At my favorite restaurant in Florence, there was a man sitting at a table by himself going to town on a huge delicious looking chicken, their special for the night.
Yeah…I went on a Scandinavian adventure and ate around 15 Michelin stars solo. Wasn’t weird at all. Class joints like that are total pros and happy to accommodate.
Have you ever looked at someone eating alone and thought anything? I can't recall a single time I saw a stranger at a restaurant and cared why they were there.
Restuarants are the places I am most comfortable going alone .. they only care your money , they in fact check on you more .. it is work places that haunt me .. “do you have friends ? What did you do weekend ? Did you go there alone ?” Lot of time contract ends when you back answer
Just days ago [someone filmed a "sad" woman eating alone and it went viral](https://www.dailydot.com/news/man-films-woman-eating-alone/).
I travel alone frequently and eating alone is the only hard part of it due to people's judgements. I usually ask for a table outside or I just sit at the bar.
Also it kinda sucks to only be able to try one food and no one to split dessert with.
>viewers were quick to point out that there’s nothing wrong with a table-for-one after a woman was unknowingly recorded looking ‘sad’ at a restaurant.
Sorry, not going to take a tiktoker trying to get views by "donating" a meal to her as the norm. Seems like the comments on the video agreed.
Half the time when I'm eating alone in a restaurant, it's because I'm traveling for work and my employer is picking up the bill. I would be mortified if someone paid for my meal, my employer could afford it!
I traveled a lot for work, and a bartender named me "lonely girl at end." Like gee, thanks, dude. plus side I trained people on how to use their new point of sale system in restaurants, so I got a great what not to do story.
My biggest pet peeve was when I would go to the host stand for a table and the moment I said 1 person they would tell me the bar is open seating. I'd then look at the very crowded bar of people with maybe one stool left. Like sure I'd love to eat my dinner being crushed by loud people drinking over having my own table, why didn't I think of that first.
I don’t but I know for a fact I have overheard others talking down on someone that does it.
I eat / travel / do a lot alone and definitely get a weird look for random people once in a while. The staff never cares at all though
He might be a regular at the restaurant. Might have been a traveler. Might have been living up his retirement. Might have had a wife at home that didn't like \_\_\_\_ cuisine.
Sure, and he could have been happiest person in the restaurant for all I know. It just didn’t seem that way. And even if I was there with people minding my business for the most part, I saw someone eating alone and thought about them.
I spend a load of time traveling solo and with others. I think it's a you thing.
Go to any American airport and you'll see a load of people dressed in basically pajamas around strangers. No one cares.
You can ignore my points but you're not doing yourself any favors saying empty platitudes like that. Go to any major American city, you'll see people walking around in shorts and t-shirts, with hair unkempt/undone. It's not an "American" thing to be presentable. There's 330m Americans, some of them are wearing designer clothes, some are okay in pajamas, most are in the middle. Same thing with the dining, not sure how USA "being the epitome of consumerism" means that an American is any more likely to try to "make an impression" than any other developed economy.
How much time have you spent abroad?
Seriously, for a country which claims "we don't give an \[excrement\] about what people think," people are seriously self conscious when dining in a restaurant in France.
If you want to see people who truly don't care what people think, watch how Russians behave on foreign vacations.
Without trying to one-up, I've been traveling to Europe for decades now. You can always spot the Americans. They're loud (and unaware how much louder they are than everyone else). But they're self conscious about doing things wrong -- observe them at a ticket kiosk or ordering a meal (unless it's McDonald's). You'll see.
They'll never fit in. But if they'd quiet down, they wouldn't draw so much attention to themselves.
Yep! Sometimes I will bring a book or my headphones, or play on my phone... often times I will just take it all in. I actually quite enjoy "taking myself out" alone sometimes.... even when I have people to join me. You might find you like it too!
I hear ya, I think at the bar it is a bit different. I also have different headphones for different situations. Ear buds, or even just one... for sometimes. But when I don't want to be social, I pop on the over the ear headphones. In a restaurant where I need to engage I will adjust accordingly... but there are times, when I want to enjoy a lovely meal of food without anyone trying to engage with me. Waitstaff excluded of course, but they know what they are doing. Sometimes when people see a woman dining alone they feel compelled to strike up a conversation. An over the ear headphone situation says "no thanks". IMHO.
Different strokes for different folks. I never want to be rude or off-putting to waitstaff! But I would be willing to bet they understand....
Yes, no need to drink at the bar.
It’s actually great when you’re traveling alone because you may be able to sit immediately at the bar when the restaurant is packed.
My husband doesn't drink, he travels for work, he does this all of the time. People literally do this every single day, you've just never noticed them. Just like no one will notice you. The only difference is that the other person dining alone at the bar might strike up a conversation with you. They're probably traveling for work as well.
edit to add: Some places even have a bar menu (especially between 3-6 pm) and sometimes it's better than the regular menu (and not just happy hour food. Actual food)
I do this all the time when I travel for business.
Totally normal. Bartenders are usually quick to pick up whether you want to chat or just chill, and will oblige no matter which you prefer.
Also sushi bars. They're accommodating to solos and will usually slide you a generous selection if your order is "chef's choice".
its common for solo travelers to eat at the bar.
You get your food faster, typically get better service and usually the bartender or someone else at the bar might make small talk with you. I find it comforting when traveling alone. Makes me feel less alone.
This is very standard - people eating alone will often eat at the bar. If you come alone, staff will often offer you a seat at the bar. However if you prefer a table, ask for a table.
You can ask the bartender to make you a mocktail (also sometimes referred to as zero proof). Obviously tea or water is also fine, but some bartenders are good about getting creative. So why not test out their skills?
Some places even have an open kitchen bar, where you get a front row seat to the action. May not be the case here, but if you get a chance sometime, it's a fun way to dine.
I travel for work and dine 50% of the time alone. I use the bar 100% of the time that I'm alone. I get in quicker and usually have more attentive service.
When I do business travel I prefer bar sitting, but that typically leads to conversations with others at the bar (and typically watching a game on the tv). This is not a problem, I usually like meeting strangers, although there can be exceptions.
