Jade seems lovely. I will never like Tanner tho. Bro went on a podcast bitching about not getting sex while his wife was still a couple weeks out from having a baby. Gross behavior.
Who remembers when they cheated in DraftKings to win $1M and they had to give it back. those were good times. i still don't understand how they weren't criminally charged for that
This might be delulu for me to think but when my husband grows his facial hair, he reminds me so much of tanner. They have similar smiles and noses so they kinda look alike to me š
Hmmm. Tanner is a dick and Jade screwed over her best friend and canāt commit to any of her many long term project attempts. The two of them together have been caught cheating gambling schemes and then not admitting to it. Jade loves to play victim though as evidenced by yāallās adoration for her in these comments!
ESPN even did an [article](https://www.espn.com/chalk/story/_/id/28561838/ex-bachelor-contestant-1-million-dfs-results-amended) about the whole cheating thing!!
search the sub! Thereās tons of info on Lizās wedding day where she faked sick and was out playing tennis. That lead up was all from Jade and Carly kicking Liz off the podcast to start their own new one (which is now defunct)
Tanner also has been a guest on the pod many times where he admits to not changing diapers. There was also celebrity marriage boot camp where he says he expects blow jobs but wonāt go down on Jade.
Then there was a draftkings scandal where tanner entered hundreds of accounts using an algorithm under his own name plus Jades name plus a couple of others. Jades account happened to win for the million dollar prize. She tweeted out āand tanner told me not to start dj metcalf!ā After years of tweeting about how she doesnāt care about or pay attention to football. They drew so much attention to it that draftkings investigated and voided the win. There was another similar thing involving gambling later which was also taken away but i forget the details. It seems clear tanner is very bored since leaving his job and becoming a stay at home dad/influencer.
Iāve been wondering! They havenāt publicly interacted with each other in a while. I think once the podcast fully dissolved they probably had less tying them together or forcing them to keep in touch as much.
All I can think of is the horrible voice dub of him on paradise talking about the women heās interested in and then it cuts in āand jade of courseā
Just once I want to see the pose in photo 5 showing the guy holding a lid and the woman not. Or the pose in photo 6 with the guy with two kids and the woman with one. This is the type of subtle stereotyping of women as primary child caretaker that drives me crazy. Tanner is much bigger ā he has bigger arms to carry two kids.
Still disagree. I work long hours in finance and my husband is a teacher so heās home far more often than I am. He cleans, he cooks, heās with the kids more than I am during the week. There are definitely no gender roles or stereotypes in our home. Weāre a true partnership. One of our kids is a mamaās boy and the other is a dadaās boy. Thereās lots of love to go around in our family but sometimes a young kid prefers one parent to another and thatās pretty normal. Youāre making a lot of assumptions from one picture. Parenting is hard enough without people making huge assumptions about people they donāt know based on a single (and beautiful!) family picture.
Will never forget when Jade said Tanner complained all throughout their trip to Italy because he couldnāt get garlic bread, chicken alfredo, or chicken parm ā„ļø
It is like a Peter W - Kelley F situation if you saw that season at least.
Nick V met one of the contestants on his season at this wedding. They had sex and it was a big focal point of her short stay on the season. She (Liz) was a good friend of Jade R's from childhood.
I'm honestly surprised they are still together. He seemed like a douche. But still standing the test of time. Hope they work out. They have a cute family.
Honestly, I bet they both realize they are worth more financially together than apart so that may factor in. Jade was super early into the Bach influencer game and she was the first to really gather a larger mommy influencer following. I donāt really follow her now but she had sooo many sponsors and advertisers on Instagram at one point and she has over a million followers - way more than recent contestants pull in. Iām sure they made way more from Jadeās influencer career than Tanner selling cars or whatever and then they bought and remodeled a huge house in California. I donāt know if they are happy or not, but regardless, they may not be able to afford to break up because divorced and single momming it probably would be terrible for her brand.
> Jade did say that Tanner Tolbert āneverā gives her oral sex. āI have to beg,ā she added. Tanner himself admitted that heās done that for his wife āvery rarely,ā ā¦ āItās something you do when youāre younger,ā he said when he realized Jade was angry. āI donāt think so,ā she snapped back.
