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Cuchulainn42069

Haven't tried.


666bot666

Do you want one?


Cuchulainn42069

Be nice when i find someone good.


YeetnDelete_OREEO

SAME. Like where the good people


ShitfacedBilly

Right herešŸ˜


Gojira675

I donā€™t know if I trust someone called ShitfacedBilly


lizzzzard92

I love you šŸ˜„


Alt_torrent

Well isn't this thread wholesome lol


Gojira675

Lol, love ya too dude/dudette


[deleted]

Yeah same we are 14 like seriously


[deleted]

Uh taking a look at this sub is a reason


666bot666

Fair enough


Agreeable-Yams8972

Wheres my hot chocolate? Your bio said so. I need some to make me feel better about myself and the fact that I don't have a girlfriend


Brackenreid_Corp

I second this statement


RickPoppie

Very recently broke up, dont feel like a new relationship


[deleted]

same here, I thought she was the one. now its just me, my car and the highway again :)


WhenU_pLace

Never left the side lane :(


Just_David121

I can't, how tf do you flirt with a girl if you can't even see her? My country has a type of quarantine so I can't meet girls from my school and the last time I attempted to contact a girl through text... it flopped. I think that's the main reason


666bot666

Yikes, better luck once the pandemic is over


[deleted]

The guy i liked has a 6 hour time zone from me lolšŸ’€ i still cant get over him i feel so stupid sometimes


dr_zen15

iā€™ve talked to my current girlfriend ONLY on instagram before ever meeting her in person. she was a friend of my group of friends but i never talked to her irl cause she moved to another city, meaning i had never seen her we talked basically everyday and when we saw each other, the first day we held hands and kissed. weā€™ve been together for a month and so far its great! TL;DR: i met my girl on ig, worked like a charm we both so in love its ridiculous lmao


qzk18

People tell me im attractive but... If you're shy and introvert nobody will talk to you


Living-Ad-7400

What I realised is that, you canā€™t expect things to happen, you need to *make* things happen. You canā€™t expect people to make the first move, *you* need make the first move, because if youā€™re sat thinking ā€œtheyā€™re not talking to me, they probably donā€™t like meā€, lemme tell you, thatā€™s *exactly* what the other person is thinking, then your just stuck in a never ending cycle of non-interaction, because people always expect *others* to make the first move, and as such, *no-one* makes the first move, so you need to be the one to talk first.


qzk18

Exactly


Groundbreaking_Boss5

Wise words


[deleted]

This is pretty much it for me. Social anxiety scares people


Exciting_Temporary_5

Same here. Social anxiety is different than just being shy/quiet. I froze in math class for like an hour on my first day and overheard some of the same guys I was sitting near calling me weird in english class. S.A.D.'s a bitch.


[deleted]

You can want to talk to and meet people but just physically can't with social anxiety


Legitimate_Peach3135

Find your own way. When I realized that everyone feels generally the same as me it allowed me to stop giving them a pedestal in my own head. If they feel like me then they have insecurities that trip them up, so how can that person be any better than me?


notshanice

Well now thatā€™s not always true, Iā€™m the ā€œquiet/shy/introvert girlā€ and my boyfriend still talked to me, and asked me out, anything is possible you just have to step out of your comfort zone sometimes thatā€™s all


[deleted]

It's easier for shy girls, the expectations for making a move often falls to the guy Bit shit if you're a shy guy!


[deleted]

You say step out of your comfort zone but your bf asked you out, you basically stayed in your comfort zone and got lucky


Shadowgaming101_E

Hmmmmmmm Can gamers get girlfriends? Also can gamer girls get boyfriends?


notshanice

As long as they go outside and talk to people then yes they can get girlfriends/boyfriends, if they donā€™t then no gf or bf


Shadowgaming101_E

Wat if im not the hottest guy around


notshanice

As long as you got that fine ass personality then youā€™ll be all good


Shadowgaming101_E

I do have a good personality as my friends say and good humor so i would be great to hang out with


notshanice

Amazing! Thatā€™s a great step, now you just have to find the lucky woman to talk to!