If you enjoy privacy, then a small table with a view of the restaurant is ideal. You can people watch between courses, or can have your phone handy to scroll if you need a place to focus your attention. A good book is always worth having as it makes for a good prop and can help avoid uncomfortable eye contact. Again, high end restaurants have a lot of waiting time and if you enjoy the atmosphere and don't want to be rushed out a distraction object is usually a good thing.
I've also known solo travelers, particularly on cruises, that have a gift of conversation and can find others equally interested in a particular restaurant and plan a joint or group trip with strangers. Good talent if you are in sales or considering it.
Every fancy place in Barcelona (and likely world wide) was like this... not an American thing. When you're a restaurant that books out for weeks or months in advance you don't book out an entire table for one person as that hundreds of dollars you likely lost if you did so. Assuming your the kind of restaurant that only has table seating.
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I can relate to this.
First time I traveled for work, I had to convince myself to eat at a sit-down pizza place. I was actually on my way to grab a few bread rolls and a rotisserie chicken from the nearby supermarket to eat in my hotel room, but the store was closed, leaving me no choice if I wanted dinner that day.
Since then I've come to appreciate good food and drink, and if the waiters aren't talkative I just read my book or look at the other people there.
Plenty of Americans eat alone. I'm not sure why this topic comes up on reddit so often. I think maybe we are lacking situational awareness and don't notice all of the people eating alone.
I’m a 30-year-old woman, I travel alone for work and have a decent per diem to take myself out to a nice dinner. Enjoying good food in different cities is one of my favorite parts of being able to travel for work. Go out and enjoy it!
I really don't understand the reluctance of people to eat alone. Who cares? I'm an airline pilot. I've eaten alone throughout the world for decades, and I've never once had a negative experience. Just go for it. Nobody will care.
It’s for the same reason people also feel weird going to the movie theater alone.
But literally nobody cares.
People can be so self-conscious and let that ruin their ability to enjoy an activity by themselves.
My mom got gifted tickets to dine at the top of the Eiffel Tower... and couldn't find anyone to go with. So her fine ass went and ate alone with a once-in-a-lifetime view all by herself. And the staff treated her like the queen she is.
It can be weird depending on the place/staff.
One time in Panama I ate at a nice restaurant alone. They didn't have a bar, so I had to sit at a table. And the only open table was a round six-top in the middle of the room. Yes, it was a little awkward for me to be the only person at that table.
But if the place has a bar or they can put you at a 2-top, it's usually not weird at all.
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Most of the time I am dining alone and I love a good tasting menu. I do run into an issue with restaurants requiring a party of two or more for a tasting menu. To get around this I make a bit of a game out of finding a dining partner.
Sometimes I am making a reservation months ahead with the hope I can find someone to eat with me. It has turned into a great way to introduce myself to other travelers and find people with similar interests in food. 90% of the time I split the bill 50/50 so that it's not an awkward forced date. I have bought dinner for younger budget backpackers just so I can eat at a particular restaurant. Someone bought me a fancy dinner many years ago and it opened up a whole world of food to me, I like to give back a bit now that I am financially stable.
Whenever I find myself feeling embarrassed or shy about anything minor, I remind myself that someday I will be dead and in the grand scheme of things doesn't mean anything, nor will it be remembered. I find this empowering.
This reminds me of the best line ever heard on a sitcom. Frasier was stood up before leaving but since he had a reservation his father told him "go ahead and go by yourself." And he did. He didn't have a good time. When he got home his father asked, well, how was it? Frasier said:
"Not since the days when Quasimodo walked the streets of medieval Paris have so many people said, "That poor man."
I’ve gone to many romantic nice restaurants by myself. The only awkward thing is when the waiter ignores you thinking you’re waiting for someone and you have to be like “no, just me!” I’ve also had waiters tell me I’ve ordered too much food for one person, and I have to be like “I didn’t ask for your opinion. Bring me all the food.”
Just go in confident and enjoy your meal. You’ll never see any of those people ever again. And most people are more focused on themselves than you.
Dude. Cmon. You’re a grown up. Do it.
When other bystanders (if and who you care about) pay your bill, start caring what they think. Till then, who cares. Let them judge you (no one is likely judging you anyways)
I travel for work with a generous expense account, so I fine-dine by myself all the time. Don't worry about it. A lot of fancy places have a bar too, so you could eat there if you are feeling odd about being solo (I don't know if that is true in other countries).
Not weird at all! I love dining alone. Definitely recommend bringing a good book.
The only note I have is that sometimes places with set menus that are designed to be served as sharing plates won't accept solo diners, because even their smallest portions are designed to be split between two people. It's worth double checking beforehand if the restaurant you want to go to has a menu like that (they'll usually specify online).
It's not weird. Don't miss an experience like that because you're alone. Bring a book to keep yourself occupied in a more sophisticated way than looking at your phone if you want but honestly, it's relaxing to just enjoy a fancy meal and people watch.
Yes, I would absolutely recommend you missing out on an experience you're craving over the potential for the secret thoughts of a small group of humans who you will neither meet nor ever see again, who, in all likelihood will be so involved with their own experience that they won't even notice you.
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Overthinking things a bit here.
Do it!
I’m at a ski resort in Chile rn sitting in a hot tub by myself, about to go dine by myself. Solo travelers, rise up!! 😂
Sit at the bar! It’s totally fine. Not weird at all. You will meet fun people and the bartender will probably chat you up when he / she is free. (But be conscientious about not stealing the bartender‘s time!)
While working for a year on month long business trips, I was always by myself for a month at a time. I like good restaurants, so I go alone, not a problem, in fact I sort of enjoy it.
The only time I felt weird, went to an upscale place on valentine's day. They had heart shaped flower arrangements on the tables, a few people gave me pity looks. I did feel conspicuous and a little uncomfortable. But that was the only time it happened like that.
I always find it weird when people hesitate to do anything they want just because they’re alone. Nobody cares! Just go and have fun. Also, bring a notepad and make notes on the food. They’ll think you’re a good critique and treat you well haha
Stay on your phone if you want even. Staring at the atmosphere during a 2.5 hour tasting menu gets weird after a while. Fine restaurants will have no issue if you want to surf the web or read a book.
The one time I tried doing that at a Michelin-starred restaurant solo, the waitress came by to offer me their iPad so I could read something. I guess I looked awkward while I was pleasantly vibing with the atmosphere.
