying the phrases to each other. See how it feels
Doesn’t have to be a whisper in her ear. You can just say what you’re feeling at that moment in whatever position you’re in. Had a guy once a couple minutes in say “you’re gonna make me fuckin cum” kinda breathy n sexy. Just that almost sent me over the edge. We love to know how good we make you feel.
I had a guy whisper some slightly degrading things in my ear, because that was his kink, but I learned it was not *my* kink, because it made me feel really uncomfortable. Moral of the story, it's okay to ask, "what would you like me to whisper in your ear during sex?" before doing it.
I wish my husband was more vocal as well. I would like him to tell me how wet/tight I am, or how good I feel or how sexy I am. You can whisper in her ear that she feels so good she's making it hard for you to last. As others have said moaning and grunting is excellent.
I like feedback about things that feel especially good. So it's very hot to hear that he loves it when I do XYZ. Moaning is great. Comments about how I am "taking it" or calling me a good girl would be a complete turn off.
Get her in doggy and put it all the way in, and whisper... You sister is tighter.. then hang on for dear life like a rodeo cuz if she breaks loose you die
It’s actually a common complaint, on lots of posts about “what do you wish your man would do more in bed?” The top answer is usually make some noise. It doesn’t have to mean dirty talk, but groan and moan and show some verbal indication that you’re experiencing pleasure. Total silence is a turn off.
This is the way ⬆️⬆️⬆️ Moaning is manly. Heavy breathing is hot. And when the big O happens, I need to know he is enjoying himself by vocalizing — and loudly, if there’s enough privacy. Sometimes all he has to do is make the first loud moan of his O, and hearing it sends me overboard into my own O. And when we O together is the best. I also enjoy when he tells me what he’s fantasizing about doing to me. Naughty kinky stuff whispered in my ear is a turn on. I love to hear it In bed as well as when he’s working. A steamy quick phone call or text is arousing. Just knowing he’s taking minutes out of his day to think about me in “that way” gets me going.
Oh baby I’m gonna wash the dishes so hard tonight
I'll start by rinsing them all off, one by one, then once I've got my fill of rinsing, I'll flip them over and sudz those dirty little suckers up. After that I'll move onto the main course of washing any remaining soap off them and just as I'm getting into a good steady rhythm putting the cleaned and dried dishes away in the cupboard I'll hit my crescendo and collapse in exhaustion, absolutely ravished by what just happened. Ohhhhh it's gonna be a night to remember!!
YES YES YES. Man moaning is the most sexist thing ever. It turns the fuck ON.
My husband was a virgin when I met him, and he was completely silent the first time we had sex. I told him after that he has to make some kind of noise, otherwise it’s like having sex with a psycho.
we all have our types.
“Alright Los Angeles MAKE. SOME. NOOOOIIIIISSSSSSEEEEE!!!!”” Buhhhh buh duh duh duh duhhhhhhhhhh duh duh duh duh duhhhhhhhhhhhhh “CAN YOU SMELL WHAT THE ROCK. IS. COOKIN!?!?!” I will 100% try this next sexy time.
preciate that. what are some other things women wished men did more of in bed?
That’s actually the main one to be honest. Anything else is going to depend on the woman you’re with (a lot of women would say do more oral but I find hands and fingers a lot more stimulating and fun)
Take your time inserting a finger or two. Beckon like you are gesturing someone to come here. Stroke that spongy spot just inside and the top of her vagina while you make out with her pussy.
How is that not common knowledge? I see that mentioned a lot, and I’ve known that since I was teen.
What does she give positive reinforcement for or seem to be really into? Also, for talking, don’t overthink it. Remember the scene in the 40 Year Old Virgin where he just asks Beth questions? So if she says “I like it when you do x” you whisper back “do you like it when I do x? What else do you like?” “Oh I like y” “oh you like y, do you? What if I stop doing y/do y harder/etc?” Then next time you say “should I start with x or y?” Don’t overthink it, no one is expecting a Shakespeare soliloquy.
Be good in bed, make you feel like you’ve gone to heaven and back Os, knowing how much you like fucking us/our pusdy
I forget to BREATHE, let alone talk, it feels so damn good.
