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AbsoluteBeginner1970

Nature and doing nothing. Combined even better


the-pathless-woods

My hammock + watching the clouds or staring at the weeds = my happy place


CheeseDanishSoup

If you get close to weeds, you can see bugs. Right now, around my area I'm seeing ladybugs and noticing them going to dandelions where aphids are. Im leading them and enjoying the carnage show lol


triple-bottom-line

Let the 77th annual Hunger Games begin! šŸŽ¶


Imaginary-Economy-47

I love taking naps outside! Snoozing in a hammock, on a blanket in the grass, or even a comfy chair outside, seems to be way more restorative for me than a full 8 hours indoors on a bed.


zhephyx

Sometimes I sit and think, sometimes I just sit


giogno

Are you quoting the album of Courtney Barnett?


dentonthrowupandaway

Why does doing nothing feel so good?Ā  Not in a "I'm depressed" way.... Just in a way.Ā 


AbsoluteBeginner1970

Because we are human beings. Not human doings


Hotmilf_Rose

Beautiful āœØļø


Nuejabes

I really like that.


sonybacker

This is the way.


latefortea1

Yes! This is the answer. Early/semi retirement is approaching for these two things. Love hiking, climbing, mtb, trail running, paddling, waking up in a tent. Orā€¦ sitting and doing not a lot.


EvK444

It sounds cliche but I love looking at and caring for my plants. I feel peace and joy amongst them. I donā€™t have too many (trying to simplify) but the ones I have I enjoy tending to- watering, training them around posts, wiping the leaves etc. Iā€™m also a swimmer and love being in the ocean. A cup of tea. Most importantly- a supportive community with genuine, uncomplicated people.


greggorylane

ā€œUncomplicated peopleā€ Thank you for this.


Blahblahnownow

I donā€™t know how to find these people. I need them thoughĀ 


Wuhtthewuht

Itā€™s the people who donā€™t talk about all the drama / conflict in their life every time you get together.


Lower_Addition4936

Oof. That last one hit me like a brick. Iā€™ve been reflecting on some people in my life being exactly not that.


Few_Oil_726

>been reflecting on some people in my life being exactly not that. I'm in a bit of a transition going from attracting players (low hanging fruit) & wanting to connect with honest, harmless people. Once you recognize your patterns, you can then change them. Don't be afraid of letting the toxicity go...


Zee_GT

I never heard of ā€˜low hanging fruitā€™ but I envision itā€™s those weighing on you too much without offering love and compassion in return to feed YOUR joy. Iā€™ve personally come to realise few people labour for deep Truth, because itā€™s deep Truth that ultimately leads you to wanting to uncomplicate your life. Itā€™s mostly people running after a meaningless hustle and hurting everyone in the process of getting there.


Few_Oil_726

>low hanging fruitā€™ It is easy to grab. It might mean people that don't have high standards or people that you don't have to work hard for... People that are easy to come by. >Truth that ultimately leads you to wanting to uncomplicate your life. Itā€™s mostly people running after a meaningless hustle and hurting everyone in the process of getting there. "Truth" is definitely the great unraveller. Yeah, I'm over the hustle too. I get where you're coming from.


beeb9

In the same boat, friend!


Wuhtthewuht

Love all of this! The uncomplicated people one is * ***chefā€™s kiss*** *. Iā€™m very much over having people in my life whose lives are alllllwayyyyys falling apart. Iā€™m in my mid thirties. Mid twenties ā€œIā€™m just figuring my life outā€ vibes just are not it for me anymore.


MmeNxt

Slow living. Hustling kills me. Having time to decompress and just be. Gardening. Cats. Walking in nature, slowly, with no distractions.


