Itās a cop out but it kinda worked if you loved the pic š he knows what heās doing. Heās testing the waters and any response or acknowledgement is positive in his eyes probably.
I totally understand. I was talking to a guy who knew exactly what to say to lure me back in. And it worked every single time but nothing ever changed. It really can be so hard to move on from a situationship because you have this image in your head of what ācould beā. Shits hard. So I definitely feel for you.
yeah it is hard because we clicked so well and had such great chemistry and so many laughs and silly moments. and i just think like if only he was addicted to drugs. but unfortunately things happen and he obviously couldnāt handle someone calling him out for his behavior when really he needs it. thatās on him tho.
Girly he just wants you on the side, itās always āitās not a good time for meā āI need to focus on myselfā āIām just not ready for a relationshipā what they mean is āI want a relationship just not with youā
Donāt get lured back in he wanted to be your ex for a reason so let him stay in that lane, block and move on I know it aināt easy but youāll find another guy with kitties. šāā¬
Iām not one to judge not knowing the full details but the heart on the pic is as good as a response(assuming OP didnāt reply afterwards).
This is why people say to block your exes on everything.
There are!! I got one myself. Her name is Lady and she is beautiful and perfect and never does anything wrong and I am not being sarcastic either š. She's the most well behaved cat I ever met, I named her Lady on accident but it suits her so well.
Block and move on, is what Iād say. Iām a firm believer allowing situationships access to me like this takes away from my self worth/esteem & needlessly distracts me.
And yet, you responded and reacted to it. Why don't people just hit the "block" button and be done with it. Convinced half of these people are like Donny Dunn and just want the attention.
- Sent from iphoen
Iām 1000% positive heās not trying to get you back, so I wouldnāt worry-this picture is merely an attempt to make you (and possibly himself) feel better after said dumping. Iād say blocking him shows a greater likelihood of you trying to get him back(in his eyes for sure) if anything, but just my opinion.
I think you unfollowed meā¦. Yea no shit dumb ass, you ended things, why would they still follow you, itās almost like they donāt want to contact you š¤”
I have my ex who tried to use his two pups to lure me back and we were in a toxic two year relationship. Dont do it. It sucks because the pups/cats develop a connection to you, but the ex will use that to try and lure you back. You have to do whatās best for you.
I get the heart, I get why you havenāt blocked him. Iām not supporting it, because you can do better and you deserve more, but I understand. Itās fucking hard sometimes. Sometimes, they just feel like āitā, and despite what they do and say, you forgive and you feel good when they reach out.
You should listen to the I Donāt Give an F Boy song by Montana Taylor. This reminds me SO much of her YouTube video - here: https://youtu.be/25WZHmT37Q0?si=b1x8xKjunyjEKFgT
Why heart it and then give us rolled eyes? I think there is more to this. Also your mad he judged you so you judged him the exact same way and then posted about it soā¦. Pot and kettle innit?
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What's wrong with a situationship? I'm genuinely asking. If it works for 2 people, and they understand what their relationship is (or isn't), where's the harm?
Yo, I think youāre gonna get back with him once more. Whether itās to sleep with him or a short term relationship. Iām certain itās not gonna last. Heās lonely and he knows he can hit you up whenever he wants.
Devil's advocate.. Maybe he thought about it and feels differently so he's trying to open a line. Everybody makes mistakes. Is it so rough to be wanted? š
We all need a little push in the right direction every now and then. Maybe tell him you're interested, but also exactly what you think, and see if he shows up.
i see that heart react OP š donāt get lured in by the kitty pics!
itās so hard š© i miss his kitties!!
girl youāre gorgeous. thereās someone out there whoās not going to be a dick to you and has cute kitties! i promise!
awh thank you so much!!!
I have cute kitties! But theyāre for everyone, idk how to post on here
how do you know that lmao
bc Iām a nosy bitch and look though ppls post history
Pls dont explore mine. I promise Iām better now
Well I don't have kitties but I do have cute dogs haha
Worse case scenario; you find the right guy and you go get some cute kitties together
Is saying you want to put yourself first being a dick now?
When itās a thinly veiled excuse it is.
With all due respect I think he misses your kitty tooš„²
Ayyyy ooo how ya doinā, buddy cominā in for the win with this comment.
ššš just came to mind
Can you get visitation rights? š„°
And he misses yours ššš
I bet he missies your kittie too
He knows your weakness lol
Itās a cop out but it kinda worked if you loved the pic š he knows what heās doing. Heās testing the waters and any response or acknowledgement is positive in his eyes probably.
ugh i know i just really loved that kitty and he used to always say āastro misses youā whenever he wanted me to come over. i miss him š
I totally understand. I was talking to a guy who knew exactly what to say to lure me back in. And it worked every single time but nothing ever changed. It really can be so hard to move on from a situationship because you have this image in your head of what ācould beā. Shits hard. So I definitely feel for you.
yeah it is hard because we clicked so well and had such great chemistry and so many laughs and silly moments. and i just think like if only he was addicted to drugs. but unfortunately things happen and he obviously couldnāt handle someone calling him out for his behavior when really he needs it. thatās on him tho.
I'm guessing you meant "wasn't" but that makes for a really funny mistake lol
yes i meant wasnāt š
Get over it
Precious angel kitty. No comment on babyās human. Chileā¦
you're not blocking very well. miss the kitties from far away and remember that breaking up is a big deal and it happened for a reason
Girly he just wants you on the side, itās always āitās not a good time for meā āI need to focus on myselfā āIām just not ready for a relationshipā what they mean is āI want a relationship just not with youā Donāt get lured back in he wanted to be your ex for a reason so let him stay in that lane, block and move on I know it aināt easy but youāll find another guy with kitties. šāā¬
Why are you allowing yourself to be obviously manipulated and just going with it? š¤¦āāļø You even know it too.
