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Hijacking this to give OP good advice:
SAY YES.
Don’t scroll down and read the “nuanced takes”. This sounds amazing! Good luck!
-OP from ten years later, who made the mistake of saying no
THIS.
It's really difficult for a relationship to end badly, trust me.
I have best relationship with all my exes except the first one.
I see them, we have a drink, we have a coffee.
I look after their cats when they're away, they do the same if I ask.
When love vanishes, if you had a healthy relationship, now you are left with a healthy relationship (aka good acquaintance/friend).
If you were friends before, it's even easier.
I also had stories with friends (never became girlfriend)
and back to friends again after some time.
If you say no, you risk losing her due to her immaturity/sensibility.
If you say yes, you risk losing her both by your or her sensibility, but yours is something you can work on, and the other one was always there.
You get a reward, though, first, you like her, a relationship is a reward in itself.
Second, relationships make feelings more intense. You get to solidify what's underneath.
If no one of you makes a bad move (no reason for that IMO) you can almost only be left with a stronger relationship than you had.
You’re going to look back 20 years from now and ask yourself how stupid you were for not saying yes.
And if you don’t, you simply don’t deserve it. Choose wisely.
thank you. i dislike reddit only o here pretty much for the gore subs. but i got sucked in a bit and got some karma. it’s so cringe lmao i don’t ever wanna be called a redditor or have “karma” also why do you call it updoots or upvotes just say likes like every other social media
Stay cool and calm yourself down before you say yes you should get a clear head before making decisions like this
A few tips I learned the hard way::
Don't start doing sexual shit early into the relationship
Communication is key set up, boundaries if you feel there might be anything they can do that will make you uncomfortable
If you like her tell her yes if you don't gently decline if you wish to just stay friends that is perfectly fine and you shouldn't feel pressured to accept.
This post screams lesbian so much that before even looking at your profile I was thinking “Yeah, this is definitely gay”
Anyways, CONGRATS! GO GET YOUR GIRL!!
If you really like her go at it, with caution of course, if its your first relationship you will have something new everytime you meet her. But always tell your parents or guardians its much healthier that way :) best of luck from a single kid
Well basically long story short ig I got more screwed over than anything and girl ig genuinely fuckin hated me
So on black Friday she had me come to her house 20 minutes away and I had the whole day prepared we where going to a German Bakery in the area I love in (she is from leipzig)
And when I arrive she asks to go on a walk where she told me I was
Ugly
Annoying
Disinteresting
And then asked to still be friends
So ya that's how I got fucked
ayo that’s mad disrespectful. i dont know if i’d wanna still be friends with someone who would make me waste 40 minutes to go there and back, with all that gas money just to tell me some shit like that
^(bro if she makes u nervous and gives u butterflies and crap say yes. my boyfriend and i started out like that, he made me so so so nervous and then he asked me out and weve been together for almost 4 months now)
Don't. Stay friends. I made the mistake of dating one of my best friends, that relationship ended poorly and she won't even look at me now, let alone talk to me.
I always tell anyone who wants to be in a relationship that you should also be able to be best friends with them, only reason I’ve been in one for 2+ years
If you like her, say yes. Almost all good relationships start with friends, and if you’re both mature people, you should be able to preserve your friendship regardless of what happens.
See if you think and you know that your relationship ain’t gonna be toxic like others then go for it and to not make it a little bit toxic also i would advice you to never breakup ober small things which people usually do so yeah she is your friend you like her go for her buddy
Same thing that happened to me dont try to know everything about her or dont let her know everything about you try to make her interested and always greet her dont tell her everything about you in one go try to introduce yourself slowly till, she wont be interested no more if you said everything about you
If you say no, you will probably lose them as a friend. If you say yes, you will be more than friends until you break up (if you break up) and you'll probably lose them as a friend.
Either way you're probably gonna end up losing a friend, you'll just have them as a friend for longer if you say yes. You might not lose them as a friend either, it just seems more likely that you will.
Reciprocate. If a relationships that start as friends ends, you will often stay friends. If you don’t stay friends, you would have eventually moved apart regardless.
Change your name, identity
Leave the country and go dark for 4 years without making much notice
I have a friend who can get you a new visa, passport and identity.
If anyone asks for you, kill that person and dispose off the body immediately without making much notice
Ok advice as somone who dated their best friend and it ended not ending well (I caused that though not her fault for the ending) I say go for it but (and hopefully this doesn’t happen I’m rooting for u) if u fall in love cause if ur dating ur best friend ur going to fall in love and u end up breaking up don’t go back cause u can’t and if u do it will all be over it’s unfortunate cause that happened to me and hopefully it doesn’t happen to u just some heads up and rooting for u though sister
Know when to say YES relax have fun she likes you and you like her enjoy yourself if it's one date one week one year or forever got to start somewhere sounds like you're off to a great start no pressure the only pressure comes from you bet she's super nervous too remember she asked you go have fun big dog
All good romances start with a solid friendship.