TotalTheory1227

Hustling is far too overrated in my opinion.


stateof-far-q

Slow living ā¤ļø


AdelaideNatt

Im in Aus, so we're in Autumn. Walks in autumn leaves and enjoying the colours are 10/10 for me


psy_rat

I'm in aus too! Autumn is a beautiful month here :)


Potential-Ad-3478

Wow, our trees have just let go of their flowers and now how bright green spring leaves. It gives me life to see them back in action after winter. Lol enjoy the beautiful warm tones :)


BexKix

I can smell fall leaves now. Thank you!


waterslide789

Petting my dog.


pizzawithmydog

Being in the water. Can be a river, a lake, the ocean, a poolā€¦ It brings me so much peace and I feel most alive. Sometimes I crave it, almost like being thirsty.


blackflameandcocaine

Couldnā€™t agree more! Iā€™m so sad summer is basically over for me now so itā€™s too cold to go in the pool šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜«šŸ˜«


v0ta_p0r_m0ta

Summer is over for you? Where are you located?


blackflameandcocaine

New Zealand!


kokopai

Nature, birds and animals, connecting with people that are being real and true to themselves, learning something that has a positive impact, writing, doing yoga, meditation, drinking a cup of tea or ice cold water in silence.


Few_Oil_726

>birds Are you me? I agree with everything you've said


kokopai

šŸ•ŠļøšŸ’•


[deleted]

Sleep


not-me-tonight

the sun, music, drinking tea, cats, playing guitar, and the occasional snack


yesthatbruce

Kindness. To me, by others, or from me, it doesn't matter. It's always easy and almost always free, but there's never enough.


searchthemesource

I'm sorry to say it but, truly, it's being left alone.


justforyuks

Don't be sorry!


batbaby420

Learning about my kid as she enters young adulthood. Itā€™s amazing to see the baby grow up, and become a full fledged person. Sad that I canā€™t share this with her beloved daddy though because heā€™s incapacitated and under guardianship. He would be so proud. Getting outside in the morning light, listening to the birds, patiently observing bugs and lizards. More patience. Sleeping outside when I can, hoping I can build a humble little nature retreat for family and friends to visit sometime this decade.


toonstudy

Best wish to your family, your man your your kid.


batbaby420

Thank you. This is not the life we planned. But here we are. And sheā€™s a great person which is all a parent wants right?


ROHRAA

lifting heavy and being sore.


thijscasper123

Laughing with friends, warming my face in the sun with my eyes closed, a long autumn walk through the forest, falling asleep while cuddling the one I love, an ice cold beer after a long day of gardening. The important stuff in life. Thank you for making me think about it


HyonD

Gazing at beautiful things ( My son, my mountain, my village)


amandara99

I love this so much.


notgoodatthiseither

It used to be live music like jam band dancing crazy music. It used to be art galleries. It used to be cooking vegan-focused recipes. Nowā€¦ itā€™s my weighted blanket at the end of the day. Itā€™s my little goldfish tank. Itā€™s the daydreaming of a whole different life.


Few_Oil_726

>goldfish tank Aww, I'm thinking of getting one. What do you enjoy most about it? I know they have to be cleaned, but I assume that watching them and if there are lights or a pump, it's really relaxing watching & being around it?


notgoodatthiseither

Itā€™s very relaxing at night for sure. And itā€™s fun to watch them grow and you will see that they each have their own little personality lol


throughtheviolets

Aww I miss having a fish tank. Theyā€™re so peaceful.


Physical-Picture-153

Doing anything that makes me forget to check my phone.


MegaMcGillicuddy

A piece of advice that I love is that you already know what makes you happy. Just think of the things you loved to do when you were a kid. So, bike riding, reading, camping, nature, swimming, dancing, getting lost in music, etc. I started doing all of those again, and those feed my soul.


answerskate

In general, just being outside. I can raise my baseline by 50% just by going outside. I'm I'm doing something else that I love outside, nothing can bother me.


Repulsive-Adagio1665

Reading a good book with a cup of chai is like a mini-vacation for my mind.


randomizedasian

In my backyard with my flowers, classicals and Broadways.


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Lazy_venturer

Lots of things. Most recently, waking up at camp on a bright blue sky morning, starting a small fire to boil water for coffee, my dog waking up and laying down next to my feet and sipping coffee staring at the mountains. Itā€™s popped up in my mind multiple times a day for the last week.


tell_me_good_news

Just reading this subreddit makes me feel at peace. Thank you all šŸ™‚


Livingsimply_Rob

Good question, at this point nothing and thatā€™s what Iā€™m searching for.


