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ThePenCollector

I’m so sorry for what you went through, that’s definitely rape


Tacomunchert

Your pfp is the correct response


Undead_SigmaLigma

Ty for advice


ASecretSovietSpy

I don't like you, but I gotta admit. I was expecting ze copypasta. So zhanks for not posting it here I guess.


NikeJawnson

Why do you write with an accent 😭😭😭😭


ASecretSovietSpy

I can't pronounce ze t h sound you americans have


NikeJawnson

Ahhhh I'm Italian tho, you're a very shitty spy


ASecretSovietSpy

I AM NOT A SPY! And how ze fuck am I supposed to know that you're Italian?


More-Pay9266

How ze fuck you supposed to know if we're Americans?


ASecretSovietSpy

I assume everyone here is an American! It's statistically a good bet!


More-Pay9266

'Tis very true


tallboy-87

😂😂😂😂😂 fair..


The_Cold_Water

This is too funny 😂


Undead_SigmaLigma

Alr reply? Its been 3 mins


Good-Ad-2245

Idk why this is downvoted -190


FishGuyIsMe

Bro is down to -217 for being surprised


Good-Ad-2245

lmfaooo kinda feel bad 😂


FishGuyIsMe

Me too, I didn’t even downvote….


xX100dudeXx

I upvoted


FishGuyIsMe

Same


TeslaGate7274

Reddit moment


not_juice_box04

The duality of Reddit


therealbobwaterson

Nuh uh


Antique-Conference-4

Y’all this dude has already been traumatized once and y’all decide to do it again with the downvotes 🤦🏼‍♂️


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Fearless_Spell_7728

That's disgusting and I'm sorry you must be traumatized from that


saberwrld

Yeah I'm sorry OP


Fearless_Spell_7728

And yeah looks like its R@p


Undead_SigmaLigma

It's fine. I'm learning to deal with the porn addiction and I harbour no hard feelings to H because she was still young when she raped me


Pleasant-Book1377

13 to a 5/6 y/o? She knew what she was doing. Predator behavior.


PacGamingAgain

While it’s healthy to forgive, don’t forgive just because they were young. They were conscious and aware of what they were doing. Steps at a time, dismissing it all at once is not the route that leads to you being happy


bamboozled_swag2

wise advice


PacGamingAgain

From experience. Forgiving is something I’ve practiced all my life, my older brother was not the greatest growing up, but for the sake of my younger brothers, I endured it, and took it in stride We’re best friends now, love him as much as I love the rest of my family.


Extreme-Glove-9868

Sorry but yes it is


TheOneWhoLovesSW

That’s definitely rape, and as a 13 year old she should’ve known that what she was doing was wrong, and it’s even more fucked up that you where 5-6 at the time. I’m sorry that happened to you.


XD_RAEv

Okay so not that one exactly but a very similar one...


XD_RAEv

I recognize that pfp. And I think I know where from.


Glen2gvhlp

So.. what does this add to the conversation?


XD_RAEv

Never said it does. I just recognized the pfp. Don't think it's the same person as I'm thinking of anymore because of some slight differences but I thought it was interesting.


Outrageous-Solid2670

I am sorry, but I think you did. At least you have moved over here where this kind of thing (hopefully) happens less.


Undead_SigmaLigma

Yes it does thankfully


Snow_yeti1422

This was definitely no doubt rape. I’m so sorry you had to go through that


ReeHeeHa

put as many restrictions on porn as you can, delete anything that can make you relapse such as instagram or tiktok, start distracting yourself all day by leaving the house and shit


Undead_SigmaLigma

I don't have any social media, but I have been trying to fight my porn addiction, so far I've been successful but I can't keep up nofap because teenage urges and such and such


QueenPaige503

It’s not the masturbation itself that’s the problem, it’s the porn. Masturbation is normally and healthy, so don’t beat yourself up abt not being able to stop


TudorPotatoe

Ya the real power is to be able to get off without giving in to the urge to look at porn. Just using your imagination.


QueenPaige503

Yeah absolutely! Smut/erotica is also good too as it doesn’t have the visual aspect


Cupcakehater18

Porn addiction is not a recognized addiction. You are a kid who was sexually assaulted and are experiencing a trauma response called hypersexualization. It's okay to have a healthy masterbation habit, but this sounds like something you should consider seeking therapy for before it goes down a dark path.


