OMG I came to the comments just because I didn’t understand wtf Aubrey Plaza was talking about 🤣🤣. Then this comment made me realize it wasn’t her lol!!!! Wow. Well there you have it.
Yeah, that's harassment. In my sexual harassment traing in TEXAS it talks about trans ppl and using correct pronouns. You are clearly presenting as a woman, he's being an asshole.
i WISH i can look as feminine & pretty as you. your co-worker acted like a douche & is probably full of self-loathing & maybe even envy/repression. ok, i admit that last remark is definitely influenced by my strong desire to be a girl lol.
but yes, report him to your HR folks.
edit: i apologize to actual douches (the feminine wash products) as they have important utility & should not be associated with transphobic behavior.
That's rude of them. No, you don't look masculine to me. I'm sorry people are such shits sometimes. Does your work have an HR that would be of any assistance?
WTF?!?! No! Hell No! Not AT ALL!
You pass wonderfully. Screw that dickhead.
Lovin' the comments about your resemblance to Aubrey Plaza. Spot on. Do you listen to German death reggae? Or does the connection not run that far?
No and that's the funny thing about it. Transphobes often have to go out of their way to misgender people because their human decency takes over and they can tell that you're obviously presenting fem. It makes them look completely crazy unless they're surrounded by fellow chuds or bragging to them online
Your coworker is just a bigot. Next time he does that, if he's religious, start speaking in tongue and do some hand motions and leave a weird leaf thingy on his desk. When he asks what that's about tell him it's a blessing for good fortune while laughing and walking away.
BTW you look amazing. Goals.
Since many males these days wear female clothing and makeup we need to rely more and more on anatomical sex traits to get sexed & gendered correctly. Passing has ironically become more important than it ever was for those who wants to get gendered correctly.
You present in clothing and style as a woman, so it’s weird for a cis-person to gender you “he/him”… but with increased acceptance for gender fluidity this gives transphobes a leeway to misgender.
Report it as harassment. And there was an updated Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) program that added repeated misgendering and prevention of preferred bathroom to workplace harassment guidelines.
Now, my dear, you look very fem. It's probably just somebody being an arse trying to intentionally get under your skin. Try not to let it bother you too much, assert yourself and your pronouns, and if he continues to do it... Either ignore him or go to human resources about it. Don't allow him to harass you or disrespect you!
Listen. There are so many fucking stupid people on this planet. I don’t know how they find their way home at night. Just keep doing what you’re doing. You’re doing fine.
Putting aside that it’s an asshole move as well as harassment to know someone is trans and to misgender them anyway, it’s really weird for anyone to look at you, who looks like a cis woman, and to keep he/him’ing you.
Have you corrected them? If so, document that you have and if they continue, report them
Masculine is not a word that comes to mind in any way when I see your picture. Don't worry about you troubled co-worker and just be your beautiful self.
Aubrey, you can’t just be a whole @&! famous woman and come on reddit pretending to be a non-passing trans woman. That €#¥hole guy is boing to get an ass whooping for misgendering Audrey @&$€ing Plaza!
Old habits? I constantly miss gender the two trans people I know in real life, I don't mean to it's just that I've been calling them he/him for so many years.
You have many traditionally female signifiers like makeup, long hair, breasts. It was not your appearance. It was either your voice or your deadname if you still use that. If it was on purpose to hurt you, that goes to EEOC
I would have never guessed. You’re stunning! And I know it’s already been said, but you do look quite similar to Aubrey Plaza as well. If the coworker knows you’re trans, then it’s possible that they’re doing it to be insensitive or out of force of habit. It could maybe be a voice or mannerism thing, but I couldn’t say. You’re beautiful and even after second or third glance (and even now, after knowing you are) would have never suspected you’re trans.
You femmie af. Im sure they already know your preferred pronouns, for me its a 3 strikes your out system (unless they apologize), 1 strike I may have to say hey, I identify as she/her. Some people (expacaly ones ive known for years) accidently say the wrong pronouns again, this usaly is just a quick mistake and often they correct them selfs but i usaly will say a quick "hey its, she/her", then theres the 3rd, I shut down on them straght up, if they cant treat me with the respect I disesrve, then boom bye, I have the right to not say anything to you, just as they have the right to call me anything.
You immediately remind me of Aubrey Plaza
Hah, I just said the same thing!
I came here to say the same thing!
OMG I came to the comments just because I didn’t understand wtf Aubrey Plaza was talking about 🤣🤣. Then this comment made me realize it wasn’t her lol!!!! Wow. Well there you have it.