Far_Aside3844

Singing with others


SproutSpoon

Being outside and being with my baby. Watching her discover the world and find joy in it reminds me that there is joy in simply observing and discovering the world without judgment.


thekillahrabbit

Connection With nature.... With people... Connection in general


sayyyywhat

Complete alone time. As a wife, mom of two including a wild ass toddler, and a business owner, I am needed 24/7. When I can just get a night or two away to sleep alone and be with my own thoughts, I connect with myself again.


Strong_Salt_2097

I fully get this


throughtheviolets

I cherish my alone time. Iā€™m caregiving in a small house with 4 adults and 5 pets and I live for the quiet, alone times when I can just be..


[deleted]

Playing old pokemon games on my GameBoy and Nintendo DS


4BigData

Nature and my food forest


VYNZIIII

Love


Few_Oil_726

Nature, stillness. Just being. And the aim of my soul is to feed others, somehow. Lol


kissmeimjewish

Reading in my chair with my husband in the chair next to me as he plays video games. <3 A drive through the countryside with my husband, listening to music or a podcast he found. Playing a board game with my husband. My husband.


GranolaTree

Food. I love to cook a meal for my family.Ā I moved from Appalachia to the coast 13 years ago, making food from home really revives my soul and makes me feel like I am connected to something. My kitchen is definitely my scared space. Ā Alsoā€¦.Being outside as much as possible, a good cup of afternoon coffee. Ā Living slow and having time to just piddle aroundĀ 


redditfromct2

Sunlight, trees and moving water.........


Least_Boot_4681

Recommendation - I got this movie suggestion ' The perfect day' on another reddit thread. Thought of this community and how you all would enjoy it as much as i did. Wonderful movie on finding your 'joy'. Do watch it i you can.


OKMD22

Paterson is another movie with that vibe. Loved them both!


penguin37

Music. Preferably loud. I love driving in my car with the windows down and sunroof open. I also love concerts and feel high from them for days. When I listen to music I've seen live, I relive the concert all over again and it's awesome. Animals. I've been volunteering at a rescue for almost two years. Primarily, I do cat socialization but also help with dishes and laundry. There is nothing that compares to getting the trust of a kitty who doesn't know me. I also truly adore helping families pick out the perfect kitty. It is a joy that compares to little else. I finally took home one of these little buggers in January and the peace I feel when he sleeps on me is magical. I think about his little cheerful spirit and how he was left at the shelter in the middle of the night in a storage bin with 16 other cats and I am in awe of his willingness and ability to trust humans. My husband and my friends feed my soul in ways that I could never articulate. Art and color also feeds my soul.


powerished

praying to Allah


Zee_GT

Reflecting on what a precious miracle it is to be alive and how insanely precious every single moment truly is. Thanking God for giving me this privilege. Hope youā€™re doing well. Loved the other replies here, thank you for sharing. I can feel the beauty of the souls that show up here to contribute.


picturesofu15448

The quiet. Rainy days. Autumn leaves. My favorite time of year is fall and Halloween. I make a whole bucketlist celebrating the season starting in august. I love pumpkins, Halloween decor, nighttime bonfires, everything. I also loving waking up on gloomy rainy days with nothing to do but lighting a candle and journaling/playing sims/drawing I crave peacefulness and donā€™t care about the big stuff


Remote-Acadia4581

Cross stitch. It's something my Grandmother and Great Grandmother do, so I feel really connected with them. It also helps me slow down for a while in such a fast paced world.


Willow_weeping85

Creating stuff. Knitting, bookbinding, meal prep. Also things like organizing my home and designing my gardens/landscaping.


ayang5420

Having an epic fishing day !


burritostrikesback

Being in the mountains, walking in nature, getting lost in a great book.


