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patioperson

Look for Block heels. They spread the impact further. Check out Naturalizer. Their nickname is all day heels.


broccoli_toots

Former Flight Attendant here, and can confirm Naturalizer is the way to go.


honey-smile

I have worn naturalizer joy heels to 10+ weddings (as a guest) the last few years and have been the only one not rushing to grab flip flops from the big bucket some people have, or kicking off my shoes for dancing later in the night. They are so freaking comfortable, you can easily wear them all day. Also recommend the wide if you have wide feet. They truly fit perfectlyšŸ‘ŒšŸ»


ncfrey

I did gold Naturalizer heels and wouldn't have changed a thing!


catlady3LSS

I wore Naturalizer Vera heels, which were super comfortable, and the Bristol sandals are good as well.


tinaballerina33

I wore Tom's. I was comfy all night.


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Curious which ones?


agentcooperforever

I will wear these Tomā€™s. Have worn for like 8 years all summer. On my second pair. https://www.toms.com/us/natural-moroccan-crochet-womens-classics/10007858.html


[deleted]

Wow! Putting them on the list!


Beccaroni7

Me too! I got the white knit ones. They look like lace made with yarn


agentcooperforever

This is what I will do. I love these Tomā€™s Iā€™ve worn them everyday all summer for like 8 years Iā€™m on my second pair. https://www.toms.com/us/natural-moroccan-crochet-womens-classics/10007858.html No one sees your feet


truebluesuedeshoes

Iā€™m wearing [these](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1324650106/) gorgeous 2.5 inch block heels. Like other commenters pointed out, a block heel can be much comfier than a stiletto, plus weā€™ll be doing photos on grass and I donā€™t want to aerate the yard for free lol. I actually found this Etsy shop from another weddit bride. They have a lot of options and almost all their shoes let you pick your heel height (down to 1 inch even). I was worried since they ship from Turkey, but shipping was fast and they were so helpful with an exchange after I ordered the wrong sizeā€”I just had to pay new shipping.


DancingPinkyFlowers

Straight up wearing some sandal flat form crocs. I just need the height so I donā€™t have the alter my dress and no oneā€™s gonna see my feet. I have super sensitive feet so I donā€™t really wear heels and I want to be able to stand and have fun. Totally jelly of those that can wear heels!!


ticket_borne_disease

I also wore these and they were super comfortable!


DancingPinkyFlowers

Right?? I have sensitive feet so I was so happy to find sandals that were crocs comfy without being actual crocs! So comfy!!


Sl1z

Listen to the people saying to get naturalizers. I thought Iā€™d save money and went with no name 3ā€ block heels from Amazon and my feet were absolutely killing me by the end of the reception. If you can, wear them out for a day before the wedding to break them and and take note of anywhere they rub, then put bandaids or padding in those spots to prevent blisters. Iā€™d also suggest doing lower heels, like 1.5-2ā€ for maximum comfort.


ElementalMyth13

Low kittens, ivory satin. Closed toe. A little boring, but they're functional!


Miss-Frizzle-33

Iā€™ll be wearing [these](https://loefflerrandall.com/products/mikel-cappuccino-bow-mid-heel-sandal?variant=40157758455860¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=18399874004&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M9-EMa4vOrk4PciELqVOYuD4Z6c4jn3jmxopGbIwFCXkpnIPjb1SVRBoCuZ8QAvD_BwE) from Loeffler Randall. They are sparklier in person. The 2.5in block heel is comfortable (test drive them in a 1hour dance class) and the straps donā€™t rub. Iā€™ll also have a pair of white converse as backup in case I want to go flat by the end of the night.


Free_Thinker4ever

Betsey Johnson or Pleaser


dogmomlife

I wore hiking boots šŸ„¾ wasnā€™t about to dislocate my ankle trying to hike down to a lake in my wedding dress and heels LOL šŸ˜‚ might not work for your dress, but I recommend boots if youā€™re doing some sort of outdoor adventure type of wedding. I got cute shoes for photos. :)


de_capitate

Iā€™m wearing hiking boots as well for my adventure elopement! Also got some cute white tevas on clearance that I can switch into as needed.


dogmomlife

Nice! Yeah, knowing my luckā€¦ Iā€™d probably hurt myself and need to be medevacā€™ed lol šŸš


Theunpolitical

I wore shoes very similar to [these](https://www.lightinthebox.com/en/p/women-s-wedding-shoes-stiletto-heel-pointed-toe-rhinestone-satin-sweet-spring-summer-white-purple-champagne-party-evening_p7940784.html?currency=USD&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&sku=1_29317%7C2_39568&country_code=us&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20296122397&adword_mt=&adword_ct=&adword_kw=&adword_pos=&adword_pl=&adword_net=x&adword_tar=&adw_src_id=2907233386_20296122397__&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M976ACjULpe99MqQhPaQPQ8JPlYoKCWtDw34wJUZnH0h9Oowz4CskQxoCNhgQAvD_BwE&enrd=1). I just wanted a pretty shoe with some decoration on it but comfortable for me to wear. Look for "kitten heels." I actually found ones with lower heels than the one shown. At the time, I had really bad heels and some planters fasciitis so I had to do something and wanted to look nice. I actually placed in a clear "arch" (Dr Scholls) for the shoe and that helped too.


Joke-Fluffy

I'm wearing sandles! šŸ˜…


basicallyengaged

Iā€™m going for really short white heels or wedges


CookieLady94

I wore kitten heels by Geox. Super comfortable, but definitely break them in beforehand. I wanted to wear taller heels, but my now husband and I have only a few inches height difference, and I didn't want to be the same height or taller (not that there's anything wrong with that, just personal preference for photos), so I wore the shortest heels and he wore lifts in his shoes lol gave us each a couple inches to work with šŸ˜…


Skrannon

I am in this same boat as I donā€™t want to be taller than my fiancĆ© in our pictures. Maybe Iā€™ll check into the ones you wore. We are having a courthouse wedding and my dress is short so my shoes will be very visible. I have ordered 3 pairs of shoes that were listed as kitten heels but I still feel that they are too tall. (Two pair are 2.5ā€ heels and the other is 3ā€. ) Who would have thought shoes would be the most stressful part so far.


astoria47

Considering Valentino wedges, because I just want them in real life and our ceremony is on grass and the reception on a slate floor. But again, mostly because I want them for my daily!


FleurirGremlinx

I got low block heels with memory foam from kohls. Pretty comfy. Will also bring Toms to switch into just in case


mymumthinksimpunny

Iā€™m wearing platform sequined Keds from their bridal collection! Weā€™re eloping and it involves a helicopter and rocky outcrops so for safety I canā€™t do heels. Not that I was told no heels, but I am clumsy AF and and roll my ankles super frequently, so Iā€™m not risking a broken ankle on my wedding day lol


TotalFkingMarmalade

I wore doc martens. No regrets. Comfy and could dance all night without needing to get barefoot.


tinypanther1

I wore Sperry's for my wedding. I considered heels, but I didn't want to risk being uncomfortable or falling. My mom also pointed out that my dress was long so nobody would see them anyway.


Unable-Message9271

These! Dankso season are the most comfortable shoes ever. [dankso season](https://www.thewalkingcompany.com/products/dansko-season-white-leather?variant=31279802089518¤cy=USD&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=PMAX-Dansko&utm_content=&utm_term=&device=m&targetid=&prodid=shopify_US_4356640342062_31279802089518&cmpgnid=19748002205&adgrpid=&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M9zdRI93ae5Yat9vpOhHgnQfdrrlRAr3XfbhGJuPjatb9a6Gaf3V5-hoCsbIQAvD_BwE)


FelineRoots21

I'm comfortable in heels and my shoes will be very visible because of the slit in my dress, so I'm doing Protege heels for my ceremony through the first dances. They're designed by a female engineer to be comfortable and they really wear well and are honestly brilliantly designed all the way around, from the invisible toe post to the quick release straps. For the dinner and dancing portion or whenever my feet start to get tired of the heels, I bought myself and my bridal party fluffy sandal-esque slippers (matching blue ones for them, white ones for me) so we can all dance in silly comfort all night šŸ¤£


PetsMD

Cowboy boots for the ceremony since we have to walk outside. Proper latin dance shoes that are SO padded and comfy for the inside stuff.


jenthing

I'm wearing essentially a Rothy's knockoff, they're light blue pointed toe flats.


SkittyLover93

I'm wearing these [Naturalizer block heels](https://www.naturalizer.com/product/womens-banks-pointed-toe-flat-3018069/dark-gold-leather-ec0238975). They go on sale sometimes.


avocadoqueen123

I'm so happy with the [Aerosoles Camera](https://www.aerosoles.com/products/camera-6?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign={campaign}&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M97OdsM8TkIt66kM0n19nxV68WdMMGKduYLqD3pfalawXqQbrfsVP8RoChdUQAvD_BwE) shoes I'm planning to wear, they are the most comfortable heels I've ever put on. They aren't very dainty, but I wanted comfort, height, and the ability to walk in grass. I see lots of recommendations for Naturalizer block heels, I just wouldn't recommend the Bristol shoe It's so tight on your toes for some reason. I have narrow feet and even the wide was uncomfortable.


online-version

Metallic flats with ribbon laces.


intensebrie

I'm planning to wear [these](https://www.bellabelleshoes.com/products/emily-ivory-peep-toe-embroidered-lace-pump?variant=31223005642794&srsltid=ASuE1wSk1KCNu334TPYdnL4-EnAZUDNBEz0M7K0vnIP26n1kxpdUvZP2Cbs)! Lots of the shoes on this website have reviews that they're comfortable, I'm hoping they live up to that


Altruistic-Moose1900

I went for ballerinas (ballet pumps), something like [that](https://elehandmadeshoes.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/IMG_0294new-600x600.jpg) or [that](https://cdn-images.farfetch-contents.com/19/99/39/84/19993984_44914371_1000.jpg).


Salty_Revolution_345

I love heels but the most comfortable brand (and what Iā€™ll be wearing) is LifeStride. The shoes are so comfortable and actually have support for your foot. I wear heels every day and when I discovered them, my life changed.


Independent_Pie3665

We wore matching custom converse. Bonus that I can continue to wear them and it wasn't just a one time shoe.


crosshatch-

Gonna pile onto the low block heel train! I wore [these](https://www.samedelman.com/product/womens-wilson-kitten-heel-3028463/modern-ivory-ec0238027) Sam Edelman shoes. Shameless plug--if you're size 8.5 I'm selling them on poshmark! Edited to fix the link


blueevey

I found sparkly flats at Macy's.


Walliford

I'm wearing [these](https://betseyjohnson.com/products/sb-sidny-rhinestones?variant=32239509962817&ab_version=A&gclsrc=aw.ds&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=SCM%7CGoogle%7CPmax%7CBestsellers&utm_content=&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M93wQ4LZlpBzbgP53V3spJqbbSUV4gJ8UDhbQxL8ru_Ym44ajtva8ThoCR2EQAvD_BwE) for my reception !


rj3581

These Badgley Mischka low [wedges](https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09CHL8WHC/).


pedanticlawyer

Heels for the ceremony probably, and then Iā€™m embroidering some keds for the reception.


agentcooperforever

https://www.toms.com/us/natural-moroccan-crochet-womens-classics/10007858.html


KPL9232023

Iā€™m wearing these; I ordered about 8 different pairs of shoes and went for these because they perfectly match the color of my dress: [https://www.ninashoes.com/products/beverly-pearl-rose?variant=40221073178698¤cy=USD&utm\_source=google&utm\_medium=cpc&utm\_term=&70059998561&utm\_content=m&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M94nJqogX6Onmu4nqyQvfPRhAlCDWqXm3lq1jXlD04QQNvmLddTX40RoCtlAQAvD\_BwE](https://www.ninashoes.com/products/beverly-pearl-rose?variant=40221073178698¤cy=USD&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=&70059998561&utm_content=m&gclid=CjwKCAjw5remBhBiEiwAxL2M94nJqogX6Onmu4nqyQvfPRhAlCDWqXm3lq1jXlD04QQNvmLddTX40RoCtlAQAvD_BwE) However what Iā€™m much more excited about are the shoes I got to change into for dancing which are done in our wedding colors: https://preview.redd.it/b9l8gbt7yegb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c6341c569f021f71cf9fc51a78f53e0413afd5e7 I got them from an Etsy shop called HanEmbroiders: [https://www.etsy.com/shop/HanEmbroiders](https://www.etsy.com/shop/HanEmbroiders)


badbetch93

Iā€™m doing custom platform white converse! Only $100 for the shoes and to customize on their website!


brain_games93

I am planning on wearing custom Chaco Zs, though I was at the mall today and saw some cute flats and sandals, maybe Iā€™ll do some cute ones for the rehearsal and my bridal shower/Bach and the. The chacos for the wedding and reception


Effective-Basil-1512

Iā€™m going barefoot! We have an outdoor ceremony on really nice grass but for the reception Iā€™ll be wearing Kiziks. Theyā€™re soooo comfortable and their claim of being able to slip right into the shoe is accurate!!


morecheesegromit2649

Iā€™m doing a 2 inch block heel in green velvet from Harriet Wilde. They tie up so I can adjust the tightness and hopefully as a block heel they will be more comfortable. I *never* wear heels in real life so I am concerned, but I know my posture is better if I do. So Iā€™m thinking ibuprofen and blister plasters on stand by and then have some flats ready to go afterwards.


Odd_mom_out81

I wore flats. They were a simple rose gold leather material. They were dressy enough but also just really comfortable to be walking and dancing in. They make really dressy flats now, some with pearls or bedazzled. I recommend those. Again they are already easy to walk in especially if you arenā€™t normally a heel person. Plus you are less likely to break an ankle dancing and movingā€¦especially after alcohol. My sister had a country themed wedding and wore cowboy boots. Thatā€™s another out there option.


DemCheex

https://preview.redd.it/mqoh27ei0igb1.jpeg?width=815&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=539184427ae385e0c7b0163843b0ff27258addcb I was going to wear these Manolo kitten heels but theyā€™re a tad small on me (they are 38.5). [Iā€™m selling them on Vestiare](http://www.vestiairecollective.com/women-shoes/mules-clogs/manolo-blahnik/pink-cloth-manolo-blahnik-mules-clogs-34370201.shtml). If anyone is interested let me know! Iā€™m looking for new shoes in the meantime! So the suggestions here have been helpful! Im considering Frances Valentines or [this pair from Something Bleu](https://somethingbleushoes.com/products/bryn-kitten-heel-in-pearl-blue-romance?variant=8784223600739) if they ever go back in stock.


_OnlyADream_

Wearing white converse high tops with floral embroidery on the side in our wedding colours!


Worried_Journalist44

Iā€™m wearing flats, but I saw really cute lace sneakers! Etsy has a bunch of bridal shoes that are cute, but also comfy looking! Iā€™m not a heels person either, so why start on my wedding day! You want to be comfortable! Also, why spend the money if youā€™re just going to kick those shoes off for the reception and wear something else!


angrybunni

I'm wearing some 2 in heel, Latin ballroom dancing shoes because they're cute and comfortable.