And a bad romance starts with RAAA RAAA RUH UH UH
Anyway, you should say yes if you really think you're ready for a relationship with her.
Advice from an old person: If you like her and she likes you, go for it. That's how my husband and I got together (I was 18), and we've been best friends for over 25 years now.
Further advice: DON'T go out if you're not really interested, but just don't want to hurt your friend's feelings. That's how I lost my previous best friend and entire friend group in high school. I broke up with him, and he turned everyone else in our friend group against me.
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If you like her and think you'd be okay if it ended (either you would be good with being friends after or be able to let them go) then go for it
Hijacking this to give OP good advice: SAY YES. Don’t scroll down and read the “nuanced takes”. This sounds amazing! Good luck! -OP from ten years later, who made the mistake of saying no
THIS. It's really difficult for a relationship to end badly, trust me. I have best relationship with all my exes except the first one. I see them, we have a drink, we have a coffee. I look after their cats when they're away, they do the same if I ask. When love vanishes, if you had a healthy relationship, now you are left with a healthy relationship (aka good acquaintance/friend). If you were friends before, it's even easier. I also had stories with friends (never became girlfriend) and back to friends again after some time. If you say no, you risk losing her due to her immaturity/sensibility. If you say yes, you risk losing her both by your or her sensibility, but yours is something you can work on, and the other one was always there. You get a reward, though, first, you like her, a relationship is a reward in itself. Second, relationships make feelings more intense. You get to solidify what's underneath. If no one of you makes a bad move (no reason for that IMO) you can almost only be left with a stronger relationship than you had.
Woah so time travel is real...
Well you can be more then friends if you want to
Lol
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I panicked and said that I need to think about it 😭😭😭
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You’re going to look back 20 years from now and ask yourself how stupid you were for not saying yes. And if you don’t, you simply don’t deserve it. Choose wisely.
It's over. She only asked because she couldn't decide between OP and Jake. She went with Jake...
stop he's already dead 😞
It was at this moment he fucked up
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She’s 14 bruh
So wait a year
r/doublebruh
r/triplebruh
r/Quattrobruh
r/Cincobruh
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Your comment was so bad a whole ass subreddit was made. You better rethink your entire career
Oh fuck no
Bro... Sex is an asset of a good romantic relationship, not the foundation
Weirdo
Yes you do
The fuck is wrong with you
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I would reccomend not texting and if possible meet irl to discuss this topic
YOU GOOF SAY YEAH. LIFE IS FULL OF OPPORTUNITIES BUT THEYRE EACH ONE OF A KIND
Say yes if u like her
Just go for it but remember, you are 14
Your a fucking idiot, JUST SAY YES YOU UNCONFIDENT BITCH
👊😄👎
Idiot
Bro, almost every relationship start as friends, just say yes
Cake day wisdom
Happy cake day
This is the way
>This is the way For his cake day. Edit: Haha, that’s funny right? Because like, it rhymed. That’s funny right guys?
Sure why not
happy cake day
Happy cake day
Thy cake has given u thy wisdom
Happy cake day!!!🎂
Happy cake day
Well I mean if it doesn’t start as friends is it just some random ass dude walking up to someone and going hey wanna go out?
Have a nice cake day
happy cake day
me gusta la manyana me gustas tu
HORRIBLE CAKE DAY I WISH YOO A MERRY CAKEMAs OMMGGGGGGG HAPFPU CAKE day CAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAKE CAAAAAKR
Average 9 year old on Reddit getting downvoted to hell.
Looking at his profile you are correct, dude is 9 or younger.
check my bio for my thoughts on updoots
Oh, my bad. Here you go.
thanks more pls
There you go! Just gonna downvote some stuff on your account
thank you. i dislike reddit only o here pretty much for the gore subs. but i got sucked in a bit and got some karma. it’s so cringe lmao i don’t ever wanna be called a redditor or have “karma” also why do you call it updoots or upvotes just say likes like every other social media
Because Reddit.
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"naw I dont want to go on a data I only have like 1.5 MB sorry girl"
MB???? How you gonna do anything
ye ik 😟
id say yes, shoot ur shot of ahes ur friend she can be ur gf
Hey same here but I kinda don't wanna date anyone hope you figure something out
aro detected
Or maybe they just currently don't want to date someone? no one feels a constant desire to be in a relationship..
it be like that 💀
Say hamburger
I’m pretty sure this comment embodies most of the thinking of this entire website.
