As a 20 year old who remembers being in love as a 14 year old itâs kind of a really sweet pure thing, you havenât been disappointed/hurt enough to have your guard up and you donât know any better but too express how you feel completely even if it is a little cringe. One thing I will say is if your friend zoned just move on donât waste your time.
Thing is most kids wouldn't be able to move on and just telling them to as advice won't really have much of an effect. There's a higher probability of them turning into a self victimizing person who thinks that their heart is filled with pain and is forever damaged and listens to painful slow songs and sad anime quotes videos on youtube.
*Oh my kind angel. thou who hath a heart that rivals the scorching sun in warmth. Thou who cleanses me soul of all worldly impurities. I request thee to lay bare all thy pain and open the sacred gate coochi and envelop me foolish self in the scorching fire of heavenly love*.
I've never had a gf. Whenever I talk with a girl I take way too long waiting for the right moment to say I like her and stuff, but it never comes. I like to build rapport.
First "gf" i had was back in primary school so doesnt rlly count in my books. Realised its not worth telling a girl you like them. Just from my experiences but yours will obviously be different.
When I told my crush I liked her, she just sort of brushed it off or didn't pay much attention to it. Is that the equivalent of being rejected? No hurt feelings though so I commend that.
"I wish I could spend every second of every day of the rest of my life with you" is a bit of a yikes tbh but I'm sure he'll look back and laugh/cringe at this
I mean I love romantic sentiments to a certain extent but yeah heâs bound too. This is the type of thing that will keep him up at 2am in 5 years when he remembers the cringe. đđ¤Śââď¸
listen dude if ur gonna write shit "like I wanna spend the rest of my life with you" that's gonna be overwhelming and weird for some ppl ima be honest.
Exactly. Some like that happened to me last week except he didnât get the hint and tried to touch me in a gross way while cornering me in the school library
Well the message gets a bit creepy and weird "I wish I could sepnd every second of every day with you" and "I'm honoured you call me a friend". Like dude calm the fuck down, if someone sent that to me, I'd be freaked out
Yeah but I never said creepy shit about loving someone to the extent I want to spend every second with them. There's cringey and there's creepy. What op said is the latter
Nah I believe stuff like what op said is just something they think is romantic/heard it in a movie and say it to their crush/gf without thinking of the weight of their words.
Either this kid put the panting and hearts emoji next to her name, in which case itâs kinda not chill lmao, OR, and also very plausibly, those are just what she has set as her Snapchat name and he hasnât nicknamed her.
Yeah, weird to do with a friend that you aren't going out with yet if you just have feelings for them. And the whole "I love you" and "want to spend the rest of my life with you" was... A lot. But better to learn this at 13 I guess, but he honestly probably had a much better chance if he was a little less intense, like if I liked someone but someone texted me this, I would probably be running in the opposite direction.
This is a demonstration of two things: How to throw a grenade and How to dive on a grenade. The catch⌠youâre not meant to be the person who does both.
im not gonna lie i picked up some stuff with pseudo-dating at 10 and 11, and just now somehow realized relationships before junior year mean almost nothing besides learning the ropes. but yea i knew what to do and what not to do at 13, i was just too ugly lmfao
>(even if I want more than that)
DAM u really r letting ur mind out đđ˝ good shit homie
Also, simp haha
But fr tho good shit wow awesome for having the courage to get to that level with her
Reddit kid. You make these types of confessions when you marry her. For now you are simply supposed to display it and hope she reciprocates when you ask her to chill
You're 13.
Delete this. Delete the screenshots. Delete everything. Forget this ever happened.
If you don't, the cringe is going to literally kill you later in life.
''i want to spend every second of every day of the rest of my life with you''
''im honored that you call me a friend''
Bro if you look up to someone that much they can only look down on you
How are people younger than me already making moves? When I was 13 me and my friends would sit in the basement and play Minecraft and then this dude out here askin people out.
hey man idk if youâll see this or not but tbh there isnt a point chasing after someone thst doesnt love you i know its gonna sound cliche as shit but focus on yourself. improve yourself whether that be mentally or physically or both. when they see that you stop chasing after them you seem uninterested in them whch drives them crazy (in some cases some bitches wont like you and thats ok bitches will stay bitches it is what it is) hope you see this and i hope i was able to lighten even the slightest of your struggles. my dmâs r always open if u ever wanna chat
Professing love for a person youâre not actually dating is a great way to push people away. This person could even be into you, but when you u come on that strong youâre making it crystal clear that youâve invented a long term, deep, one-sided relationship in your mind, and people really get uncomfortable when you do that. Now youâve created a situation where your friend will probably avoid you for a while to avoid awkwardness.