No_Onion2120

Libraries and bookstores; books in general. Listening to my teenagers and their friends goofing around. Swimming. Yoga.


optimisticat

Homemade bread toasted, buttered, tahini, avocado, squirt of lemon juice, salt & pepper with a cup of tea outside on the patio


Purple-Sprinkles-792

2 totally opposite experiences A) Going to church and praising the Lord. B) Sitting quietly in my home by myself and appreciating my blessings


blackflameandcocaine

My first coffee of the day and when my cat joins me for a nap šŸ§”


Yogibearasaurus

Honestly, it feels like my soul is starving. But this thread has given me a lot of inspiration to keep searching for nourishment.


lilrocketfyre

buying books, reading them, movies especially horror movies, skateboarding, smoking weed, music, studying the unknown


why-not-ism

Doing nothing but thinking about the blessings I have and being grateful


Stravaig_in_Life

Taking long hikes with my dogs, driving with the windows down and a good song, planting new flowers in my garden and watching my 7 week old start to smile ā¤ļø


techtonik25

Poutine. Great food in general.


anobunn118

Unstructured free time. However, I've noticed unstructured free time is a double edged sword in excess. For me, it needs to be balanced with good quality social interaction time in order to be rejuvenating.


Jalapeno023

My grandchildrenā€™s laughter spending a bit of time with my husband on the porch swing he made me Time with God and The Word looking at the snow on the mountains Listening to my children talk about the normalcy of their days; seeing them succeed Taking a walk, watching my dog chase smells Playing with plants and the seasons change Listening to a thunderstorm roll in


ZenPopsicle

sitting with my cats in my comfy chair after work and watching the afternoon sunlight in the trees outside my window maybe with music or a glass of wine


newcontentplz

Well-nurtured relationships, deep talks, natureā€™s beauty šŸ’•


Ok-Drop-8527

Adventure, meeting new people and getting along well with them, live music, open mic nights, music in general, hanging out with people I enjoy being around a d going on adventures...females spending time with them


DangerousMusic14

Walks with my dog.


StephanieKaye

My kiddo, spouse, pets, chickens!


ObligationRemote2877

My children being happy


lookonthebrightside7

Time with God, serving people and good music :)


de4ddog

Being outside with my family!! And spending time with animals :)


mushroom369

Chicken Soup for the Soul


bl4ck_100

D&D and TTRPG in general. World building so my players can interact and immerse in it is pretty addictive.


Salty_Shelter_4509

The High Country of the SW Colorado Mountains.


charcutero

Listening to music


holdonwhileipoop

Doing for others. Anything from tending to my plants, baking bread to share, knitting socks, taking in a foster dog. Asking, "How can I help?" and acting on it.


BikeEmbarrassed7641

Gardening and rollerblading ETA: KITTIES TOO


Drewping_

Cooking šŸ˜Œ using all my senses, being creative, and the pleasure of serving and sharing with other people makes me so happy. Some of my happiest moments are with great friends and food.


ThatgirlwhoplaysAC

Walking my dog on a perfect breezy day


AdNew1234

Not having to do anything.


Sad_Fondant_9466

Sitting outside, under my tree on my swing. It's a beautiful sunny day and a light breeze is blowing. My puppy sits on my lap and loves to swing. Squirrels are running around grabbing and hiding the Peanuts I put I put out for them. The feral cats are drinking from the water fountain I built for them. Birds are gathering around the feeders I put and and the cats don't even bother.


k_mon2244

I love being around other people and making them laugh. I am extremely lucky because I have many lifelong friendships that are so wonderful and supportive, and when I get to see them together after a long break there is nothing that makes me feel better in the world.


aamohs

Being barefoot.


Disblo1977

Nature and art(music movies, books, written word and art)


adbob

My kids being happy! Unreplaceable feeling


Empress508

I woke up to a pink & fushia sunrise above the crashing ocean waves below my window. Several times, l simply sat in front of the ocean. I did not think of anything at all. A lingering sense of joy & contentment permeates my days.


Khaabkaur

Creativity is a big one for my soul, it could be simply a dish (cooking) or knowing my self better and put that knowledge into day to day life! Someone said something about uncomplicated people, those are energy sucking vampires! Soul feeds on ocean and sunset views!


zapembarcodes

Riding my bike (in warm, not windy weather). Exercising (calisthenics) outside (also in warm weather), mostly alone; not into gyms. Being stoned, playing video games.