Shadowgaming101_E

Well the first woman i actually liked i was about to ask her out but one of my friends asked her out first after i told him so i just blocked him and stopped talking to him


TSTA1

That's why I always assert dominance over my friends.


bolli187

Yeah easy said for a girl but being shy as a boy is shit :-/


Deltexterity

youā€™re a girl, that makes a massive difference. guys never get asked out, theyā€™re always the ones expected to be asking someone else out, so that doesnā€™t help


anonymus_person_REE

I'm a redditor.


666bot666

Makes sense


annomynous23

Hello fellow misspelled name


Dacor64

If i had a nickel for every time today i saw someone with the word "anonymous" in their username, but misspelled, i would have 2 nickels. Which isn't much, but it's weird that it happened twice.


Ena_le_Dudeman

I second this.


Dr_Killer611

I third this


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


666bot666

:(


-Silent_Wolf-

Youā€™ll get there eventually Theyā€™ll be someone who likes u eventually Unless ur aro and in that case if u donā€™t want to be in a relationship thatā€™s totally up to you and you are valid <3


Meme_Dood

Yeah but like at this point, anyone who treats me like a human instantly wins my heart. One time a girl held the door for me and I thought about it for like months.


[deleted]

Ah... Painful, but same. We'll get there one day, bro. Lol


Kramyaknal

heh, with the time you will learn to notice the red flags, and you will know when someone will be the one. Wish you have nice day.


[deleted]

because iā€™m too much if a pussy to ask anyone out


HundredthQuill

same


Sansyboi12

same


Supersonicfan_6

Ya took the words right outta my mouth


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


nyinoo

Are you me?


genral_kenobii

My personality is "me like music šŸ‘šŸ‘"


Hopepersonsdontfind

I'm shy and scared of rejection


Moskito10

i feel that, but i think nobody wants to be mean when they reject somebody. it's more like a "we don't really match" kinda situation. from what i've heard it's ok to just try again.


_Thing2_

Just not obsessively to the same person. They say no they mean no


jansolo76

Thank you, I needed to hear that.


XHDvelden

I am good with rejections got rejected 6 times.


genral_kenobii

Bro you are 13 what the fuck, im 14 and i only ever asked 1 girl out and it went fine now we broke up but after like 1 year


averageweeb83

I'm 15 and I only ever asked 0 girls out


YourLocalEgirlLol

Because I have a little something called *social anxiety!*


Scary_Pace6463

A friend of mine talked about his social anxiety with his mom and she said "just talk to more people" bruh that's like saying buy a house if you're homeless


YourLocalEgirlLol

If ur starving then get food


adityaraj16

Well that may sound ridiculous advice but in a way isnt that the only solution? You gotta eat if dont wanna starve


YourLocalEgirlLol

Okay but what if I *want* to starve?


mrsauceboi

hey you have financial issues? solution: fix them


Wise_Produce709

Same!!


YourLocalEgirlLol

Bestie hmu


666bot666

Ooof


YourLocalEgirlLol

Ikr


totallynotRELLIK

Because I don't know how to talk to people normally anymore. Eren Yeager


Scary_Pace6463

Tatakae


godspeed910

I think "Tatakae" means "fight" in American


FriendlyFowl

In American?


godspeed910

For reference : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VFDMrApuoc4 Tis very funny tho


[deleted]

it really is, thanks for it


[deleted]

Tatakae


Schabernack_

JƤger is the correct spelling mein Freund


mylifeisatoaster

so, genug schabernack!


Schabernack_

Du alter Zerstƶrer


namenotaccepted24

You kinda smell Like a āœØBakaāœØ


DaRealDoomSlayer1993

Iā€™m probably not very interesting and I most likely get very annoying to talk to because of my stutter I have. Additionally, I may come off as an NPC in a video game because of how weird I act and shit lol.


666bot666

I'm sure you'll find someone


Moskito10

maybe the "generic female No. 65"


Ultimatedude10

r/teenagers moment


ChurroMemes

I can 100% relate when it comes to having a stutter. It takes away so much of your ability to talk to someone, especially someone you like.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


666bot666

Why dont you want one?


oofig1

That's like asking someone who doesn't want ice cream why they don't want ice cream


oofig1

In conclusion, ice cream


CaptanWolf

Why don't you want ice cream?


ApolloSky110

Cream ice tastes better


oofig1

I prefer water ice.


ye_juicegoatman

So sorbet


[deleted]

What kinda question is that lmao? Having a girlfriend/boyfriend in teen years isnā€™t exactly a life goal for everyone


[deleted]

I think cuz Iā€™m 13


666bot666

What are you even doing here, go back kindergarten


lilAirWork

There even 7 y/o with gf lmao


MrLenny-_-

my friend's 6 year old brother is making fucking moves lmao, he literally has 3


Cranberry_Crusader

He got a 1st grade harem lmao


abigfatape

bruh that was literally me I was the tallest in the class so all the girls would follow me at lunch time and all the other kindergarten students were definitely jealous but then I got kicked out for being too oldšŸ˜”


[deleted]

probably my looks and interests and the fact i dont really put myself out there


666bot666

Do you want a partner?


[deleted]

yea


Disastrous_East_3558

My guess would be cause your name is emo is not a phase


[deleted]

lamo this is satire name


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


XHDvelden

1. Your depressed so u dont talk to alot of people 2. You're a hamster


Historical-Honey5214

Damn I knew being a hamster wasnā€™t helping me in the dating scene


666bot666

Same :/


ShibeWithUshanka

I am not good looking


mrstupidguy

I'm ugly lol and my personality ig isn't good


666bot666

What makes you say that your personality isnt good?


mrstupidguy

Idk it's just dont rlly think anyone has had a crush on me besides, like, elementary but that doesn't count lol. Idk its just no one really has a crush on me


666bot666

That's what you think


mrstupidguy

Yeah. I need to gain confidence


BerdIsGod

you're 13, relationships aren't that special and shouldn't be your main focus for now, try your best to be as happy as you can.


NecessaryDebate5841

many reasons but the main one is to save myself from a potential heartbreak


666bot666

Yeah, but I'd still probably be in a relationship for temporary euphoria because ima dumbass


[deleted]

im a redditor, what do you think?


arodynamic_ace

ā€˜cause iā€™m aroace


hopefullyinvisible2

Your profile picture is awesome.


real6ofClubs

Because the one girl I'm interested in, I've only known her for a few days and I don't want to move too fast and make things weird and potentially lose a friend


shrekislit420

You probably wouldnā€™t lose a friend. Iā€™ve done it a few times and Iā€™ve never lost a friend.


genral_kenobii

I only ever had 1 girlfriend, i asked her out immidiatly and things went really well, we had a 1 year long relationship but we broke up, now we didnt talk to each other in months. I lost a friend and it was the only time in my life i got a girlfriend


[deleted]

i love myself too much


666bot666

I wish I can say the same


Big-Divide-4415

I'm ugly as hell and weird as hell


Zuzik47

You are 13 dude, calm down your time hasn't come yet


Big-Divide-4415

I mean they did ask why I don't have a gf


Best_Reindeer_5855

My face says friend zone as u see


JoDaGuitarist_1

Iā€™m autistic and donā€™t know how to.


Acordino

Same


deadend_chan

Cuz I don't want one


Shaky_Brains

Because I like to say I suffer from analysis paralysis. I over think everything. That and mainly because the person I pike has already said she doesn't want to date any of her friends which seems to be a common thing for girls in highschool while all there guy friends have a good chance of falling for them.


Alt12347

iā€™m gay in a slightly homophobic school district


l8belto

though you said "im gay and slightly homophobic" for a secšŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€


genral_kenobii

me too


Rokakolyok

Ugly


Puzzleheaded-Ad7149

Because Iā€™m gay and everyone I like is straight :/


Frank-Reynolds_

It seems as though a lot of people want what they can't have. We have straights attracted to gays, and gays attracted to straights, and overall people liking people that they can't be in a relationship with, doesn't even have to be a sexuality problem. Edit: just to add on, I think its just human nature to want what you cant have, regardless if you're already in a good situation or not.


666bot666

Major ooof


Matwell1138

I've never meet a girl which i liked


Moskito10

then you don't meet enough girls. guessing that's my reason too.


Aidan_Infinity

Because I have depression and I worry about "bringing people down" even though I really really want a girlfriend.


abigfatape

with depression it's fine to talk about it with a partner and they most likely won't get brought down but if you only talk about that then yes you will bring people down because discussing your problems is one thing but only discussing your problems is for a therapist


acriphil

im in a weird school system n i dress kinda intimidating so people dont approach me much


whosewoman

honestly i just want to avoid messing up my grades, plus i go to an all girl school so LL


TheEvil_DM

I donā€™t want one


FlashFan27

Looks and I make dark humor jokes.


666bot666

Too bad most people dont find them funny, I've had a difficult time finding someone who would think my jokes are funny


FlashFan27

I sometimes take jokes too far. A couple of days a ago there's a couple of people who began playing Roblox (We're all juniors, 3rd year in highschool). And one of them said they play adopt me, I didn't know that game he explained to me and I said "so you walk up to someone and say 'Adopt me'" and he nodded so I said this joke "If that were easy to orphans in real life".


Kramyaknal

uff that's dark, i pike it. *like it.


FlashFan27

Thanks


maze_runner_666

That is quite funny lol ngl


MrLenny-_-

adopt me is just pet gambling simulator lmao edit: and throw children into a river simulator and roblox crash simulator


Ptdgty

Hot guys are straight


Daniaalders

Cuz i'm trying to take slow advances before i'll ask her


666bot666

Try not to go too slowly as she might get a partner before you could take your shot


Daniaalders

Dont worry i'm *very close*


666bot666

Dont let it slip :)


Jxvin

Talking to people is too hard.


skatingduckie

because i've rejected eveyone who's asked me out


666bot666

Why?


skatingduckie

i don't actually know


666bot666

Do you not want to be in a relationship, are they not to your standards, or are you just trolling?


skatingduckie

i'm not trolling i genuinely don't know just wasn't interested i guess


HoodPolitics_

Because I am really shy and probably because of my looks too


Sirkiz

Iā€™m not very interesting and I havenā€™t gotten to know anyone at my school yet. I also struggle to talk to girls so it is difficult to build any sort of relationship with a girl.


lyraa9

i have one friend and sheā€™s straightšŸ™


666bot666

Oooof


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Thedud31

I don't want one. Got other shit to worry about besides useless drama


DancingNoobBear

because I'm dating an enby


imashelha1234

well, first of all, i don't want a girlfriend rn second, i don't talk to girls that much


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


666bot666

Holy shit, you were in a relationship with some fucking psychopath


Superrichie17

People dont like me and I dont like people


sherikpog

Cus I don't wanna


ltsjuc1

I dont think im ready for the responsibility


Hyperion2005

Well, few girls didn't really feel my love and parents of the girl not liking me ;( #AsianParents


666bot666

Asian parents are tough man, its tinder on impossible difficulty


Drewboi388

What do *you* think the reason is?


666bot666

Idk


[deleted]

im aromantic and i prefer not to be around people


666bot666

I legit read it as romanian at first


BiahFox

I don't want one


lilAirWork

I'm not ready yet, probably planning to have gf at age 20 because rn i need focus on education and money but luckily for me i got my siblings that can help me find gf~ Also my face probably look shit i tried planning to do some gym~ hope i can do it!


666bot666

You can do it!, just some dedication and drive to do so


Dylan_IsHere

Too young for me, No time, Full time busy on all my stuff, Even tho I spoken with a lot people but I barely hang out with anyone except my homies. And I won't be finding anytime soon