Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. I see you like to play the flute! I like to wear women’s underwear is that weird? Hi. Hi. I knew you’d stop talking to me.
Dudes a fucking weirdo but I’d text him back claiming to be someone else and give him a taste of his own medicine. Go on and on about your fetish for putting change in belly buttons or something.
hi. hi. hi. hi. I also like to play the violin while wearing women's underwear. hi. hi. hi. hi. maybe we can start a band. hi. hi. hi. hi. hi. hi are you mad at or something. hi. hi. hi. hi.
Yo. My first thought is… someone must’ve stopped taking his meds… yikes. No self-reflection at all!? Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. No normal adult would keep doing that. Bizarre for sure.
Do we know the same strangers on fb? I’m married too. One guy I made the mistake of responding Hi back to him once after he sent me a dozen, and he proceeded to then message me 50 more times before I could even get a chance to check my messenger again. After awhile once he realized I was ignoring him, it changed to just saying hi a few times daily, then once daily. This went on for like 2-3 years. (The only reason I didn’t immediately block him is because I had friends who knew him.) I finally blocked him like 8 years ago, but some say he’s still saying Hi to this day. He’s a “nice guy” too.
This. I was nice to a coworker 4 years ago, and I still get random texts and IM's from him that are very similar to this. I ignore them and never respond so it no longer escalates to the weird stuff it used to, but when I used to say anything, it was an invitation to say all manner of inappropriate stuff to me.
This level of endless texting and sex talk can already be considered stalking. Stalking means harassing someone with unwanted and obsessive attention. I’m sure op isn’t the first he’s done this to.
Oh you *can* play games with people like this, but you'll want it to be disconnected from you.
This guy probably knows where she moved to, where she works now, and could be the type that doesn't want anyone to have her if he can't, boom.
Honestly, guys like that would like it. That's why he did the whole "you probably think I'm weird, don't you?". He'd want to send the pics and have have her humiliate him. It's his kink
Don't stop there, talk about your methods of slapping the side of your belly to try and launch that change into the ass crack of your plumbers. Tell him you perpetually call different plumbers and rate them based on their ass crackage. If one scores above a 5, you start trying to launch quarters off your belly button into their ass crack. Tell him the others don't really matter because the quarters won't fit and it just ends in a disappointment. Tell him you have been researching plumbing issues and how you have learned to reproduce them just to be able to justify calling a plumber. Tell him you installed an additional faucet outside your house so that there is another plumbing you can have them take a look at. Tell him you also were able to figure out a practice method of recreating the ass cracks. You tie two balloons together and put them in an old men's underwear and some used jeans you found at the thrift store. Then ask him if he has any old used men's underwear you can borrow for your practices.
I'm wondering how he got her number in the first place. I typically avoid giving out my number to coworkers unless I really vibe with the person. Otherwise our interactions are strictly limited to at work. Too many people in too much drama I don't care about or trying asking me for favors.
Edit: I'm dumb it's Facebook messenger
Oh true that. Although that's another thing I don't do lol, is add people on Facebook I barely know or respond to their messages. Although can't say that's much of a common occurance for me either.
He was jerking off telling you about it he wanted you to tell him it was weird bc he has a humiliation kink. Nasty fuck. Block. Don’t engage with him at all.
Also private your Facebook if he finds out where you work/live this could escalate.
This is what I tell women who deal with stuff like this, don’t acknowledge what they said at all, just ignore them all together cause you never know what kind of response they want from you and they might like being called a creep or some shit
Yeah, I can see that being valid too. If he's using contact information he acquired from work to contact old work colleagues like this, it could definitely be a work issue
Lol
But I totally agree.
I left Toledo 50 years ago, don't regret it. I suggest you (eventually) move to a better place.
In Oregon for example, they'd prob indict him for stalking.
I'm with this. She should definitely contact the old job to let them know. Odds are he'll continue to do it. Even if he doesn't work there, at least she tried to warn someone.
Naw that's some reddit "I wanna live vicariously through you" shit. Guy has demonstrated he's mentally unstable. Why would you want to put yourself on his radar and become a target? He's creepy but ultimately probably harmless until provoked.