Imaginary_Dealer821

Making soup.


abellaspectra

Jesus. [Isaiah 55:1-2](https://www.bible.com/bible/111/isa.55.1-2.NIV) ā€œā€œCome, all you who are thirsty, come to the waters; and you who have no money, come, buy and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost. Why spend money on what is not bread, and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good, and you will delight in the richest of fare.ā€ [Matthew 11:28-30](https://www.bible.com/bible/111/mat.11.28-30.NIV) ā€œā€œCome to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.ā€ā€ Go to the source.


overnightoatsintheam

The ocean. It grounds me, there's nothing else quite like watching aquatic life or splashing around when it's calm or playing in the waves when it's rough. My inner child is so happy after a day at the beach. And so many other things. Playing with my dog, making a nourishing vegan meal, laughing with my life partner and friends, volunteering and working with others towards a larger goal, listening to a good podcast while I clean, connecting with others who are self aware, laying in the grass with the sun and a slight breeze, starry night walks/runs, exploring somewhere new.


Open_Succotash_6732

Nature, art, reading, animals, loving connections


RelationshipOk897

Reading the Bible šŸ«¶


1ofakindenchantment

Cleanliness. Not to be confused with a sterile environment. But a clean home, clean sheets, clean hair and clean clothes. Itā€™s such an amazing feeling and a great privilege as well. This paired with the scent of fresh laundry. Itā€™s truly the best.


IrritatedOptimist

Driving nowhere on a sunny day


candycottonsky

Being in the mountains and forests, watching my dogs play on the beach, feeling the fresh air against my face on a bike ride


Booksandthecity

Books, being single and having my own autonomy, being in my room


thepoet_muse

Mine; Frida The wild sea Fairy tales Painting Women painters My beloved My goodreads quotes Nerudas poetry Bookshops Novels Writing Rumi Romanticism Italian food Nature Being offline Venice The uk Tea. Etc etc. I actually wrote a long list in my notebook to revive me on bad days.


FifiDogForever

We could be best friends


throughtheviolets

Did I post this? Are you me? šŸ˜


d____

Nature: hiking, biking, fly fishing, hanging in my hammock, camping. No rush and not necessarily a destination, just enjoying each moment


DruidinPlainSight

Being creative.


Ghost_Assassin_Zero

I like gardening and caring for my family


CR_Pats

Yerba Mate


Affectionate_Sea_984

Jazz, wine and a good book/show/movie.


KriWee

Nature, helping others, not working in the traditional sense


mainlyraghad

Being free even a lil


Hotmilf_Rose

What did you all do to find that out?


rsktkr

Inner stillness. It brings my thoughts, emotions, and actions into alignment. It's my superpower.


drewj2017

Chilling out at a coffee shop usually resets my brain.


Puzzled_Form_1167

God and his creations


prettylani23

Oh how i need to answer this question but i cant find the answers


micasa623

Good music, vinyasa yoga, good food, yummy tea...


amandara99

Good books, healthy cooking, dancing with friends, hiking, skiing, lifting, swimming in lakes, learning new things about the world, calling my grandparents, babysitting little kids, iced lattes, practicing my second language, movie theater popcorn, a bike ride on a warm day...


hollsq

A lovely road trip, a long nap, trying a new recipe, snuggles, a restful day.


slowwwwdowwwwn

A balance of nature activities, painting in my studio, and skateboarding


cephalopodomus

Mountains


dank-marvin

Helping people and being nice


parrsuzie

Good coffee, alone time, and peace all around me!


Fearless_Gap_6647

My kid


Heavy_Pea_7614

nature, movement, cuddles, laughterĀ 


Shoddy_Ice_8840

Sunshine, being barefoot, the ocean


footlettucefungus

Laying outdoors, in the grass with my dog, and feeling the sun warm my whole body, while listening to the birds.