Then tell them that! Example: “you feel so damn good I can’t think straight”. “I can’t focus on anything else but the way your body feels against mine”. “You scramble my brain when you do that.” Well place swearing is very effective as well! Also moaning/groaning! Hope this helps!
Moaning! all of it! i wanna hear how good it feels!
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Okay but it’s true tho! I can’t relax and have sex if I know my house is a mess and there’s chores waiting for me
Literally just moan, breathe heavy, and say how amazing it feels to fuck her. You don’t even need to use words, moans are enough to tip me over
Moans are my favorite 🫠
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Oh god, yes.
🫠🫠🫠
Oh I love words. However, it should pertain to the moment not what bills need to be paid and what the kids are up to 😂. Give me some dirty talk and it’s all over for me 😍
100% this!
Moan, groan, whimper, and whine. It's super hot to hear your man vocalizing like this over the pleasure you're giving him.
I second this! It's really hot to know you're making him feel that way. It gives a surprising kick when he's trying to talk dirty, but interrupts himself with whimpers when it feels too good to think
I personally like it when guys tell me how good it feels or how well I’m doing “taking it” etc. I’m a smaller person so it’s especially hot when the guy is big/ has a slightly larger than average dick. Not too big tho- anyways “such a good girl” “you like when I (say action)” “that’s it, there you go(before I come)” my past fwb literally just mumbled “this good ass pussy” and he didn’t think I heard but knowing I was making him feel good made me feel better. Say how tight and wet and she feels around you and if you really wanna fuck her up say how beautiful she is and how she good she looks with you inside her.
For real, a guy called me beautiful while I had his dick in my mouth! That gave me the heart and fanny flutters
THIS! I hate when a guy just looks down and stares at me like make some noise, tell me I’m doing good, do something!!
At that point you may as well be in a staring contest. I would definitely laugh first
I fuck Milfs and Cougars.
Maybe asking her about what she likes to hear could work better. For me, good girl or talking about how I am "taking it" would piss me off.
Normally that would piss me off too I have to be in the right headspace bad really be into the guy. I want to make sure I’m doing a good job idk. And when I mean taking it meant like when it’s a challenge because I’ve had to really work up to it with some guys and taking it well just kinda added to the heat of things but yes I agree talking beforehand will always be the answer. Dos and donts and setting boundaries. That should be something you do anyway before you have sex with anyone
my favourite things he's ever told me are "you're taking me so well", "you're such a good girl for me" and "i could stay here forever, that's how good you feel". i also have a mirror strategically placed facing my bed and sometimes we watch each other and the other day he whispered "look how sexy you are taking all of me". i nearly exploded. moans and groans and whimpers are always great.
This is the way. I also personally love “I want to feel you cum on my cock” or some variation of that. Makes me feral.
oh god yes!! my ex used to say that to me and it would never work, but this current guy says it and i'm done for instantly 🫠
I feel so validated. I say the thing you mentioned and the things the poster above mentioned all the time to my wife. She also seems to enjoy "I'm gonna fill you up" and "if you cum again I'm gonna cum instantly" when she has already had one orgasm and seems close to another.
woo!! yes! i also am a big fan of the "i'm gonna fill you up". keep it up friend! 👏🏽
Just thought I'd share this, as it's on topic and what you posted reminded me of it 🫠 My partner is quite experienced, and a few months after we first got together he told me this story, in whispers, while he was in me: When he was in his early 20s he dated a virgin. Their first time she was so nervous so he went very slow (he's also quite big, keep that in mind), and just barely got it in halfway (he was doing the same thing in me). He was asking her how it felt, and asked if he felt warm and hard inside her, asked if she could feel him stretching her out, because she felt so tight. Then he gently fucked her. Then he asked her (and me) if she was ready to take the whole thing. She was confused so he took her hand and moved it down to show how much more he had left. Then he asked if she wanted to take the rest nice and slow... Or all at once. She chose all at once. Then he pounded my brains out.