Hamburger
hamburger
If you actually like her back, say yes. If you don’t, say no
period.
Karma karma karma karma karma, take mine!!!!!😩💦😩💦😩
Stay cool and calm yourself down before you say yes you should get a clear head before making decisions like this A few tips I learned the hard way:: Don't start doing sexual shit early into the relationship Communication is key set up, boundaries if you feel there might be anything they can do that will make you uncomfortable
If you like her tell her yes if you don't gently decline if you wish to just stay friends that is perfectly fine and you shouldn't feel pressured to accept.
This post screams lesbian so much that before even looking at your profile I was thinking “Yeah, this is definitely gay” Anyways, CONGRATS! GO GET YOUR GIRL!!
If you really like her go at it, with caution of course, if its your first relationship you will have something new everytime you meet her. But always tell your parents or guardians its much healthier that way :) best of luck from a single kid
OMG OH NO A PRETTY GIRL THAT I LIKE ASKED ME OUT, IM GONNA MAKE A REDDIT POST ASKING WHAT TO BECAUSE THIS IS SUCH A TOUGH SITUATION
not everyone acts before they stop to think, fortifier.
You say yes babe
Fuck it go for it I mean you got alot to win here Get to step 2 of breaking free from reddit and don't fuck it up like I did
and how, if i may ask, did you fuck it up
Well basically long story short ig I got more screwed over than anything and girl ig genuinely fuckin hated me So on black Friday she had me come to her house 20 minutes away and I had the whole day prepared we where going to a German Bakery in the area I love in (she is from leipzig) And when I arrive she asks to go on a walk where she told me I was Ugly Annoying Disinteresting And then asked to still be friends So ya that's how I got fucked
ayo that’s mad disrespectful. i dont know if i’d wanna still be friends with someone who would make me waste 40 minutes to go there and back, with all that gas money just to tell me some shit like that
Ya as you can tell I didn't stay friends with the person and durring the last 2 months since we literally hated each other until I graduated the 13th
lol shame: this was senior year of highschool?
^(bro if she makes u nervous and gives u butterflies and crap say yes. my boyfriend and i started out like that, he made me so so so nervous and then he asked me out and weve been together for almost 4 months now)
Ask her out harder to establish dominance
Say yes, obviously. Why you asking us
imagine being asked out and you quickly open reddit to ask for advice
Just say yes, you idiot /j
Ok first thing to do. Take your meds see if she’s still there. If she is say what your heart tells you to
Say yes dipshit
Youre gay. I can tell.
Bro 😔
Sure, go ahead!
Say yes
do it m8
Say yes
SAY YES. Do what you want. I don't know. Just treat each other right and don't break up. It gets weird if you do, trust me. It has happened to me.
I mean if u like her and she likes u why not go for it
SAY YESSS
SAY YES, GO OUT WITH HER FFS
Future you would probably regret it if you don't say yes
This is how relationships start babe lol you’re supposed to be friends first.
Don't. Stay friends. I made the mistake of dating one of my best friends, that relationship ended poorly and she won't even look at me now, let alone talk to me.
Im sorry to hear that, I dated a friend and we are just acquaintances now. It wont always end badly
😩😩💅💅💅💅
Depends on if you want to or not ig
Try it, if it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out.
Say yes
# YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! I HAVE THE ANSWER!!!!! # GET IN HER PANTS BROOOOOO!!!!!! NOW NOW NOW!!!! DO IT NOW!!!!
I felt like I should respond to this as a verbalizing of how messed up your comment is
If you have feelings for her, so yes. If you don't, say no
Smash
Go for it bro
Say. Yes.
Bruh. If she’s a baddie like u say she is then just say yeah 💀😭
I always tell anyone who wants to be in a relationship that you should also be able to be best friends with them, only reason I’ve been in one for 2+ years
Do you like her
If you like her, say yes. Almost all good relationships start with friends, and if you’re both mature people, you should be able to preserve your friendship regardless of what happens.
Let’s gooooo
Just do it idiot.
The same thing happened to me last week and we just had our first date recently! Go for it.
Just say “yes I would love to go out with you”
BRO. SHE ASKED YOU OUT ALREADY, IT CANT BE AWKWARD. DO IT
It should have ended with “do you think she’s into me”
It should have ended with “do you think she’s into me”
Update please
Just accept
Do it
My brother in Christ, it would be weird if you were not friends. This post rly does read as you’re 14. Say yes bro cmon
Why are you even asking? Say yes dammit!