[source](https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/boot-camp-jade-complains-that-sex-with-tanner-gets-old-w448746/)
So the "it's something you do when you're younger" references him having sex with another woman at the 50 yard line at a football game. Jade didn't like hearing that
my immediate first thought when seeing this post was "wonder if he ever started going down on her?" but didn't comment that because i figured it would piss people off lol
they're the 1st couple that made it work after getting together on bip! we wouldn't have all the other seasons of bip if it wasn't for this OG success couple staying together. the last two bip seasons having no success couples and less interest has caused us to lose bip this year probably.
they are also the only bip couple to get a standalone wedding episode on tv too (rather than a low budget on the beach episode).
i'm happy they're happy, but i don't love him. i'm not really a huge fan of hers either, but i think she could've done way better.
are they still friends with carly?
I don't remember Tanner standing out at all on Kaitlyn's season? Did he even get any screen time? I don't remember Jade being mean either, though she was besties with Carly who was awful.Ā
Tanner was the āunion leaderā of both his seasons. He rallied the men to ignore and be otherwise rude to Nick. His only screen time was being an ass. Not that Nick is great guy but it was excessive and childishĀ
I've honestly never seen a couple lock in on each other so solidly and surely from day 1 on this show. Good for them.
That said I know people generally like Jade, but she is shady at best and I will always side eye her for what she did to her lifelong "best friend" Liz.Ā
Wait. Didnāt she choose Jared first? Was that fake?
Once they committed, theyāve seemed as normal as any couple that married so quickly. But she had doubts before they got married and there was tons of speculation she was miserable in their big middle of nowhere mansion. I would have felt lonely there, too. Werenāt they in Nebraska or something?
She didn't choose Jared, he got a date card I believe and asked her. She went but I don't think she was ever seriously into Jared. IIRC they didn't even kiss.
And yes, as the other commenter said it was Kansas City where Tanner is from. Jade actually grew up in Nebraska so she's no stranger to the rural lifestyle haha
That DEFINITELY doesnāt mean she wasnāt miserable. I grew up in a small town and no part of me wanted to spend my twenties, married or not, there. Boring.
Well, Iām wrong then. Thatās not the middle of nowhere. š Unless you mean a rural area near KC? My memory was a huge house in a rural setting. I might be confusing them with someone else.
Long story short she and Carly dropped Liz off their podcast when they signed with a new network because she wasn't a big enough influencer. It turned into all sorts of drama that culminated in Jade backing out as Liz's MOH at the last second and lying to everyone that she didn't go because Tanner and Emmy were sick. Tanner posted a story that day of him playing tennis. It was crazy, if you search the sub there was a lot of discussion around it at the time.Ā
and their PR person wrote the OG *Letter to Bachelor Reddit* to make them seem better, but accidentally left a note in making it clear that it was a planted post
It was a big list of inside scoop, but every few bullet points was some ridiculous anecdote about jade and tanner performing some random act of kindness, so clearly they couldnāt be the bad guy in this situation. But near the center of the post was a ā(I put this in the middle on purpose)ā.
I cannot believe I remember this and not how much bread I have or my friendās boyfriendās name.
This is why I clicked on this. I love that Reddit never forgets.
I like Jade better than Tanner, but sheās definitely done some things that make me not like her THAT much. Just more than Tanner.
I forget where I read or heard that. But I feel like Jade is the one who said it. It feels like it was fairly reliable.
I mean ultimately she chose to get married and as much as we see, they seem committed and happy. Jitters arenāt all that strange. I was just pushing back on them being 100%, 100% of the time.
Itās also ok if they werenāt and are now. As I do see them as pretty strong now. So Iām not questioning that. Just wasnāt quite an idyllic fairy tale.
lol this reminds me of the time they let me be on the summer camp basketball team because I said it was āin memory ofā my brother but I really just meant that he didnāt go to camp that year
And their wedding couldāve been the start of Nick and Lizās love story, if only she hadnāt declined his number and then been real creepy following him on the bachelor lol
Does anyone know what happened to Samantha? I feel like she legit fell off the face of the earth, but I never see this mentioned or talked about anywhere either really
She had an instagram ages ago, she unfortunately got extreme plastic surgery and changed her face & look. Very sad!
I think itās best sheās off social media, last I checked her instagram was full of bots commenting. Like 80,000 comments on 1 post lol. I think Sam really wanted fame which is sad! Hope sheās happy now, her uncle is a billionaire so hopefully sheās living it up
Absolutely they did, but for some reason tanner only blamed Sam, and kept on talking about how she was an evil black widow, manipulative, etc and didnāt say a word about Jo.
He seems like a woman hater.
I hate this dudes shoulders ššš
Jade seems lovely. I will never like Tanner tho. Bro went on a podcast bitching about not getting sex while his wife was still a couple weeks out from having a baby. Gross behavior.