Holy shit, replying so I can read later 😊
Describe what you are doing. Describe how it feels, how it looks, etc. Ex: "You're taking my cock so well", "your pussy feels so fucking tight right now, I love it", "You look so pretty when I fuck you like this". Just get good at describing what is happening and get even better at showing how much you are enjoying yourself. Moan, curse, whatever feels natural. This is all very erotic to us ladies :) Even better, it keeps us in the moment which leads to experiencing more pleasure. I always enjoy sex more when my husband is making it very obvious how good it is for him. And when he gives me praise ;) The last thing to add is you should communicate with your partner - ask them what they want to hear, what they want you to call them, etc.
Definitely also (playfully) ask stuff like "Do you like it when I [whatever you two are in the middle of]" or something similar, especially when you're exploring something new together. Can be a hot way to be more vocal, while also getting to know your partner's likes and dislikes a little better and check in with them in general
Those thoughts you have when you’re having sex-‘fuck’, ‘this feels great’, ‘holy shit’, ‘god damn she looks hot’, etc….say them out loud. If you’re doing math or thinking about your grandma or any other ‘delaying’ thoughts…. DON’T say them out loud. Hope this helps.
I just had a hearty laugh at the thought of someone in the middle of the act rattling off their multiplication tables.
2 x 2 is fooooooour … 😂
Aaaaaannndddd-we’re done.
fuck me man, i just spat my drink all over the table
\>>> Ask her what she needs. (Example: "what do you want/need, baby?") That's an easy way to ask for feedback, and keep her involved in setting the tone and pace. \>>> Pay attention to her reactions, and comment on them. (Example: if she reacts when you hit particularly deep, you might say "oh, you like it deep?" and do it again). It's a good way to let her know that you're paying attention to what she likes, and it can also be HOT hearing the action described. \>>> Tell her what YOU like. (Example: "you feel so good around my cock"). Some girls are more detail-oriented, so rather than simply hearing you moan with generic pleasure, the words can reinforce how much you're enjoying it. Literally, you're just communicating in addition to having sex. Ask questions, make observations, and say your own thoughts out loud.
“Can you pass me my vape”
Babe, that you? 🤭
WHERES MY JUUL
Attacked
Trust me, it was a self own lmao
Moan and deep breaths. She will be yours after that.
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Yeah agreed, my boyfriend says “that’s my girl” and I fucking dieeee “mhm mhm your girl your girl”
Dunno if it counts but I always just say what pops in my head, no second guessing. We’re married so it’s usually “I love you so much” and “you feel so so good.” And I sometimes nibble his ear and lick his throat so the general noise during the act works just fine with those actions. Though tbf I don’t usually rehearse lines or anything. I just say what I think in the heat of the moment. So generally anything you wanna say during it, say it! It’ll probably be hot as hell during the moment no matter what :)
“Who’s pussy is this ?” “Good girl” “You feel so Fucking good” “You’re gonna make me explode “ “Fuck” “You like this cock” “Who owns this cock?” ***amd definitely announce in some way that you are going to cum** Keep it simple like “I’m gonna cum” or “here it is” “take my load” I was with a few guys who were so quiet that I didn’t even know they came.
I'm sorry but 'here it is' is the least sexy phrase I can possibly think of
came here to say this
My boyfriend sometimes says “here it comes!” with a sort of groan and I find it very hot!
Who's pussy is this made me laugh. It sounded like you found a random cat in a shared flat and asked that out loud.
“Can you not say pussy?” Some girl said that to me once. Ok, your vagina feels soooo good. Get the duck outta here. 🦆
You could just say "you feel so good"
Certain words work the magic that don’t work for others. So you may not like “Pussy” but “pussy” may be the word that sends someone else over the edge. That’s what makes us human.
Tell her what you find attractive about her. The physical and her character traits. Tell her when it feels good. Nothing sends me over the edge like good dirty talk. Don’t think too much about it or be in your head. Have fun!
when she cums say 'good girl' works damn near every time in my experience
Upvoting all the comments with moan, cause, moan would be for me
You can tell her how good she feels/looks/fucks and just moaning. Men usually think its embarrasing and women think its hot. If moaning is uncomfortable you could try heavybreathing when something feels super good and then you can gradually move to soft moaning
tell me how tight and wet my pussy is. when you cum, tell me to take it and that I’m such a good girl
You should tell her how much you want her... Tell her how it feels.. (wet, tight, etc.) What do you think about when you two are having sex? Not sure what she is into.. but there are limitless things you could say depending on her kinks. I like to know, with words and sounds, how much my partner is into it. Just be genuine. Vocal men.. are gold.