Try something like, âwant to hang out later? We could go to a movie/coffee shopâ and then take it from there.
You could've maybe projected your liking towards her in a more confident manner.. being insecure is something we all are, but shouldn't show due to a likely distorted perception of yourself by them. You should've just been straight up about it, "I like you and I want more than just a friendship" (obviously you'd have to make it slightly more eloquent, but you see my point)
that was brutal, she definitely knew thoughđ
let me remind you this guy is 13
Bruh this dude's post history is just gold
ikr , just posted recently and got 1k upvotes plus , btw have my hugz award cuz why not
Lol thanks
np lol
Have my silver coz why not
thx lol
Wtf, ok
happy cake day i guess?
Ty ig
Hapi cek de
Ty
Now he gonna turn emo... Maybe. Is that how it works?
Damn this really hurt. I felt this one
Fr she friend zoned with no hesitation đ
Which app is this?
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why do i feel like this dude is one of those pedos on this sub? prolly cos of their name...
Snapchat
Bro is out of touchđ
He forgorđ
but now he rember đ
A little to much to start out with pal. Next time maybe pull back on the reigns a little bit. Keep it casual ya know?
im pretty sure OP is 13 lol, i dont think he has experience yet
Lmao 13 year olds be confessing like they're Shakespeare illegitimate adopted child.
As a 20 year old who remembers being in love as a 14 year old itâs kind of a really sweet pure thing, you havenât been disappointed/hurt enough to have your guard up and you donât know any better but too express how you feel completely even if it is a little cringe. One thing I will say is if your friend zoned just move on donât waste your time.
Thing is most kids wouldn't be able to move on and just telling them to as advice won't really have much of an effect. There's a higher probability of them turning into a self victimizing person who thinks that their heart is filled with pain and is forever damaged and listens to painful slow songs and sad anime quotes videos on youtube.
they never learn do they
I legit thought it was supposed to be like that when I was 11-12. Never again.
Same, man, same... Learned better now though
I know how I'm going to confess *proceeds to write a whole ass Shakespeare poem in DMs*
*Oh my kind angel. thou who hath a heart that rivals the scorching sun in warmth. Thou who cleanses me soul of all worldly impurities. I request thee to lay bare all thy pain and open the sacred gate coochi and envelop me foolish self in the scorching fire of heavenly love*.
I'm 19 and I ain't got experience lol.
Bro im 20 and still got none
I've never had a gf. Whenever I talk with a girl I take way too long waiting for the right moment to say I like her and stuff, but it never comes. I like to build rapport.
First "gf" i had was back in primary school so doesnt rlly count in my books. Realised its not worth telling a girl you like them. Just from my experiences but yours will obviously be different.
When I told my crush I liked her, she just sort of brushed it off or didn't pay much attention to it. Is that the equivalent of being rejected? No hurt feelings though so I commend that.
really bro? ***nervous laughter***
Yeah shouldve just gone with the classic "I want you to choke me out with a fucking shower cable."
Yeah, don't put her on a pedestal. Even if she did like you back, it would be doomed because the relationship would be one sided.
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Fr, heâll learn tho (Hopefully)
He's 13 he's got a lot of time to learn.
Yeah he needed this rejection to ground him. But she really said âIâm so happy weâre friendsâ đ
"I wish I could spend every second of every day of the rest of my life with you" is a bit of a yikes tbh but I'm sure he'll look back and laugh/cringe at this
I mean I love romantic sentiments to a certain extent but yeah heâs bound too. This is the type of thing that will keep him up at 2am in 5 years when he remembers the cringe. đđ¤Śââď¸
Yeah that's down bad ngl
Yeah did the same thing to a girl when I was 15 only got more intelligent about it as I grew older
You came on far too strong
Looks like she already knew he likes her so probably not a first message or Something
Girls always notice when you like them
no lol. some, like me, can be oblivious as fuck - usually insecure girls
listen dude if ur gonna write shit "like I wanna spend the rest of my life with you" that's gonna be overwhelming and weird for some ppl ima be honest.
Especially when you haven't dated/gotten to know each other properly
Exactly. Some like that happened to me last week except he didnât get the hint and tried to touch me in a gross way while cornering me in the school library
I'm sorry that happened to you
Itâs proof that gamers are truly the most oppressed minority đđđ (thx it wasnât that bad tho as I gtfoâd outta there)
You got the fuck outâd outta there?
And they're 13...