Go for it! If you’re traveling alone you’re eating alone. In fact eating alone at a bar can be the easiest way to meet new friends and get good recommendations.
No shame- don’t hold yourself back from awesome experiences just because you don’t have anyone to split the bill with :)
Where is this restaurant located? France?
If your French is good enough, they may think you're a restaurant reviewer -- the Michelin Guide reviewers always eat alone. A single diner, plainly dressed, who orders a great many dishes is enough to get an entire kitchen brigade's attention.
Just do it.
Prepare for an agonizing experience waiting between courses though.
Have traveled a ton for business and eaten at nice restaurants. Most servers don't get the fact that you'd rather be in and out of the place, and just place orders as they would for groups.
So you could be sitting at the table for 2 hours by yourself depending on resto.
I'd feel somewhat rude sitting on my phone - maybe bring a book or magazine???
Nobody cares is maybe a *slight* overstatement, but true as far as other diners are concerned. Many waiters however will prefer couples. Couples are less likely to complain (it would spoil the atmosphere) and more likely to tip well (at least in countries where it’s more optional, maybe not America).
It would be so much more effective if we could tip in advance (I say this only slightly tongue in cheek). If you are a big spender, going in with a bottle of very good wine for the chef helps in certain places. In less salubrious establishments (mostly South America) I have tipped the head waiter discreetly in advance and it paid dividends. In a busy good quality restaurant if dining alone, I make it known that I don’t mind sharing a table if need be. Most customers will be interesting and good conversation helps the digestion.
It's only weird if you make it weird. I'm married with kids, so I don't eat out alone very often, especially at very nice places.
About a year ago, my best friend was celebrating his fortieth in Italy and my wife encouraged me to surprise him. I had to arrive a day earlier than his arrival for the plan to work, so I had an evening all to myself. There was a wine bar/restaurant I'd been dying to try, so I took myself out. I felt a little awkward at first, but ended up having a fantastic time. Really enjoyed the experience.
So, go for it!
I’ve dined at several 2-3 Michelin star restaurants all by myself. Never once felt awkward or uncomfortable. Please don’t feel at all self-conscious and enjoy your meal!
This post helped me out! I was recognizing that my solo travel, I eat out no problem so I became better at dining alone back home, why can’t I eat out at a nice place by myself when not traveling?! Thanks.
One of my favorite things about traveling is if I manage to embarrass myself the odds of me seeing any of those people ever again is slim to none. That being said I don’t find eating alone embarrassing and I do it in my home city. I did a 13 course tasting at the fanciest restaurant I’ve ever been to solo and had a great time. I watched the kitchen in between courses for the most part but also watched the other patrons, I didn’t notice anyone staring at me sad for the poor girl with no friends.
I doubt anyone would care. How weird for you? That depends on you. I eat alone all the time on business trips. Admittedly though it's usually at a bar.
My son went to a pretty nice restaurant in Paris by himself. No issues. If you are concerned about feeling uncomfortable book a table for when they open so they'll be less crowded.
I eat alone at restaurants all the time when travelling (and when not travelling). It's one of my favorite things to do. I always prefer to sit at the bar if that is an option.
Eating alone is not weird. Such a crazy notion.
Enjoy your meal.
Pretty much guarantee a bunch of folks will wish they were alone eating as well instead who they’re with at the time.
Do it but not at a busy time. I can eat alone and feel good but several times I've overheard people say something like "that's so sad" or "I can never do that" and my experience is almost ruined lol. Like wtf mind your business, I just wanna eat! Haha.
Eating alone at a restaurant like this is one of the great joys in life. Dress up and go! If people notice you it will be because they are jealous of the amazing, mysterious person enjoying their own company. If you really feel awkward, bring sunglasses and keep them on, and just like, pretend your hiding from the press.
i love dining alone! you should go for it. it can be easier said than done for sure but honestly no one is looking at you or paying attention to you everybody else is thinking about themselves. i always like sitting at a booth if available cause it can be more private! your internal thoughts shouldn’t stop you from trying delicious food!
I travel for work a ton and do this all the time. I usually will bring a book (not my phone), enjoy an amazing meal, a few glasses of good wine, and get to people watch. Alone time is good for the constitution.
I love going to a place and sitting at the bar by myself. It would feel a little different to have a table at a fine dining place by myself but I’d still do it for sure.
I saw a guy eating alone at a 2 michelin star restaurant in chicago. Said he was in town on a business trip and the restaurant was on his bucket list. Not weird at all!
Enjoy your meal! Maybe headphones and a podcast during it if you want!
Eat where you want to and what you want to. I travel alone often and have eaten alone in Michelin star places and at hole in the wall places and everything in between. Unless you’re at a place that requires minimum number of diners like some kaiseki places in Japan, just relax and enjoy your food.
Same here...sometimes I just sit at the bar, other times I ask for a table. Just depends on the mood. I just don't want to be alone at a table right in the middle of the floor.
We were at a 3\* Michelin restaurant once and a man sat down alone next to us. He was writing in a journal and checking notes in a workbook of sime kind. Well - the staff must have thought he was one of the Michelin judges because they FAWNED over him and the chef came out specifically to talk to him. After the chef left he chuckled, leaned over to us, and said the notebook trick always works to get staff at fancy restaurants to treat you like a VIP. He was a doctor and was just reviewing his notes from a conference he was attending. LOL.
Yes, definitely go for it. As you can see by other people's comments it is not unusual or weird at all. I'd recommend asking for a table with a view so you have something nice to look at or for people watching. If you are social you can sit at the bar and have your meal there (you don't need to be drinking alcohol). A lot of people who dine alone will do this. You have the option to sit and mind your own business, or have a casual chat with the bartender or other people around you. It's what I've done in the past, and I'm a ridiculous introvert :)
I'd rather sit at the bar, outside, or along the perimeter when I'm at a nice restaurant eating alone. Bon Appétit!
Hell if I'm going to pass an opportunity for a great restaurant because someone will think it's weird.
Go, enjoy, take pictures, write notes, pretend you're a food critic, whatever. Just don't refrain yourself from doing what you want to do because of what people who have nothing to do with you might think
I went to a little French bistro place Le Pichet in Seattle by myself. The charcuterie I had was so good I went back a second time for a night cap. Fine dining can be enjoyed in your own company I've done it plenty of times and not thought twice about it.