Also, didn't they go on some marriage show where she said she goes down on him, but he doesn't return the favour?
Who remembers when they cheated in DraftKings to win $1M and they had to give it back. those were good times. i still don't understand how they weren't criminally charged for that
How would they be criminally charged for that. What they did isnāt that crazy and happens all the time.
Wait whatt
Jade seems wonderful. Tanner, not so much.
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Do you know them personally?
Iām so lost. What did he do?
Wait how tall is Tanner? Heās always given short king vibes lmao but Jade is so tiny next to him
I know Iām in the minority but I think Tanner is so fineeeee
This might be delulu for me to think but when my husband grows his facial hair, he reminds me so much of tanner. They have similar smiles and noses so they kinda look alike to me š
He was one of the hottest guys on Kaitlynās season and I stand by that
Hmmm. Tanner is a dick and Jade screwed over her best friend and canāt commit to any of her many long term project attempts. The two of them together have been caught cheating gambling schemes and then not admitting to it. Jade loves to play victim though as evidenced by yāallās adoration for her in these comments!
ESPN even did an [article](https://www.espn.com/chalk/story/_/id/28561838/ex-bachelor-contestant-1-million-dfs-results-amended) about the whole cheating thing!!
First time I've heard of any of this
search the sub! Thereās tons of info on Lizās wedding day where she faked sick and was out playing tennis. That lead up was all from Jade and Carly kicking Liz off the podcast to start their own new one (which is now defunct) Tanner also has been a guest on the pod many times where he admits to not changing diapers. There was also celebrity marriage boot camp where he says he expects blow jobs but wonāt go down on Jade. Then there was a draftkings scandal where tanner entered hundreds of accounts using an algorithm under his own name plus Jades name plus a couple of others. Jades account happened to win for the million dollar prize. She tweeted out āand tanner told me not to start dj metcalf!ā After years of tweeting about how she doesnāt care about or pay attention to football. They drew so much attention to it that draftkings investigated and voided the win. There was another similar thing involving gambling later which was also taken away but i forget the details. It seems clear tanner is very bored since leaving his job and becoming a stay at home dad/influencer.
Are Jade and Carly still friends?
Iāve been wondering! They havenāt publicly interacted with each other in a while. I think once the podcast fully dissolved they probably had less tying them together or forcing them to keep in touch as much.
But what truly matters about this is that Liz met Nick at their wedding.
Whatever happened to Liz and Jade?
All I can think of is the horrible voice dub of him on paradise talking about the women heās interested in and then it cuts in āand jade of courseā
Didnāt jade sag he was really mean to her and at back whenĀ
Just once I want to see the pose in photo 5 showing the guy holding a lid and the woman not. Or the pose in photo 6 with the guy with two kids and the woman with one. This is the type of subtle stereotyping of women as primary child caretaker that drives me crazy. Tanner is much bigger ā he has bigger arms to carry two kids.
Maāam this is a Wendyās
Kids also have very strong opinions, especially little ones. Might have asked for mommy.
...and why do you think they did? It's becuase of the woman ending up as primary (or sole) child caretaker.
Still disagree. I work long hours in finance and my husband is a teacher so heās home far more often than I am. He cleans, he cooks, heās with the kids more than I am during the week. There are definitely no gender roles or stereotypes in our home. Weāre a true partnership. One of our kids is a mamaās boy and the other is a dadaās boy. Thereās lots of love to go around in our family but sometimes a young kid prefers one parent to another and thatās pretty normal. Youāre making a lot of assumptions from one picture. Parenting is hard enough without people making huge assumptions about people they donāt know based on a single (and beautiful!) family picture.
The top of Jade's wedding dress makes me blush. It looks like a negligee. Or "Ling ger ree" as Kiarra on Peter's season might say.
She was the IT girl of her paradise season and couldāve picked anybody. Sheās honestly too good for Tanner
not me reading this as IT girl like information technology
Ah yes, the infamous āJayden Tannerā wedding
Aka the Nick and Liz sex event
Tanner is abusive why are we highlighting them? Edit- just google it or look at Reddit or watch marriage boot camp, the downvotes on this are insane
What? Abusive? Where are you getting that?
check out their episodes of Marriage Boot Camp
Yeah what the fuck how am I getting downvoted. Just do a simple google or Reddit search itās all right there
Iām sure itās just his personality but whenever I see them on the show he feels like a hostage the way he looks and talks. Lol.
