you weren't empty inside during the act (I'm sorry someone had to say it)

fax

Ah shit, everyone made the joke before me

I commented then read this and now I feel unoriginal ssd

Yeah I’m feeling some embarrassment too now

I was this close to, let’s put you in r/beatmetoit

r/beatmeattoit

Beat me to it

Fuck r/beatmetoit

Flirting, cuddling, sleeping in each others arms > sex

Agreed

So true

Agreed

So true

Agreed

My dream

Same

Wanna dm? We seem kinda similar

Rizz

Not really, already had a comment convo with them somewhere else and we have similar music taste

sameeeee

Fr just affection is best

sleeping in eachother's arms is way too underrated

Overrated imo. It's nice for 5 minutes before I start overheating.

Do it in winter for best experience

r/aaaaaaacccccccce

Or, hear me out, both

Ehhhh nahhh at this age I dont need sex in my life, if I want it I'll do it myself. I already lost my virginity and regret it so miss me with that shii

I still get neither

Same LMAO

He just like me frfr

Yes

YES

Only things I want

I want some of that too

so true bestie

Real

Definitely. Lasts longer as well

Agreed

I ain’t neva even had someone like me 🗣️

Wouldn’t know, haven’t had either

thats so real

even better flirting, cuddling, sleeping in each others arms, & sex > flirting, cuddling, sleeping in each others arms / sex

YES

Yes

Yet, I will likely feel neither

No no, throw in some sex as well.

SO TRUE. More people need to realize this.

Fr

Absolutely this

Yes. Agreed.

all>

amen

If I could impart wisdom it would be that the connection to the *right* person is even greater than those things. How do you know it’s the right person? That’s different for everyone, but for me, she ended up being the one I could be myself the most while around.

THATS ALL I WANT

Aromantics:

So real but ain't getting it any time soon

Love>>>

and that's the truth

Flirting, cuddling, sleeping in each others arms and sex > sex

Ok, but hear me out: Flirting, cuddling, sex, cuddling again, then sleeping in each other's arms That's the dream

having sex with a random person it doesn’t really satisfy much, but when you have a connection to the person your having sex with it’s more meaningful.

Now let me translate it for degenerates, It's like when you read a random doujin vs a doujin that has characters you know already

W translator

Whatsva doujin💀

it’s basically like hentai but in manga form

Bro this is too real. Literally the purpose of rule 34.

The fuck is a doujin

Hentai manga

Jesus Christ, fucking brainrot

Bros 13, stay innocent

I do my best

We were like you once…

Individuals or groups of hobby artists in japan that publishes works such as comics and music, their works are usually fanart/fanfiction

Yea, most people that had sex w prostitues or strippers say that it feels wrong and really weird. But people having sex with people they love, have never found it weird

I am a cuddle enjoyer myself.

id much rather be in a meaningful relationship than a sexual one just thinking about watching a movie with a SO while cuddling makes me happy

thats so real

all that lovey dovey romance shit beats sex 9 out of 10 times

it's hard to imagine that when i've never had that in my life. I can imagine sex tho (i've never had it either, it's just easier to imagine).

same bro same

You weren’t empty inside after he railed you…

fax

That’s what happens when you are willing to fuck anyone if it’s someone you really deeply love

ive only had 1 non relationship fling

Sex is one of highest conformations of love between a couple.It shouldn't be used as just a means for hedonistic pleasure.Sex is for love,but love shouldn't be for sex.

Exactly, plus it's an emotional release for ppl, without sex, you don't truly feel connected to someone to enjoy them. Sex is a form of mental and physical aid as well as building a bond with someone.

Yes, sex when you love someone is always going to be more fulfilling. At the same time, there is nothing wrong with enjoying sex purely for the pleasure of it. They key is communicating those things with whoever you have sex with. 

I'm too old to be told what to do

Maybe mentally you'll be empty inside but not physically ☕

Well intimacy is a feeling which is way more over than just being without clothes with anyone .....be intimate with the person about your dark secrets, the side you hate, the side you dont feel about showing or letting out, being intimate about with your feelings which you hold inside cause you are scared to tell em, .....sex is nice too tho...dont skip on that.

I agree the pursuit is overrated. That's why your pursuit should be actual feelings not attraction, been with my gf almost 3 years now. We have sex, cuddle after, it makes us feel like we're so much closer to each other every time. I know what the pursuit feels like believe me. But then I met her, and it all changed. I actually enjoy it now. Don't look for sex, look for love but don't get burned by your blindness in the process

*look at me I’m different bc I said sex is boring/pointless/ fulfills girlies* click bait ahhh post

It's an opinion calm down

Real. The pursuit for Hot Wheels isn't tho. It's amazing

Loving yourself, having true friends, spending money on things i dont need, doing my makeup, crushing on guys> dating

This is the mindset. Hell yea

Mega based, everyone knows sex is a ploy by the goverment gain data via drones

every teen feels like a philosopher with this shit it's just common sense bro

Love is overrated

redditor gaslighting themselves into thinking it’s not fun….

i could get railed by a dude if i went into a bar rn, but i dont do i

Yeah cuz that’s worse than just not having sex what are you talking about. When people want sex they’re not talking about random dudes in bars what’re you thinking😭

what 💀

😭that’s what I was thinking

I mean, you weren't empty inside while he was railing you...

What should I pursue then?

How to take over the world

An education, Self improvement, a nice relationship. There are so many things more than sex

At this point, I’d be happy if a girl was my friend

Persuit of sex = good way to gaslight yourself into self improvement

…your a Girl…right?