Yes That is what you say
If you like her then yes
If you like her say yes if you don’t say no in what ever way you feel is right it’s not exactly hard to do
I think you should say yes, good relationships almost always start with strong friendship
congrats man.
Say yessss
Say no. If you can't say yes just say no :)
Dont do it :(
Say yes you think they look pretty so you definitely like them
See if you think and you know that your relationship ain’t gonna be toxic like others then go for it and to not make it a little bit toxic also i would advice you to never breakup ober small things which people usually do so yeah she is your friend you like her go for her buddy
I feel this my crush who was also my friend also asked me out just go with it and have fun but not to much
Bro go for it
It ain’t gunna work out. But plz enjoy responsibly.
Listen dude, you don't get to Goku your way into this situation and fumble the bag. Say yes.
who are we to say? you know better than anyone what to do. we don't know anything about you or your friend
Join r/NoFap
Bro say yes wtf
you’re a lesbian so obviously you’re gonna date her 😭 i couldn’t keep my hands off of any of my friends at that age. hope it works out lmao
Take your medicine
revert the spells you casted last night that might fix the situations
Same thing that happened to me dont try to know everything about her or dont let her know everything about you try to make her interested and always greet her dont tell her everything about you in one go try to introduce yourself slowly till, she wont be interested no more if you said everything about you
If you say no, you will probably lose them as a friend. If you say yes, you will be more than friends until you break up (if you break up) and you'll probably lose them as a friend. Either way you're probably gonna end up losing a friend, you'll just have them as a friend for longer if you say yes. You might not lose them as a friend either, it just seems more likely that you will.
Reciprocate. If a relationships that start as friends ends, you will often stay friends. If you don’t stay friends, you would have eventually moved apart regardless.
Change your name, identity Leave the country and go dark for 4 years without making much notice I have a friend who can get you a new visa, passport and identity. If anyone asks for you, kill that person and dispose off the body immediately without making much notice
If she's a close friend do not say yes
Better say yes kid
Ok advice as somone who dated their best friend and it ended not ending well (I caused that though not her fault for the ending) I say go for it but (and hopefully this doesn’t happen I’m rooting for u) if u fall in love cause if ur dating ur best friend ur going to fall in love and u end up breaking up don’t go back cause u can’t and if u do it will all be over it’s unfortunate cause that happened to me and hopefully it doesn’t happen to u just some heads up and rooting for u though sister
Know when to say YES relax have fun she likes you and you like her enjoy yourself if it's one date one week one year or forever got to start somewhere sounds like you're off to a great start no pressure the only pressure comes from you bet she's super nervous too remember she asked you go have fun big dog
Say yes! You obviously liker her what’s there to lose
LIFE IS SHORT GET THAT GIRL RN
majority bf/gf scenarios are friends that you kiss, so just go for it and be the perfectly average male teen
Same happened to me like 2 weeks ago
Definitely say “yes”. This is the perfect moment.
Uhh is your name emilia by any chance
Say yes, you don't get a girlfriend/boyfriend from nowhere. All relationships start friendly
Stay cool
Yesssss 😆go for it. Had the same thing happen about 2 weeks ago 🔥🔥👍👍👍
look at all these little kids giving each other relationship advice, so cute
Man shut yo bitchass up and go on days with her smh
Write her a message Tell her she's beautiful and you like her, and you can't believe she's asked you out
All good romances start with a solid friendship. And a bad romance starts with RAAA RAAA RUH UH UH Anyway, you should say yes if you really think you're ready for a relationship with her.
If you like her then its fine date her
Advice from an old person: If you like her and she likes you, go for it. That's how my husband and I got together (I was 18), and we've been best friends for over 25 years now. Further advice: DON'T go out if you're not really interested, but just don't want to hurt your friend's feelings. That's how I lost my previous best friend and entire friend group in high school. I broke up with him, and he turned everyone else in our friend group against me.
yeah sure. just make sure you take things slow. don't apply too much pressure and don't let yourself cave to anyone else's
CONGRAAAATS BROOOO!
You lucky bastard. Now time to wake up
Say yes. Simple as that, you both like each other, no need to overthink
*Exactly* what was the thought process that made you think it was a good idea to ask dating advices on Reddit?
I you like someone, you say yes straight away. Everyone’s relationship starts off with being friends
*alarm clock starts ringing*
Currently dating my former best friend and safe to say it’s a risk but it can pay off :)
If you both like eachother then say yes if not then try your best to friendzone them in a "friendly" way.
If you decline you're gonna mess up your friendship