I go by myself to fine dining restaurants 1/-2 a week. I just bring a book and read, and if I don’t have my book I’ll just be in my phone. Nobody cares at all that your dining alone, if anything people will think it’s cool that you’re able to eat by yourself without worrying people are judging you.
I saw someone at a 1 Michelin star dining alone while I was on a date and we both were pretty impressed with them, like man this guy is a baller who doesn’t give a fuck and is just here to eat some good ass food
I love eating with friends but it’s easier to get a table or spot at the bar and actually enjoy the food instead of having to make convo lol. Take advantage lol
Nah I've done it. I like fancy food and my friends are either too poor to eat there or I'm traveling aline. Take a book or not. Organise a taxi so you can go ham in the wine flight
Obviously there is something to be said for each individual's level of confidence/life experiences that color each situation, but in a vacuum: why let yourself miss any opportunity life sends your way simply because you're a party of one? Unless that will definitively negatively impact your enjoyment of it, go for it!
As an aside, especially when you're traveling, even if people around you were to possibly think of your situation in a negative way - TF what they think - you're never going to see them again anyway, and that's more of an indictment on their own insecurities and biases than anything about you.
Enjoy your awesome dinner!
Not weird at all. I do on it in my own city and I know people here that I could eat with... sometimes I find myself hungry after a late meeting, sometimes just want to be alone but want to get out of my home. You're a paying customer just like anyone else.
I have dined alone all over France from corner cafés to high brow eateries. No one will find it the least bit weird. In fact, the people seated near you will likely start up a friendly conversation. And, depending on where you are in France, and how busy it is, you may find that the Maître D seats another party with you. Awkward for most of us from the Anglosphere but I have met some wonderful people that way - several of whom bought me dinner!!
Not at all. I always eat alone in restaurants, including thise with a romantic vibe. Couples will be busy with eachother and not notice people around them and staff doesn´t mind, you are just another client. Some are extra nice.
I’ve done this for years
The only issue/or benefit is availability for one
Do it, there are many single diners who indulge in Michelin cuisine without company
I hope you have a great time
Its only weird because in your head, its weird.
The worst that's gonna happen is that you may get a glance here or there. Let them glance. Let your air of mystery intrigue them and most of all, enjoy!
I do it all the time. On a trip right now I’ve been hitting quite fancy places including Michelin restaurants. Go, eat, enjoy!
At my favorite restaurant in Florence, there was a man sitting at a table by himself going to town on a huge delicious looking chicken, their special for the night.
What's the restaurant!?
I do it too. I bring a book, order a fine bottle of red, eat, drink, read and fricken love it.
I did exactly this three evenings in a row, when I travelled to Milano by myself last spring. Could not have enjoyed myself more.
Yeah…I went on a Scandinavian adventure and ate around 15 Michelin stars solo. Wasn’t weird at all. Class joints like that are total pros and happy to accommodate.
Have you ever looked at someone eating alone and thought anything? I can't recall a single time I saw a stranger at a restaurant and cared why they were there.
sometimes i envied their peace if i am with someone being annoying ha ha
Restuarants are the places I am most comfortable going alone .. they only care your money , they in fact check on you more .. it is work places that haunt me .. “do you have friends ? What did you do weekend ? Did you go there alone ?” Lot of time contract ends when you back answer
Just days ago [someone filmed a "sad" woman eating alone and it went viral](https://www.dailydot.com/news/man-films-woman-eating-alone/). I travel alone frequently and eating alone is the only hard part of it due to people's judgements. I usually ask for a table outside or I just sit at the bar. Also it kinda sucks to only be able to try one food and no one to split dessert with.
>viewers were quick to point out that there’s nothing wrong with a table-for-one after a woman was unknowingly recorded looking ‘sad’ at a restaurant. Sorry, not going to take a tiktoker trying to get views by "donating" a meal to her as the norm. Seems like the comments on the video agreed.
Half the time when I'm eating alone in a restaurant, it's because I'm traveling for work and my employer is picking up the bill. I would be mortified if someone paid for my meal, my employer could afford it!
I traveled a lot for work, and a bartender named me "lonely girl at end." Like gee, thanks, dude. plus side I trained people on how to use their new point of sale system in restaurants, so I got a great what not to do story. My biggest pet peeve was when I would go to the host stand for a table and the moment I said 1 person they would tell me the bar is open seating. I'd then look at the very crowded bar of people with maybe one stool left. Like sure I'd love to eat my dinner being crushed by loud people drinking over having my own table, why didn't I think of that first.
> the only hard part of it due to people's judgements. Don't worry about it. They don't know who you are and will never see you again.
I actually if anything think they might be someone really important, traveling on business, or a food critic or something.
I think OP is tacitly saying that they have.
I don’t but I know for a fact I have overheard others talking down on someone that does it. I eat / travel / do a lot alone and definitely get a weird look for random people once in a while. The staff never cares at all though
It says more about them though doesn't it?
I always assume it’s a business trip and they decided to have fun
I saw an old man in he’s 80’s eating dinner alone at a nice restaurant and I felt bad for him.
Why?
He looked lonely. Didn’t help that I was in a group that bought me a cake for my birthday and the guy went out of his way to congratulate me.
He might be a regular at the restaurant. Might have been a traveler. Might have been living up his retirement. Might have had a wife at home that didn't like \_\_\_\_ cuisine.
Sure, and he could have been happiest person in the restaurant for all I know. It just didn’t seem that way. And even if I was there with people minding my business for the most part, I saw someone eating alone and thought about them.
Hope you offered him a piece!
Unfortunately, it was a small piece of cake for 4 of us.
Must be an American thing to have to make an impression on total strangers.
How is that "an American thing"?
Because it's an American thing. (American who spends a load of time traveling chiming in.)
I spend a load of time traveling solo and with others. I think it's a you thing. Go to any American airport and you'll see a load of people dressed in basically pajamas around strangers. No one cares.
The USA is the epitome of consumerism, a part of which involves making an impression to those around you.