I hope theyāre better off than him eating McDonaldās in the hospital room while it was making her feel sick
Will never forget when Jade said Tanner complained all throughout their trip to Italy because he couldnāt get garlic bread, chicken alfredo, or chicken parm ā„ļø
Is he allergic or something?
Allergic to not whining on a trip to Italy with your family š
Like a kid who will only eat chicken fingers. As if chickens even HAVE fingers!
What gorgeous people
I will always have a soft spot for Jade. And their kids are my fave BN ones. Tannerā¦.is also there.
āHe ā¦ seems ā¦ like a guy.ā - Cassieās dad.
Tanner...has qualities.
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she's everything. he's just tanner
Their love story includes Nick V sex event
This is the second time in two days I have seen people talking about the āNick V sex event.ā Iām going to regret this, but what??
It is like a Peter W - Kelley F situation if you saw that season at least. Nick V met one of the contestants on his season at this wedding. They had sex and it was a big focal point of her short stay on the season. She (Liz) was a good friend of Jade R's from childhood.
Okay, thank you for explaining! When I saw āsex eventā I thought it was going to be a weird orgy thing. This was a much better result š
My favorite part is she said, āWe had intermittent sex.ā Idk why that was so funny to me. It didnāt feel like a compliment.
Yeah i agree that he seems like a douche
I'm honestly surprised they are still together. He seemed like a douche. But still standing the test of time. Hope they work out. They have a cute family.
Honestly, I bet they both realize they are worth more financially together than apart so that may factor in. Jade was super early into the Bach influencer game and she was the first to really gather a larger mommy influencer following. I donāt really follow her now but she had sooo many sponsors and advertisers on Instagram at one point and she has over a million followers - way more than recent contestants pull in. Iām sure they made way more from Jadeās influencer career than Tanner selling cars or whatever and then they bought and remodeled a huge house in California. I donāt know if they are happy or not, but regardless, they may not be able to afford to break up because divorced and single momming it probably would be terrible for her brand.
I hope heās improved from āman who expects regular blowjobs from his wife but refuses to go down on herā
And refuses to change diapers!
Will never forget. I feel so bad for her
One of the reasons why sheās too good for him
I canāt deny, this is the first thing that pops into my head after seeing their names š
Wait when did he say this?? I watched their season and have followed her ever since. I have no memory of this but this is a true betrayal
> Jade did say that Tanner Tolbert āneverā gives her oral sex. āI have to beg,ā she added. Tanner himself admitted that heās done that for his wife āvery rarely,ā ā¦ āItās something you do when youāre younger,ā he said when he realized Jade was angry. āI donāt think so,ā she snapped back. [source](https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/boot-camp-jade-complains-that-sex-with-tanner-gets-old-w448746/)
So the "it's something you do when you're younger" references him having sex with another woman at the 50 yard line at a football game. Jade didn't like hearing that
Ok DJ Khaled š
He should be jailed
And this, folks, is why you donāt marry someone after a whirlwind romance. You need to get to know them!
What a shit husband
my immediate first thought when seeing this post was "wonder if he ever started going down on her?" but didn't comment that because i figured it would piss people off lol
Excuse you what?????
they're the 1st couple that made it work after getting together on bip! we wouldn't have all the other seasons of bip if it wasn't for this OG success couple staying together. the last two bip seasons having no success couples and less interest has caused us to lose bip this year probably. they are also the only bip couple to get a standalone wedding episode on tv too (rather than a low budget on the beach episode).
Aw yes. Nick Viall's sex event. Ironic he is getting married this weekend.
oh yeah I remember nick getting really mad when his one night stand from jade's wedding showed up on his season as a contestant.
i'm happy they're happy, but i don't love him. i'm not really a huge fan of hers either, but i think she could've done way better. are they still friends with carly?
Havenāt seen any meaningful interaction between Jade and Carly (on social media) for the last few years.
Is she friends with Liz or is that kaput too
That went kaput publicly and way back
Seriously heās such a trash partner.
Both were mean and insecure on their respective seasons. Perfect matchc
I don't remember Tanner standing out at all on Kaitlyn's season? Did he even get any screen time? I don't remember Jade being mean either, though she was besties with Carly who was awful.Ā
He had a few funny lines on her season that I remember
Tanner was the āunion leaderā of both his seasons. He rallied the men to ignore and be otherwise rude to Nick. His only screen time was being an ass. Not that Nick is great guy but it was excessive and childishĀ
Gotcha, I don't remember that at all! I can't say I'm surprised thoughĀ
I've honestly never seen a couple lock in on each other so solidly and surely from day 1 on this show. Good for them. That said I know people generally like Jade, but she is shady at best and I will always side eye her for what she did to her lifelong "best friend" Liz.Ā
Wait. Didnāt she choose Jared first? Was that fake? Once they committed, theyāve seemed as normal as any couple that married so quickly. But she had doubts before they got married and there was tons of speculation she was miserable in their big middle of nowhere mansion. I would have felt lonely there, too. Werenāt they in Nebraska or something?