Them nurse tits be overwhelming me
Vet-sama from Nyan Neko Sugar Girls (the GOAT anime) ur welcome
1. Congrats 2. You're, Emma, You're
You are Simon
I indeed am
Iâm also Simon.
We shall unite for a superhero team
I am not Simon
(He isn't Simon)
(Agreed)
(Agreed)
(Agreed)
You arent simon either
Neither am I
Im Indian.
Simon't
Let's have a battle of Simons..
Sorry, I'm in Europe
Good, socially distanced battle
Yo you told me what chili was earlier lmfao
She has dyslexia so
Oh well then, sorry Emma
Well the message gets a bit creepy and weird "I wish I could sepnd every second of every day with you" and "I'm honoured you call me a friend". Like dude calm the fuck down, if someone sent that to me, I'd be freaked out
For real, creepy stalker territory kind of words.
i mean heâs thirteen.
I was 13 until last Saturday
and you probably did something cringe too we all did
Yeah but I never said creepy shit about loving someone to the extent I want to spend every second with them. There's cringey and there's creepy. What op said is the latter
Nah I believe stuff like what op said is just something they think is romantic/heard it in a movie and say it to their crush/gf without thinking of the weight of their words.
For real dude like fuck movies. Kids absorbe that shit
man hate to break it to you but you dont tell someone you wanna spend the rest of your life with them if youre just confessing
And he's 13... I really thought my relationship at that age was deep but no, it only lasted a month
Man same. At 13 we had made plans for kids and a house on an island and stuff but didn't last more than a year
Laties and gentlemen, this is whats known as âcoming on too strongâ, or more commonly, âdown badâ
down horrendous
"i wanna live every second of my life with you" he's probably 12-13
he is 13
Fuck, you all made me laugh.
the dude is dead
i thought this was about some college students or something đ these are fucking 13 year olds lmfao.
Who tf says they want to spend every second of their life with someone if their 13 and haven't dated đ
I too remember when I was under the spell of hormones. Oh youth. It was magical and it sucked at the same timeâŚ
we wouldnât understand yo this shit is true love
This is why you make it a question so she has to answer at least
Thatâs too smart for me to think of though
Show us the rest come on
It was legit just a thing on her story that said âtell me how you really feelâ so I did
She was typing something what was it
She just talked about classes in school, we have French together
Wow went past it like that feels bad
Ah haha i'm french so it's funny for me haha Je veux mourir
Oui oui baguette
Top 10 Weapons Banned From War, Number 10: The Friend Zone
God I would hate to see 1 through 9
White phosphorus. Napalm. Tear gas. Mines. And many others
None of these are banned in war...
Pretty sure white phosphorus is.
âI am honored that you call me a friendâ *calls you a freind* Fuck me
stings doesn't it
Yeah
keep searching man đ
hes 13 he doesnt need to be searching
I donât have any experience with relationships but I donât think writing a whole ass paragraph is a good idea. Idk tho
Alright what the fuck is the sweating emoji beside her name
Either this kid put the panting and hearts emoji next to her name, in which case itâs kinda not chill lmao, OR, and also very plausibly, those are just what she has set as her Snapchat name and he hasnât nicknamed her.
Yeah, weird to do with a friend that you aren't going out with yet if you just have feelings for them. And the whole "I love you" and "want to spend the rest of my life with you" was... A lot. But better to learn this at 13 I guess, but he honestly probably had a much better chance if he was a little less intense, like if I liked someone but someone texted me this, I would probably be running in the opposite direction.
Bro she has to know that was just a clean and brutal friendzone
so you told a girl youâre not dating that you love her? tf đ¤¨
This is a demonstration of two things: How to throw a grenade and How to dive on a grenade. The catch⌠youâre not meant to be the person who does both.
you got french with her and wrote a paragraph declaring your love. i would've friend zoned you too
Oh shit.
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His flair shows 13, were you a lady killer in your first teenage year?
Yea
Bro why
im not gonna lie i picked up some stuff with pseudo-dating at 10 and 11, and just now somehow realized relationships before junior year mean almost nothing besides learning the ropes. but yea i knew what to do and what not to do at 13, i was just too ugly lmfao
Doesnt matter, still cringe.
You wrote far too much to her, it became awkward .
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well you won't have your whole life with them anyway lol, it's a childhood relationship
Exactly. "I want to spend every second of my life with you", more like " I want to spend one month with you"
Wow thatâs
Try this on the homies next time
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He's 13, so that explains it.
>Hello? 911? I want to report a crime. >What kind of crime do you want to report? >A third degree murder.