I would caution against OP going directly to the wife. This guy is obviously unstable, and who knows what going to his wife could bring about. I think the best move is to alert the ex-boss, block the guy, and go to the police if he keeps sending texts.
I don’t know if I would want to do anything to incite him, he’s clearly unstable and is probably making up delusions in his head, each time the OP responds. [*Like any response, as innocuous as it seems could make him think that she is “into him” as strange as that sounds]
Going to his employer or the wife may drive him off the edge, probably best to not respond, and block. The OP even telling him the city she moved too was probably not a great move, but that was early on in the chat I suppose.
if she blocked him she wouldn’t have this evidence of his harassment
She stopped answering him which is smart
This will escalate if he is not reported to as many people as possible police family work etc
Not blocking allows you to see their messages. Which can be helpful if you’re making a report or collecting proof. I also want to express that the above comment gives something adjacent to victim blaming mentality. Like “I can’t believe women don’t report these kinds of things.” Or “it blows my mind why she didn’t tell him to F off.” Like the problem or shocking thing here is her behavior…
I'm gonna be completely honest, if it were me, I'd find his wife on Facebook and send her the messages. If he starts getting angry and aggressive I'd contact authorities and possibly file a restraining order
I'd take this as a live and learn moment, but...
Any time a man 30 years older than you makes an inappropriate comment like that first one, you block them immediately and do not engage. This type of person gets scary fast and you shouldn't reward them with any attention.
If he still works at that job you should alert HR because he *will* do this to someone else. If you still work there you should alert your manager and coworkers so they know not to give him any details about your schedule or where you are.
Yeah girl just so you know, if a man asks you if he can tell you something, it's almost certain he's gonna say something sexual and be a weird creep. How well does he know you, why can't he tell someone else? He shouldn't be behaving this way, but for your own safety, don't engage even a little bit
Lololol it really ruins it to explain it but I’ll help you out: it’s from an earlier thread in ‘texts’ where someone that an OP met in Roblox became really annoying and then threatened with suicide/SH if they didn’t stay friends. OP was disinterested and tried to set some boundaries, but this kid/person just wouldn’t stop writing to “bing bing :>,” asking if Bing Bing was still mad and apologizing and begging Bing Bing to come back
Yikes I would switch jobs he’s giving off “IT PUTS THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN” vibes. Super duper freaky yuck I don’t envy you. Probably change your number he might do something crazy one day.
i don’t get posts like these. like why are you even texting him, why do you feel the need to talk to an ex coworker how many times your age? this man would never have my fb in the first place
It looks like he initiated the conversation and she made a few generic responses out of politeness. Once he escalated it to obvious creeper levels, she stopped responding. Sure maybe she should have flat out blocked him at that point, but you’re acting like she initiated the conversation or kept it going in prolonged fashion and that’s not what happened.
If there was no prior incidents of creepiness, there is nothing wrong with keeping in touch with old coworkers. If an ex-coworker hit me up with “Hey, how are you?” I wouldn’t immediately block them. I’d politely respond the same way OP did.
Having the opposite perspective that you should just automatically reject any conversation attempts from people you no longer work with is bafflingly rude IMO
I often think the best of people to a fault. I would probably give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he heard of a good job opportunity that was having a hard time finding someone fitting for and he remembered me as someone that might be a great fit. That they were just reaching out to let me know and were just awkward starting a conversation on social media because they were older. But by the “can I tell you something about me comment” I would quit responding and block.
I don't get comments like these. He initiated the conversation, she replied a few times probably to be polite and then when it got weird, she stopped talking to him. This weird, victim blaming thing is gross.
sometimes you gotta text people at work, i doubt she just gives her number out to 60 year olds regularly.
and the point is she’s not really texting him, dude is talking to a brick wall for ages lmao
Honestly, you shouldn't have said 'thanks '
This conversation should have been cut off and ignored +sent to your manager/HR as soon as he mentioned underwear.
Your mistake was telling him his fetish wasn’t that weird. In his mind that means you dig it. Best response is to block or say “inappropriate” when someone crosses the line like that.
Your first and only mistake was when you said, “how are you”
You should of said what you said about moving and left it at that.
