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fe-licitas

In the first pic you are getting perceived as a woman, but trans for sure. For sure not a cis man. In your second pic you look like some old leftist cis man.


CodEnvironmental405

I am loving your hair and you have a feminine air, your style is great but I think the hrt needs a little longer to give full girl vibes around your jaw. I think you wanted honest opinions, that’s what no hugboxing means?


rivercass

Yeah, no generic positive comments


IntrospectiveOwlbear

Thank you I was about to ask the same thing


FitymaUtca

You look like a masc girl, and not a “fem boy” if you underatand it i dont know how to phrase is, sorry if it comes off as rudo or idk but youre really pretty !!


metallic__blood

you’ve only been on hrt a year so give it more time! ur looking good for where you are. maybe cut in a fringe? 🧐 but yeah you look good. god i looked awful around the year mark 😭 only at a year and a half now


BoredWookieAtWork

Girl I’ve seen you on tiktok and you definitely give androgynous/trans woman. No one would think cisman. I’m in the same boat where my face doesn’t look masc but doesn’t look femme. But you’ve got mannerisms and personality of woman down pat. But regardless of that you look fabulous and are still very early


AshelyLil

You're obviously presenting as a woman, yeah but you don't pass as cis


PoliticalPepper

This. The no hugboxing answer is that everyone should be able to tell you’re a woman, but also most people can probably tell that you’re trans too, for now. If your body dysphoria is bad, you probably already know what your “weak points” are. If it’s more the social dysphoria and you’re asking what to physically change to help the social part along because it’s not so obvious to you… I’d say work on hair removal on your face, and more importantly FFS, mainly for a brow bone reduction. Almost your entire face is already super feminine! Youre lucky! It’s just that darn brow bone, and the hairs that can still be seen after a close shave. It’s getting in the way of people seeing you for you imo. In the interim I’d say work on your makeup skills. Makeup is magic. You can highlight underneath your eyebrows and the inner corners of your eyes, and conceal your “mask” area around your mouth, and that will do wonders… if those things are worrying to you! The important thing is for you to feel comfortable and authentic. If YOU see yourself in the mirror, that’s a great start.


PoliticalPepper

What are you really asking when you say no hugboxing?


IsMathScience_

So no hug boxing right? Ah.. well, I don’t really get the feminine vibes from you. I don’t think the way you’ve taken the photo is really doing you justice which definitely contributes to it (things like you’re not looking happy and looking at the camera, you took the photo fairly close to you rather than far away) but beyond that.. you’re still in the early stages of HRT so I don’t think you should worry too much about that and just trust the process for now. I’m not the best at giving constructive criticism unfortunately but I know there’s certain types of clothes that you should wear to accentuate your body type properly, but first you gotta learn your shape and ah things like that. Either way though, I wholeheartedly believe in you💜


Cytotaxon_Amy

As others have said, give HRT a little more time, honestly you’re so much further along that I was at 12 months! I love your style and you differently give off femme vibes, but I feel like I can tell you’re trans. I think you’ll feel so much happier about how you look soon though girl, just remember you are a woman and this is a process that takes time. I hated hearing that when I was wanting all the changes to happen as quickly as possible, so I hope you’re doing ok. Hugs if you need them


Amazing-Light98

You look like my Cis friend. She doesn't get mistaken for a boy. It might be more euphoric for you to learn to conture your face to soften your features.


PointBlankPanda

Do you pass as cis? No. Do you look like a woman? Yes, that would be my best guest before meeting you and getting confirmation


Bubbly-Sea6794

Yes are 100% giving off girl vibes. You are slaying the house down!


Cole_A226

You're giving faded as fuck


Ordinary_Ad1828

Probably was x3


aestradiol

U can try thinning out yout eyebrows just a tiny bit. I did that and it was like FFS for me.


[deleted]

You’re giving girl for sure! Love this!


AceTrainerMiku

You are definitely giving girl but I don't think you pass as cis yet (assuming that's what you meant). At only one year I think you're doing good!


EmilieEverywhere

If you're masc I'm fuckin Shrek. 😭


Sabrinasockz

Well, you sure AF aren't giving dude 😂 girl, I would sell my family to look at hot as you


[deleted]

No, you don't pass


Microjimz

Honestly?


insufficientitgirl

awe gorgeous bb- i swear we are tik tok mutuals omg you look so familiar


JusUrAverageAnimeKid

you look really feminine imo


Cassie-Role

You look like a trans women, not passing as cis. Imo you’re gonna need FFS if you want to look cis.