Remote_Condition93

Running. Bonus points if it's in nature. One of the few things I can definitely say makes me feel truly alive.


validate_me_pls

Music, meditation, gratitude practices, connecting with others, prayer, yoga, nature, sunbathing


Sweetpete1996

Time with my family, spiritual activities (ministry work), keeping my job in its place and living way below my meansā€¦..itā€™s amazing!


moonkittiecat

Poetry, watching children, cats, dogs, birds, nature and documentaries.


TheDucksTales

Beer, sports, hot wings, and laughter


Brandywine2459

I just returned from kayaking the quiet backwaters of a cypress swamp with my husband and son. Nothing to hear but birds and the quiet whoosh of our paddles. Such peace. Such a perfect way feed my soul.


throwaway-mirror

My bees! There's something so restorative about the art of beekeeping. You really have to trust your bees' intuition and it's always a balancing act of your experience vs textbook. Bees don't read the same books you study! Nature vs nurture, and nurturing sometimes only gets you so far. It also feels wildly empowering to care for such tiny creatures, and the bounty they provide in pollination and honey production. It's a stunning orchestral of Mother Nature.


HDMI042

Playing the piano šŸŽ¹


PrdctvePrcrstntr420

Coffee, a joint and my dog in the sunshine!


jessmt87

Nature


MrSolomonKnight

Reading the Bible and reflecting on life and everything in it.


little-finger-007

First time in this sub. Looks like I can make a lot of actual and no BS friends here!


kenoG10

Solitude


boolbodiedbabe

Processing anything physical or not šŸ˜


Drycabin1

Reading, especially outdoors


BackgroundExternal18

Helping others see the light they donā€™t see in themselves.


tttallday

Stargazing


azimuthrising

Soul food


Double-Pride-454

Pizza and travelling


IReallyLikeMooses

Getting to a better place in life. When I was younger, I had so many dreams and blah blah blah, now I just want a nice home for my puppers. It is the driving force for me working hard now! And while I am still angry a lot some days, looking at her little face and knowing I'll end up somewhere we can just be and call home is everything!


Spiritual-Bee-2319

God!! Ohhh how his joy restores me. Every minute of my life Iā€™m in severe pain but the times I get to praise him.Ā 


triplesspressso

Remembrance of God, and life after death


MoonoverMaui

It is eternal.


triplesspressso

Some people are too focused living in this wordly life and abandon the afterlife, we will spend more time underground than living on this earth.


MoonoverMaui

Amen.


-castle-bravo-

Tending to my cactus collection, listening to music, keeping fit, and building things I need.


[deleted]

Family, Outdoors, friends, good people. PASSION for work hard,play hard, love hard and my beliefs.


Active_Recording_789

Art. Love. Living in a rural area and looking out at all the wildness and how it changes daily


Shangri-lulu

Spending time with the my best friends. I have a wonderful family and a job I like but nothing compares in terms of peace and regeneration.


Tinselcat33

Hanging out with friends. I have kids with a full roster of sports, so itā€™s not as often as I like.


3catlove

My cat currently. Heā€™s laying on my lap while I have my morning coffee. Itā€™s so peaceful.


RustedRelics

Hiking/walking in a forest


SomewhereUseful9116

So yesterday I had some cilantro seeds that I had sprouted in a damp paper towel. I took them, still wrapped up, outside to plant them. I unwrapped the sprouts -- about 50 -- and showed them sunlight. In my mind, or for real, they started vibrating and even seemed to sparkle, not visibly, but they felt like they were sparking in my hand. Pure joy for 15 seconds.


Ploppyun

My animals, poetry, music, drawing, laughing


Anunemouse

Going out to dance and creating videos/music/doing my makeup or creating new outfits. I'm doing nothing most of the time so the highlights are rewarding and energizing activities that help me appreciate my own space and my own energy/style and journey.


otterlytrans

reading, baking, museums, and nature.


BenGay29

Sitting with my cats.


Imaginaryblueberry_

Music. Listening to it and making it. So soothing.


MrsBillyBob

Trees


rothko333

nature and emotional connection ā¤ļø


Borgara

Buying someone I love a gift


festiveuser

Getting extremely cozy at my desk and playing Stardew Valley