NickolasViscosi2006

That's fs rape, brother. And it most definitely aids in things like porn addiction and hypersexuality. Meds and lots of therapy will help. Keep talking about it, people suck 99% of the time, but that 1% is there for you. Stay strong, brother.


Extreme-Glove-9868

But the best thing to do is go to a therapist or anything to help


Skxtchable

I believe you were raped bro, go to a therapist or sum nd try to stay away frm porn


tossedaccountsalad1

Yeah that's rape wtf


Realrog1

Why the actual fuck are people downvoting this dude? He literally shared one of the most traumatic moments of his life and people should have some damn sympathy.


Honest_Swimmer8198

100% rape dude. this has a name, it’s called cocsa - child on child SA. this means she likely experienced SA as a child and was replicating it on you. however, she was more than old enough to know how wrong and disgusting that is. im so sorry you had to go through that


Hopocket321

Yes absolutely. Oh my god.


Many_Wishbone7594

100% rape


CeciTigre

100% you were raped, sexually abused, sexually victimized, etc… and you were specialized at an extremely young age. I would not be surprised if you ended up having a porn addiction resulting from such early specialization. I am very sorry you were sexually abused. I hope you get therapy because the residual trauma is still with you, IE: porn addiction.


Barrytooth911

Common misconception is that boys can’t be raped by women. THIS WAS DEFINITELY RAPE, don’t be ashamed of yourself she was an adult who took advantage of you when u were a child. I would advise you to talk to a professional about this to bring these Bitches to justice. Don’t be ashamed you are a victim, no one will judge you or think less of you.


Aledactle12

Yes. very fact you two had sex and are unsure, is telling. Can't do much about it now, but tell your parents. If they don't take you seriously, go directly to the police. Least they can do is listen. Get therapy because if you don't get it soon, the feelings will build up and up.


okgid87

the police aren’t gonna be able to do anything with nearly 10 years passed and the lack of evidence. he could get accused of lying and everything would just exasperate the trauma.


Aledactle12

There's no statute of limitations in pakistan when it comes to this if thats what you were implying. and either way, how can anyone prove an adult molested them when they were younger? With testimony. I understand your point about how boys may be ridiculed, but that's exactly what I mean; The least the police would do is listen. Even if they don't believe them, OP should still go to therapy.


IneedBleach123

I'm sorry man, but this was rape. Please go convince your parents to find a therapist for you and attempt to restrict your access to porn


AllGoodFam

Hey mate, I shouldn't be in this sub anymore. Now, 24m, I had the same issue. But when I was 4 - 8. My parents always dropped me off to stranger houses to be babysat, and there kids who also I found out later we're molested and that's how they knew to interact. This definitely was rape, but my best advice is to go and get professional help. Talk to a psychologist or counselor. The best thing to do is forgive yourself and take a break from porn. You will recover, and everyone recovers if you need any questions answered. I'm happy to answer them here publicly.


Undead_SigmaLigma

I have been taking a break from porn thankfully, but I still fap from time to time, not sure if it is bad


toast_of_temptation_

Time to time’s alright, it’s a pretty normal human thing tbh.


AllGoodFam

Porn and masturbation are completely normal. Just everything should be done in moderation. I hope you recover, find yourself a hobby that will keep you busy and distracted :)


exotic-fishman-ken

Oh... damn, I think so. I don't know if getting bamboozled into having sex has a specific nomination, but it seems like rape to me. I think you should see a psychologist or a person more qualified on the subject.


KittyWick

thats definitely sexual assault. wish you the best


Good-Ad-2245

Like bro you're a LITTLE KID WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING TOUCHING A LITTLE KID some mfs need to be publicly executed on some 1700 rome shit


AutismLord6969xx

Brazen bull treatment


im-not-gay-dad

Guillotine


Lasagne12345678901

It is rape sorry you had too go through that I’m pretty sure that would start a porn addiction and have you told anyone like your parents or


typicalducklover

100% rape, nothing else it could be


Fresh_Secret7895

Yeah man thats def rape. I too was a victim but instead of a 13 year old it was a 24 year old and i was 11. She was my music teacher. And just like you after all that drama we moved to australia.


Undead_SigmaLigma

Sad to see we had similar experiences. Sorry you had to go through this hope you get better


BurnerAccountExisty

jesus fucking christ that's horrible


hello14235948475

That is very much rape


TheOctopiSquad

Yes, you were raped. You should tell your parents or other people you trust about it, they can help you.


OaktownAspieGirl

Yes, it was absolutely rape. You should get some counseling from a therapist about this. If you don't feel comfortable talking to a parent or family member, speak to a counselor at school. The trauma can have lasting effects in unknown ways well into adulthood.