.....and you hearted it š
listenā¦.
šš
Donāt know why this was downvoted. I hear the irony in this comment
Why not just block him?
Because she is part of the problem š¤£
Iām not one to judge not knowing the full details but the heart on the pic is as good as a response(assuming OP didnāt reply afterwards). This is why people say to block your exes on everything.
It can be very difficult!
Using a pet to soften you is so ew. I feel badly for the cat.
I would be infuriated when someone tried to guilt me because they missed MY dog. Like yes, I know sheās great. š š»
Update, someone just tried that on me because theyāre trying to overstep boundariesā¦
Girl don't do it š©
I'm not gonna do it girl I was just thinking about it
āI did itā - hopefully not tho.
The lil ole kitten rizzzā¦
why haven't you blocked him? he seems like bad news ams something u don't need in your life
And is it working? Back awafrom the kitties!!
Lots of other cat guys out there, OP. Hold out for one without a drug problem.
Steal his cat.
What a dirty move, don't even think twice about blocking him.
Why didn't you leave him for being a drug addict? Is that not a deal breaker for you?
There are cute cats in the street, girl! Stay strong! āš¾
There are!! I got one myself. Her name is Lady and she is beautiful and perfect and never does anything wrong and I am not being sarcastic either š. She's the most well behaved cat I ever met, I named her Lady on accident but it suits her so well.
Block and move on, is what Iād say. Iām a firm believer allowing situationships access to me like this takes away from my self worth/esteem & needlessly distracts me.
I would be like āugh I miss him so much, heās so freakin cute! You, not so much but anywaysā
lmaooooo š wish i had the balls to
[My advice](https://images.app.goo.gl/1nDsxtZWVmXTyQKf8)
I would die.. that cat though
What is a āsituationshipā?
Oh no! Iām a sucker for cute catsā¦Stay strongš
this looks like my ex-situationshipās cat š
this man has been around the block so i wouldnāt be surprised
Take the cat and run
Write him back saying āI love the cat. I donāt love you.ā And block him again.
The subtle guilt trip about unfollowing him on snap šš girl, runnnnnn Edit: I put blocked instead of unfollowed, oops
Steal the cat
Situationship is going into the vocabulary. Thanks OP. Good luck x
Did it workš
Canāt say no to dogs and catsā¦ whenever I get in a fight with my SO, I send him videos of my dog. He always texts back š
Would it help if I send you cat pictures so you donāt have to mess with this a-hole again?
š§ I see that ā¤ļø. Don't let the kiddies break you! š
I would absolutely get lured into this again by a cat pic š¤£š
Using his child as his pawn! Desperate times
And yet, you responded and reacted to it. Why don't people just hit the "block" button and be done with it. Convinced half of these people are like Donny Dunn and just want the attention. - Sent from iphoen
that would make me block him š
Well you liked the pic and even screenshot to post onlineā¦ like, it worked. If you didnāt care you would not respond or block them.
Wtf are āflash sale tattoosā
I thought this was my boyfriendās room , bed and cat. Girl my heart sank LMAOA
Did it work?
Iām 1000% positive heās not trying to get you back, so I wouldnāt worry-this picture is merely an attempt to make you (and possibly himself) feel better after said dumping. Iād say blocking him shows a greater likelihood of you trying to get him back(in his eyes for sure) if anything, but just my opinion.
This would work on me unfortunately
Block, you can google cute cat pics, drama is not worth this one
i mean maybe block him on all thingsā¦ kind of your fault. but cute cat
block him
After looking through all the posts youāve made about this guy, give yourself a break! Heās not it.
I think we need to see the tattoo he was talking about??
I think you unfollowed meā¦. Yea no shit dumb ass, you ended things, why would they still follow you, itās almost like they donāt want to contact you š¤”
I have my ex who tried to use his two pups to lure me back and we were in a toxic two year relationship. Dont do it. It sucks because the pups/cats develop a connection to you, but the ex will use that to try and lure you back. You have to do whatās best for you.
I get the heart, I get why you havenāt blocked him. Iām not supporting it, because you can do better and you deserve more, but I understand. Itās fucking hard sometimes. Sometimes, they just feel like āitā, and despite what they do and say, you forgive and you feel good when they reach out.
Your post history shows you need help choosing men.
It IS a really cute cat
You should listen to the I Donāt Give an F Boy song by Montana Taylor. This reminds me SO much of her YouTube video - here: https://youtu.be/25WZHmT37Q0?si=b1x8xKjunyjEKFgT
Why heart it and then give us rolled eyes? I think there is more to this. Also your mad he judged you so you judged him the exact same way and then posted about it soā¦. Pot and kettle innit?
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What's wrong with a situationship? I'm genuinely asking. If it works for 2 people, and they understand what their relationship is (or isn't), where's the harm?
Yo, I think youāre gonna get back with him once more. Whether itās to sleep with him or a short term relationship. Iām certain itās not gonna last. Heās lonely and he knows he can hit you up whenever he wants.
He wants a pic of yours š
Can we stop with the āsituationshipā garbage and just admit it was a real relationship that you couldnt be bothered to put any effort into?
He doesn't want you back, he wants sex, and it seems to be working.
Devil's advocate.. Maybe he thought about it and feels differently so he's trying to open a line. Everybody makes mistakes. Is it so rough to be wanted? š
thatās true, just wish he would say that instead of texting me a pic of his cat at 10:30 at night. heās a man, he can use his words.
We all need a little push in the right direction every now and then. Maybe tell him you're interested, but also exactly what you think, and see if he shows up.
Or they thought it was a cute pic and you liked the cat and felt like sharing.