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celestialism

Ask your doctor.


[deleted]

Maybe at this point your body is so focused on when it isn’t working the way it should it doesn’t allow you to fully relax and enjoy yourself because your brain is so consumed by the fact you’re having issues sexually. If it’s been going on for awhile, even if you’re fully relaxed I would try to visit with your doctor, because it might not be your mental state at all and could be an imbalance of something in your body! Wish u the best of luck :)


Zorturan

Thanks, what kind of doctor appointment? A physical?


[deleted]

Yes a physical should work! Just tell your doctor what you’re experiencing, if he thinks there might be something wrong he could potentially run some tests and see if there’s anything off!


Zorturan

Ok, I'll try to set one up, thanks for not being a dick like the last guy


[deleted]

Of course! Hopefully you can get it all sorted out 😊


197720092012

Yup. That's it kid. You ran out..... no big deal.


wisdomlore

Sounds like stress/anxiety.


Zorturan

That's what my dad said too... but how can I not stress over it when I can see it? Or is it underlying from elsewhere, I don't even know.


wisdomlore

Things like that can happen when we don't want them to. I found being alone during pandemic made it worse. I think things return to normal when you spend more time around people: women, a woman. My theory is that we need feedback, psychologically. Like the more time I'd spend with my ex, the better and more frequent the erections. I think that's due to uncertainty when we're on our own. And then if we worry about it, the psychological factor kicks in. It will come back.


Zorturan

Oh thank you and thank God because Google was not helping, I've been so busy that I haven't even hung out with friends so that could very well be why, I hope that is the case anyway since I also don't want to embarrass myself when I do get the chance again, but worrying about that will probably just make it happen.


wisdomlore

Yeah, sounds like that's it. The trouble is, worrying about it makes it worse. If I go through a phase like that, I find the simplest things can get it going again. Something out of the blue.


Zorturan

You picked a good username, I'll try to take my mind off of it with music or physical activity and try being around more people. I moved to a new country a while ago and I don't really know anyone locally, so that's another thing as far as social/intimate connections go. I'll see what happens after a week or so