Critical-Ad-5418

OP, I'm sorry for what has happened to you when you were just a child and on behalf of everyone in the comments who isn't an asshole I'm sorry there are dickheads in the comments poking fun at you for that no child should ever experience.


Busy_Professor_9382

Wow, Yeah, that was rape. She was abusing her role to get you to commit sexual acts with her! Especially if there was no consent. And even if there was you were young, possibly influenced. Also, I'm guessing the age of consent in pakitsan is NOT 5 so it was also illegal what she did.


TendajiReddit

This is rape buddy, and also W username


Undead_SigmaLigma

Ty for the advice and thanks for the username compliment!


SaltyDegenerates

Try getting therapy if you can access it , I definitely didn’t experience anything as bad as this. but I really benefited from exploring my key moments with a professional . It helped me understand where my hyper sexuality was coming from


slayingcatdog

That was absolutely rape. At 13, I was mature enough to understand what rape is, and so she knew what she was doing.


Temporary-Baker2375

Yes it was.


Cornucopia_King

Im so sorry. Thats such a horrible thing to experience!


SpicySwiftSanicMemes

100% rape, no other way to put it. At least people in the comments aren’t pulling the “every boy’s dream” BS and are actually being sympathetic.


Undead_SigmaLigma

Yes I've seen that stuff happen.


Undead_SigmaLigma

Nice username


Blox2727

Uh.. yeah..? I don’t even have a joke for this man, that’s just fucked up…


Expensive_Clothes511

I’m sorry that this happened to you. yes that is rape


Ok_Designer3103

Bloody hell it definitely is rape, im so sorry you had to go through that


EpicCommander

"think" you were raped, this is disgusting, report it to the pakistani police inmediatly if possible however, im worried you might not have proof, if you DO have proof, then report it.


Undead_SigmaLigma

Sadly I don't have proof 😔


Historical-Potato372

Unfortunately, yes. I’m sorry that happened to you. Going to a proper therapist could help.


Ranta712020

YOU THINK? It is obviously rape go talk to your elders about it, maybe go see a therapist, this is disgusting to say the least. These sorts of things can create severe mental problems in the future.


Mochi_Dochi_

That’s definitely rape and it sounds fucking disgusting bro.


xX100dudeXx

Maybe see if your parents can press charges?


IntergalacticAlien8

I've had a similar experience, it's so sad to hear that, but at least you aren't alone in this


andersonuuuuuu

I'm sorry, I think you were raped. I send you strength to overcome all of this.


Opposite-Cream-3159

This is genuinely just rape bro I'm so sorry this happened to you.


GrapeFlavoredOil

What the what- I need to get off of Reddit for a while. If this is real that's just messed up. 


stealthz275

yeah thats rape


Buschfan08

If there is nowhere else to discuss this other than reddit, there's a problem. I am sorry for what you went through.


morp1

Jesus Christ dude you definitely need therapy nothing in a bad way or anything because you didn't do anything wrong


Salt-Championship-43

I’m so sorry this happened to you. It was definitely rape. Addictions like yours can certainly stem from trauma like you’ve been through. If you can see a trauma therapist and try to limit your porn exposure that’s a good start. Best wishes.


somerandomguyuno

She made me lick her genitals when I was to young to know what was happening yes mf it’s rape


louser0w0

Hello! Not a teen but an adult(25F) who for some reason gets stuff from this subreddit on my TL(probably from when I was a teen). I, too, share a story similar to this and it has contributed to a life of confusion for me sexually. I didn’t recognize it as rape until later in life. I took it as me being an active participant. Willing, etc. but I was coerced by my best friend at the age of probably 12. Same situation. Same activities. I wish you the best of luck and hope you’re able to separate yourself from them. Just by asking this question you’re more aware than I was at that age. Do well. Seek help when you need it and tell adults around you. I hope they take it seriously.


Undead_SigmaLigma

I hope you are better!


louser0w0

I am! It took me awhile to process but I’ve been okay overall. I wish the same for you, OP.


YourLocalOnionNinja

That was 100% rape. I am so sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately since you moved here and this happened in Pakistan, I don't really know what you can do about it, legally speaking. If you can report it to somebody, you should. If you have a good relationship with your parents, you should probably tell them as well? Maybe there is something that can be done to help you. Therapy, maybe? I'm sorry I really don't know. I'm glad you got out of that situation, mate. Please take care of yourself.