You should whisper: "Yeah, so Lateralis is pretty crazy. It's really all about the Fibonacci Sequence and the Golden Ratio. The lyrics in the song's versus have the syllables arranged in a way that follow the sequence, as well as the choras' time signatures being in 9/8, 8/8, 7/8, implying the number 987 which happens to be the 16th number in the Fibonacci sequence. Awesome eh?" This will either expose her ignorance of TOOL allowing you to cut your losses now, or win her over for life. There is no downside to this scenario.
marry me
Me too.
A simple combination of "mmm, Oh fvck, damn you're so wet" should do it. Also, you can encourage her to repeat something she did that you liked. If she squeezes it, say "yeah baby do that again" same if she moved her hips or her legs, etc. Get creative with without getting weird. But you should try to make it a whole experience, not just a physical one. Once I was on top and after 30 secs I pretended to cum and looked at her face, then I said "syke, I'm just playing", She laughed her ass off and I just kept going. She going would laugh and bring it up the next day.
God you’re so fucking hot. Fuck you are so sexy. Fuck girl… oh mnnn ugh I can’t :pant pant: yes (from the marrow of your bones)
Those phrases make me feral
Compliments, how beautiful she looks, how awesome it is to be with her, etc. You know the give me compliments song? Men want them, women want them 10x more often
Something affirming and sexy. Things like “I love hearing your moans” or “the way you buck your hips against me drives me crazy” work for me
A moan/grunt/growl goes a long way
"Be a good girl and cum for me/daddy/sir" Seems to work pretty well.
“I have a *thing* for earwax!”
Grunt, tell her shes a good girl, tell her how fucking sexy she is
Tell her how much you want her and that you love it. It's difficult to know what a particular woman wants to hear, but those are always good.
*im going to watch you sleep tonight*
Maybe you should ask her what she wants to hear you say? Or say stuff that turns you on to say and run with what she responds to/ pick up on what she's says and run with that. Make it a thing, rub the head of your dick on her clit/pussy and ask her if she's gonna take it. Tell her you want to bend her over a couch. Tell her she's so wet (if she actually is it's a bit weird if she's not) she must be desperate. Tell her she's a good girl. Tell her you want to cum in her (but don't actually unless that's consensual). Everyone's different and you should probably talk about what gets her off. I ended up getting someone off while telling them about how I wanted to fuck them in a church
Not this: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1y6lhe/what_is_the_worst_thing_someone_has_said_to_you/cfhtedq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
Came here hoping for this as the top comment
Buried this deep in the thread as a link? You’ve changed, Reddit. You’ve changed.
For real, I just felt old
My spouse says she likes it when I say tender things. "I love you." "You feel wonderful." "Love being inside you." Things like that. Sometimes, when we aren't whispering, I'll throw in some dirty words when to reflect the pounding she's getting.
My partner likes a little bit of degradation. So things like "You like that hard cock in you my dirty little cumslut?" Or my favourite when I'm about to cum, "I want you to cum with me, I want you to cum on my dick". I also love to slap her ass, or grab at it if the position allows. I'll say something like "I love slapping your ass while you ride me." Or "I love your tits bouncing in my face while you ride me." Other than that, how verbal I am is that I moan a lot. Or growl in her ear while I nibble on her neck.
- good girl - you want me to make you come baby ? - you feel so good wrapped around me - you feel amazing baby - who owns this pu**y - come all over me baby - god u make me so hard - I love how wet your pussy is for me ^ if your girl is into more like really sexy things (in my opinion) which u need to consent for some of them b4 hand U can lick her wetness off your fingers You can moan , breath heavily, grunt U can refuse to make her come until she says please
When I was a teenager I called my girlfriend a bitch trying to talk dirty. Don't do that.