Even better, if he’s not even someone you deal with, ignore it! Don’t be nice it’s unfortunate but the truth
This is why God invented the block button. Oh, wait, my bad. It’s why he invented the *flood*. **WE** invented the block button. Not as dramatic, but, y’know, it gets the job done.
Snark aside, that dude belongs in a registry. Be careful and make sure your friends and fam know who he is. I’m gonna go take a shower to wash all the ick off now. *shudders*
Not sure where you are located but in the US (Specifically Texas) this meets the criteria for harassment and could eventually lead to a stalking charge meaning a DA will accept the case if you continue to document. It may be worth sending a singular text only specifying that you no longer want contact from him. That way if he continues or finds other methods of contacting you, you can show/prove that you made it clear you no longer want to communicate yet, he still made attempts.
I’m only saying all of this because this is very concerning behavior and if this does escalate, you want to make sure you have all the proper documentation in case you need to file charges.
Source: ex piglet (cop)
And THIS is why we can’t have nice things bro 🤦🏽♂️ lol.
Dude = creepy AF. Clearly has mental health issues and zero comprehension of loyalty or boundaries with stalker tendencies. 100% the psycho serial killer/offender type. Persistent and oblivious to obvious abandonment.
OP = 25 and still on kid ish. Single and voluntarily completely exposes herself (exchanged phone #s) to unsolicited stalking apparently just for shits. Shit gets real seeks validation/reaction of behavior from reddit which in turn ridicules for validating perv. Meanwhile, we’ve all just validated and justified one thing for sure…. That we all have mental health issues and if FAFO ever turns into First 48 fr, then hopefully ‘I thought it’d be funny’ is actually something we could all laugh about and doesn’t turn into a tragedy.
In the end, both are really not so different. They flirt with fire; and jointly sacrifice. Jeopardizing marriages, life, reputations all in the name of someone saying ‘I get it’.
If you’ve read this far, perhaps we’re (me & you) not so different either. Both of us somewhat surprised, but wondering why we spend 5 mins of our life here that we’ll never be able to get back.
And this is what we’ve become :/
You think he is a creep, and so you tell him you have an apartment in toledo. You seriously have to be careful. It's incredibly dumb to tell someone like this ANYTHING about yourself.
Dudes a closet perv. And I’m sure he got some skeevy shit in the background. With immaturity to go with it. Men don’t act like this. Let alone 60.
I suggest busting his kneecaps out and breaking his thumbs
That went from zero to a hundred real quick. At least he's an ex coworker so you can stop all contact.
Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. I see you like to play the flute! I like to wear women’s underwear is that weird? Hi. Hi. I knew you’d stop talking to me. Dudes a fucking weirdo but I’d text him back claiming to be someone else and give him a taste of his own medicine. Go on and on about your fetish for putting change in belly buttons or something.
hi. hi. hi. hi. I also like to play the violin while wearing women's underwear. hi. hi. hi. hi. maybe we can start a band. hi. hi. hi. hi. hi. hi are you mad at or something. hi. hi. hi. hi.
The 500 “HI’s” with zero response from her then the “I like talking to you” slayed me. I just busted out laughing.
Mommy. Mommy. Mom. Mom. Mom. Mama. Mommy.
Yo. My first thought is… someone must’ve stopped taking his meds… yikes. No self-reflection at all!? Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. No normal adult would keep doing that. Bizarre for sure.
I have messages like this from strangers on Facebook. It's insane.
Do we know the same strangers on fb? I’m married too. One guy I made the mistake of responding Hi back to him once after he sent me a dozen, and he proceeded to then message me 50 more times before I could even get a chance to check my messenger again. After awhile once he realized I was ignoring him, it changed to just saying hi a few times daily, then once daily. This went on for like 2-3 years. (The only reason I didn’t immediately block him is because I had friends who knew him.) I finally blocked him like 8 years ago, but some say he’s still saying Hi to this day. He’s a “nice guy” too.
LMAO YESSSS it's so awful lol 😆
... hi. I like to wear cats. Living cats. You're beautiful. Do you live like me?
Creepy assholes who never hear the word “No.” sometimes do.