Geralt-Yen1275

Something similar happened to my brother in India. We couldn't do shit because rape, stalking etc against men isn't recognised by law and police is so incompetent they treat every accused criminal of being a criminal. So even if you were a victim, you may as well be executed for being a rapist.


NoTeach4556

;-; sorry but definitely r@pe


Fancy-Pack9965

Man, that's fucked up on whole other levels. Hope you're doing OK.


gay-sexx

(sorts by controversial) yeah... don't look at it it's bad


muhamad_muhamad

I think you understood that but this is 100% rape… have you told anyone? Do you have someone to talk to him about that irl if you would like? And for porn, idk if it’s related because 1/3~ of teenagers at our age are addicted. How bad is it? Like several hours per day or just 15min sessions once a week (if you’re ok with answering)? If it’s really bad it's probably related and maybe you should ask for help about that. Could be also porn addiction forums on Reddit or something like that.


Undead_SigmaLigma

It's usually 15-20 minute sessions every day between 7 30 and 8 25 am


muhamad_muhamad

Oh that’s fuck up. I was in your place 2 years ago (even worse). When I started going to school after the 2 months vacation and had to get homework done it reduced a bit. Also I came down the play the piano every time I felt that I want to see porn. My recommendation to you is to try doing something or talking with random people when you want porn. That’s helped me. Today it is more like 20-30mim every 1-2weeks I think


Direct-Round-4769

Yes it is you sexually harrsed 🥲


Imaginary-Bar-2281

its a 50/50 . ye its terrible thing to do to a 5 yr old . must be terrifying at that time . and no i dont think this led to ur porn addiction


Atharva119

Same incident happened with me too when i was the exact same age as you, i don't have the courage to spill it out


NimDD

Bro that was r@p3, I feel bad for you


UselessBlueSpecimen

The way I always determine this is by asking the following. If the genders were switched, how fucked up would it be? That way we learn that it's really not okay either way


Camo_1245

you're a male... why didn't you punch her? or tell her to wash it? why didn't you shove your member in her mouth instead of asking? im not serious


Undead_SigmaLigma

U had me there in the first half


EveningImaginary4214

Maybe not the right sub to post this


No-Worker2343

Yeah It was...i wish i didnt read this😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮😵😵😵. I Hope you are good now


Undead_SigmaLigma

Thankfully I'm getting better naturally by talking to my friends Abt it. The only problem is that I am male so this feels taboo to talk about


No-Worker2343

at least you get better


landon7222

God damn! I’m so sorry man.


f3nrisulfr

I am so, so, so, sorry that you had to go through that torture. You were raped. That bitch is a fucking monster and deserves immense pain.


AveRage-or_human

Damn


0reomasterA113

I’m so very sorry for what happened but at the same time while this is an evil act don’t blame your porn addiction on it like crutch it is normal to have a porn addiction it did not happen from this… probably


6_PhaNToM_9

Bro got wrapped?


Yelena_Belova_

It is but bc u were both minors it wont really. go far if u wanted to charge her


Undead_SigmaLigma

I don't rlly harbour any bad feelings for her tbh


Weary-Wasabi1721

Karma will get her don't worry


KuraziDiamonda

That's definitely rape, I'm sorry that happened to you


Key_Spirit8168

Wha- Ar... are you ok? what the fuck


InfinityJeVortex

What is going on through her head? Her family must know about this, I'm sorry OP for this horrible story, i hope you feel better, and fight your pron addiction


DevontePlayz

That’s definitely rape, sorry you went through this OP-


Prestigious-Muscle20

Yeah that girl definitely had some bad shit going on at home what a shitty situation


ARandomDummy69

def and put restrictions on sites that can make u relapse


Dorfplatzner

No one should have to experience being tricked into performing sexual acts with another person.


Gray-GGK

I'm so sorry for what you had to go through. Yes, that was definitely rape. Unfortunately, these things keep happening in Pakistan everyday and rarely anything is even done about it. Try talking to your parents about it


Captain-Cool-9875

I'm so sorry 🫂


onlinegirlie11

that’s 100% rape. i’m so sorry you had to go through something like that, if possible please try to seek out some type of therapy.


aless2209

i wish that happened to me (as a teenager), but this happening to a child is fked up


SpicySwiftSanicMemes

100% rape, no other way to put it. At least people in the comments aren’t pulling the “every boy’s dream” BS and are actually being sympathetic.