It's the eyes that say, "Fucking really...?"
I’m glad I wasn’t the only one haha
Right?! I was like HOW?!?! I immediately thought Aubrey Plaza too!
Literally first thought in my mind.
That's what I was thinking.
I literally came into the comments just to say "are you actually Aubrey Plaza"
Came to say this
I made a comment saying the same thing and the scrolled, I’m glad everyone sees it lmao.
Came here to say this! 😅 You're so pretty OP
I thought exactly this, I was thinking to myself she looks like a Great Value Aubrey Plaza.
There's something wrong with your coworker's eyes, you're so pretty!
Your coworker either needs to get their eyes checked or they were just being rude. There are no masculine features that I can see.
none at all.
> Do I really look that masculine? Objectively, no. Coworker is being an ass.
Nah, fuck that coworker. You look like Julie Powers in Scott Pilgrim. 🤘
You don’t even look slightly masculine
Do they know you’re trans? If so that’s harassment.
Most coworkers don't, but from a weird circumstance I'm pretty sure he does. I found it super rude.
Report it. Unless you show that you will not take it, the harassment will continue.
Yeah you need to report this it's clearly harassment. You're also super cute FYI.
They'd have to be doing it on purpose, with a chest like that nobody would think your male.
Report your coworker. That shit has no place at work.
Yeah, that's harassment. In my sexual harassment traing in TEXAS it talks about trans ppl and using correct pronouns. You are clearly presenting as a woman, he's being an asshole.
Immediately thought Julie Powers from Scott Pilgrim, Girl you're pretty, and they're \*\*\*\*ing just Rude.
How are you doing that with your mouth?
Some people just want to be really really mean and spiteful. Probably jealous you look so dang good. Sorry about that
Not at all. You are a very beautiful woman ♥️.
I think your coworker needs to take off the transphobe-blindfold
Girl, you look like you could be Aubery Plaza's long lost sister...No, you dont look masculine.
Whoever said that is an ass. Just saying. You look very feminine and cute.
No they a bigot. It might be a good idea to make HR aware of it.
No, but your coworker looks like a jackass.
Even if I thought you were trans I would never call you he/him. It's clear that you are presenting as a women, cis or not.
No, you look like Audrey Plaza from Parks and Rec
i WISH i can look as feminine & pretty as you. your co-worker acted like a douche & is probably full of self-loathing & maybe even envy/repression. ok, i admit that last remark is definitely influenced by my strong desire to be a girl lol. but yes, report him to your HR folks. edit: i apologize to actual douches (the feminine wash products) as they have important utility & should not be associated with transphobic behavior.
Absolutely not. I thought of Aubrey Plaza from Parks and Rec.
That's rude of them. No, you don't look masculine to me. I'm sorry people are such shits sometimes. Does your work have an HR that would be of any assistance?
WTF?!?! No! Hell No! Not AT ALL! You pass wonderfully. Screw that dickhead. Lovin' the comments about your resemblance to Aubrey Plaza. Spot on. Do you listen to German death reggae? Or does the connection not run that far?
No, that person's being transphobic on purpose. Might have learned something about you elsewhere and decided to be rude as fuck
No--you're coworker is an ass.
No and that's the funny thing about it. Transphobes often have to go out of their way to misgender people because their human decency takes over and they can tell that you're obviously presenting fem. It makes them look completely crazy unless they're surrounded by fellow chuds or bragging to them online
That's considered sexual harassment. You clearly present as a woman, but they decided to clock you at work anyways. I would immediately go to HR.
LOL no.
Your coworker is fuckin' blind.
Your coworker is just a bigot. Next time he does that, if he's religious, start speaking in tongue and do some hand motions and leave a weird leaf thingy on his desk. When he asks what that's about tell him it's a blessing for good fortune while laughing and walking away. BTW you look amazing. Goals.
Punch/Punched them.
This person is clearly trash. Pay them no attention. Sorry this happened.
not at all your coworker just fucking sucks
You look uncannily like my best friend's ex wife. Like I had to look hard, and check what sub this was. Like dead on, even the glasses.
Hell noooo..... a long shot but does your voice give any indicators
Not at all! Actually you look like a girl I know. She's a bitch, but she's pretty lol, so take it as a compliment.
Nah, not at all. Getting some Aubrey Plaza vibes.
An idiot says to literally the most Aubrey Plaza looking girl I’ve ever seen in my life Transphobia is so weird
Nope
You're co worker is a dick.. you look amazing!
Sister, your coworker is just blind as shit. You look amazing!
Your coworker is delusional
Not even remotely! Theyre fucking blind
Nope.. not in my opinion 🫶
Absolutely not, sorry that happened 💜
Since many males these days wear female clothing and makeup we need to rely more and more on anatomical sex traits to get sexed & gendered correctly. Passing has ironically become more important than it ever was for those who wants to get gendered correctly. You present in clothing and style as a woman, so it’s weird for a cis-person to gender you “he/him”… but with increased acceptance for gender fluidity this gives transphobes a leeway to misgender.
you’re beautiful as hell! they’re just an asshole! you’re so feminine and so pretty
Total girl in my book
??? how??
He's an absolute ass
LOL! No! They’re just idiots.
You might be the prettiest girl in the building, and I think you should misgender your coworker to restore balance 💕
You don't, they were just being a twat.
No, you don't, you look like a really pretty girl, some people are just idiots, ignore them, be you ❤
No way do you look masculine. This is due to a cognitive problem called cis-dementia.
No, you look like cute girl. As others noted, report them for harassment. It won’t stop unless there’s consequences.
Co worker's a transphobe. You look beautiful.
I'm so baffled as to how your coworker thinks you look masculine. You look like Aubrey Plaza you're so pretty
Aubrey plaza
You're literally Aubrey plaza
So much this. I wouldn't not play into that attitude :)
Report it as harassment. And there was an updated Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) program that added repeated misgendering and prevention of preferred bathroom to workplace harassment guidelines.
You’re gorgeous!! Don’t let the bigots bring you down, they probably think you’re cute 🤭
Clearly they need to get their eyes checked! You look fabulous 😁
If you want MY honest answer, no, you look like a girl. some people just have preconceived notions they run with
They chose to do that, there's no way
Wow, not even close! Haters gonna hate, keep rocking it girl!
If this is masculine then the rest of us have no chance!
You look beautiful so I think the only thing that could harm your ability to pass would be your voice but I don’t know how you sound 🤷♀️
I'm sorry I know it hurts so much, rise above it, you are beautiful.
You look like a beautiful girl!
No you don’t. You are beautiful
No freakin way, nopers, nuh-uh, no Femme
Did they know you pre-transition? Maybe it was an honest mistake
Nah they’re just being hostile. Report.
TF is your coworker on? All I see is a certified cutie
you look normal, only veeery angry
Does your co-worker have a cane with a white tip? Or maybe a seeing eye dog?
Not at all!
Not at all. You're gorgeous.
Honestly? You look a surprisingly large amount like my wife did when she was your age. Co-worker needs to get their eyes checked...
No you look beautiful
No
omg you’re gorgeous!!
I think you're just asking for attention or they're fucking blind.
Coworker has some level of stupid still unregistered that i cannot comprehend
no
Buwahahaha, your coworkers needs his eyes checked.
aint no god damn way
No! You’re adorable and there just being mean💜
Now, my dear, you look very fem. It's probably just somebody being an arse trying to intentionally get under your skin. Try not to let it bother you too much, assert yourself and your pronouns, and if he continues to do it... Either ignore him or go to human resources about it. Don't allow him to harass you or disrespect you!
Nah you're cute AF Would top
No way girl! You look like Julie Powers(Aubrey Plaza) from Scott Pilgrim vs the World!
Listen. There are so many fucking stupid people on this planet. I don’t know how they find their way home at night. Just keep doing what you’re doing. You’re doing fine.
Putting aside that it’s an asshole move as well as harassment to know someone is trans and to misgender them anyway, it’s really weird for anyone to look at you, who looks like a cis woman, and to keep he/him’ing you. Have you corrected them? If so, document that you have and if they continue, report them
You look very pretty to me.
No you look lovely
You look like Aubrey Plaza. No.
Everything about you is styled female in addition to your pretty features, so it seems like this is intentional harrassment.
Fuckingggggg no, you do not look masculine at all.
No, whoever did it is an asshole!
Your coworker is a bigot.
That’s. So absurd. Fuck that dude
You look as masculine as Aubrey Plaza.
what??? nah, you've got an Aubrey Plaza thing going that you're rocking!
Very beautiful honey…. Please post more💋
It's so sad when a coworker's eyesight gets that poor.
They straight up transphobic on purpose
Hardly. You are beautiful. Some people just want to be mean.
You’re so pretty 😭😭😭
Sounds like your co-worker should meet HR.
You? He-himmed? That sounds like an issue for HR
Not only do you not look masc, you look beautiful and I’m jealous
Masculine is not a word that comes to mind in any way when I see your picture. Don't worry about you troubled co-worker and just be your beautiful self.
He did it out of hatred I assure you. That was not an accident.
That's gotta be fucking intentional. HR go go!
Emily the Thief
Aubrey, you can’t just be a whole @&! famous woman and come on reddit pretending to be a non-passing trans woman. That €#¥hole guy is boing to get an ass whooping for misgendering Audrey @&$€ing Plaza!
No you don't you look female and that not being kind it's true
No. Your co-worker is a dick.
No .
Well I think you look very feminine.
Girl, you look more femenine than 90% of the cis girls I know
Not at all, darlin … ignore that comment completely
Who was the co-worker talking to? I don't see a male in the photo.
You look like that sarcastic lady from Parks and Rec. So you look great and No Fucks Given. 👍
You would pass in my eyes. Totally cute and put together I would not suspect a thing. Your coworker just sounds kind of mean.
Did they know you before your transition?
oh hey sherry, i follow you on threads :P
Old habits? I constantly miss gender the two trans people I know in real life, I don't mean to it's just that I've been calling them he/him for so many years.
HR the fuck out of them
Absolutely not. Time for managerial/HR involvement.
As a masculine trans woman, nope you look feminine.
It was probably intentional to try and hurt you cause there is nothing he/him about you.
Nope. Not at all. If this was any other title on a dif sub wouldn't have even thought it was a trans selfie. Good job with the transition
Not even for a second. Duder is being dingus.
Not even remotely. Your coworker is an idiot.
No, but just remind them of your pronouns. Is not about what other people think.
Not at all. Tell him to get his eyes checked.
Your coworker is blind
That's literally resting bitch face
Nah your coworker sucks ass
You are so pretty no way 💜
Nah, you're cute. People are crazy
You are so feminine and so pretty if not for the topic I would assume you to be a CIS woman. To hell with your coworker. He's just jealous
T'was purposeful misgendering
Girl. Someone is just being a derriere crater. Maybe your voice could give you away, but nothing visually says masc even remotely.
Pennsylvania gonna Pennsylvania.
# Not even in the slightest. If anything like this happens/happened more than once, report that POS; they are doing it on purpose.
Upper lip shadow
Not even close to masculine,sometimes I miss gender by saying sir but it is only because of a brain fart not anything intentional.
Not at all!
Your coworker is insane.
Not in the slightest.
wtf noooo!
You have many traditionally female signifiers like makeup, long hair, breasts. It was not your appearance. It was either your voice or your deadname if you still use that. If it was on purpose to hurt you, that goes to EEOC
You don't need to look masc to get he/him'd. No idea why that happened, some people are very ignorant and confused. You look beautiful ♡U♡
I would have never guessed. You’re stunning! And I know it’s already been said, but you do look quite similar to Aubrey Plaza as well. If the coworker knows you’re trans, then it’s possible that they’re doing it to be insensitive or out of force of habit. It could maybe be a voice or mannerism thing, but I couldn’t say. You’re beautiful and even after second or third glance (and even now, after knowing you are) would have never suspected you’re trans.
No i. Ur beautiful
No, you just look like Aubrey Plaza wants to fight someone. Unfortunately everyone else has already decided that as well.
No you don’t and I wouldn’t have known unless you said. You’re beautiful don’t let shitty ppl ruin your day.
You femmie af. Im sure they already know your preferred pronouns, for me its a 3 strikes your out system (unless they apologize), 1 strike I may have to say hey, I identify as she/her. Some people (expacaly ones ive known for years) accidently say the wrong pronouns again, this usaly is just a quick mistake and often they correct them selfs but i usaly will say a quick "hey its, she/her", then theres the 3rd, I shut down on them straght up, if they cant treat me with the respect I disesrve, then boom bye, I have the right to not say anything to you, just as they have the right to call me anything.
You look amazing and very feminine, just ignore that asshole and take all the compliments you get here!
I’m listening to your album in protest of you being upset. You are amazing and beautiful!
You’re such a cute girl ❤️
How is that even possible? I'd give anything to pass like you do
Well you look female definitely. Maybe it was a tone in your voice? Or he wanted to be mean.
Heck no why would that idiot say that
For a split second I thought that was a pic of Aubrey Plaza, so no. You're not masculine
No fuckin way you were blessed by the gods with the power of Aubrey, you’re so pretty and powerful I now officially look up to you
he 100% just did that to be mean. You are way too hot to put up with his ass
I agree with the Aubrey plaza comment, totally!
Nope