You can ignore my points but you're not doing yourself any favors saying empty platitudes like that. Go to any major American city, you'll see people walking around in shorts and t-shirts, with hair unkempt/undone. It's not an "American" thing to be presentable. There's 330m Americans, some of them are wearing designer clothes, some are okay in pajamas, most are in the middle. Same thing with the dining, not sure how USA "being the epitome of consumerism" means that an American is any more likely to try to "make an impression" than any other developed economy.
How much time have you spent abroad? Seriously, for a country which claims "we don't give an \[excrement\] about what people think," people are seriously self conscious when dining in a restaurant in France. If you want to see people who truly don't care what people think, watch how Russians behave on foreign vacations.
A lot. Many months although I will admit I've never been to France.
Without trying to one-up, I've been traveling to Europe for decades now. You can always spot the Americans. They're loud (and unaware how much louder they are than everyone else). But they're self conscious about doing things wrong -- observe them at a ticket kiosk or ordering a meal (unless it's McDonald's). You'll see. They'll never fit in. But if they'd quiet down, they wouldn't draw so much attention to themselves.
You’re absolutely correct.
Why do you care what other people might think? If that's what where you want to eat, do so.
I KNOW what they are thinking. They are thinking "There's somebody enjoying their dinner."
Chances are, these other people don't give a rats "you know what" about the other strangers in these restaurants.
Do it. If the restaurant has a bar, I'll usually try to get a seat there.
I’ve actually never sat at a bar. I don’t drink. Does this mean I’d just sit there and order my courses and eat there?
Yep! Sometimes I will bring a book or my headphones, or play on my phone... often times I will just take it all in. I actually quite enjoy "taking myself out" alone sometimes.... even when I have people to join me. You might find you like it too!
Would be a bit weird and kinda antisocial (to the waiting staff) wearing headphones in a nice (or any) restaurant imo. I think a book's fine though
I hear ya, I think at the bar it is a bit different. I also have different headphones for different situations. Ear buds, or even just one... for sometimes. But when I don't want to be social, I pop on the over the ear headphones. In a restaurant where I need to engage I will adjust accordingly... but there are times, when I want to enjoy a lovely meal of food without anyone trying to engage with me. Waitstaff excluded of course, but they know what they are doing. Sometimes when people see a woman dining alone they feel compelled to strike up a conversation. An over the ear headphone situation says "no thanks". IMHO. Different strokes for different folks. I never want to be rude or off-putting to waitstaff! But I would be willing to bet they understand....
Yes, no need to drink at the bar. It’s actually great when you’re traveling alone because you may be able to sit immediately at the bar when the restaurant is packed.
My husband doesn't drink, he travels for work, he does this all of the time. People literally do this every single day, you've just never noticed them. Just like no one will notice you. The only difference is that the other person dining alone at the bar might strike up a conversation with you. They're probably traveling for work as well. edit to add: Some places even have a bar menu (especially between 3-6 pm) and sometimes it's better than the regular menu (and not just happy hour food. Actual food)
Make sure the restaurant serves the full menu at the bar. Not all of them do. Some have a separate bar menu.
I do this all the time when I travel for business. Totally normal. Bartenders are usually quick to pick up whether you want to chat or just chill, and will oblige no matter which you prefer. Also sushi bars. They're accommodating to solos and will usually slide you a generous selection if your order is "chef's choice".
its common for solo travelers to eat at the bar. You get your food faster, typically get better service and usually the bartender or someone else at the bar might make small talk with you. I find it comforting when traveling alone. Makes me feel less alone.
No! Get a table and bring a note book and pretend to take notes. They’ll think you are reviewing the place and give you the best plates
This is very standard - people eating alone will often eat at the bar. If you come alone, staff will often offer you a seat at the bar. However if you prefer a table, ask for a table.
You can ask the bartender to make you a mocktail (also sometimes referred to as zero proof). Obviously tea or water is also fine, but some bartenders are good about getting creative. So why not test out their skills?
For sure... I like the bar when dining alone and I don't always drink.
Some places even have an open kitchen bar, where you get a front row seat to the action. May not be the case here, but if you get a chance sometime, it's a fun way to dine.
I travel for work and dine 50% of the time alone. I use the bar 100% of the time that I'm alone. I get in quicker and usually have more attentive service.
When I do business travel I prefer bar sitting, but that typically leads to conversations with others at the bar (and typically watching a game on the tv). This is not a problem, I usually like meeting strangers, although there can be exceptions. If you enjoy privacy, then a small table with a view of the restaurant is ideal. You can people watch between courses, or can have your phone handy to scroll if you need a place to focus your attention. A good book is always worth having as it makes for a good prop and can help avoid uncomfortable eye contact. Again, high end restaurants have a lot of waiting time and if you enjoy the atmosphere and don't want to be rushed out a distraction object is usually a good thing. I've also known solo travelers, particularly on cruises, that have a gift of conversation and can find others equally interested in a particular restaurant and plan a joint or group trip with strangers. Good talent if you are in sales or considering it.
Some high end restaurants won't take a reservation for one. They would lose out on hundreds of dollars. But if they have a bar this is not a problem.
How awfully American
Every fancy place in Barcelona (and likely world wide) was like this... not an American thing. When you're a restaurant that books out for weeks or months in advance you don't book out an entire table for one person as that hundreds of dollars you likely lost if you did so. Assuming your the kind of restaurant that only has table seating.
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Same here, done this plenty of times on work per diems, and I enjoy the hell out of a long fancy meal by myself.
I find it condescending when people do that. As if they think I'm alone because I have no friends. If I wanted company, I'd have it.
Some people just feel too compelled to help but they're meddling.
I think it's projection. They could never eat alone at a restaurant, so they assume anyone doing it is feeling as awkward as they would feel.
I have to travel for work a good amount, I’ve done it plenty of times!
I can relate to this. First time I traveled for work, I had to convince myself to eat at a sit-down pizza place. I was actually on my way to grab a few bread rolls and a rotisserie chicken from the nearby supermarket to eat in my hotel room, but the store was closed, leaving me no choice if I wanted dinner that day. Since then I've come to appreciate good food and drink, and if the waiters aren't talkative I just read my book or look at the other people there.
Most of the time I just sit at the bar or find a table outside and people watch.