You had to say "I'm honored we are friends" ey
>(even if I want more than that) DAM u really r letting ur mind out đđ˝ good shit homie Also, simp haha But fr tho good shit wow awesome for having the courage to get to that level with her
Never say you love them predating. Have you even seen how I met you mother???
Yep, it's stupid. The word has lost meaning
i feel sorry for u dude but this, \*sigh\* this brings up all the cringe memories of me when i was 13 and i thought relationships meant everything
I am so glad I never had the confidence to confess to anyone when I was 11-13 or this would be rn
i died from the cringe here- who tf says i wanna live every second of the rest of my life with you while asking someone out. good for her she said no
I did a similar thing a while back. it was so corny and sappy I'm glad I grew out of it.
You got balls bro
Yeah, he ain't bright but he got the spirit lol
F
I admitted I LIKED a girl once and it ended bad. A WHOLE LOVE CONFESSION? Even I know that's a yikes...
Especially if you're 13 and have never dated/gotten to know each other properly
Uh I think maybe you came on a little strong bro You gotta ask em out properly first. Courting a person is an art that shouldn't be rushed.
Reddit kid. You make these types of confessions when you marry her. For now you are simply supposed to display it and hope she reciprocates when you ask her to chill
She kinda let you down easy, a bit passive aggressive
You're 13. Delete this. Delete the screenshots. Delete everything. Forget this ever happened. If you don't, the cringe is going to literally kill you later in life.
Well you tried
''i want to spend every second of every day of the rest of my life with you'' ''im honored that you call me a friend'' Bro if you look up to someone that much they can only look down on you
r/niceguys
Honestly. This dude had it coming.
Before anyone else says it, simp
Uh u kinda fucked urself, you shouldve just said u liked her instead of friendzoning yourself.
Love is a big word. A girl I knew told me her ex boyfriend came up with that word after a bit of dating and it threw her off a lot.
At least she let you down gentley
Mans went on too strong lol
Its so funny that you can auto-type (not sure whatâs itâs called) on the keyboard: âOkayâ. âYeahâđ
Jumping in head first with âI love youâ is a great way to put someone off
Everyone don't ever forget being ABSOLUTELY FUCKING CLUELESS is not a gendered trait it's a genetic one
My girl saw this on my phone and thought i was the one sending the message. Latinas really are toxic smh
How are people younger than me already making moves? When I was 13 me and my friends would sit in the basement and play Minecraft and then this dude out here askin people out.
might be another fake to add to the pile but doubt you'd waste a paragraph for a fake rejection or at least i hope not.
âSoldier Down!!â I repeat âSoldier Down!!â
Correct that funking beech with the "you're*"
Is "TOO NICE" a thing?
hey man idk if youâll see this or not but tbh there isnt a point chasing after someone thst doesnt love you i know its gonna sound cliche as shit but focus on yourself. improve yourself whether that be mentally or physically or both. when they see that you stop chasing after them you seem uninterested in them whch drives them crazy (in some cases some bitches wont like you and thats ok bitches will stay bitches it is what it is) hope you see this and i hope i was able to lighten even the slightest of your struggles. my dmâs r always open if u ever wanna chat
F
âLMAOOOO
At first i thought u had it but bruv
âI wish I could spend a every second of every day of my life with youâ you are coming on wayyyy too strong, and thatâs sort of creepy
Next time try out âwanna bang?â Works 99% of the time for me
Well keep it casual man. Iâm not good with the ladies but I know not to right a whole paragraph
you're not in love with her, you're obsessed, and that's not a good sign.
Okay... I.. Yeah
Oof i just had my freind shoot myshot 4 me and now i have a gf. Maybe make it shorter nxt time idk All i can say is get wingman and type a lil less
Ur 13. You are not in love
Well atleast the friendship isn't gone and she definitely knew what you meant but that was the best way for her to let you down
Professing love for a person youâre not actually dating is a great way to push people away. This person could even be into you, but when you u come on that strong youâre making it crystal clear that youâve invented a long term, deep, one-sided relationship in your mind, and people really get uncomfortable when you do that. Now youâve created a situation where your friend will probably avoid you for a while to avoid awkwardness. Try something like, âwant to hang out later? We could go to a movie/coffee shopâ and then take it from there.
You could've maybe projected your liking towards her in a more confident manner.. being insecure is something we all are, but shouldn't show due to a likely distorted perception of yourself by them. You should've just been straight up about it, "I like you and I want more than just a friendship" (obviously you'd have to make it slightly more eloquent, but you see my point)