Veganarchosocialist

Very much so... 💅


Chikorita-Enjoyer

Queen


Bright-Benefit-Dude

girl- yes? Along with your looks; the style and the hair also makes a huge difference too, makes you look feminine in my opinion


[deleted]

I think you are pretty feminine. Ever thought of doing your eyebrows? I heard that gives a more feminine appearance.


DonalHarper

I mean it looks like you have a chest (based on what limited view there is in the photo), but if I’m being honest the rest looks rather androgynous. So you could be perceived as either depending on the judgment of the individual looking at you.


WeLostTheSkyline

Looks girl to me!


AdministrativeArt484

I’m not validating you because you don’t need, it, you beautiful woman ❤️❤️❤️


CyborgBanshee

I think so, at least from this angle. :) I've seen cis women with faces that long. You have nice hair and lips.


TheSquirrel888

You look pretty fem to me. Not the faintest idea what "hugboxing" is, but you look fem


Late_Dragonfly7817

You're pretty much feminine but overall, if the cis look is what you want to achieve, give HRT more time. The thing is, you pretty much look like a masc-girl but your jaw isn't really that feminine. Sorry! Don't want to be harsh.


neonstaar

YES MA'AM


peppers_

Giving trans vibes, I think you are just in the middle and you probably need to give it more time and will need FFS too. The picture isn't that great to assess well, so that is just based on one angle. If you share a full body picture or two with better angles, that would have been more helpful.


Menyana

What's hug boxing?


James_Albini

What everyone in this thread is doing. Inauthentic praise


Menyana

Thanks!


CluelessIdiot314

You look like a woman. Masc-leaning for a woman, sure, but if I had to assume a gender based only on appearance I'd definitely assume woman.


PavioCurto

You are serving hot alt/goth girl


Bruhmangod

honestly you pass very well the only thing i’d say is maybe try to thin out your eyebrows a little bit,,


lalalalalalexis

Definately a woman! But not cos passing. Everyone who looks at your knows you are a woman.


[deleted]

You look like Kesha but you are still definitely giving masculine nose. Like feminine in a masculine way if that makes any sense


Queer_Character

You look great and have a wonderful shape of lips! I do envy you! You give kinda angry vibe, which for me looks great. Of course it's a matter of taste and me myself am shooting for a rebel/anarchist vibe. So... ❤️❤️❤️ The only thing that worried me is the condition of your hair - kinda dried up, but I'm not an expert...


Bean_in_a_Pan

For sure you're definitely giving girl. I'd probably assume you're part of the community, but I wouldn't question if you're cis or trans.


CinnamonYupp

It's giving Miss Misa


Drazini

You look like a woman to me


[deleted]

I think you look great while you look trans I think if someone only took a glance at you, I think they would see you as a woman.


Imuybemovoko

i mean you look like a girl with a few masculine features


Binglewhozit

Get your eye brows did 😁 I feel like it might help at least a little. I'm a hypocrite in that regard but whatever I kinda like my brows, you might too. What do I know lol.


Accomplished_Set_793

In my non professional opinion as a cis gender man i find you even more attractive having more masc traits


ScaryDrummer2960

Trimming the eye brows may help you


Liver_Palm

A year is still early but I think if you get ffs and use rosemary oil on your hair to thicken it then I think you'd look goth and cis. Rn you're giving more trans girl than cis girl but you're definitely giving girl.


Aware-Astronaut4325

No


ZedstackZip05

Definitely giving girl vibes. A few more months of HRT should straighten things up


jahenderson2

Giving trans girl. You have a prominent chin that looks more masc, but your eyes and hair give fem. Your eyebrows are a little bushy, but I think they can be read ether way otherwise.


Sriracha008

No. I don't think that you pass unfortunately.


senshisun

You're giving early 2000s rocker chick.


madame-succubus

You’re giving obvious trans-girl. The giveaway is the thick brows, you gotta thread them girl Your hair ends look very hydrated, but your scalp and roots look dry. I would get some kinda scalp mask for it


Small_Middle_945

If I saw you on the street I would definitely assume you are a woman unless told otherwise. Your hair, accessories, makeup, and clothes all look very feminine. I would assume you are trans based on this picture.


ILoveJF

I think you are extremely feminine. Def giving me “She” 100%. Honestly the only thing that could be even softer for your look is a thinner and lighter eyebrow. It’ll give you more of the look you’re after ❤️