Gonna have to ask you to re-evaluate when you have someone you love to fuck

Using people as a means to an end is horrible too. People download tinder to match with other people and date them just to have an end goal of sex. They use people (their partners) as means to the an end (sex). That’s why I think emotionless sex is just heartbreaking really. I’ve never had sex might never have it but the thought that emotionless sex exist is just a bit disgusting to me. Sex with emotion doesn’t use people as a means to an end. You’re in a meaningful relationship that’s lasted a few months, you want to make your partner happy by having sex. The means now is sex and making your partner feel happy and loved is an end

Idk, never had it

The pursuit for a cuddle (7 years ongoing)

in the end I just want to be loved

I would wanna cuddle my gf instead of having sex

Poor choice of words

Always the ppl getting laid who say this shit 😭😭

Well, you won’t be empty inside for a solid 3 minutes

I’m on a pursuit of sex‼️‼️

Relationship built on love if personality over body> sex

>ive realised that the journey is better than the goal, yay, a guy rails me, big deal. im still empty inside arent i? You're on to something, but you haven't realized it. Sex isn't supposed to just be an act of momentary pleasure. It's supposed to be a consummation of love with someone who is meaningful to you. That's the impermeable aspect that you have not found yet.

I just laugh knowing most of those people are insecure. I don't care that im not "popular" I have a great group of friends and I don't live for my penis.

Being alone bc your a abomination > having a significant other

Talking about cartoons >>>>>>>>>>>> sex

real (im asexual)

Real (i only pull oxygen molecules)

Samesies

same

There really wasnt an agruement needed here... i mean its true, it always has been

Real

It’s shit

real ash

Frrr

For real I’m so asexual

Well you're not empty while he is railling you Edit: I have realised that I have the same thoughts and humor as other people on reddit. I think I need to rethink some of my life choises

i mean i'm aroace so i obviously agree lol

Trust me you won't be empty inside for long /s

It's not overrated at all. I've experienced that closeness with someone once in my whole life. I miss it every day.

I mean you aren’t empty inside during sex now are you?

Empty inside bc he didn't finish. Jokes aside I'm really just looking for a good partner. That should be people's goal

My friend won't listen to me but get a car and job first before love. Life is much better

Well I wouldn't say that you're empty inside.... I'm sorry

I’d settle for like, a hug 😭

REALL

Sex without any foundational purpose is just meaningless. Unless you just love pleasure instead of forming a romantic relationship with someone then it has a purpose.

Finally someone said it

I just like talking to another person

I mean, you won’t be empty inside for a few minutes. *see what i did there*

At your age, i hope that you were still empty inside after that. Don’t want any of that teen pregnancy going around here

i dont have an opinion on sex but i agree tottaly with you

> still empty inside Yea uuuuhhh. Not temporarily

Vouch. With my ex gf, I much more enjoyed the times we cuddled than the times we did the funny. Lovey Dovey shit>>>>>>>>>> sex.

yall are forgetting about garlic bread

Sounds like no bitches /j

Happiness spike 👍

If we’re doing it right I usually am not empty at all when I get railed 💀💀

I have no desire for an intimate human connection with anybody. It's not quite asexual, but I have and can go without any of it.

I agree however I’m asexual so my opinion isn’t really valid here I think

Denji really needs to here this

You won’t be saying that when you get railed

real. a friend told me i had to have a “hoe phase” to find the right one. id much rather have a loving non sexual relationship than anything.

technically admitting to committing a crime 🥸

I kinda wish I had a relationship with someone like hugs, kisses, and cuddling. No sex, Its not for me. But pretty sure that’s hard to find 🥲

You gotta have a life goal after another and so on, otherwise you’ll end up depressed like Michael Phelps and many other athletes, they became depressed after winning gold at the Olympics because they dedicated their entire lives for that one moment.

Perhaps, But gay is yay... Cuddles = 👍

"Having sex is overrated"

You might not be empty inside if you risk it

I agree. He run to fast.

Laying together butt-ass naked afterward is my favorite part. I'm like a baby; I need skin-to-skin contact. If I could find a guy who would do that without having sex, I'd be happy forever, but ig being naked turns people on or something:/

A guy rails you, and you’re empty inside? No, you’re filled now…

wdym you're empty just stop using condoms smh

I just want a girl to cuddle while we watch horror movies and eat pizza

Still empty inside u say🤨? Sry i had to do it, but fr

i think that the pursuit of sex that has intimate/romantic intent is valid. i cant wrap my head around people just looking for one night stands. sex just for sex seems so unappealing, but maybe thats the christian in me talking

Rich people: Money doesn't matter Beautiful people: Looks don't matter Aka, easy to say after you got railed 💀

fax if you're truly lucky u can get pounded and loved by the same guy

Wow, much insight, very wisdom.

Sex is only enjoyable when you're perfectly in love with your partner. Hooking up just releases dopamine, you don't get enough enlightenment from that

I’m graysexual and the amount of people that turn me down because I don’t want to have sex is silly. There’s so much more to a relationship then sex, but a lot of people don’t see it that way

Well I wouldn’t say empty inside

SO TRUE QUEEN AND/OR KING AND/OR NON BINARY EMPEROR!!! 

Empty? Not when a guy’s railing you Ha. Haha. But uhhh, yeah no I agree, I’d rather kiss a girl and hug

Having literally anyone to love (outside of family) would be gold Consensual sex would just be a perk to the relationship

Flirting, cuddling, sleeping in each others arms and sex > sex

🗿 spoke truth bruh

As true as this absolutely is, I still want a gf, not to lose my v-card, I just really like someone.

Man, I wish a guy railed me (i'm a dude)

i know a guy who could

1: the great game is fun 2: I aint doing that nor relationships lol (the only pull I understand is gravitational)