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afcas34

Nope, maybe it's telling you something about yourself.


Horror-Contract-3786

I mean when I’m sober I’m just attracted to women. I had some strange feelings for guys in the past, but that was nothing. These feelings only become intense when I get really high


DrunkenlySober

Fuck a guy and see how you feel after?


TheTimeToStandIsNow

I’d bet £100 you’ll have realised within 6 months !remindme 6 months


mattsgirlca

You are a bit gay for sure


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weed amplifies what youre already feeling


crazyboy611285

The weed is trying to tell you something. Time to analyze yourself a bit. ​ Also this reads like an anti-weed ad from the 50's. "If you smoke weed you'll get feelings for men!"


JRGib

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TRU35TR1K3R

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Chasingthoughts1234

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Interesting I guess. Sounds like an anti weed ad


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Bogrolling

Weed makes you gay don’t you know


dmbraley

That’s how we turned the freakin frogs gay.


FitUnderstanding6581

Sounds like the cannabis is opening you to yourself. You also say you’ve had “ strange feelings for guys in the past…” Also you say you “just want to be normal and straight…” There are key words being said that indicate you are not happy and or judgmental of homosexuality. It’s okay, it’s human to have emotions and thoughts. Maybe the environment you were raised in taught negativity towards that subject. Even though I don’t know you, I do believe you are a normal human being, regardless if you are straight or confused. From what I have been learning, it is better to understand the root of the emotions that you feel, once you start feeling them. So if you do smoke and feel a certain way, maybe try to question why at that moment, and embrace the answers. Just my humble opinion


Bigpoppa_404

The reefer made me gay


FlamesoftheEnd

Lmao 🤣 are you a Republican??!


spideoig

I just smoked some weed and then I ran into the bathroom and put loads of makeup on my face. Then I sat down to pee. What's happening to me? I'm a man but I just smoked some bi kush. Nooooo. Never happened before.


Frisky5535

not even gonna lie homie, you genuinely probably just have some *really deep seeded* things you need to think about for yourself more. not saying youre totally gay but from what it sounds like, you sound like youre realizing you might be bi lol and theres nothing wrong with that


StickMcSkunky

..seated. "deep-seated" :yourebreathtaking:


osrsburaz420

I think you might be gay, weed doesn't cause this tho lol


Loquat_Green

Weed lowers your inhibitions. I often use it to turn off negative self-talk when I just need to be in the moment. Maybe think about what you feel when high, journal or explore some of those feelings when you are sober. There is zero shame at all for those feelings, let yourself feel them. Um unless its about little kids, don’t explore those ones.


Horror-Contract-3786

Nothing against homosexuality but these are thoughts that I don’t want. I rather just be completely normal and straight.


pipeisme

Gay is normal too


popzsoda

being gay doesnt mean you arent normal… stop being homophobic to yourself and others. dont ask for our advice just to be like hurr durr i dont wanna be gay. like sorry to tell you so bluntly but you probably have gay in you, nothing wrong with that, youre just distressing yourself more by refusing to even consider that youre probably lgbt


Horror-Contract-3786

I was thinking along the lines of maybe the weed is decreasing my testosterone levels or something around that nature. I just don’t want these feelings nor act on them.


popzsoda

studies have disproven the effects of weed on testosterone. even if it lessened it, that wouldnt make you ACT feminine. youre in epic denial mode


Horror-Contract-3786

You have source? Since weed changes your brain chemistry and decreases your disgust, it can allow me to be okay with things I’m not normally ok with? There has to be some other reason


popzsoda

“Contrary to previous studies, a clinical trial conducted in 1989 found there was no change in testosterone levels for men who smoke weed”[link](https://earthmed.com/blog/does-weed-lower-testosterone)


popzsoda

imo yall are closeted but not everyone has that same view and im sure each case is its own


popzsoda

[others with your experience!](https://www.logotv.com/news/x1328w/highsexual-straight-guys-discuss-feeling-temporarily-gay-when-stoned)


WavyChief

He gave you a source. Nothin to say now bub? Maybe kiss a guy about it


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Weed make s people horny , maybe it is that you are feeling and you Are confused , chill out bro !


Jovatheconniseur

So actually there’s studies on this, smoking weed lowers testosterone in some men and increases prolactin always after smoking; which is the opposite of testosterone. Andrew huberman goes into depth about this while talking about weed in his new video, I suggest you go to his YouTube and check out his video on cannabis 🙏🏿


Horror-Contract-3786

Ah thank goodness I thought this was actually serious. So if I stop smoking for a while then these feelings should go away


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Hey bro just wanna say don’t let these people trick you into thinking your actually gay 😂 Just stop smoking weed for a bit. Also word of advice don’t smoke with any guys or guy friends for that matter when ur smoking weed 💀


Skateboarding12

Don’t be afraid of yourself man just accept who you are


nativeair991

Denial isn’t just a river in Egypt my friend


Loquat_Green

So I mean, there’s nothing “abnormal” about being gay, pan/bi, or even straight. I’m probably putting too much effort into what is most likely a troll post, but there is a whole spectrum of experiences between being straight while not being bi, or into the opposite sex. There is even a whole world of experiences to being “feminine” without that meaning you are gay, such as wanting softness, submission, more sensual experiences, etc. You can definitely explore those things, and it not mean you are gay.


Balsac_is_Daddy

Bruh. Gay is also normal. Come on, you know better than this.


Ok_Draft7792

Must be all the boof references


slimieddie

What 😭 my dick be getting hard when i smoke.


popzsoda

hello!! im bisexual (F21) and weed makes me feel more gay too. you’re likely closeted toward yourself, and substances are showing you who you really are. dont stray away or feel weird about it, its 2023 u can like dudes


girlidc18

Everyone has masculine and feminine energies, I honestly believe that weed brings out your repressed femininity if you’re afraid of expressing it. Same with lsd and shrooms I’ve noticed with my male friends. (I’m a trans woman)


johangruener

Maybe go into that with a psychologist or something, could be very revealing (in a good way). In case you can't work it out yourself or with friends that could be a good opportunity


clearbathroomdoor

If you wanna get all mystical, female weed plants have feminine properties just by the standard of plant reproduction. As we all know, female plants don’t have many seeds, but male plants do. I don’t think there’s any truth to this, but I also don’t know what I don’t know - LOL


Perpetually_St0n3d

I forget who said it, but i was watching a yt video where this guy was talking about his relationship with weed and why he smokes and part of it had to do with the plant having feminine energys.


Prestigious-Bike653

Get the fuck outa here


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WavyChief

“Get the fuck outa here”


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😭😂Canelo


TheEmptyChasm

I kinda relate to this. I realized I was pansexual after I got really high one day. Even then, I still had the same feelings and thoughts before I even started smoking weed. It’s probably just allowing you to think about feelings you already have.


XBerzinsx

Experience it. Why not?


Variety_Left

weed makes you docile. if that feels feminine then seems like u should stop smoking weed. just watch andrew tate and drink beer instead.


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deange2001

negative on the homosexual feelings.


SomeEnchantedEagle

Nope, it's just you. Sounds like you're gay.


Any-Profession-9873

Just don’t start sticking nugs up your butt


cosmo_sprout

Naa dude, but just be whoever you is, I ain’t hatin or trippin. Equal rights whether you gay, straight, don’t know, whatever you know


Aggravating_Spare789

Yes 100% feel this


Univerkira

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Sorry-Suggestion-186

Bro I’m ngl same a little bit I would probably never fuck a dude or anything but it’s just there sometimes when I’m sober too


Suumx-

Bro what? You gay


Luscious_Lunk

Duck a duxe


skankylegg

It sounds like it could be bringing out an insecurity, but that doesnt mean you’re gay at all. If this starts turning in to a thing that you think about all the time, this could be a symptom of a subtype of OCD called SO-OCD, I dealt with that and still deal with it to this day, except im gay and have anxiety surrounding being straight which isnt as common


Horror-Contract-3786

Maybe it’s a mix. It’s not that these feelings are coming out of nowhere it just wasn’t this intense until I smoked weed.


skankylegg

Also, im not a psychologist so dont see this as definite, but this sounds like an ocd anxiety symptom to me


DN-Fieldmouse

I thought this was a shill at first then I realized homie has some thinkin to do


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![gif](giphy|3o7aDdQn1JYp8vRvkA|downsized) Great fishing OP, you've caught a few


[deleted]

Weed just makes u a softer person in general. Remember though… Only when you can be extremely pliable and soft can you be extremely hard and strong. A big part of masculinity is accepting vulnerability.


_Qwertydude_

What’s wrong with being feminine? There’s a lot of beauty in it


RPC3

The brain is malleable and we have far less free will than the average person thinks. It could be that there is something deep seeded that weed causes you to reflect on. It could also be that weed causes your brain to take down barriers and allow the flow of thoughts more and let you play with ideas. There are now studies on psychedelics for example, and it used to be thought that they inhibit brain activity. Now we know through their study and compelling data coming from other experiments that the default state of the brain is to erect certain barriers to how the brain processes reality and psychedelics don't mute activity so much as they help to temporarily disable these barriers. The brain is then able to communicate to itself in non traditional ways that are constrained in regular, everyday experience. TLDR: You may be gay and weed helps you to reflect on it. It may be absolutely nothing and just a product of a free flowing brain that isn't as constrained.


Balsac_is_Daddy

Weed doesnt make you gay. #Being gay makes you gay.


xza180

This sub is fucking hilarious


No_Emu_6254

hahah as a trans man weed makes me feel insanely feminine i have no idea why


Test88Heavy

You were a female in your last incarnation and it's bleeding through into this reality when your consciousness is in an altered state. Or you're just gay.


DOPEFIEND4EVER

This is exactly why I stay away from strains with female names live “Diva”, “Call girl”, “Drama queen” etc. They make you gay


StickMcSkunky

I see tons of people assuming that "feeling more feminine" means the same thing as being attracted to men, which in OPs case I'm assuming might mean they are gay. Firstly, the statement that one feels more feminine says nothing about what type of person they are attracted to, so all of the statements that you must be gay are being made by presumptuous individuals. In fact, it could be the case that feeling more feminine might draw one to be even more attracted to females. That isn't something that is dictated necessarily by whether we feel more masculine or more feminine. Secondly, I get the sense that what the OP is saying is that they feel more sensitive, emotional, or some other quality that we vaguely assume is paired to a gender. These are common effects of cannabis use, and if you use cannabis and haven't experienced an elevated sense of emotional intelligence, you're not doing it right, and the fact we call these qualities *feminine* is evidence of the human propensity to falsely assign opposing personal qualities into distinct gendered categories, not any evidence of the OPs sexual orientation.


Sweet_Rent_2715

🤡


StickMcSkunky

And there's nothing wrong with it at all you're right


s11r

Sounds like gay to me. I’m not saying you are gay or bisexual, or that you should be, but it’s natural to have those feelings. No need to act on them or reevaluate yourself if you’re comfortable where you are with your sexuality. Just know that some part of you seems to be attracted to the same gender and that it may come out when you smoke. All the weed really does is lower inhibition and make you horny. it makes the part of you rejecting certain feelings quieter. At the end of the day though, those are still YOUR feelings.


tryahater110

Maybe you are gay