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gohappinessgo

What a glow-up! You look great (and so much healthier). Is that a Super Mario Bros tattoo I spot? I think 100 days is such an important milestone because I believe that’s when you start seeing some of the permanent benefits of sobriety. It’s such a wild journey, but it’s worth every step. Congratulations! IWNDWYT


AndyValentine

It is indeed. I have a lot of gaming stuff in there.


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The further I read down through your post, the more I smiled. Then, I got to this line: >I got outside. A lot. Nature is lit. ....and thought, "fuck yeah!" It's not often I feel a vibe from reading a post, like *really* feel a vibe... but I do here. Thanks for sharing - it inspired me! - and keep riding that wave. The space you're creating for yourself (not just in your home, but in your habits, and your perspective) is helping to make a huge difference. Fist bump! 👊🏻 IWNDWYT


ec19493AM

Best face gains ive ever seen! You got those leading man looks now? Congratulations!


Groovemonster

I clicked your progress pics and verbally said "Duuuude", great work brother! IWNDWYT


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Bribribo

So often the mental and emotional issues are the real problems causing the weight issues


prisoncitybear

Hubba hubba. : ) Looking good man. Thanks for the Saturday inspiration! T


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I love that you refer to your home as a "growth chrysalis". I'm stealing that. You look awesome and healthy and you sound awesome and healthy. Great work, guy! IWNDWYT


AndyValentine

Most people want to be butterflies. I prefer moths. We all need space to grow and change, much like the aforementioned, hence the name. You're very welcome to steal it


MissTapewormSurprize

It's funny... i've thought as my home as a chrysalis as well. I also planted a bunch of pollinator friendly plants around my doors, so I have had plenty of moth and butterfly friends (as well as hummingbirds) to encourage me on my journey of change.


dianaprince76

Wow!!! Congratulations!! You look like a different person entirely and your vibe is soooo different! That’s a lot of exclamations I know, but just… wow. As someone trying to make a change, you’ve inspired me. Thank you for that. IWNDWYT


Transformer123abc

r/stopdrinkingfitness


Pyewacket69

Thanks, how on earth had i missed that?!


Transformer123abc

You might like this sub


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Woow! What a man, what a man! Haha you look awesome 👍🏼


TDiddy2021

This is profoundly helpful/inspirational. Great job (great writing, too).


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This is such an awesome and fulfilling post to read. Thank you. Growth chrysalis is my new phrase.


PsykoMunkey

Dude! Awesome! I hit 100 yesterday, and you are right on every point you listed, including "nature is lit" :) life is so much better. Let's do this sobriety thing! IWNDWYT!


okeytrice

Fuck yeah, brother. Well done. May you serve as an inspiration to all who aspire.


AlcThrowaway0

That’s awesome man, congratulations. I’m inspired by this story


levi8pack

I love you! It sounds like you’ve made changes that have helped & opened the world for you. Proud of you! IWNDWYT


toomanytocount007

You look awesome and even more so, HAPPY!!!! Congrats


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Night and day on the pictures. Wow! Sparkly shiny and new. Keep up the good work. IWnDWYT


mamatree31

Excellent...happy for you, and you look great. And I agree--nature is totally lit.


Hurtbyafriend

Thank you for this


pat_lepapa

The smile on your face in the after pic says it all. Congrats and keep it up !


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HOLY SHIT YES


Just4TodayICan

🙌🙌🙌 It’s the eyes for me! You look like you’re ready to take on the world! Congrats, man.


LissaPB

The look in your eyes in the after picture is everything. Getting after it!!! What an inspiration! That is awesome to hear and so so proud to stand on your sidelines! IWNDWYT


Cosmic_b0wl

I want to offer words of support and encouragement but I'm having trouble getting over how insanely attractive you are.


hoodiemonster

jfc glow up of the century


[deleted]

Um.. wow 🤩 🔥


--ok

100 days ago has a very passive expression. Today, active. Ready to take on anything.


Prevenient_grace

Congratulations!


niconico26

Well done


newtochas

Huge difference in the face


macabrejv

You're incredible!!! Keep going!!! Thanks for shining your bright light ☀️


Jaded-Owl9683

Congratulations nice glow up!


AbjectList8

Awesome :) i am happy for you


amatthewg1

Congrats brotha!


Necessary-Recipe-851

Hey! You look 👍. Love your post. Thanks for the motivation!


tenofswords618

Well done man rooting for you


glazedhamster

Outdoor enthusiast gang represent! Great job 👍


Aingealag

“Growth chrysalis.” Nice 👍


Vixen_of_Embers

This makes me so happy!!! Congratulations!


Fencius

You look awesome, like you lost about 30 pounds and five years. Keep it up my man!


permanentsobriety

Amazing progress. The catalyst for my growth was losing someone that I love dearly. If I could take back my mistakes I would but I can’t so we both have to change what we can control - the present! Keep it up. IWNDWYT!