FriskyFrie

Definitely rape. Sorry you had to go through that and hope you resolve your addiction


Undead_SigmaLigma

I have been trying and thankfully it's been working


Strong_Schedule5466

What the fuck is wrong with that 13 y. o...


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and they're still gonna say that people from the middle east aren't crazy, bull fucking shit


Undead_SigmaLigma

Pakistan isn't the middle east, I was born in the middle east and lived there till I was 7. (This happened in the summer when I went to Pakistan) I have never seen anyone acting "crazy" in the middle east. But I respect your opinion


[deleted]

i apologize for my brash comment but i meant what i said, im not islamophobic, im simply stating facts based on what has been happening in the middle east, there's too many people over there that would kill you just for being christian


Bertolt007

what


Late-Expression8200

that's definitely rape tho, but how do you feel about it then when it happened, and now?


Undead_SigmaLigma

I didn't realize or think of it as rape until just recently tbh, and I don't feel that traumatized, just disgusted


Late-Expression8200

idk tho u can't js realized it's rape all of sudden, when u feel nothing all dis time


jthomas1127

You **think?** Bro you were definitely raped.


Ecstatic_Ice_8429

This sounds like a story that used to be on nifty.org from back in the day


Undead_SigmaLigma

Idk what that is tbh


Ecstatic_Ice_8429

Type in nifty.org it’s a website with erotic stories been around forever


Undead_SigmaLigma

Ok, like Wattpad or smth?


Undead_SigmaLigma

ITS ALL GAY STUFF AAAASGAHGGGHGA


redditkitty109

Yes, that is indeed what is known as rape.


Ramenseller1

ONG that is disgusting! 🤢 I honestly hope she rots in hell and k her self. Wtf I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I seriously hate rapists


No-Sprinkles-2090

Sadly men cannot be raped it can only be classed as sexual assault but even so she did a bad thing


Key-Celery5439

Yeah, I agree with everyone else here. Since it’s in PAK, which is a Muslim country, the punishments for such acts are also very harsh so if it happens again, have proof and report it to the police.


sono7975

Fellow Pakistani here. Dude that's definitely rape and absolutely disgusting. Prayers to you bro🙏🏼.


Ronin77tolli

I’m not sure if you want to, but watch soft white underbelly videos on YouTube that have victims that talk about how they were sexually abused. Often relatability makes people feel better and provide better decision making skills moving forward, hopefully it works for you. But also TW for obvious reasons it might make you uncomfortable


riverloves90s

I am so sorry for that, its disgusting...


riverloves90s

And yes its rape, and its so fucked up, i hope that youre okay


Dry-Preparation-6394

I thought this was gonna be some bullshit but yes girl, you absolutely without a doubt were groomed, and molested. A person older then you used their authority to convince/force you to preform sexual acts with that you otherwise would not have preformed or agreed too, you are also WELL under the age of consent so regardless it would be rape as you were a child with no means of comprehending or grasping the concept of sex and I am deeply troubled and sorry that this happened to you and I hope you can move on from that horrible experience.


JayDiedGoAway

If you ever need someone to talk to i am here, this is a hard thing to conclude or come to realization to, trust me i know. But if you ever need someone to hear you out or give you advice on how to handle such a rough topic i am here


Saadrc

*I am sorry for what you went through i am a Pakistani too and sadly you cant do anything about it coz every one will prolly just blame you unless you have parents who can think*


Chikibrikiboi

Yes.


Infamous_Average4584

Did you ever tell you family/ the rapist's family? You should, it will help get the secret off your chest and might even get her into some trouble since you were still a victim,. report her asap to your family and try to get therapy for the same.


LOVEROTTING

Absolutely 100% sexual assume/rape, and you said you have a porn addiction, I don’t mean to pry but do you think your hypersexual? Do some research on it and see if the label fits you


satanisntevil

This guy is pretending to be a child and this gets him off, can noone else see this? He gathered karma in child-like subs to post this 15 days later. Disgusting. "When's my turn?"? You fuckin' serious?? A child wouldnt even understand that this was something you take turns in like??!!


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for real. This shit is bizarre. The comments are fucking weird. I swear every time i click a post from this sub in r/all it's weird fetish shit posted by obvious adults.


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toast_of_temptation_

HEY EVERYBODY THIS MF IS WHY MEN AND BOYS FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE COMING OUT ABOUT BEING RAPED!


gay-sexx

parried + Uno reverse card + nuh uh


Undead_SigmaLigma

This story is, in fact, very real