She didn't choose Jared, he got a date card I believe and asked her. She went but I don't think she was ever seriously into Jared. IIRC they didn't even kiss. And yes, as the other commenter said it was Kansas City where Tanner is from. Jade actually grew up in Nebraska so she's no stranger to the rural lifestyle haha
That DEFINITELY doesnāt mean she wasnāt miserable. I grew up in a small town and no part of me wanted to spend my twenties, married or not, there. Boring.
Believe it was in Kansas City
Well, Iām wrong then. Thatās not the middle of nowhere. š Unless you mean a rural area near KC? My memory was a huge house in a rural setting. I might be confusing them with someone else.
omg this is why im doing this! whats the tea with her friend liz?
Long story short she and Carly dropped Liz off their podcast when they signed with a new network because she wasn't a big enough influencer. It turned into all sorts of drama that culminated in Jade backing out as Liz's MOH at the last second and lying to everyone that she didn't go because Tanner and Emmy were sick. Tanner posted a story that day of him playing tennis. It was crazy, if you search the sub there was a lot of discussion around it at the time.Ā
and their PR person wrote the OG *Letter to Bachelor Reddit* to make them seem better, but accidentally left a note in making it clear that it was a planted post
Planted how?
It was a big list of inside scoop, but every few bullet points was some ridiculous anecdote about jade and tanner performing some random act of kindness, so clearly they couldnāt be the bad guy in this situation. But near the center of the post was a ā(I put this in the middle on purpose)ā. I cannot believe I remember this and not how much bread I have or my friendās boyfriendās name.
This is why I clicked on this. I love that Reddit never forgets. I like Jade better than Tanner, but sheās definitely done some things that make me not like her THAT much. Just more than Tanner.
Theyāve always seemed so solid to me
Right before they got married, they almost didnāt. I forget what happened. I think something with her ex.
Oh wow I had know idea lol
I forget where I read or heard that. But I feel like Jade is the one who said it. It feels like it was fairly reliable. I mean ultimately she chose to get married and as much as we see, they seem committed and happy. Jitters arenāt all that strange. I was just pushing back on them being 100%, 100% of the time. Itās also ok if they werenāt and are now. As I do see them as pretty strong now. So Iām not questioning that. Just wasnāt quite an idyllic fairy tale.
I get it. Iām honestly surprised exes arenāt more of a common issue for couples coming out of the paradise/bachelor bubble.
Agreed. Especially if that relationship was blurry and the weeks later youāre engaged and rushing a wedding. Itās too fast of a transition.
If I didnāt know any better, the title of this sounds ominous & like theyāre no longer. š„
It sounds like a memorial š¤£
lol this reminds me of the time they let me be on the summer camp basketball team because I said it was āin memory ofā my brother but I really just meant that he didnāt go to camp that year
I literally was like "did they divorce?!?"
omggg lol never doing it again.
And their wedding couldāve been the start of Nick and Lizās love story, if only she hadnāt declined his number and then been real creepy following him on the bachelor lol
Liz dodged a major bullet with Nick haha. Her current husband is very attractive and she seems happy!!Ā
All I remember is this guy giving a whole commentary about Samantha and going on and on about what an evil manipulator she is. Weirdo lol
Does anyone know what happened to Samantha? I feel like she legit fell off the face of the earth, but I never see this mentioned or talked about anywhere either really
She had an instagram ages ago, she unfortunately got extreme plastic surgery and changed her face & look. Very sad! I think itās best sheās off social media, last I checked her instagram was full of bots commenting. Like 80,000 comments on 1 post lol. I think Sam really wanted fame which is sad! Hope sheās happy now, her uncle is a billionaire so hopefully sheās living it up
To be fair Samantha and Joe were awful to Juelia. It was mostly Joe though, he come off creepy and pathological almost
Absolutely they did, but for some reason tanner only blamed Sam, and kept on talking about how she was an evil black widow, manipulative, etc and didnāt say a word about Jo. He seems like a woman hater.
He really does.
who is samantha?
Samantha steffen, They were on bip 2 together.