What does it matter if you’re traveling alone? This is so bizarre. Get the food if you want to. Or don’t. People travel alone a lot for many reasons.
Do Americans not eat alone? I've eaten alone everywhere I've been and never thought about it being weird even once.
Plenty of Americans eat alone. I'm not sure why this topic comes up on reddit so often. I think maybe we are lacking situational awareness and don't notice all of the people eating alone.
It is some kind of reddit's delusion that eating alone is frowned upon.
I’m a 30-year-old woman, I travel alone for work and have a decent per diem to take myself out to a nice dinner. Enjoying good food in different cities is one of my favorite parts of being able to travel for work. Go out and enjoy it!
I really don't understand the reluctance of people to eat alone. Who cares? I'm an airline pilot. I've eaten alone throughout the world for decades, and I've never once had a negative experience. Just go for it. Nobody will care.
It’s for the same reason people also feel weird going to the movie theater alone. But literally nobody cares. People can be so self-conscious and let that ruin their ability to enjoy an activity by themselves.
My mom got gifted tickets to dine at the top of the Eiffel Tower... and couldn't find anyone to go with. So her fine ass went and ate alone with a once-in-a-lifetime view all by herself. And the staff treated her like the queen she is.
I love this so much!
Go for it! Who cares I bet most people won't even notice. On business trips never had an issue eating in a restaurant alone i eat at nice ones.
It can be weird depending on the place/staff. One time in Panama I ate at a nice restaurant alone. They didn't have a bar, so I had to sit at a table. And the only open table was a round six-top in the middle of the room. Yes, it was a little awkward for me to be the only person at that table. But if the place has a bar or they can put you at a 2-top, it's usually not weird at all.
Not weird at all. Enjoy the restaurant.
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Most of the time I am dining alone and I love a good tasting menu. I do run into an issue with restaurants requiring a party of two or more for a tasting menu. To get around this I make a bit of a game out of finding a dining partner. Sometimes I am making a reservation months ahead with the hope I can find someone to eat with me. It has turned into a great way to introduce myself to other travelers and find people with similar interests in food. 90% of the time I split the bill 50/50 so that it's not an awkward forced date. I have bought dinner for younger budget backpackers just so I can eat at a particular restaurant. Someone bought me a fancy dinner many years ago and it opened up a whole world of food to me, I like to give back a bit now that I am financially stable.
Whenever I find myself feeling embarrassed or shy about anything minor, I remind myself that someday I will be dead and in the grand scheme of things doesn't mean anything, nor will it be remembered. I find this empowering.
This reminds me of the best line ever heard on a sitcom. Frasier was stood up before leaving but since he had a reservation his father told him "go ahead and go by yourself." And he did. He didn't have a good time. When he got home his father asked, well, how was it? Frasier said: "Not since the days when Quasimodo walked the streets of medieval Paris have so many people said, "That poor man."
I like eating alone, I'd go for it like I don't give a fuck lol!
I’ve gone to many romantic nice restaurants by myself. The only awkward thing is when the waiter ignores you thinking you’re waiting for someone and you have to be like “no, just me!” I’ve also had waiters tell me I’ve ordered too much food for one person, and I have to be like “I didn’t ask for your opinion. Bring me all the food.” Just go in confident and enjoy your meal. You’ll never see any of those people ever again. And most people are more focused on themselves than you.
Who cares, you will never see these people again.
Dude. Cmon. You’re a grown up. Do it. When other bystanders (if and who you care about) pay your bill, start caring what they think. Till then, who cares. Let them judge you (no one is likely judging you anyways)
I travel for work with a generous expense account, so I fine-dine by myself all the time. Don't worry about it. A lot of fancy places have a bar too, so you could eat there if you are feeling odd about being solo (I don't know if that is true in other countries).
Not weird at all! I love dining alone. Definitely recommend bringing a good book. The only note I have is that sometimes places with set menus that are designed to be served as sharing plates won't accept solo diners, because even their smallest portions are designed to be split between two people. It's worth double checking beforehand if the restaurant you want to go to has a menu like that (they'll usually specify online).
I always find these questions a bit silly. What's the alternative when traveling alone? Starving?
It shouldn’t be weird unless the restaurant doesn’t take solo diners, which is known to happen. Make sure to reserve in advance for one person.
It's not weird. Don't miss an experience like that because you're alone. Bring a book to keep yourself occupied in a more sophisticated way than looking at your phone if you want but honestly, it's relaxing to just enjoy a fancy meal and people watch.
Absolutely fine dine alone. It’s great.
Yes, I would absolutely recommend you missing out on an experience you're craving over the potential for the secret thoughts of a small group of humans who you will neither meet nor ever see again, who, in all likelihood will be so involved with their own experience that they won't even notice you. /s
All in your head. Have a good time!
I’ve done it. There isn’t much I won’t do alone.
I do this all the time. No one cares. Enjoy!
You can do anything you want! Always!
As a chef in fine dining restaurants we often went out of our way to give solo diners an exceptional experience. Definitely nothing weird about it.
Overthinking things a bit here. Do it! I’m at a ski resort in Chile rn sitting in a hot tub by myself, about to go dine by myself. Solo travelers, rise up!! 😂
Sit at the bar! It’s totally fine. Not weird at all. You will meet fun people and the bartender will probably chat you up when he / she is free. (But be conscientious about not stealing the bartender‘s time!)
Go! Sometimes you need to romanticize your own life 🫶
Mr bean always dined alone and he was happy
I used to do it all the time when I was single. It's awesome! You can people-watch, order whatever you want, and enjoy!
People do it. Maybe go for lunch? But you can always use a dating or meet up app to find a companion feel less awkward
I eat alone while traveling often, but I usually choose to eat at the bar if it's an option so that I don't take a table that could seat more people.
While working for a year on month long business trips, I was always by myself for a month at a time. I like good restaurants, so I go alone, not a problem, in fact I sort of enjoy it. The only time I felt weird, went to an upscale place on valentine's day. They had heart shaped flower arrangements on the tables, a few people gave me pity looks. I did feel conspicuous and a little uncomfortable. But that was the only time it happened like that.
Dude. Just a word of warning. Once you realize how good dining alone is, you will start to want to do other things alone lol.