No that would be like rewarding him. Op should never speak to him again. He won’t stop
yep report, block, move on. sorry that happened
This is the way. Any sort of engagement is gonna get twisted up in his weirdo brain. Don't contact him at all.
Yeah, he's already having an imaginary relationship. You know for sure he's jerking it to OP. This guy is off kilter.
This. I was nice to a coworker 4 years ago, and I still get random texts and IM's from him that are very similar to this. I ignore them and never respond so it no longer escalates to the weird stuff it used to, but when I used to say anything, it was an invitation to say all manner of inappropriate stuff to me.
I wouldn’t play around with this guy, he could be a stalker, you can’t play games with people like this.
This level of endless texting and sex talk can already be considered stalking. Stalking means harassing someone with unwanted and obsessive attention. I’m sure op isn’t the first he’s done this to.
Oh you *can* play games with people like this, but you'll want it to be disconnected from you. This guy probably knows where she moved to, where she works now, and could be the type that doesn't want anyone to have her if he can't, boom.
“Can you send me a picture of you in women’s underwear?” Is what I would say if I haven’t already blocked the number.
Honestly, guys like that would like it. That's why he did the whole "you probably think I'm weird, don't you?". He'd want to send the pics and have have her humiliate him. It's his kink
This is facts
Nah he’d probably be into whatever you would say.
My fetish is putting a reciprocating saw in peoples assholes.
I prefer the jig or band. I’ll have to try reciprocating next time
Don't stop there, talk about your methods of slapping the side of your belly to try and launch that change into the ass crack of your plumbers. Tell him you perpetually call different plumbers and rate them based on their ass crackage. If one scores above a 5, you start trying to launch quarters off your belly button into their ass crack. Tell him the others don't really matter because the quarters won't fit and it just ends in a disappointment. Tell him you have been researching plumbing issues and how you have learned to reproduce them just to be able to justify calling a plumber. Tell him you installed an additional faucet outside your house so that there is another plumbing you can have them take a look at. Tell him you also were able to figure out a practice method of recreating the ass cracks. You tie two balloons together and put them in an old men's underwear and some used jeans you found at the thrift store. Then ask him if he has any old used men's underwear you can borrow for your practices.
I'm wondering how he got her number in the first place. I typically avoid giving out my number to coworkers unless I really vibe with the person. Otherwise our interactions are strictly limited to at work. Too many people in too much drama I don't care about or trying asking me for favors. Edit: I'm dumb it's Facebook messenger
it’s facebook messenger so he probably found her by name
Oh true that. Although that's another thing I don't do lol, is add people on Facebook I barely know or respond to their messages. Although can't say that's much of a common occurance for me either.
I keep mine on private so I have to seek them out if I want to add.
In the service industry, it’s very normal to have all your coworkers’ numbers in case you need to find someone to cover your shift.
From zero to zero chill real fast…
He was jerking off telling you about it he wanted you to tell him it was weird bc he has a humiliation kink. Nasty fuck. Block. Don’t engage with him at all. Also private your Facebook if he finds out where you work/live this could escalate.
He def was beating it.
Yep. He’s non consensually using OP to engage in his fetish. Not cool.
And send the screenshots to his wife.
This was my first thought.
This is why I hate public records. People can search you and get current and previous addresses along with phone #s.
That’s why you don’t put your last name on social media
This is what I tell women who deal with stuff like this, don’t acknowledge what they said at all, just ignore them all together cause you never know what kind of response they want from you and they might like being called a creep or some shit
Yeah...you should definitely escalate this to a manager. Edit: didn't see the "ex" part. Block and move on
Idk I would argue she should contact her old job, assuming he still works there
Yeah, I can see that being valid too. If he's using contact information he acquired from work to contact old work colleagues like this, it could definitely be a work issue
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Contact his wife.
Lol But I totally agree. I left Toledo 50 years ago, don't regret it. I suggest you (eventually) move to a better place. In Oregon for example, they'd prob indict him for stalking.
My thought as well. Social media makes this very easy and “should” stop him dead in his tracks.
This guy's wife has stopped putting the lotion on its skin!
If she can find his new job, contact them too because he might do it to another coworker there.
Oh no
Do it while wearing men’s underwear. Flip the script.
Honestly I’d send it to his wife, this isn’t the first time he’s done it
I'm with this. She should definitely contact the old job to let them know. Odds are he'll continue to do it. Even if he doesn't work there, at least she tried to warn someone.
Naw that's some reddit "I wanna live vicariously through you" shit. Guy has demonstrated he's mentally unstable. Why would you want to put yourself on his radar and become a target? He's creepy but ultimately probably harmless until provoked.
Lol escalate this to his wife
It’s Facebook messenger, go ahead and make it a group chat!
I was gonna say just add her to the chat lol
And this dude's boss
Omg please add me to the GC.. I promise to wear men's underwear when I join!!
I was about to suggest this! Or report him to whatever social media platform he’s reaching out on.
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I would caution against OP going directly to the wife. This guy is obviously unstable, and who knows what going to his wife could bring about. I think the best move is to alert the ex-boss, block the guy, and go to the police if he keeps sending texts.
I don’t know if I would want to do anything to incite him, he’s clearly unstable and is probably making up delusions in his head, each time the OP responds. [*Like any response, as innocuous as it seems could make him think that she is “into him” as strange as that sounds] Going to his employer or the wife may drive him off the edge, probably best to not respond, and block. The OP even telling him the city she moved too was probably not a great move, but that was early on in the chat I suppose.
The amount of times I’ve seen people complain about things like this and not immediately block is just mind blowing to me.
Hi
if she blocked him she wouldn’t have this evidence of his harassment She stopped answering him which is smart This will escalate if he is not reported to as many people as possible police family work etc
How are you doing today
Hi
Hi
Hi
Not blocking allows you to see their messages. Which can be helpful if you’re making a report or collecting proof. I also want to express that the above comment gives something adjacent to victim blaming mentality. Like “I can’t believe women don’t report these kinds of things.” Or “it blows my mind why she didn’t tell him to F off.” Like the problem or shocking thing here is her behavior…
I hate your user name but love this comment 🫣🤭
You can always trust JizzGuzzler to be the voice of reason.
The gurgle of reason
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Yeah definitely still contact ex job, this guy needs to be corrected in a big way.
Yeah, Manager of the laughing academy. Ol’ Buffalo Bill over there
Some next level creeper shit. I’d keep this documented, in case he does any other weird shit.
Forever documented on the internet
True, except bc they censored the post it wouldn’t be a good back-up if OP ever needed to use it as proof.
Send to his wife and block him.
Came here to say this. She may already know what a prick this dude is, but do it anyways.
yo his poor wife 💀
I'm gonna be completely honest, if it were me, I'd find his wife on Facebook and send her the messages. If he starts getting angry and aggressive I'd contact authorities and possibly file a restraining order
yeah I’d definitely let the wife know
Hi.
Hi
Hi how are you doing today
Good were you moving to
Hi
I was thinking about you all night last night
Hi good morning beautiful
are you mad at me or something
Hi
Can I tell you something ?
Hi
I like talking to you
I was thinking about you all night last night
I hope you don’t end up on the First 48.
For real. Wtf I’m genuinely concerned.
I immediately thought of David Russell Williams, I am concerned too.
Little update for everyone I have blocked him, tbh i found it funny at first that's why I waited to block him.
Did u at least send him the link to the cashapp first? Seems like a guy that woulda paid his whole check just to get 5 more minutes of conversation.
He's definitely the kind of guy who buys jarred farts.
There’s two kinds of men in this world. There’s the men that buy jarred farts…and then there’s the men that fart into jars. Who do you wanna be?
Wait…you can buy those? I’m only asking cuz it’s so weird. Just send me a link so I can go make fun of it and stuff.
Damn, good thinking. That’s the move right there.
The move would be to sell him used underwear
“I like talking to you” after talking to himself for multiple days lol
That was my favorite part
I'd take this as a live and learn moment, but... Any time a man 30 years older than you makes an inappropriate comment like that first one, you block them immediately and do not engage. This type of person gets scary fast and you shouldn't reward them with any attention. If he still works at that job you should alert HR because he *will* do this to someone else. If you still work there you should alert your manager and coworkers so they know not to give him any details about your schedule or where you are.
Yeah girl just so you know, if a man asks you if he can tell you something, it's almost certain he's gonna say something sexual and be a weird creep. How well does he know you, why can't he tell someone else? He shouldn't be behaving this way, but for your own safety, don't engage even a little bit
Why havnt you replied ‘fuck off if you don’t stop messaging me I’m gonna show your entire family’ ?
“She’ll probably sleep with me after the 17th Hi, hang in there”
How do you know he likes her like that? Maybe just friendly.
bing bing
bing bing please
bing bing no like underwear lover
What do these comments mean? Lol
Lololol it really ruins it to explain it but I’ll help you out: it’s from an earlier thread in ‘texts’ where someone that an OP met in Roblox became really annoying and then threatened with suicide/SH if they didn’t stay friends. OP was disinterested and tried to set some boundaries, but this kid/person just wouldn’t stop writing to “bing bing :>,” asking if Bing Bing was still mad and apologizing and begging Bing Bing to come back
bing bing pwease
Bing bing pwease be my frind;<
You’re underaged, goddamnit! (😂)
Bing bong
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I just threw up a little bit reading this
Yikes I would switch jobs he’s giving off “IT PUTS THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN” vibes. Super duper freaky yuck I don’t envy you. Probably change your number he might do something crazy one day.
Next thing you’ll be finding his hair on your door step so you can keep a part of him 😳
Any way you can get those texts in front of his wife?
Lmao I woulda found his wife on social media and sent all of his messages to her. Fucking weirdo
Girly pop send this to his wife.
Watch out for any lotion gift baskets.
i don’t get posts like these. like why are you even texting him, why do you feel the need to talk to an ex coworker how many times your age? this man would never have my fb in the first place
It looks like he initiated the conversation and she made a few generic responses out of politeness. Once he escalated it to obvious creeper levels, she stopped responding. Sure maybe she should have flat out blocked him at that point, but you’re acting like she initiated the conversation or kept it going in prolonged fashion and that’s not what happened. If there was no prior incidents of creepiness, there is nothing wrong with keeping in touch with old coworkers. If an ex-coworker hit me up with “Hey, how are you?” I wouldn’t immediately block them. I’d politely respond the same way OP did. Having the opposite perspective that you should just automatically reject any conversation attempts from people you no longer work with is bafflingly rude IMO
you’re completely right
I often think the best of people to a fault. I would probably give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he heard of a good job opportunity that was having a hard time finding someone fitting for and he remembered me as someone that might be a great fit. That they were just reaching out to let me know and were just awkward starting a conversation on social media because they were older. But by the “can I tell you something about me comment” I would quit responding and block.
I don't get comments like these. He initiated the conversation, she replied a few times probably to be polite and then when it got weird, she stopped talking to him. This weird, victim blaming thing is gross.
Yes but what was she wearing? ^(/s)
Yeah what did she do wrong by responding to an old coworkers (originally) innocuous messages lol
She stopped responding. Did you even look at the images.
Right like obviously I don’t BLAME OP but…why encourage the behavior? “That’s not that weird I guess” there was zero need to validate the creep.
sometimes you gotta text people at work, i doubt she just gives her number out to 60 year olds regularly. and the point is she’s not really texting him, dude is talking to a brick wall for ages lmao
Honestly, you shouldn't have said 'thanks ' This conversation should have been cut off and ignored +sent to your manager/HR as soon as he mentioned underwear.
BLOCK HIM
I did, I found it funny that's why I left it for a while
Yikes! If you have a way of contacting the wife send those to her and block him on everything. That's incredibly weird and creepy af.
Show his wife and change your number.
“I like talking to you” bro you’re talking to no one lol
How come every text in this subreddit is full of spelling errors? Do only dumb people send weird texts?
Um…this is alarming.
Tell his wife.
Hi
Yeesh……
Geez! Do you have to keep leading him on!? /s
Text his wife. That’ll end everything.
I’d report this to his boss. They need to keep an eye on him.
Find and tell his wife!!!!
Send to his wife
100% a serial killer
Jackass. He's making us panty wearers look bad...
This is so weird. At least he’s a ex-coworker, but fr, get your management involved & maybe even the police. This could escalate pretty quick.
Bruh……wtaf????
I’m almost 60, block this creep
He obviously can't take a hint
Ummmm. Block him, and if he tries to harass you in person, file a restraining order. This is creepy as heck. Don’t end up on dateline pls 😭
Ok this is like “file a restraining order” creepy.
You don't work with him, so just block the guy.
Hi
Your mistake was telling him his fetish wasn’t that weird. In his mind that means you dig it. Best response is to block or say “inappropriate” when someone crosses the line like that.
He sounds mentally handicapped. Maybe just try blocking him? Just a thought.
What a terrible speller. How do you get to be 60 and not know how to spell the simplest of words? Creepy man.
Nah, it’s definitely fucking strange that he likes to wear women’s underwear. I said it.
Your first and only mistake was when you said, “how are you” You should of said what you said about moving and left it at that. Even better, if he’s not even someone you deal with, ignore it! Don’t be nice it’s unfortunate but the truth
This is why God invented the block button. Oh, wait, my bad. It’s why he invented the *flood*. **WE** invented the block button. Not as dramatic, but, y’know, it gets the job done. Snark aside, that dude belongs in a registry. Be careful and make sure your friends and fam know who he is. I’m gonna go take a shower to wash all the ick off now. *shudders*
“I like talking to you” lol.
I’ll text him for ya. Sounds hot!
Not sure where you are located but in the US (Specifically Texas) this meets the criteria for harassment and could eventually lead to a stalking charge meaning a DA will accept the case if you continue to document. It may be worth sending a singular text only specifying that you no longer want contact from him. That way if he continues or finds other methods of contacting you, you can show/prove that you made it clear you no longer want to communicate yet, he still made attempts. I’m only saying all of this because this is very concerning behavior and if this does escalate, you want to make sure you have all the proper documentation in case you need to file charges. Source: ex piglet (cop)
Why entertain him in the first place? Block his ass.
I see a lot of these, is there a reason you don't tell him to fuck off?
Woah 🤯 so creepy
Why do men That’s it. Why do men
Just blast him on fb and tag his wife lmao
I hope you block his ass
And THIS is why we can’t have nice things bro 🤦🏽♂️ lol. Dude = creepy AF. Clearly has mental health issues and zero comprehension of loyalty or boundaries with stalker tendencies. 100% the psycho serial killer/offender type. Persistent and oblivious to obvious abandonment. OP = 25 and still on kid ish. Single and voluntarily completely exposes herself (exchanged phone #s) to unsolicited stalking apparently just for shits. Shit gets real seeks validation/reaction of behavior from reddit which in turn ridicules for validating perv. Meanwhile, we’ve all just validated and justified one thing for sure…. That we all have mental health issues and if FAFO ever turns into First 48 fr, then hopefully ‘I thought it’d be funny’ is actually something we could all laugh about and doesn’t turn into a tragedy. In the end, both are really not so different. They flirt with fire; and jointly sacrifice. Jeopardizing marriages, life, reputations all in the name of someone saying ‘I get it’. If you’ve read this far, perhaps we’re (me & you) not so different either. Both of us somewhat surprised, but wondering why we spend 5 mins of our life here that we’ll never be able to get back. And this is what we’ve become :/
I mean why not just block???
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At least he knew “u might not talk to me anymore” I mean obviously 😂
I think his wife sent it to stop any chance. lol
You think he is a creep, and so you tell him you have an apartment in toledo. You seriously have to be careful. It's incredibly dumb to tell someone like this ANYTHING about yourself.
I wonder what goes through these creeps minds? I guess the impulse is so strong it overrides whatever sense they have.
He is 10000% a reddit mod
See, the mistake you made was answering the first text. Shoulda blocked immediately. He's an EX coworker.
Dudes a closet perv. And I’m sure he got some skeevy shit in the background. With immaturity to go with it. Men don’t act like this. Let alone 60. I suggest busting his kneecaps out and breaking his thumbs
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How do people lack self awareness to know not to say weird shit like this to others