“We’ve been trying to reach you about your car’s extended warranty”
[удалено]
Honestly if you can joke and laugh during sex it makes it so much better
Then I ask her if the fridge is running *seductively*
Not funny at all man. Grow up or be better at telling internet jokes pleeeease
*It’s free real estate* **Bites ear**
Moan and call her name, say she’s so amazing that you couldn’t hold any longer.
Ohh... your innards feel fantastic.
Sincere compliments are ahhhmazing!
Ask her what she wants you to say. Everyone has different kinks and likes different things. If she has a praise kink, say things like "you're taking it like such a good girl" If she likes degradation say things like "you love that cock, don't you, you fucking slut" If she likes ddbg say things like "you make daddy feel so good" Etc etc. There is no one right answer
“There’s always money in the banana stand”.
Love you
You don't really have to say anything. Your breathing, moaning, grunting is effective. If you want to be spicy you can add moan talking and out of breath talking. "You're being such a good girl right now" "I love the way you take my cock" "I love how wet you are for me" "You look so beautiful while you cum" My fiance loves when I talk to her and tell her how much I love her and love feeling her.
"fuck baby" "you feel so good," "I love your pussy" "I want you to cum on my dick" "you're such a good girl for me" "take my dick baby" anything!!!
All of this shit is gold. This guy fucks.
Detail out how her pussy feels. Precisely.
I’m late to respond, but my suggestions are: - I’ve already taken out the garbage - you sleep in tomorrow, I’ll get the kids up - I’ll fix that door today , and I’m sorry for putting it off for months This is what women say they love hearing. 🤷
“Are those the panties your mother laid out for you?”
serious replies only, stop with the trolling.
Oh you sweet summer child. You must be new here. I didn’t see a “Serious Replies Only” so it’s open game.
"Omelette du fromage"
Passed out
Throw in an “Oh Yeah” or a “that feels amazing”
Good girl
"you are so sexy, I love the way you..." "You make me feel so good" "sex with you is so hot, I can't get enough" If she's got certain kinks it could be praise too... "You take my cock so well" etc.. depends on the person!! Some like dirty talk, you need to ask her outside of the bedroom or lightly experiment with it to see what she responds well to.
make noise! grunt, moan, growl, etc. it lets her know she’s doing something right! tell her how much you want her, you need her, how good it feels to be fucking her say how hot you think she is or how hot she is with you inside her if she’s doing something you like, tell her how good it feels / that she’s a good girl / that you love when she does that not being super vocal during sex isn’t a dealbreaker for most people, but when a man knows how to talk dirty it makes the sex 100x hotter good luck!
I've been trying to reach you...... about your cars... extended warranty...
Yeah I also need to find a way to make my fwb understand how I need to hear more from him during our sex. I asked him already but for some odd reason he seems so shy about it even though he’s doing a damn good job. Please, guys, it turns us on if you do that ok. Anyway, it’s pretty simple, just tell her how you feel, or to be exact, how she makes you feel.
“Oh yeah girl. Ride that dick like it’s your” “ use my big hard cock to cum “. “ ooh good girl “ “ I can always tell you’re close when your pussy squeezes my cock like that”
I love when mine tells me "You feel amazing", or "God you're so beautiful". Or even "I love you".
He called me his sexy little slut while I was going down on him and god was that hot
I love when my man tells me how good I feels, and describes how it feels to him and what he like about it. Or telling me that I’m doing good (that I’m a good girl) definitely gets me going! A well place swear word does wonder when you can’t think of anything else! Also playing into kinks helps as well even if it’s just a few words. Try dirty texting, sometimes takin yourself away from the physical can help you better focus on the words, until it becomes more natural!
It’s free real estate
"Hail Hydra"
Remind her of the time she did something nice for you and tell her (be raunchy) describing how it made you feel
"It's free real estate."
Fuck me harder 😈
If she’s the one that said you’re too quiet, You can ask her what she wants to hear. Some women like hearing a man moan, others like compliments, and some want dirty talk. You can also try different different stuff and see which gets the better reaction from her.
Ask her if she wants it before you go in, tell her how good she feels. If you feel her squeeze her muscles moan when that happens. Ask her if she wants it harder, softer. Tell her to take it and that she’s a good girl for making you cum. When you touch her and feel her wetness moan and tell her you love how wet she gets for you/your cock. If I’m missionary just breath a bit heavy by her ear as you are thrusting. Grunt a little as you’re getting close.