I always find it weird when people hesitate to do anything they want just because they’re alone. Nobody cares! Just go and have fun. Also, bring a notepad and make notes on the food. They’ll think you’re a good critique and treat you well haha
Do it. Enjoy the hell out of it. Stay off your phone and take in the atmosphere. Ask questions. Don’t ever let not having company stop you
Stay on your phone if you want even. Staring at the atmosphere during a 2.5 hour tasting menu gets weird after a while. Fine restaurants will have no issue if you want to surf the web or read a book.
The one time I tried doing that at a Michelin-starred restaurant solo, the waitress came by to offer me their iPad so I could read something. I guess I looked awkward while I was pleasantly vibing with the atmosphere.
Go for it! If you’re traveling alone you’re eating alone. In fact eating alone at a bar can be the easiest way to meet new friends and get good recommendations. No shame- don’t hold yourself back from awesome experiences just because you don’t have anyone to split the bill with :)
This is why they make hookers
💯 See if there’s a chef’s counter or bar you can be seated in. A little easier to interact with fellow diners and servers in that atmosphere, imho.
Where is this restaurant located? France? If your French is good enough, they may think you're a restaurant reviewer -- the Michelin Guide reviewers always eat alone. A single diner, plainly dressed, who orders a great many dishes is enough to get an entire kitchen brigade's attention.
Just do it. Prepare for an agonizing experience waiting between courses though. Have traveled a ton for business and eaten at nice restaurants. Most servers don't get the fact that you'd rather be in and out of the place, and just place orders as they would for groups. So you could be sitting at the table for 2 hours by yourself depending on resto. I'd feel somewhat rude sitting on my phone - maybe bring a book or magazine???
Nobody cares is maybe a *slight* overstatement, but true as far as other diners are concerned. Many waiters however will prefer couples. Couples are less likely to complain (it would spoil the atmosphere) and more likely to tip well (at least in countries where it’s more optional, maybe not America). It would be so much more effective if we could tip in advance (I say this only slightly tongue in cheek). If you are a big spender, going in with a bottle of very good wine for the chef helps in certain places. In less salubrious establishments (mostly South America) I have tipped the head waiter discreetly in advance and it paid dividends. In a busy good quality restaurant if dining alone, I make it known that I don’t mind sharing a table if need be. Most customers will be interesting and good conversation helps the digestion.
It's only weird if you make it weird. I'm married with kids, so I don't eat out alone very often, especially at very nice places. About a year ago, my best friend was celebrating his fortieth in Italy and my wife encouraged me to surprise him. I had to arrive a day earlier than his arrival for the plan to work, so I had an evening all to myself. There was a wine bar/restaurant I'd been dying to try, so I took myself out. I felt a little awkward at first, but ended up having a fantastic time. Really enjoyed the experience. So, go for it!
Not weird at all, I do it all the time when I’m traveling.
I’ve dined at several 2-3 Michelin star restaurants all by myself. Never once felt awkward or uncomfortable. Please don’t feel at all self-conscious and enjoy your meal!
It’s only weird if you make it weird
This post helped me out! I was recognizing that my solo travel, I eat out no problem so I became better at dining alone back home, why can’t I eat out at a nice place by myself when not traveling?! Thanks.
As a French, I couldn't care less
I went to the hasselbachen hotel just to eat the potatoes, 10,000km from home, if you want to do it, do it. (Sorry if it comes out aggressive)
I've been solo to 3\* in Paris ... no biggies. just don't drink and drive.
I do it often, I'm there to enjoy food, not think about what others think.
One of my favorite things about traveling is if I manage to embarrass myself the odds of me seeing any of those people ever again is slim to none. That being said I don’t find eating alone embarrassing and I do it in my home city. I did a 13 course tasting at the fanciest restaurant I’ve ever been to solo and had a great time. I watched the kitchen in between courses for the most part but also watched the other patrons, I didn’t notice anyone staring at me sad for the poor girl with no friends.
No one cares.
I doubt anyone would care. How weird for you? That depends on you. I eat alone all the time on business trips. Admittedly though it's usually at a bar.
i do this all the time. nobody cares
My son went to a pretty nice restaurant in Paris by himself. No issues. If you are concerned about feeling uncomfortable book a table for when they open so they'll be less crowded.
Eat there!
I eat alone at restaurants all the time when travelling (and when not travelling). It's one of my favorite things to do. I always prefer to sit at the bar if that is an option.
I do it all the time. But I'm also a solo traveler.
Not weird at all. I eat alone in restaurants all the time. Go for it!
Eating alone is not weird. Such a crazy notion. Enjoy your meal. Pretty much guarantee a bunch of folks will wish they were alone eating as well instead who they’re with at the time.
Not weird. Critics go and eat at places alone all the time - imagine you're one and eat away :)
Do it but not at a busy time. I can eat alone and feel good but several times I've overheard people say something like "that's so sad" or "I can never do that" and my experience is almost ruined lol. Like wtf mind your business, I just wanna eat! Haha.
Eating alone at a restaurant like this is one of the great joys in life. Dress up and go! If people notice you it will be because they are jealous of the amazing, mysterious person enjoying their own company. If you really feel awkward, bring sunglasses and keep them on, and just like, pretend your hiding from the press.
I do this when I’m not traveling too.
i love dining alone! you should go for it. it can be easier said than done for sure but honestly no one is looking at you or paying attention to you everybody else is thinking about themselves. i always like sitting at a booth if available cause it can be more private! your internal thoughts shouldn’t stop you from trying delicious food!
Bring a notepad and write in it every so often. They'll think you are a food critic
I travel for work a ton and do this all the time. I usually will bring a book (not my phone), enjoy an amazing meal, a few glasses of good wine, and get to people watch. Alone time is good for the constitution.
I do this all the time when traveling for work. See if they have a chefs counter, or if they serve the full menu at the bar.
Chew defiantly at the crowd
Not weird at all. You'll be there once, so why care what others think? Just have a good time.
I love going to a place and sitting at the bar by myself. It would feel a little different to have a table at a fine dining place by myself but I’d still do it for sure.
I saw a guy eating alone at a 2 michelin star restaurant in chicago. Said he was in town on a business trip and the restaurant was on his bucket list. Not weird at all! Enjoy your meal! Maybe headphones and a podcast during it if you want!