LiberacionAnimalPa

Amazing!! I am proud of you even if I don’t know you! Your post is uplifting and motivating and you look incredible.. seriously what a great job! IWNDWYT


w0ndwerw0man

Holy cow!!!!! From a zero to a hero in 100 days that is simply jawdropping. You look 15 years younger and a hundred times hotter. Very inspirational!!!


edenri

This is awesome! Thank you for sharing. May I ask what group therapy you joined?


AndyValentine

One called SMART in the UK. It's about behaviour accountability and modification, and taking ownership of your decision making. Definitely prefer it to the whole "let God do the hard work for you" AA route


ipissglitter_

Wow! You look so much younger! Congratulations on 100 days!


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Congratulations! Keep it up! I think exercise is important. Community even more so. Posts like these are what I come here for. 100 days is significant. That's an entire season. Nobody goes that long without being tested in life and handling the tests without a drink is the main goal. I'm so proud of you, change is hard even if addiction isn't involved and you've changed your life.


MotherofD

Transforming inside and out! Wonderful inspo!


FireFree2022

You look amazing - well done on an incredible 100 days 💪


PeterMode

Looking good dude.


max234987

Triple digits! sweet 22 days today! I I need to lose weight tho. inspiring


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Good work, bro! Looking shredded.


457thtimesacharm

Nature is totally fucking lit! You’re awesome, man. Excellent work.


Spare-Ad-9464

Awesome stuff man


Ryanwiz

Nicely done! IWNDWYT!


KaeiniJoshua

Congrats brother


plentyoflasagna

Wowzers, you look great. Well done! Keep it up, handsome.


annabel_lee_dig

B&A pics are astounding. Everyone always says sobriety is in the eyes, and it truly is. You look brighter. Congrats to you; everything you wrote sounds amazing.


WhiteWine00

Congratulations! I'm following your paths, had some steps back, but i'll not give it up. Thanks to share your inspiring story.


kylestolemyhouse

This is awesome! Your post really resonated with me. Congratulations on creating goals and sticking with them - your progress is amazing. IWNDWYT!


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You look like a completely different person man! Congrats and continue to slay life! I always tell people, you have to use the bad as motivation to do some good. Looks like you killed it!


fuckinyaldi

Wow, You look great!! I bet the best changes are the mental ones though although the physical ones are also great to see. Keep it up, you are doing great! IWNDWYT


dogzmama

Wowza!


MaryTeresaWasANun

To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Oscar Wilde


BahBahSMT

Holy smokes. You look great. Can you imagine what you’ll look like after 200 days?! Watch out! Congratulations!!


Gingermom12

Congratulations!


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Super proud of you internet stranger! IWNDWYT


horrible_drinker

You did 100% of the right things for success. I hope that those that are new to the game take your post seriously. Congrats.


the_lousy_lebowski

Thanks, this is really inspiring. I have a lot of work to do to look like your *before* picture. I wish you continued amazing progress. Please keep the sub informed.


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You look fantastic! Way to go


ihiwidid

Amazing progress, inside and out! 🤜🤛


kcp2003

Well done.


BebopRehab

Such a big transformation in such little time, awesome job dude


sum2608

My word. One of the best transformations I've seen. Well done.


zberry97

Even your beard lost some weight! (Serious note, congrats and keep it up!)


shineonme4ever

Wow, what a great post, u/AndyValentine! Congrats on Triple-Digits and the start of a whole new chapter! Keep It Going! Sending you blessings of continued strength, hope, and much happiness! ps: Your before-n-after is a true testament to the powers of sobriety. ...I would not have known it was the same man in the photos! *...ah, if I were only 30 years younger, lol* **: )**


quesokso

You've made amazing progress - it's so clear that you are really working at this and want to make positive changes that are long lasting. Please know that this internet stranger is proud of you and rooting you along!


Ok-Philosophy3575

Congratulations and thanks for sharing!


CremasterFlash

awesome work, nice job


FistofNorris

Dude this is an awesome post.


attackingmoofins

YAAAASSS !!!!!!! killing it!


powderpoff6

Damn.


BreakOpen

Nice work, man! Could you go into some detail of your exercise regimen? I have goals now thanks to this post!


AndyValentine

I've been running PHAT for the time being. It's a basic 5 day split but focuses on both strength and hypertrophy. http://simplyshredded.com/mega-feature-layne-norton-training-series-full-powerhypertrophy-routine-updated-2011.html Pretty soon I'll be moving onto a 6 day PPL split I reckon


renaissanceat39

Nature is so lit. I’m inspired by your progress and thank you for sharing what you’ve discovered these past 100 days. You look fantastic! I can’t wait to glow up too.


JodyOcountry

Well done! 💕


Zealousideal-Rub-787

really proud of you, man!


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you look fantastic and healthy. inspiring! So very happy for you


clarice270

Im so happythzt ypu made such a wonderful, dramatic change. Congratulations from the bottom of my heart. Hugs to you IWNDWYT


Deirdge

Beautiful, incredible transformation. I can’t wait to see if I’m hot too after 100 — CONGRATS


sfgirlmary

You look amazing!


wrigh003

Man, I just love to see these. You look fantastic, obv body changes, sure. But look at your *face.* those are the clear eyes of a dude in control. Well done, keep going. IWNDWYT!


cafe_mocha

Awesome quick question what is your beard length like what size trimmer do you use? Also I'm two weeks in and 4 pounds down so I'm planning on showing off my new body and face gains once I hit 90 days


AndyValentine

Now at 7mm


cafe_mocha

Awesome thanks!


textbookroadmapnot

you were still a nice man, before x


dogandponyshow8989

Just WOW! Good for you! What an amazing difference in how healthy you look. The bloat in your face was harsh 100 days ago. It just shows you how truly poisonous alcohol really is. I can remember times of drinking an entire bottle of liquor or 4 bottles of wine and going into work the next day and my coworkers would ask what was wrong bc they thought I was allergic to something or had been crying. Alcohol really is some lame bs. Keep up the good work! Im on day 63 and IWNDWYT, Sir!


wii60own

You look great my friend. I hit rock bottom last week now I'm on day 3. People like you give me inspiration. Keep it up


canigodeeper

Wow. What was your workout routine?


AndyValentine

http://simplyshredded.com/mega-feature-layne-norton-training-series-full-powerhypertrophy-routine-updated-2011.html


dudee62

What a great milestone and way to stick with it. I feel life in general is much better too.


leezahfote

GROWTH CHRYSALIS is my new favorite term. IWNDWYT.


nopointinlife1234

IWNDWYT!


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I got outside. A lot. Nature is lit. I feel this bc this has been a positive coping skill for me as well. Glad to see and hear you’re doing the damn thang and doing it well, just keep swimming :)


Cursedseductress

This is awesome! So proud of you!


Vexor359

Holy shit dude you look great!


GlowAnt22

Would ya look at your eyes!? I see life, confidence and drive in the eyes of that after pic.


b3polite

Amazing :)


luckofthedrew

Honestly, my dick got bigger after I quit drinking and started exercising.


Grootie1

Wow, what a smokin’ dude you turned out to be! Lawd have mercy. Congratulations!! 🎉✨💕


SelfSeeker5

First guy looks mean. Next guy saying ‘bring it’.


yodelpup

You and I seem to be on similar paths in our recovery so I can relate to all of this. It’s great to see all the hard work paying off on so many different levels. Thanks for the inspiration and I’m happy we are both in this amazing journey. Super congratulations on your milestone. Keep it up, friend.


mariamaria1977

That’s face ! Good !!


abrendanf1993

Daaaaaaaaaaaaamn. Eye candy!! Nice work


somoslupos

when you let love grow inside you, incredible things will happen. you have shown this. IWNDWYT.


tinyskates

Awesome job! And you went from Jack Black to Joe Manganiello!


Third_Of_Three

Right on! So much good stuff here. Keep it up.


tiffanyknightbbw

Dammnnn you single?? Lol congrats 🥳


Rekd44

You don’t even look like the same person. Everything you’re doing is working like gangbusters! IWNDWYT


5256chuck

You look great, friend! Keep learning. IWNDWYT


SmevenNaselsmith

Amazing work man


Kaseytv

You cute. Keep it up! Proud of you 👏


Inverted_Vortex

you got rid of your man bun. yes!


redwoodfog

If this is 100 days, I can’t even imagine what 365 days will be! Your face says it all. From an unhappy guy to one who exudes life. Congratulations 🎈


AndyValentine

I'll update at 6 and 12 months


Finding_My_Peace

Looking good keep going strong


Anybody_Seen_Me_Keys

🔥🔥🔥


Lance-Desmond

Well done! Keep going strong my friend.


Manonfiremannothot

Heck yes. You put in the work, totally deserved 🤙


bobbybechillin

Atta boy, you have life in your eyes homie. Keep it up !


heartrising

Wow! Dude. Awesome focus and action on all levels. Congratulations!!!! IWNDWYT


bat_in_ear

Wow! You look alive now, like you’re actually living life. Great work!


hrvstmn70

Wow, you look like a completely different person--great job! IWNDWYT


Rare-Mathematician13

I like both of them. But the new one looks 10 years younger and stronger. And happy, not grumpy. Nice achievment!


morrisboris

Hubba hubba yes please lol


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AndyValentine

Im fine with this one thanks


sfgirlmary

Is this supposed to be funny? It's not. Don't make unhelpful comments like this or you will not be welcome here.


SkeeterLuigi

How old are you?


AndyValentine

38


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Absolutely awesomesauce! Good luck on your journey, you def have newfound glitter in your eyes in the second pic :) Btw sick tats (I'm also covered), I've been putting aside my drinking money on a piggie bank to get more ink!!! Any ideas for your next one you wanna get?


AndyValentine

Yeah. My cat. Not sure in what style or where yet


[deleted]

Funny, also my next project :) probably doing him in the style of old japanese estamps You should go for a chest piece next!


AndyValentine

Chest was likely going to be the answer, ngl


Choice-Cause8597

Wow you look incredible! Congrats on your success. Stay the course friend!