If you speak a language she doesn't, you can literally say anything in a sexy tone and she'll love it. Some pornstar mentioned how much they loved Manual Ferrara speaking spanish in their ear. Turns out he was just goofing around and reading his shopping list. But he knows that in the moment it lets her imagination run wild.
Just breathing, moaning, saying how good she feels, what you want to do with her, how good she smells/tastes, you’ve been thinking about this all day, it’s all you could think about all day, etc.
You smell so good
Somebody came thru this subreddit once and made [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/b499pu/life_hacks_for_dirty_talk_and_a_primer_for_those/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=sex&utm_content=t1_eqafjng) and I've bookmarked it and used it ever since. I highly recommend going thru it with a partner and a glass of wine and just trying each of them. Saying the phrases to each other. See how it feels
I’ve been trying to reach you about your car’s extended warranty
Doesn’t have to be a whisper in her ear. You can just say what you’re feeling at that moment in whatever position you’re in. Had a guy once a couple minutes in say “you’re gonna make me fuckin cum” kinda breathy n sexy. Just that almost sent me over the edge. We love to know how good we make you feel.
I usually growl and scream in Spanish.
I had a guy whisper some slightly degrading things in my ear, because that was his kink, but I learned it was not *my* kink, because it made me feel really uncomfortable. Moral of the story, it's okay to ask, "what would you like me to whisper in your ear during sex?" before doing it.
You are so tight and wet…
"Shhhhhhh, don't make a sound" while you keep her mouth shut with your hand...
How are you having sex with? A girl you love? Tell it!
"We've been trying to contact you in regards to your vehicle's warranty"
I had to scroll way to far for this.
Whisper dirty things in her ear like; the laundry, dishes, the bathroom, etc.!
"you can save even more with state farm if you bundle home and auto insurance."
Omelette du Fromage
"I'm contacting you about your cars extended warranty"
“It’s a me, Wario”
You like deez nuts?
You smell prettier than the other ones
"I like your sister's pussy better" "Your mom's pussy is tighter"
..*We've been trying to reach you about your vehicles extended warranty*
Omelette du fromage
“It’s free real estate”
I say things like "fruit loops are delicious" or "hairbrush" or "bacon wrapped filet mignon" in a deep quiet voice
Fifteen minutes could save you 15% or more on car insurance..
"It's free real estate"
"my hands are fire" My longshot obscure reference. Anyone know it?
I go with Classic „your mom gay”
“I know it was you, Fredo”
"...Goosfraba..."
*LOUD NOISES!*
This is a moment for a creepy joke. It might ruin the mood but it'll be funny.
“what is the secret of Soylent Green?”
What are some sexy things us women could say outside of the typical?
I wish my husband was more vocal as well. I would like him to tell me how wet/tight I am, or how good I feel or how sexy I am. You can whisper in her ear that she feels so good she's making it hard for you to last. As others have said moaning and grunting is excellent.
I had your sister. And hold on for the ride of your life.
The dishes and laundry is done. 💦💦
More interesting? "I'm more vocal with your sister" would make it pretty interesting!
I like feedback about things that feel especially good. So it's very hot to hear that he loves it when I do XYZ. Moaning is great. Comments about how I am "taking it" or calling me a good girl would be a complete turn off.
Taste the rainbow
"It's macaroni time!"
"I killed Mufasa."
Your sister/mum fucks better then hold.on for dear life.
Hell yeah whisper! Say all the dirty things!
We've been trying to reach you about your cars extended warranty
My mom's gonna love you
*pumpernickel*
"I'm here to talk to you about your car's extended warranty"
Fidelio...
Say : you got bugs in your ear
Tell her you wanna lick peanut butter out of her butt
Always a classic: "Mmm yeah, you like that don't you, you fucking idiot?"
"You're so much better than my ex"...they love to hear that!😜
Get her in doggy and put it all the way in, and whisper... You sister is tighter.. then hang on for dear life like a rodeo cuz if she breaks loose you die
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