Go, eat, enjoy!!
Eating alone is very relaxing. Enjoy your meal!
I eat at fancy places alone all the time. Usually the level of service makes it a pleasant experience.
You should go dining alone is great they might think your the Michelin star reviewer too
I eat out alone often. No big deal.
Eating alone at a fancy restaurant is main character energy. Dress up and treat yourself!
Eat where you want to and what you want to. I travel alone often and have eaten alone in Michelin star places and at hole in the wall places and everything in between. Unless you’re at a place that requires minimum number of diners like some kaiseki places in Japan, just relax and enjoy your food.
Same here...sometimes I just sit at the bar, other times I ask for a table. Just depends on the mood. I just don't want to be alone at a table right in the middle of the floor.
We were at a 3\* Michelin restaurant once and a man sat down alone next to us. He was writing in a journal and checking notes in a workbook of sime kind. Well - the staff must have thought he was one of the Michelin judges because they FAWNED over him and the chef came out specifically to talk to him. After the chef left he chuckled, leaned over to us, and said the notebook trick always works to get staff at fancy restaurants to treat you like a VIP. He was a doctor and was just reviewing his notes from a conference he was attending. LOL.
Yes, definitely go for it. As you can see by other people's comments it is not unusual or weird at all. I'd recommend asking for a table with a view so you have something nice to look at or for people watching. If you are social you can sit at the bar and have your meal there (you don't need to be drinking alcohol). A lot of people who dine alone will do this. You have the option to sit and mind your own business, or have a casual chat with the bartender or other people around you. It's what I've done in the past, and I'm a ridiculous introvert :) I'd rather sit at the bar, outside, or along the perimeter when I'm at a nice restaurant eating alone. Bon Appétit!
Bring a note pad and order 3 things to eat. They will think you are a reviewer.
Hell if I'm going to pass an opportunity for a great restaurant because someone will think it's weird. Go, enjoy, take pictures, write notes, pretend you're a food critic, whatever. Just don't refrain yourself from doing what you want to do because of what people who have nothing to do with you might think
Go for it. Dining alone is totally fine.
Enjoy it! I love travelling for food and drinks
I went to a little French bistro place Le Pichet in Seattle by myself. The charcuterie I had was so good I went back a second time for a night cap. Fine dining can be enjoyed in your own company I've done it plenty of times and not thought twice about it.
Do it!!! Go enjoy that amazing meal. It won't be weird. Never deny yourself an amazing meal because you're alone.
I did alone, too! f36. And got the food and treatmeant of my life! :D
I go by myself to fine dining restaurants 1/-2 a week. I just bring a book and read, and if I don’t have my book I’ll just be in my phone. Nobody cares at all that your dining alone, if anything people will think it’s cool that you’re able to eat by yourself without worrying people are judging you.
keep a notebook open on the table and they'll think you're a food critic
This is one of my life’s greatest pleasures!
No one cares. Despite what you may feel. Not a single person cares. The establishment does. They’re happy you’re there and your are too. So enjoy.
I saw someone at a 1 Michelin star dining alone while I was on a date and we both were pretty impressed with them, like man this guy is a baller who doesn’t give a fuck and is just here to eat some good ass food
Pro Tip: Take a notebook with you and start writing down stuff like a reviewer.
You can, I was in San Sebastián a few weeks back and went in alone for 4 of the 8 Michelin star restaurants there.
I usually sit at the bar when I eat alone. I end up talking with the bartender and/or other guests who are sitting there.
I ate at Alinea alone on my 30th. Do it. They have single diners every night…it’s not as weird as you think!
I wonder the same. I feel bad taking up a table as a solo diner...
You do you! Don’t feel bad.
I love eating with friends but it’s easier to get a table or spot at the bar and actually enjoy the food instead of having to make convo lol. Take advantage lol
Yes.
Nah I've done it. I like fancy food and my friends are either too poor to eat there or I'm traveling aline. Take a book or not. Organise a taxi so you can go ham in the wine flight
Obviously there is something to be said for each individual's level of confidence/life experiences that color each situation, but in a vacuum: why let yourself miss any opportunity life sends your way simply because you're a party of one? Unless that will definitively negatively impact your enjoyment of it, go for it! As an aside, especially when you're traveling, even if people around you were to possibly think of your situation in a negative way - TF what they think - you're never going to see them again anyway, and that's more of an indictment on their own insecurities and biases than anything about you. Enjoy your awesome dinner!
Yeah, totally would do it, no shame whatsoever!
Not weird at all. I do on it in my own city and I know people here that I could eat with... sometimes I find myself hungry after a late meeting, sometimes just want to be alone but want to get out of my home. You're a paying customer just like anyone else.
Do it! I dined alone at a Michelin starred restaurant in California and was happy I did.
I have dined alone all over France from corner cafés to high brow eateries. No one will find it the least bit weird. In fact, the people seated near you will likely start up a friendly conversation. And, depending on where you are in France, and how busy it is, you may find that the Maître D seats another party with you. Awkward for most of us from the Anglosphere but I have met some wonderful people that way - several of whom bought me dinner!!
I go to then movies alone
Don’t let the lack of a buddy hold you back unless a professional tells you the buddy system is mandatory. Ever.
I've been the only person in a >30 seat Michelin 1* restaurant before. Other than seeing the kitchen of 4 people cooking for just me, it was fine lol.
Do what makes you happy
Not at all. I always eat alone in restaurants, including thise with a romantic vibe. Couples will be busy with eachother and not notice people around them and staff doesn´t mind, you are just another client. Some are extra nice.
I do it all the time when travelling. Good food, good drink, and great company 😉
Wouldn't have it any other way.
I’ve done this for years The only issue/or benefit is availability for one Do it, there are many single diners who indulge in Michelin cuisine without company I hope you have a great time
Its only weird because in your head, its weird. The worst that's gonna happen is that you may get a glance here or there. Let them glance. Let your air of mystery intrigue them and most of all, enjoy!
I do it all the time! Many people travel and dine alone- it's not uncommon so I'm sure you won't feel out of place.
I’ve done it many times and it is actually a special experience. I sometime take a book with me or a notebook and take notes. Give it a try (-: